Staman v. Staman

408 N.W.2d 320, 225 Neb. 864, 1987 Neb. LEXIS 966
CourtNebraska Supreme Court
DecidedJuly 2, 1987
Docket86-745
StatusPublished
Cited by8 cases

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Staman v. Staman, 408 N.W.2d 320, 225 Neb. 864, 1987 Neb. LEXIS 966 (Neb. 1987).

Opinion

Hastings, J.

This is an appeal in a proceeding for dissolution of a *865 marriage. The trial court dissolved the marriage; divided the property of the parties; awarded custody of the minor children to the respondent, Troy Staman, subject to reasonable rights of visitation in the petitioner, Kathy Staman; and awarded child support.

The petitioner appeals the award of custody of the minor children to the respondent, the division of property, the determination that no alimony should be awarded, and the determination that the parties should bear their own attorney fees and court costs. The guardian ad litem also appeals the award of custody of the children to the respondent.

The parties were married May 24, 1980. Petitioner has one child, Cameron Snell, by a former marriage. Petitioner and respondent have two children as a result of the marriage— Brandon, born April 20,1982, and Trevor, born June 22,1983. Those two children are the subj ects of the custody dispute.

The parties separated on January 29, 1986. Thereafter, petitioner and the three children established a home in Scottsbluff. Respondent continued to live on his parents’ farm.

During the pendency of this matter petitioner had custody of Brandon and Trevor, but while petitioner was at work the boys spent their time with respondent. This arrangement proved difficult at best.

Trial was had on June 18 and 19, 1986, and again on August 13. In a memorandum opinion dated August 14,1986,thecourt awarded custody of the two minor children to the respondent.

Petitioner and the guardian ad litem contend the trial court abused its discretion in awarding custody to the respondent. Petitioner and the guardian ad litem argue that the award of custody to the respondent goes against the great weight of the evidence and is clearly not in the best interests of the children.

It is true that the paramount consideration in determining who should have the care and custody of minor children following dissolution of a marriage is the best interests of the children and that our review in such a case is de novo on the record. Ainsworth v. Ainsworth, 224 Neb. 160, 396 N.W.2d 285 (1986). Child custody determinations are, however, matters initially entrusted to the sound discretion of the trial court. On appeal the trial court’s determination will be affirmed in the *866 absence of a clear abuse of discretion. Id. Additionally, we give weight to the fact that the trial judge observed and heard the witnesses and accepted one version of the facts rather than the other. Id.

In this case the trial court wrote a memorandum opinion, in which it summed up the entire trial rather succinctly:

Viewed negatively, the children have an adulterous, lying, substance abusing, social butterfly for a mother and a physically abusive, lying, sexually deviant recluse for a father. That would not be a very hopeful state of affairs from the kids’ standpoint and I disbelieve both claims as exaggerations....
When the positive tint is used, there are many strengths to note.
First, both parents have high quantities and qualities of family support.
Second, both are intelligent, healthy, capable, and free of emotional disability. They are very different, but that is an asset from the standpoint of the childrens’ [sic] exposure to role models and lifestyles.
Third, the parents are living close enough to offer the prospect of continuing access to both parents.
Fourth, except for litigation expenses, there are resources available to provide basic needs of housing, food, medical and educational services.
Fifth, both parents genuinely love and care for the children and want to remain in their lives.
Sixth, both parents have sought professional counsel to deal with their emotional setbacks caused by the breakup. Hopefully, that will continue.
The only difference between these two parents viewed positively is that Troy has the opportunity to devote much more time to child care. From the standpoint of the best interests of the children, he should be awarded custody for this reason.

Although we do not approve of the expressed reason the trial court awarded custody of the children to respondent, that being that respondent had more time to devote to child care, we have read the record, as we are required to do, and believe that the *867 court’s decision was not an abuse of discretion.

During the trial each party tried to establish that he or she was the primary caretaker of the children’s physical and emotional needs. The truth, or as near as can be established, is that both parents were heavily involved with the care of these two children during the marriage. While petitioner was at work respondent took care of the boys. When petitioner came home from work she usually handled the care of the children and the household tasks. Both played with the children and tried to teach them what they needed to know.

Also, during the trial, each party tried to discredit the other. Petitioner presented evidence that respondent had physically abused Cameron Snell, while respondent presented evidence that petitioner had an extramarital affair. Both accusations were largely uncorroborated, and the court specifically noted that both were exaggerations. We agree with this determination. We also agree with the court’s finding that both parents are fit and capable of having sole custody.

Thus, the court was faced with, as is often the case, the arduous task of trying to determine which parent, in light of all the circumstances involved, would be the better parent to have custody of the children. The guardian ad litem, in reviewing the evidence at the end of trial, found that petitioner was more self-sufficient and independent than respondent, but that neither was unstable. He found that petitioner was more mature, dependable, and exhibited more self-control, but that respondent was more unselfish. Additionally, he found that both parents had contributed to and provided continuity with respect to child care, and are nurturing parents. Finally, he found that the children seem to have an extra affection for respondent, but that they genuinely love both parents. We believe that the record supports those conclusions. The guardian ad litem then recommended that custody of the children be awarded to petitioner. The court determined otherwise. In so doing, the court did not go against the great weight of the evidence, and its decision was not an abuse of discretion.

Regarding division of the marital property, the court wrote the following in its memorandum opinion, which was *868 incorporated into the order for purposes of interpreting the order:

For property division, I simply can’t make sense from the record.

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