R.W.M. v. S.M.F.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided December 22, 2016·No. 1116 MDA 2016·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

R.W.M. IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF PENNSYLVANIA

Appellee

v.

S.M.F.

Appellant No. 1116 MDA 2016

Appeal from the Order Entered June 23, 2016 In the Court of Common Pleas of Lancaster County Civil Division at No(s): CI-13-03345

BEFORE: LAZARUS, J., SOLANO, J., and PLATT, J.* MEMORANDUM BY SOLANO, J.: FILED DECEMBER 22, 2016 S.M.F. (“Mother”) appeals from the June 23, 2016, custody order as to the parties’ children, K.J.M. and B.W.M. (collectively, “the Children”). Upon careful review, we affirm.

Factual and Procedural History K.J.M. was born in September 2009; B.W.M. was born in April 2011.

K.J.M. is currently in first grade, and B.W.M. attends kindergarten. N.T., 5/23/16, at 104; Trial Court Opinion, filed Aug. 11, 2016, at 23 n.2.

R.W.M. (“Father”) and Mother (collectively, “the Parents”) separated in 2012. N.T., 5/23/16, at 46, 53, 92; N.T., 6/8/16, at 222. Mother has been

the primary physical custodian of the Children since that time.

*

Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.

Mother and the Children live in Manheim, Lancaster County with Mother’s current husband (“Husband”). Mother is 28 years old, and the Children are her only children. N.T., 5/23/16, at 89-90; Trial Ct. Op. at 4. Mother has a high school diploma but no higher education; she had not worked during the three years preceding the 2016 custody hearing but had previously been employed repairing vacuum cleaners. Mother met Husband in late 2012 and married him on May 28, 2016. N.T., 6/8/16, at 222. Husband has completed one year of college. N.T., 5/23/16, at 46-48. Until the summer of 2016, he was employed by Sunoco LP for approximately three years in its office in Reading, Berks County, where he worked in information technology, earning $63,000.00 per year.

After he separated from Mother, Father moved to Reading. N.T., 5/23/16, at 5-6, 64, 92-93, 124, 136-37. Father now lives in Sinking Spring, Berks County and works in a candy factory in Lancaster. Father lives with a roommate (“Roommate”) and with his current girlfriend (“Girlfriend”). When K.J.M. was born, Father, Mother, and Roommate lived together, and the Children call Roommate their “Uncle.” Id. at 134-36, 144; N.T., 6/8/16, at 195. Father’s Girlfriend has three children of her own, and custody of her youngest child is shared between Girlfriend and that child’s father. N.T., 6/8/16, at 196-97; Trial Ct. Op. at 12-13.

“Father pays approximately $500.00 per month in child support.

Father consistently meets his child support obligation.” Trial Ct. Op. at 5

(citing N.T., 5/23/16, at 21-22). The salary of Mother’s Husband is the only income in Mother’s household other than child support; if she needs money for something personal, she has to ask Husband for it. Trial Ct. Op. at 6. Expenditures in Mother’s household for the Children come out of Father’s child support obligation; if the child support obligation is insufficient, Mother asks Husband for money, which he gives to her only “[w]hen it is financially viable.” N.T., 5/23/16, at 57. Mother had to withdraw K.J.M. from a scouting organization because she could not afford the expenses associated with the organization. Trial Ct. Op. at 7.

Mother’s Husband has claimed the Children as dependents on his income tax returns for the past three years. N.T., 5/23/16, at 170. He testified that the income tax refund he received was sufficient to allow him to pay $3,000.00 towards his wedding with Mother in 2016. Id. at 58. Mother testified that she did not know that Husband listed the Children as dependents on his income tax returns. Id. at 109.

There is no dispute that both of the Parents are capable of attending to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, and educational needs of the Children. Trial Court Order, dated June 23, 2016, at 11. Similarly, there are no concerns about the mental or physical condition of either party or of any member of either party’s household. Id. at 13.

According to Mother, on two occasions she called the Lancaster County Children and Youth Social Service Agency (“the Agency”) to complain about

Father’s care of the Children when they were in his custody. However, when asked during cross-examination whether the Children had been neglected by Father, Mother stated only that B.W.M. once had a dirty diaper when he was returned from Father’s care and “it was caked on.” N.T., 5/23/16, at 126. She was “not sure if you would call that neglect.” Id. Both of Mother’s referrals to the Agency resulted in no action taken against Father. Id.

Father presented evidence that Mother may be undermining his relationship with the Children by having them call him by his first name. On May 28, 2014, as Father was picking up the Children at a physical custody exchange, Mother referred to Father by his first name when addressing B.W.M. N.T., 5/23/16, at 32-33. When Father returned the Children, he heard their maternal grandmother, C.A.F. (“Maternal Grandmother”), also refer to Father by his first name when addressing the Children. Id. at 33. Maternal Grandmother then told the Children that Father “is your other daddy,” and the Children responded, “[Y]eah, I know.” Id. Since then, the younger child, B.W.M., has sometimes been referring to Father by his first name. Id. at 33, 81, 97-98, 141-42. Father would later relate that “[i]t comes out so naturally, as if [B.W.M.] hears it all the time.” Id. at 33. Father fears that B.W.M. does not know who that child’s father is, or that the child is being told otherwise. Id. During Father’s most recent visit with the Children, B.W.M. referred to Father by his first name five times within the first two hours and eleven times overall. Id. There is contradictory

evidence as to whether the older child, K.J.M., also refers to Father by his first name. Id. at 97, 145-46.

Additionally, Father presented evidence relating to Mother’s failure to transport the Children to a court-ordered location for exchanging the Children for Father’s regularly scheduled periods of partial custody. In June 2015, Mother advised Father that she was having “car problems” and that “it was going to be a little while until she was able to get her car fixed.” N.T., 5/23/16, at 9. Father therefore agreed to receive the Children close to Mother’s residence, eliminating Mother’s responsibility for transportation. Id. at 9-10. As the trial court later stated:

[I]n any given period of two weeks, Father covered the extra distance ten times and spent approximately three hours and twenty minutes more time in his vehicle than would have been the case if Mother had abided by the Order by bringing the Children to the designated physical custody exchange location.

Trial Ct. Op. at 25. Mother never offered to compensate Father for his time and expenses associated with this additional travel. Id. at 26.

On July 29, 2015, a custody conciliation conference was held pursuant to a custody complaint for modification filed by Mother; the conference resulted in a recommended order that was entered on September 30, 2015. Trial Ct. Op. at 1. The Parents agreed by stipulation that the recommended order be made a final order, and the trial court complied on October 19, 2015. Id. at 2. Pursuant to this order, the Parents shared legal custody of the Children, Mother continued to have primary physical custody of the

Children, and physical custody exchanges were to occur at Oregon Dairy in Lititz, Lancaster County, which was a halfway point between the Parents’ residences. Trial Court Order, dated Sept. 30, 2015, at 1-2, 4; N.T., 5/23/16, at 10.1 From November 19, 2015, to December 12, 2015, Father provided all of the transportation for the Children, because Mother’s car had become inoperable. Trial Ct. Op. at 18 (citing N.T., 5/23/16, at 12-13). On New Year’s Eve 2015, Maternal Grandmother transported the Children to the custody exchange. Id. at 19 (citing N.T., 5/23/16, at 16).

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