Rgm v. Dem

410 S.E.2d 564, 306 S.C. 145, 1991 S.C. LEXIS 223
CourtSupreme Court of South Carolina
DecidedOctober 28, 1991
Docket23502
StatusPublished
Cited by18 cases

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Bluebook
Rgm v. Dem, 410 S.E.2d 564, 306 S.C. 145, 1991 S.C. LEXIS 223 (S.C. 1991).

Opinion

Finney, Justice:

Appellant RGM, wife, appeals a family court order granting a divorce from Respondent DEM, husband, on the grounds of one year continuous separation pursuant to S.C. Code Ann. § 20-3-10(5) (1976), as amended, denying alimony and health insurance coverage, distributing the marital property and debt, awarding child support and denying attorney fees.

*147 Appellant and respondent were married on September 4, 1977. Their two children, a girl and a boy, were born January 15,1978, and November 15,1983, respectively. The parties experienced problems from the beginning of their marriage and entered marriage counseling in 1984.

In 1986, appellant met the female friend with whom she admits having an extramarital sexual relationship. In 1987, the appellant discovered she had lupus. After the diagnosis, appellant developed a close personal relationship with the female friend which continued throughout the latter years of appellant’s marriage. In November of 1987, appellant admitted to the respondent her feelings for her female friend. It was subsequent to this admission that the appellant and her female friend first became physically and sexually intimate.

After learning of appellant’s lesbian relationship, the respondent continued his efforts to reconcile the marriage. The record reflects that the appellant and respondent engaged in sexual intercourse on two occasions after appellant’s confession of sexual intimacy with the female friend. Thereafter, appellant continued the homosexual relationship. The respondent eventually left the appellant and their children in the top apartment of the duplex owned and occupied by the family and moved into the bottom apartment. The appellant continued her relationship with the female after the respondent moved from the marital residence.

On August 10, 1989, appellant filed a complaint for divorce on the ground of one year continuous separation and sought, inter alia, custody of the two minor children of the parties, child support, alimony, equitable division of marital assets and attorney’s fees. The respondent counterclaimed, requesting custody of the children, child support, attorney’s fees and costs. A hearing was held January 10,1990, at which the parties informed the court that they had reached an agreement concerning child custody and visitation. The parties moved for a continuance on all other issues raised in the pleadings. A continuance was granted. The family court issued its order dated February 27, 1990, which awarded permanent custody of the minor children to the appellant, delineated visitation privileges and responsibilities and provided that the respondent maintain health insurance for the children.

On March 23,1990, appellant filed an amended complaint for *148 divorce on the statutory ground of adultery. On the same date, the respondent filed an amended answer and counterclaim on the identical ground. The appellant replied, asserting the defenses of condonation and recrimination. A hearing was held March 27,1990, resulting in the family court order of May 15, 1990, which incorporated the order of February 27, 1990, and:

1. Granted the parties a divorce, a vinculo matrimonii, one from the other, based upon one year’s continuous separation pursuant to S.C. Code Ann. § 20-3-10(5) (1976), as amended.
2. Found that the appellant was guilty of adultery, thus permanently barred from receiving alimony pursuant to S.C. Code Ann. § 20-3-130 (1976); and declined to order the respondent to provide health insurance coverage for the appellant.
3. Distributed the marital property as follows:
(a) Business — Awarded all right, title and interest in and to the business to the respondent.
(b) Marital Home — Awarded the marital home to the respondent together with the obligation to assume the outstanding mortgage.
(c) Vacant Lot — Awarded a vacant lot to the appellant.
4. Ordered the respondent to pay $700 child support monthly.
5. Declined to award either party attorneys’ fees, and ordered the respondent to pay the $600 guardian ad litem fee.

On appeal, appellant claims the family court erred 1) in denying health insurance coverage and alimony based upon its erroneous holdings that an extramarital lesbian relationship constitutes adultery, which bars the defense of recrimination to establish entitlement to alimony, and that appellant was precluded from asserting condonation; 2) in the child support award; 3) in valuation of the assets, distribution of the marital property, and apportionment of marital debt; 4) in denying her attorney’s fees; and 5) in failing to order reinstatement of her maiden name.

*149 I. DIVORCE

Appellant contends she is entitled to alimony since homosexual conduct is not included in the definition of adultery for purposes of granting a divorce or barring alimony under S.C. Code Ann. §§ 20-3-10 and 20-3-130.

Section 20-3-10 includes adultery as a ground for divorce. Section 20-3-130 bars the award of alimony to a spouse found guilty of adultery. South Carolina follows the common-law concept of adultery as illicit intercourse between two persons, at least one of whom is married to someone other than the sexual partner. Panhorst v. Panhorst, 301 S.C. 100, 390 S.E. (2d) 376 (Ct. App. 1990).

The exclusion argued by appellant is novel to our court, but other jurisdictions have addressed the issue. The Florida District Court of Appeal noted:

We have seen that evidence of adultery may be considered in an alimony award ... yet we know of no prior case applying this to a homosexual relationship. Notwithstanding, we find no substantial distinction, because both involve extramarital sex and therefore marital misconduct.

Patin v. Patin, 371 So. (2d) 682 at 683 (Fla. Dist. Ct. App. 1979). In Patín, the trial court made no finding as to the wife’s relationship with her female friend, and the appellate court remanded the case for such a finding. Other courts have also held that homosexual as well as heterosexual extramarital relationships constitute adultery. See. M.V.R. v. T.M.R., 454 N.Y.S. (2d) 779, 115 Misc. (2d) 674 (1982); Owens v. Owens, 247 Ga. 139, 274 S.E. (2d) 484 (1981).

We view appellant’s definition of adultery, as unduly narrow and overly dependent upon the term sexual intercourse. Appellant does not deny that she engaged in an extramarital sexual relationship. Instead, she argues that a narrow interpretation of sections 20-3-10 and 20-3-130 would not include such homosexual activity. We find persuasive the reasoning of the Patín Court that explicit extramarital sexual activity constitutes adultery regardless of whether it is of a homosexual or heterosexual character.

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