Surles v. Surles

437 S.E.2d 661, 113 N.C. App. 32, 1993 N.C. App. LEXIS 1298
CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedDecember 21, 1993
Docket9111DC1292, 9211DC32
StatusPublished
Cited by15 cases

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Surles v. Surles, 437 S.E.2d 661, 113 N.C. App. 32, 1993 N.C. App. LEXIS 1298 (N.C. Ct. App. 1993).

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ORR, Judge.

The plaintiff argues three issues in his appeal of the custody award. First, he asserts that the trial court erred in considering [36]*36the paternity issue in determining the custody of the children born of the marriage. Secondly, he argues that the trial court erred in failing to find facts and make conclusions of law regarding his spouse’s conduct during the marriage, and finally, he contends that the court erred in conditioning plaintiff’s visitation of the minor children only “so long as plaintiff can control his obsessive and ritualistic behavior to the extent that it does not affect the minor children.” As to the first issue, we conclude that evidence of paternity may properly be considered in determining the best interests of the children. We also find that the plaintiff’s second and third assignments of error are without merit and affirm those portions of the trial court’s decision.

I.

A.

Plaintiff’s first assignment of error raises the issue of whether evidence submitted by an alleged biological father may be considered in determining custody of minor children of a marriage when the husband of the marriage asserts that he is the natural father of the children and seeks custody of both children born during the marriage.

The plaintiff relies on the ancient common law principal that a mother’s children born of a marriage are presumed to be the husband’s children: “pater is est quern nuptiae demonstrant”. Goodnight v. Moss, 98 Eng. Rep. 1257 (1777). See also Tiana M. Hinnant, Note, Family Law — Lovers’ Triangle Turns Bermuda Triangle: The Natural Father’s Right to Rebut the Marital Presumption, 25 Wake Forest L. Rev. 617 (1990). However, the appeal in the case sub judice arises out of a custody dispute heard pursuant to N.C. Gen. Stat. § 50-13, rather than in the course of a paternity hearing. The trial court’s entire objective in these cases is to determine the best environment for the child or children. As is the case here, these decisions are often difficult, but even where parents love their children, “a parent’s love must yield to another, if, after judicial investigation, it is found that the best interest of the child is subserved thereby.” Greer v. Greer, 5 N.C. App. 160, 163, 167 S.E.2d 782, 784 (1969). Of necessity in these cases, the trial court is vested with wide discretion. Sheppard v. Sheppard, 38 N.C. App. 712, 248 S.E.2d 871 (1978), cert. denied, 296 N.C. 586, 254 S.E.2d 34 (1979). “He has the opportunity to see the parties in person and to hear the witnesses, and his decision ought not be [37]*37upset on appeal absent a clear showing of abuse of discretion.” Falls v. Falls, 52 N.C. App. 203, 209, 278 S.E.2d 546, 551, cert. denied, 304 N.C. 390, 285 S.E.2d 831 (1981). “He can detect tenors, tones, and flavors that are lost in the bare printed record read months later by appellate judges.” Newsome v. Newsome, 42 N.C. App. 416, 426, 256 S.E.2d 849, 855 (1979).

Further, the trial court must decide custody mindful that “the welfare of the child is the paramount consideration to which all other factors, including common law preferential rights of the parents, must be deferred or subordinated . . . .” Plemmons v. Stiles, 65 N.C. App. 341, 345, 309 S.E.2d 504, 506 (1983) (emphasis added). Before awarding custody of a child to a particular party, the trial court must conclude as a matter of law that the award of custody “will best promote the interest and welfare of the child.” N.C. Gen. Stat. § 5043.2(a). Findings of fact as to the characteristics of the competing parties must be made to support the necessary conclusions of law. These findings may concern “physical, mental, or financial fitness or any other factors brought out by the evidence and relevant to the issue of the welfare of the child.” Steele v. Steele, 36 N.C. App. 601, 604, 244 S.E.2d 466, 468 (1978) (emphasis added).

Voluminous evidence was presented by the parties during the trial. At the close of all the evidence, the trial court in the instant case made extensive findings of fact including the following:

4. Plaintiff and Defendant are the natural parents of the minor child: Morgan Faith Surles, born 23 November 1987.
5. Defendant is the natural mother of the minor child: Sara Brook Surles, born 3 July 1989.
6. Intervenor Plaintiff, Defendant and the minor child, Sara Brook Surles, submitted to blood testing to determine whether or not Intervenor Plaintiff is the biological father of Sara Brook Surles. The results of the ABO, HLS-A, HLA-B and DNA tests establish that the probability of Intervenor Plaintiff being the biological father of Sara Brook Surles is 96,879 to 1.
8. After she was three (3) month[s] pregnant with Sara Brook Surles, Defendant had sexual intercourse with the Plaintiff. [38]*38Prior to this act, Plaintiff and Defendant had not had sexual intercourse for approximately two (2) years.
10. Based upon the evidence presented, this Court is convinced that Intervenor Plaintiff is the biological parent of Sara Brook Surles.
11. Plaintiff has during the marriage developed excessive ritualistic behavior concerning cleanliness, the fear of germs and the fear of being contaminated by body fluids. This behavior has become more excessive from 1988 to the present. This Court is concerned with this character of the Plaintiff and believes from the evidence presented that Plaintiff suffers from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder as defined ... by the DSM-3-R. . . . The Court is of the opinion that if Plaintiff’s excessive and ritualistic behavior is unchanged, it can have an adverse impact on the minor children.

Findings of Fact Numbers 12 through 29 reflected the evidence presented of the behavior of the plaintiff which indicated this disorder.

The court further found with respect to the plaintiff:
30. Plaintiff insisted on giving the minor child Morgan Faith Surles baths even after Defendant had already given the child a bath. Plaintiff has scrubbed Morgan Faith Surles to such an extent that the child screamed and cried and her vaginal area was red and raw. The court finds that this behavior is not in the best interest of the child.
31. The minor children have been subject to Plaintiff’s ritualistic and obsessive behavior and have shown such behavior in their play. When playing with her kitchen, Morgan Surles would copy the ritual of turning the stove on and off. Morgan Surles has an excessive need to wash herself and the toys with which she is playing. One of Brook Surles favorite toys is a baby wipe which she uses to clean things. Morgan Surles has shown an unusual concern about her personal safety at night and unusual need to have the premises secured before going to sleep.
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