Whitaker v. Whitaker

2020 Ohio 2774
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedMay 4, 2020
DocketCA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009
StatusPublished
Cited by3 cases

This text of 2020 Ohio 2774 (Whitaker v. Whitaker) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Ohio Court of Appeals primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Whitaker v. Whitaker, 2020 Ohio 2774 (Ohio Ct. App. 2020).

Opinion

[Cite as Whitaker v. Whitaker, 2020-Ohio-2774.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS

TWELFTH APPELLATE DISTRICT OF OHIO

FAYETTE COUNTY

CARRIE M. WHITAKER, :

Appellee and Cross-Appellant, : CASE NOS. CA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009 : - vs - OPINION : 5/4/2020

CODY B. WHITAKER, :

Appellant and Cross-Appellee. :

APPEAL FROM FAYETTE COUNTY COURT OF COMMON PLEAS DOMESTIC RELATIONS DIVISION Case No. DRA 20140128

Engel & Martin, LLC, Mary K. Martin, 4660 Duke Drive, Suite 101, Mason, Ohio 45040, for appellee and cross-appellant

Wood & Long, LLC, Chelsea L. Long, Marcie A. Fronefield, 503 South High Street, Suite 205, Columbus, Ohio 43215, for appellant and cross-appellee

RINGLAND, J.

{¶1} Appellant/Cross-appellee, Cody Whitaker ("Father"), appeals from a decision

of the Fayette County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, following his

divorce from appellee/cross-appellant, Carrie Whitaker ("Mother"). Mother also appeals the

trial court's decision. Fayette CA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009

{¶2} Mother and Father were married on August 31, 2002 and had two children:

Ca.W born on June 6, 2007, and Co.W born on July 1, 2010. Mother filed a complaint for

divorce on April 14, 2014.

{¶3} Mother was awarded temporary custody and the parenting schedule provided

for equal parenting time. The parties were able to reach agreement regarding the allocation

of marital debts and assets; however, the parties could not agree to the allocation of

custody, parenting time, child support, and spousal support.

{¶4} There were 12 evidentiary hearings before the magistrate between June 5,

2014 and November 17, 2015. The record is replete with testimony concerning the parties'

devout religious beliefs. Mother and Father met at Jamestown Church of Christ ("JCC")

where Father's brother was the Pastor. In 2006, Father's brother resigned as Pastor at the

JCC and started a new church called the Transformation Christian Church ("TCC"). The

TCC differed in many respects from the JCC, but especially with respect to their beliefs

concerning the covenant marriage tenant. The TCC teaches that divorce and remarriage

is an unforgivable sin. There is evidence in the record that members of the TCC must

"shun" Christian family members and friends that have either divorced and remarried or are

married to a person who was previously divorced.1

{¶5} This tenant of the TCC caused significant marital strife. Although there is

evidence that Mother initially agreed with the teachings of the TCC, the record indicates

that her faith in the church soured, especially as the teachings interfered with other

relationships that Mother wished to continue. Mother testified that she was expected to not

associate with her mother and stepfather because, as professing Christians, they had both

1. Father presented testimony from several members of the TCC. Some members denied there was an outright prohibition on associating with divorced Christians, but some alluded to the practice.

-2- Fayette CA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009

divorced their original spouses and remarried each other several decades prior. There was

evidence, for example, that Father would fly into a fit of rage if she communicated with her

mother, such as one time when he became extremely angry and tossed several birthday

gifts outside into the snow after her mother visited her on her birthday. That same day,

Father "ransacked" her closet looking for any other gifts or receipts for gifts that could have

been given to her in the past. Mother also testified that she was not allowed to attend her

younger sister's wedding because she married a man who had previously been divorced.

{¶6} When Mother began to reject the TCC's teachings, she explained that the

ensuing years were "tense." Though she denied any physical violence, Mother testified that

Father would psychologically torment her for veering from the teachings of the TCC. The

record also reveals that Father would engage in certain bullying behaviors, such as throwing

water on her and referring to her as a "whore" because of past relationships she had prior

to their relationship.2

{¶7} The record reveals that the parties had significant marriage difficulties

including issues of mistrust and jealousy. Father admits to certain behaviors, including

surveilling Mother, demanding passwords for emails and messages, and attaching a GPS

device to Mother's vehicle. There was testimony that, on one occasion, Father became so

upset that Mother would not give him her passcode to her phone that he held a gun and

threatened to kill himself. Father later smashed Mother's phone with a hammer.

{¶8} There was also significant testimony concerning a black dress that Mother

wore to a funeral that Father later considered to be immodest. As a result, Father would

take photographs of Mother "[t]o show other's how far [Mother] had fallen." Mother

explained that this practice has impacted her oldest son, who seems preoccupied with what

2. Father described the insult of calling Mother a "whore" his "go to thing."

-3- Fayette CA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009

clothing she wears. Mother believes that Father's conduct has had a negative impact on

her relationship with her oldest son. When Mother brought up a concern to Father that their

oldest son had said disrespectful things toward her, Father replied "if it was true he could

say whatever he wants to me [Mother]."

{¶9} While all this was ongoing, there were developments concerning the

investigation of an inappropriate relationship between Mother and a former student where

revealing photographs of Mother in lingerie were found on the former student's personal

computing device. Mother admits to taking revealing photographs of herself but insists that

she took them for Father's viewing. Mother denied sharing the photographs with the

student. Mother was never convicted of a crime based on this investigation, but she did

voluntarily resign her license to teach. The former student was called to testify but declined

to appear and contested the subpoenas.3

{¶10} The magistrate issued a judgment entry naming Father residential parent and

awarding Mother parenting time. The parties filed objections to the magistrate's decision.

Following independent review, the trial court named Mother as the residential parent and

awarded equal parenting time. Father now appeals, raising six assignments of error.

Mother cross-appeals, raising two cross-assignment of error for review. We will address

the assignments of error out of order.

{¶11} Assignment of Error No. 1:

{¶12} THE TRIAL COURT ERRED AND ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN

GRANTING APPELLEE, MOTHER, CUSTODY OF THE MINOR CHILDREN AS THE

DECISION IS AGAINST THE MANIFEST WEIGHT OF THE EVIDENCE.

{¶13} Assignment of Error No. 4:

3. The student did appear for a deposition, which was later admitted into the record.

-4- Fayette CA2019-05-008 CA2019-05-009

{¶14} THE TRIAL COURT ERRED BY OVERRULING FATHER'S OBJECTIONS

TO THE MAGISTRATE'S DECISION.

{¶15} In his first and fourth assignments of error, Father argues the trial court erred

by designating Mother as the residential parent and legal custodian of their children and in

ordering equal parenting time. Father's arguments are without merit.

{¶16} R.C.

Free access — add to your briefcase to read the full text and ask questions with AI

Related

In re B.A.K.
2022 Ohio 1443 (Ohio Court of Appeals, 2022)
In re M.C.
2021 Ohio 3703 (Ohio Court of Appeals, 2021)
Suwareh v. Nwankwo
2020 Ohio 6899 (Ohio Court of Appeals, 2020)

Cite This Page — Counsel Stack

Bluebook (online)
2020 Ohio 2774, Counsel Stack Legal Research, https://law.counselstack.com/opinion/whitaker-v-whitaker-ohioctapp-2020.