Senflug, M. v. Grebb, E.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided March 21, 2023·No. 2351 EDA 2022·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

MICHAEL M. SENFLUG : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

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v. :

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EMILY G. GREBB :

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Appellant : No. 2351 EDA 2022

Appeal from the Order Entered August 1, 2022 In the Court of Common Pleas of Monroe County Civil Division at 002760-CV-2020, 497 DR 2018

BEFORE: LAZARUS, J., KUNSELMAN, J., and MURRAY, J. MEMORANDUM BY MURRAY, J.: FILED MARCH 21, 2023 Michael M. Senflug (Appellant) appeals from the order modifying the parties’ custody of their six-year-old son, M.S. (Child).1 Appellant specifically challenges the award of primary physical custody to Emily G. Grebb (Mother), and the court’s directive that Child be enrolled in the Pocono Mountain School District. After careful review, we affirm.

1The order schedules a “hearing for October 21, 2022 … to review the parties’ progress in co-parenting and [to] address any additional custody matters.” Order, 8/1/22, at 9. Nonetheless, we consider the order to be final and appealable. See Pa.R.A.P. 341(b)(1) (a final order is any order that disposes of all claims and of all parties); see also G.B. v. M.M.B., 670 A.2d 714 (Pa. Super. 1996) (a custody order is final and appealable after the trial court has concluded hearings and the resulting order resolves pending custody claims).

Appellant and Mother never married. Mother was married previously, and had three older children when she met Appellant in 2014. N.T., 3/16/22, at 52-53. Mother had issues with alcohol abuse and the children’s father was incarcerated; thus, the older children’s paternal grandfather and his wife had custody of the children. Id. at 54.

Appellant and Mother moved in together, and Child was born in August 2016. Around the same time, Mother regained custody of older children.2 N.T., 7/15/22, at 185. The parties separated in April 2020. N.T., 3/16/22, at 12, 139; N.T., 7/15/22, at 61.

PROCEDURAL HISTORY

On November 3, 2020, when Child was four-years-old, the parties entered a consent order which provided for shared legal and physical custody. The order, inter alia, stated that Child “shall be enrolled in Notre Dame for kindergarten, without prejudice to either party’s right to seek a change of schools.” Order, 11/3/20, at 6, ¶ 8. The order also required that Mother “continue with drug and alcohol screens, providing same on a random basis once or twice per week … for a minimum of one (1) year.” Id. ¶ 9b.

Approximately six months later, the parties could not agree about whether Child should attend kindergarten in the fall of 2021. Due to Child’s

2 Mother’s two oldest children are twins; they turned 18 and graduated from high school in 2022. N.T., 7/15/22, at 30, 63. Mother’s third child is a sophomore in high school. Id. at 65.

August birthday, Mother believed it best for Child to attend a year of preschool and attend kindergarten the following year in the Pocono Mountain School District. Both parties reside in the Pocono Mountain School District. However, as indicated in the November 3, 2020, order, Appellant believed Child should attend kindergarten at Notre Dame Elementary School (Notre Dame).

On May 24, 2021, Mother filed a petition seeking an evidentiary hearing, primary physical custody, and a determination that Child attend a year of preschool before starting kindergarten. Petition for Evidentiary Hearing, 5/24/21. Appellant filed a responsive petition in which he sought Child’s 2021 kindergarten enrollment at Notre Dame, with the parties to maintain shared physical custody, or alternatively, an award of primary physical custody to Appellant. Petition for Modification of Custody, 6/15/21.

The trial court conducted three days of trial on December 8, 2021, March 16, 2022, and July 15, 2022. Given the trial dates and consistent with the November 3, 2020, order, Child commenced and completed kindergarten at Notre Dame.

TRIAL TESTIMONY

Ms. Brenda Hoff testified to having a master’s degree in psychology and counseling the parties about co-parenting. N.T., 12/8/21, at 8-9, 43. Ms. Hoff described “high conflict between the parents,” but noted an improvement in Mother’s “ability to communicate without anger.” Id. at 10, 28. She observed that Appellant “struggles to negotiate and compromise.” Id. Ms.

Hoff also “identified [Appellant] as unwilling to negotiate and reach compromises in general and I use [] school as an example[.]” Id. at 72. She added, “this is just an ongoing thing that’s … part of [Appellant’s] personality.” Id. at 74. Ms. Hoff cited examples of Appellant being unwilling to negotiate and compromise in matters concerning Child’s participation in a Halloween parade and community soccer, and whether Child should return to school after being sick the prior weekend. Id. at 74.

Ms. Hoff testified that Mother “acknowledged that she is a recovering alcoholic with more than two years of sobriety[.]” Id. at 24. She stated that “every single one” of Mother’s urine screens had been negative “since this last year.” Id. at 25. Ms. Hoff specified that Mother “was two years sober with a slip in the fall of 2019.” Id. at 42.

Ms. Hoff testified that one of the “major issues we spent a significant amount of time trying to negotiate was [Child’s] education.” Id. at 14. The parties disputed whether Child was ready to attend kindergarten during the 2021-2022 school year, and where Child would attend kindergarten. Both parties live in the Pocono Mountain School District. Id. at 18. Ms. Hoff reiterated that the issue “has been a big sticking point since [Ms. Hoff] first saw [the parties] early on in their time together.” Id. at 14. Ms. Hoff stated she had “no opinion on whether [Child] should have attended kindergarten or where he should have attended kindergarten, and I was very clear on that with the parents on multiple occasions.” Id. at 59.

Ms. Hoff relayed that “one of Mother’s concerns” with Notre Dame “was the amount of time [Child] would have to be transported and how he’s transported.” Id. at 21. According to Ms. Hoff, Mother preferred Child “attend school in the community where both parents live,” and Mother “also noted that neither parent [is] Catholic, so it didn’t necessarily make sense for [Child] to be in a Catholic school.” Id. at 26.

Ms. Hoff testified about Mother’s concern that Child’s August birthday was “right before the cut off” for kindergarten. Id. at 25. She stated that Mother had “previous experience with another child and thought it would be best for [Child] emotionally and matur[ity] wise for him to attend preschool prior to kindergarten.” Id. Ms. Hoff confirmed Child was “academically ready for school,” and Mother’s concern was for Child “emotionally, socially, and [his] maturity.” Id. at 27. Ms. Hoff explained that according to Mother, Child was “very tired and drained when he comes home” from kindergarten at Notre Dame. Id.

Regarding Appellant, Ms. Hoff testified that he “tends to not really negotiate unless he is guaranteed his desired outcome.” Id. at 14. She described Appellant as “unyielding.” Id. at 59. She relayed that Appellant wanted Child to attend Notre Dame “because he thinks it’s the best school[, and] believes that’s the best place for [Child] to go to school.” Id. at 60. According to Ms. Hoff, Appellant “believed [Child] was emotionally [prepared]

and mature and ready to go to kindergarten.” Id. at 60-61. Ms. Hoff further testified that Appellant,

wanted to know what he needed to agree to in order for [M]other to agree for [Child] to go [to Notre Dame]. In fact, at one point, he was willing to drop the urine screens for [M]other if she would agree for [Child] to go to Notre Dame Elementary School, which I found odd because we tried to negotiate that point early on and he refused to drop the urine screens, indicating that he believes that they were, quote, absolutely necessary.

N.T., 12/8/21, at 21-22.

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