Victoria Wilbourn v. Richard Wilbourn, III

CourtCourt of Appeals of Mississippi
DecidedFebruary 27, 2024
Docket2018-CA-01653-COA
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2018-CA-01653-COA

VICTORIA WILBOURN APPELLANT/ CROSS-APPELLEE

v.

RICHARD WILBOURN, III APPELLEE/ CROSS-APPELLANT

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 06/14/2018 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. LARRY BUFFINGTON COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: MADISON COUNTY CHANCERY COURT ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLANT: MATTHEW THOMPSON WILLIAM TERRELL STUBBS ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE: CECIL MAISON HEIDELBERG CYNTHIA H. SPEETJENS JOHN ROBERT WHITE NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: ON DIRECT APPEAL: AFFIRMED. ON CROSS-APPEAL: AFFIRMED - 02/27/2024 MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:

BEFORE CARLTON, P.J., WESTBROOKS AND EMFINGER, JJ.

WESTBROOKS, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. Victoria Wilbourn (the mother) appeals from the Madison County Chancery Court’s

final judgment of custody, child support, and visitation. Victoria argues that the chancellor

erred when he awarded Richard Wilbourn III (the father) physical custody of their children

during the summer. Finding no error, we affirm.

FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

¶2. Victoria is a native of Ukraine and has family there. While Richard was visiting

Ukraine as a part of his Christian ministry, he met Victoria. They married in 1999 and had two daughters: S.W. was born in 2001, and D.W. was born in 2003. Over the years, their

marriage suffered because neither of them felt loved or respected by the other. After

participating in marriage counseling at Live Oaks Counseling and continuing with the

counseling for approximately three years, Victoria desired separation.

I. Complaint for Separation

¶3. On October 24, 2006, Victoria filed a “Complaint for Separate Maintenance and For

Protection from Domestic Abuse” against Richard, alleging that Richard had been physically

and mentally abusive to their daughters. In the complaint, Victoria sought a protective order

against Richard to restrain him from coming onto the premises of their marital home, which

was located in Ridgeland, Mississippi. On October 25, 2006, after Chancellor William

Lutz’s urging, Richard agreed to the entry of a temporary protective order.

¶4. After Victoria’s allegation of abuse, the Mississippi Department of Human Services

became involved. Willie Garner, an investigator in the Madison Family and Children

Services Division, noted in his investigation report that Garner arrived at the marital home

on the day Victoria filed her complaint for separation.

A. Investigator Willie Garner

¶5. Willie Garner submitted his investigation report on October 31, 2006. Investigator

Garner did not find any evidence of emotional or physical abuse, finding no evidence to show

“that they [had been] emotionally abused.” Because Richard and Victoria admitted that

Richard would spank the children with a fishing rod, Garner classified the case as one of

“prevention” and recommended that the parents take parenting classes to educate themselves

2 on “alternative methods of disciplining.”

¶6. On November 10, 2006, Chancellor Lutz appointed John Elliot as the guardian ad

litem (GAL) in this case. On November 16, 2006, Chancellor Lutz entered an “Agreed Order

Granting Temporary Relief,” which ordered “[n]either party [to] spank the minor children”

and for Richard to begin counseling. Chancellor Lutz further ordered both parents to attend

a parenting class held by Dr. Angela Herzog.1

B. The GAL John Elliot

¶7. Elliot did not provide his first GAL report until January 25, 2007, concluding that

there were no signs of physical abuse. Elliot came to this conclusion partly because of

statements Victoria and Richard made.

¶8. During Victoria’s interview, she stated that although Richard only spanked the

children for disciplinary reasons, she believed he spanked them too hard. Victoria believed

that punishment should involve taking away things that the girls enjoy, such as candy. This

difference in parenting resulted in Victoria’s allegation of Richard abusing the children

because the spankings sometimes caused bruising on the children’s bodies.

¶9. In response, Richard told Elliot that Victoria’s photographs, depicting S.W.’s bruise

marks, were the direct result of her body “bruis[ing] easily,” as corroborated by medical

documents from her doctor, not from any extreme cruel and unusual punishment.

¶10. When Elliot observed the children at the marital home, he watched them interact with

Richard. After observing the children, Elliot concluded that they “appeared to love their

1 Later that year, Chancellor William Lutz retired. The case was reassigned to Chancellor Cynthia Brewer.

3 father and enjoy his company.” He also concluded that the children did not appear afraid of

Richard. Elliot then provided further details about Richard’s and Victoria’s parenting style.

In Elliot’s opinion, Richard appeared to be a stricter parent who believed in disciplining the

girls by spanking them with a switch, whereas Victoria did not. Elliot ultimately found that

the disciplinary issues between the parties were due to their “cultural and familial

differences.” In his opinion, Richard did not abuse the children.

¶11. In his second report, Elliot mentioned a conversation he had with Richard about him

bathing the children. Richard provided Elliot with a list of the dates and the number of times

that he bathed them. Elliot believed that Richard was very active with the children and that

the parents did not trust each other because of the ongoing litigation. Elliot recommended

that the parents continue with marital counseling. He found that the children were safe and

that the issue of ‘abuse’ was moot.

II. Complaint for Divorce

¶12. On April 3, 2007, Victoria filed a “Complaint for Divorce and Other Relief” on the

ground of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment or, in the alternative, irreconcilable

differences. Victoria did not reference any specific incidents to show or describe Richard’s

allegedly cruel and inhuman treatment but, instead, asserted that Richard’s actions continued

to affect her physical, mental, and emotional well-being. In addition to a divorce, Victoria

requested that she receive sole physical and legal custody of the children. Separately,

Victoria moved to consolidate her October 2006 and April 2007 complaints.

¶13. On April 26, 2007, Victoria filed a petition for an independent medical evaluation.

4 In this petition, Victoria alleged for the first time that Richard bathed with the children before

or while they were ages five and three. Richard answered Victoria’s complaint for divorce

and attached a counterclaim for sole physical and legal custody of the children.2 Richard

denied that he had engaged in habitual cruel and inhuman treatment. He further denied all

abuse allegations.

¶14. On April 27, 2007, Richard moved for temporary relief. He requested that he be given

sole legal and physical custody of the children and shared use of the marital home during the

pending litigation. On May 17, 2007, Chancellor Brewer entered her “Second Order

Granting Temporary Relief.” In the order, the chancellor explained that she limited the

evidence presented to events that occurred after the November 2006 “Agreed Order Granting

Temporary Relief.” She then awarded the parents joint legal and physical custody of the

children, while keeping the other terms of the November 2006 agreed order in place.

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