Weil v. Weil, No. Fa 98 0068709 (Apr. 25, 2002)

2002 Conn. Super. Ct. 5359
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedApril 25, 2002
DocketNo. FA 98 0068709
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Weil v. Weil, No. Fa 98 0068709 (Apr. 25, 2002), 2002 Conn. Super. Ct. 5359 (Colo. Ct. App. 2002).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION
This is an action seeking a dissolution of marriage on the ground of irretrievable breakdown which was filed by the plaintiff husband on December 9, 1998. In addition to the dissolution, the plaintiff is seeking joint custody of the minor children and a fair distribution of the marital property and debts.

The defendant wife filed an answer to the complaint as well as a cross complaint on April 10, 2001. In her answer, the defendant admitted to all of the material allegations of the complaint. Her cross complaint mirrors the allegations of the plaintiff's complaint and seeks a dissolution of the marriage, joint custody of the minor children, child support, alimony, exclusive use of the marital home, and an equitable distribution of the marital assets.

A trial was held on April 2, 3, and 4, 2002, at which both parties were present and were represented by attorneys. Numerous exhibits were admitted into evidence and testimony was given by the plaintiff, the defendant, three accountants, and two former employees of the parties. After thoroughly examining and considering the documentary evidence, and carefully reviewing and assessing the testimony and credibility of the witnesses, the court finds the following facts to have been proven.

Steven Weil and Alexandra Lowry were married on September 9, 1985 in South Windsor, Connecticut. They both lived in the State of Connecticut for more than 12 months immediately prior to bringing these actions. There are four minor children who are issue of this marriage: Matthew was born on September 18, 1987, Richard was born on December 25, 1990, Samuel was born on February 8, 1992, and William was born on August 4, 1997. Neither the parents nor the children have ever received state or local aid. The court finds that it has jurisdiction over the parties and the marriage.

The plaintiff is 47 years old and in good health. He earned a B.S. Degree in agricultural economics from the University of Connecticut in 1978, and he is six credits shy of earning an MBA in marketing and finance from the University of Connecticut.

The defendant is 41 years old and in good health. She has one and one-half years of college. While attending Fitchburg State College in Massachusetts as a nursing student, she was seriously injured in an automobile accident and had to withdraw from school. It took about six months for her to recuperate from her injuries and she never went back to CT Page 5361 school.

Prior to 1988 the plaintiff was employed as a salesman for several businesses. When the parties married in 1985 he was employed with the ADVO Company in Connecticut. That same year he was transferred to Virginia and was terminated in 1987, a year in which he earned $130,000 working for ADVO. The parties moved back to Connecticut in 1987 and the plaintiff obtained a sales position with an advertising firm in Wellesley, Massachusetts earning a base salary of $65,000 per year plus commissions. He remained in this job from December 1987 until July 1988 when he, and the defendant, began working for the Siftex Equipment Company (Siftex), a small company then owned by the husband's father.

By 1989 the plaintiff and the defendant were managing and operating the business and in November 1991 the father gifted the company to his two children. The plaintiff was given 51% of the company stock and his sister was given 49% of the stock. The plaintiff became the president and chief executive officer of the company and the defendant became the vice-president. The plaintiff's sister never worked for or in the company; however, as a 49% shareholder, she has annually shared in the profits of the company.

After leaving school and recuperating from her accident, the defendant worked in customer service and management positions for several years at the Williams Inn and the Berkshire Hilton Hotel in Massachusetts and the Park View Hilton Hotel in Hartford, Connecticut. She met the plaintiff while she was working at the Park View Hilton Hotel. She then obtained employment as an account examiner/office manager with the ADVO Company in Connecticut and was helpful in getting the plaintiff a sales position with ADVO as well.

ADVO did not have a position available for the defendant in Virginia when her husband was transferred to that state in 1985. Nevertheless, she quit her job in Connecticut and accompanied her husband to Virginia where she obtained employment with a direct mail consulting business. The parties purchased a house in Alexandria, Virginia but when the plaintiff lost his job with ADVO the plaintiff and the defendant, who was pregnant with their first child, decided that they wanted to be closer to their families so they sold the house, moved back to Connecticut, and rented a condominium in South Windsor.

Matthew was born in September 1987 and the parties thereafter bought a house in South Windsor where they remained for ten years. They hired a part time nanny to care for the child when he was about six months old so the defendant could join her husband working for Siftex. This arrangement was continued and expanded after the birth of other children. CT Page 5362

While the nanny took care of the children and did some of the household chores, the defendant worked for Siftex learning about the business, talking with customers, doing the bookkeeping, as well as packing and shipping products. This continued for several years during which the defendant gave birth to their second child, Richard, in December 1990 and their third child, Samuel, in February 1992. During this time, the defendant also worked part time for two years selling playbills for the Hartford Ballet in order to supplement the family finances.

Siftex did well under the plaintiff's ownership and direction. The plaintiff and the defendant were each paid a salary of $31,200 in 1991 and Siftex continued to grow each year thereafter. The plaintiff's 2001 salary from Siftex was $138,600.

The plaintiff first considered the possibility of divorcing the defendant in 1991 or 1992 because he believed that she was not fully committing herself to the business. He resented the fact that the defendant seemed to be more interested in staying at home as a homemaker/mother than working for the family business. He felt that this was a breach of a promise which she made to him that she would devote her full time to the business.

As a result of this tension, he engaged in therapy and they both attended marriage counseling. Thereafter, their relationship seemed to stabilize somewhat but the defendant continued to struggle with what she perceived as a conflict between the increasing needs of the children and the demands of the business. She continued to work for Siftex but more on a part time basis, as she began to devote more of her time to her responsibilities as a mother and homemaker. The year 1997 brought the birth of their fourth child, William, and a new house.

In December 1998 the plaintiff filed for divorce. The defendant sought a reconciliation but the plaintiff would not reconsider. The defendant's participation in the operation of Siftex was minimal after the plaintiff filed for divorce.

The court heard testimony from Jason Chatel, a former employee of Siftex. Chatel related that he observed the plaintiff and a female employee of Siftex engaging in sexual contact on several occasions prior to the filing of this action. The plaintiff denies that any such improper behavior occurred prior to his filing for a divorce but admits that he has had sexual relations with this same woman several times since the commencement of this action. The court found the testimony of Chatel to be reasonably credible. CT Page 5363

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