Simon Bruce Sotheron v. Meagan Anastasia Palmer

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided March 10, 2014·No. 69446-4·Unpublished

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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

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FACTS

Simon Sotheron met Megan Palmer around 2003. Palmer was in her early twenties when they met and was 12 years younger than Sotheron. Palmer had a six-year-old son, D.P., at the time. Around June of 2004, Palmer and D.P. moved in with Sotheron into a house that Sotheron owned. The couple never married but Sotheron assumed a parental role in D.P.'s life. In 2005, Sotheron and Palmer had a son together, E.S. In 2006, they had a daughter, C.S.

The couple separated in October 2007. During the separation, Palmer lived in an apartment near Sotheron's house and the two divided parenting responsibilities and shared the children equally. During most of the separation, Sotheron covered Palmer's living expenses, including those for D.P., with whom

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he still spent significant time together. In June 2009, the couple reconciled and Palmer moved back into Sotheron's house.

The couple continued to have difficulties and in February 2010, Palmer moved out permanently. During this time, Palmer and Sotheron began exchanging the children equally again and Sotheron continued to support them and Palmer. Palmer and the children were completely dependent on Sotheron financially and he estimated that he paid Palmer approximately $4,500 per month. Sotheron continued to transport the children to and from school because Palmer had no vehicle.

Disputes between the parties arose about the amount of support Sotheron was to pay Palmer. Sotheron also sought to reconcile with Palmer and began to show up at her home unannounced, call her repeatedly, and send excessive e- mails and texts begging her to come back. He also began following D.P. and contacting him outside of the home.

Both Palmer and Sotheron were involved in new relationships during this time. Palmer began dating Robin Tafoya in March 2010. Sometime after that, Sotheron began dating Annie Njuguna, a single mother in her early twenties. At the time of trial, Njuguna was pregnant with Sotheron's child.

At the end of April 2010, Palmer sent Sotheron a text message asking that he return some of the children's belongings, pay her for child related bills, and give her a pharmacy card. She also asked that he not discuss his negative opinions of her personal life in front of the children. The message further stated that if he did not address these issues and pay child support by the end of the

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week, he should not pick up the children, and she would file for full custody because he has "neglect[ted his] parental responsibilities."

In late May 2010, she sent him a text message stating that she was upset that he would not pay to have C.S.'s cavities filled or D.P.'s piano tuned, and that she was going to keep the children indefinitely and file for full custody and child support if he did not "honor [his] previous commitments" to her and the children. She again asked for the return of the children's belongings, payment of bills, and reimbursements for child related expenses. She also asked for "[t]he family vehicle or a replacement," and for him to discuss an additional property settlement. She further stated that if he refused to address these issues, she would take him to court and he would likely be ordered to pay the maximum in child and spousal support and give her half of his assets. Sotheron then calculated what the maximum amount of child support a court might order and based on that calculation, deposited $1,500 into Palmer's account on June 30, 2010.

On July 30, 2010, Palmer sent Sotheron a text message stating that he was to have no contact with the children or her, and that she would no longer tolerate his "irrational behavior and harassment." She told him to stay away from her friends and family, "especially [D.P.]" She stated that if he tried to contact them, she would file for a no contact order. On that same day, Sotheron filed a petition for a court ordered parenting plan and child support.

On September 1, 2010, Sotheron filed a proposed parenting plan. On September 9, 2010, Palmer filed a petition for a protection order restricting

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Sotheron's contact with Palmer and the children. The court issued a temporary protection order with a hearing date set for September 23, 2010. On September 23, 2010, Palmer failed to appear for the hearing. Sotheron appeared and the court set another hearing date of October 7, 2010.

On October 7, 2010, the court extended the temporary order to November 4, 2010, to allow Palmer to retain counsel for the hearing on that date. The court also authorized Sotheron to have supervised visitation with the children. On November 4, 2010, the court again extended the order to a new court hearing date that was set for November 18, 2010. The court also ordered that Sotheron have unsupervised visitation, finding no basis for requiring supervised visits at that time. The court further set a residential schedule pending the hearing and appointed a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL), Pam Edgar. On November 18, 2010, the court granted another continuance at Palmer's request and continued the hearing to December 7, 2010.

On December 7, 2010, the court ordered a temporary parenting plan that was essentially the shared parenting schedule Sotheron and Palmer used previously. The order provided that any restrictions on contact would be reserved pending the GAL's investigation. The court also entered an order dismissing the protection order, finding that "[a] preponderance of the evidence has not established that there is domestic violence/stalking."

In January 2011, the parties participated in an evaluation with the GAL, which included interviews with Sotheron and Palmer, and home visits with the children. The GAL also interviewed Sotheron's girlfriend Njuguna. At some point

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in February 2011, Njuguna contacted the GAL to relay concerns she had about Sotheron. She said that Sotheron had quizzed her about what she might tell the GAL and that he "pressured her to the point of insanity to abort a[n earlier] pregnancy." She further reported that when she became pregnant a second time, he "kept her up all night badgering her and trying to convince her to have another abortion, and that she spontaneously miscarried," she believed, as a result of that pressure.

Njuguna e-mailed the GAL a few more times and on April 18, 2011, she contacted the GAL to tell her that Sotheron had assaulted her while they were away in Las Vegas, Nevada together. According to Njuguna, she and Sotheron

had a fight in the hotel room over her reading e-mails on his phone without his permission, there was a struggle over the phone and she called the police.

According to the police report, she said he forced the door closed when she tried to leave. After the police left, she flew back to Seattle by herself. On April 21,

2011, she faxed a letter to the district attorney in Nevada requesting dismissal of the charges.

In April 2011, the GAL issued a report recommending a residential schedule that would have the children reside with Sotheron every other weekend

from Friday to Monday and every Wednesday from after school until Thursday morning. The GAL further recommended that Sotheron seek treatment. Palmer then requested that the temporary parenting plan be revised consistent with this recommendation.

On July 6, 2011, a commissioner amended the temporary parenting plan

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