Robert L. v. Robin L.

CourtNebraska Court of Appeals
DecidedDecember 1, 2015
DocketA-15-397
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS

MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL (Memorandum Web Opinion)

ROBERT L. V. ROBIN L.

NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).

ROBERT L., APPELLEE, V.

ROBIN L., APPELLANT.

Filed December 1, 2015. No. A-15-397.

Appeal from the District Court for Douglas County: MARLON A. POLK, Judge. Affirmed. John A. Kinney and Jill M. Mason, of Kinney Law, P.C., L.L.O., for appellant. Chris Pomerleau, of Cordell Law, L.L.P., for appellee.

PIRTLE, RIEDMANN, and BISHOP, Judges. BISHOP, Judge. Robin L. appeals from the decree of dissolution entered by the district court for Douglas County awarding sole legal and physical custody of the parties’ five minor children to Robert L. Robin contends the court abused its discretion in awarding sole custody to Robert, and she also argues the court erred by failing to rule on the admissibility of the guardian ad litem’s (GAL’s) report. Because we conclude (1) the district court did not abuse its discretion in awarding sole legal and physical custody to Robert and (2) Robin has failed to establish any prejudice from the court’s failure to rule on the admissibility of the GAL report, we affirm. BACKGROUND Robin and Robert were married in June 1997 in Omaha, Nebraska. During the marriage, they adopted six children, one of whom was emancipated at the time of trial. The other five children included the oldest daughter, L.L., born in 1999; a son, C.L., born in 1999; a daughter, S.L., born in 2000; and the youngest two, both daughters, born in 2001 and 2002. According to

-1- Dr. Glenda Cottam, a licensed clinical psychologist and attorney who performed a custody evaluation and psychological assessments of the family members, all of the children have special needs or “challenges” of some kind. On January 16, 2014, Robert filed a complaint for dissolution of marriage seeking sole legal and physical custody of the minor children. Robin filed an answer and counterclaim, also seeking sole legal and physical custody. While the dissolution proceedings were pending, a temporary order granted the parties joint legal custody and alternated physical custody on a weekly basis. In the temporary order, the court ordered the parties to engage Dr. Cottam to perform a custody evaluation and also appointed Willow Head as the GAL. It further directed the parties to undergo psychological testing with Dr. Cottam, the results of which were to be made available to counsel for both parties and the GAL. The matter proceeded to a bench trial on January 7, 2015. Because custody is the only issue on appeal, we summarize the testimony and evidence relevant to that issue only. Robert testified he was seeking sole custody of the children and did not believe joint custody would be in the children’s best interests. Part of the reason he was seeking sole custody was that he and Robin were unable to agree on childrearing decisions. Robert also had concerns about Robin’s parenting. He believed that Robin’s way of interacting with the children was harsh and that she escalated situations into bigger issues and arguments. He believed he was nurturing toward the children while Robin caused pain and disharmony among the children. He testified he was the person who woke the children up in the mornings, tucked them in at night, fed them, and helped them with homework. Robert did not believe the children should be split up, because of the “kind of community” and “mutual relationships” that existed among them. Robert’s mother, Geraldine L., testified she lived in Virginia and visited Robert’s family at least three times per year. Based on her observations of Robert’s parenting, she believed he was nurturing and was the parent who got the children up in the mornings and got them ready for school. She believed Robin engaged in “negative parenting,” handling the children “as though they were always wrong.” Geraldine said that whenever she and her husband said something positive about the children to Robin, Robin told them they were being manipulated. Robert’s sister, Cynthia L., testified she lived in Virginia and visited Robert’s family at Thanksgiving, during the summer, and other times depending on her schedule. Based on her observations, Cynthia believed Robert cooked for the children and helped with homework more than Robin. She described Robin’s discipline of the children as “very harsh, sometimes very physical.” She described Robert’s discipline as consisting of “a lot of discussion,” helping the children “understand if something they did was incorrect and why.” Cynthia believed Robin displayed a lack of respect for the children. She described a time when Robin pulled one of her daughters up the stairs by her hair because Robin did not believe the daughter had brushed her hair for church. Another example was when Robin “severely” punished one of the children after Cynthia told Robin the child had accidentally broken a glass while washing dishes in the porcelain kitchen sink. Cynthia said the anxiety rose in the house whenever Robin was home. Robert rested, and Robin called Dr. Cottam, the licensed psychologist appointed by the court to perform a custody evaluation. Near the beginning of her testimony, the reports she completed following her psychological assessments of the parents and children were admitted into

-2- evidence. The reports pertaining to Robert and Robin indicated that while L.L. may wish to reside with Robert due to her anger toward Robin, “the younger children could be appropriately parented by both Mr. and/or Ms. [L.] - as neither parent is ‘unfit’ in the legal or psychological definition of the term.” Dr. Cottam was examined regarding her assessments of L.L., C.L., and S.L., the three oldest of the minor children, as well as of Robert and Robin. On direct examination, she was not asked about her assessments of the youngest two girls. Dr. Cottam testified that L.L. had become the “chief sibling” and “ringleader” after her older sister enrolled in college. L.L. worried about her younger siblings, some of whom had significant special needs, and helped look after them. However, L.L. had her own challenges, including significant mental health problems in the form of depression and anxiety, and she had been hospitalized for psychiatric reasons three times. L.L. was “closely aligned” with her father and had “major issues” with her mother. According to Dr. Cottam, L.L. was at risk for “co-dependency behaviors,” including having “boundary violations” with others and becoming “enmeshed in following someone . . . instead of making her own decision.” Dr. Cottam indicated L.L. might be “enmeshed” with her father, whom she idolized. Dr. Cottam testified C.L. had a good relationship with both of his parents, whom he described as “nice.” C.L. had “lots of challenges,” however, and needed structure and a predictable routine. Dr. Cottam’s report indicated C.L. suffered from anxiety and had been diagnosed with attention deficit disorder and an autism spectrum disorder. Dr. Cottam described S.L. as polite, cooperative, and probably the highest functioning of the children. S.L. was not “too far behind” in school and did not have any “Axis I mental health diagnoses.” According to Dr. Cottam, S.L. described both of her parents as loving. Addressing Robert and Robin, Dr. Cottam testified both were fit parents and gave “adequate, good” responses to her questions. One significant difference in their parenting was that Robert was “more relaxed,” while Robin was “more tense, more structured.” Dr.

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