Reza Seyed Alaghehband v. Fariba Abolbaghaei

CourtCourt of Appeals of Texas
DecidedMay 1, 2003
Docket03-02-00445-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

TEXAS COURT OF APPEALS, THIRD DISTRICT, AT AUSTIN




NO. 03-02-00445-CV

Reza Seyed Alaghehband, Appellant



v.



Fariba Abolbaghaei, Appellee



FROM THE DISTRICT COURT OF TRAVIS COUNTY, 345TH JUDICIAL DISTRICT

NO. FM104439, HONORABLE F. SCOTT MCCOWN, JUDGE PRESIDING

M E M O R A N D U M O P I N I O N



Appellant Reza Seyed Alaghehband appeals from a divorce decree naming appellee Fariba Abolbaghaei sole managing conservator for their daughter and ordering him to pay $800 a month in spousal support for three years. Appellant contends that the evidence is legally and factually insufficient to support the spousal maintenance award and that the trial court abused its discretion in appointing appellee sole managing conservator of the child. We will affirm.



Statement of Facts

Appellee was born in and earned an engineering degree in Iran. She married appellant in January 1991, and they moved to the United States in September 1991. K.S.A., who is autistic, was born in April 1993. Appellee testified that appellant was very controlling, would not allow her to watch most television programs or have American friends, and required her to use credit cards for all her expenses and justify her purchases. Appellant disapproved of her desire to take English classes, so she learned it "through like TV." Appellee has never used her degree in the United States and has not applied for any engineering jobs in this country. She believed that her degree would not be recognized here because companies had rejected the degrees of friends who attended the same university. Appellee stayed home with K.S.A. until about two and one-half years before trial, when she started to work. Appellant was very angry the first time appellee went to work, and when she returned home, K.S.A. was upset and appellant "said that he beat my child." When appellee first started to work outside the home, appellant "said I am not allowed to do that. He just cut my--the credit cards without me knowing that I was like using the credit card. It was like declined." At appellant's demand, appellee changed jobs, but was injured in a car accident and had to quit. After she recovered, "[Appellant] was absolutely against me working and he was very controlling even more with money to stop me working." At the time of trial she was earning $10 an hour and working from twenty-five to forty hours a week at a part-time job in retail sales. She sought spousal maintenance so she could get a degree in marketing.

Appellee decided she wanted a divorce but waited two years to file because, "I didn't know anything. I've been here for ten years. I didn't know how the Americans are like, what the culture is like, where I am." Shortly after she filed for divorce, she planned to travel back to Iran with appellant and K.S.A. until appellant told her, "[I]f you go to Iran he is going to say that I have had an affair with somebody and they are going to kill me for that." Appellant also told her he was going to take all the money from their account, "make sure that I am going to become homeless through this divorce," and "he's going to have custody of the child and he's going to take it to Iran and never come back." Appellee moved out of the parties' home because, "He was emotionally really abusing me. I was--he always told me I'm nobody, I am--very, very, very bad words each time I was coming from work. I can't even say those words. He used a lot of bad words that nobody--I'm not a good mother, so I was not able to handle those anymore."

Appellee testified that when K.S.A. first began exhibiting unusual behavior, appellee sought to have her tested and given therapy, but appellant did not support those efforts. Appellee testified that she enrolled K.S.A. in therapy, only 70% of which is covered by insurance, and attended meetings at K.S.A.'s school; appellant only attended a few meetings. Appellee testified that she had volunteered with and educated herself about autistic children. Appellee and appellant agreed that appellant should help with K.S.A.'s school work because he was educated in the United States; appellee was to help K.S.A. with her social and speech problems. Because most of appellee's work hours are in the evening, for the year before trial, appellant primarily helped K.S.A. with homework, made her dinner, and prepared her for bed. Appellee said when she tried to be more involved appellant often interfered. Appellee testified that she took K.S.A. to school most mornings.

Since she filed for divorce, appellant refused to let appellee see K.S.A. outside of his presence or to let K.S.A. speak with appellee's family outside of his presence and blocked her visitation attempts over Christmas. Appellee testified that in K.S.A.'s presence appellant used bad language and once shut her leg in a door hard enough to bruise it. According to appellee, appellant keeps K.S.A. out as late as 12:00 or 1:00 a.m. several times a week, even though she has to get up for school at 7:30 a.m. Appellee said her father had an Iranian company worth "millions of dollars," but disputed appellant's assertions that she had any financial interest in the company.

Appellant received two undergraduate engineering degrees and a masters degree from universities in California and Washington. Appellant testified that he owed about $600,000 to his father, mostly for school loans. In April 2001, appellant's father said he needed to have the money repaid due to health problems, so appellant wired a large sum of money and wrote his father forty-five checks each in the amount of $10,000. Appellant only had $200,000 in the account on which he wrote the $450,000 in checks and he testified that he planned to take out loans for the excess; he denied having other funds hidden anywhere. Appellant said he did not know appellee had filed or was going to file for divorce when he began sending his father money. Appellant testified that before appellee started working, he and appellee both cared for K.S.A., but since she started working he has been K.S.A.'s primary care giver. Appellant asked that appellee only be allowed to see K.S.A. at school or in his home and that she be required to undergo a psychological evaluation and therapy.

Appellant earns about $8,200 a month; his statutory net resources are about $5,680. Appellant states that his and K.S.A.'s expenses total $8,323, including at least $3,500 in payments to his father. Appellee earns about $1,200 a month, her statutory net resources are about $1,040, and her monthly expenses total $4,670.

Sherrie Bevis, K.S.A.'s special education teacher, testified that K.S.A. is autistic and speech impaired. Bevis said changes in routines could be disruptive and it would "make the most sense" to schedule shared custody arrangements "so that it was taking place over a period like during the summer when there's not school when it wouldn't be as disruptive to her education."

After hearing testimony, the trial court named appellee sole managing conservator, named appellant possessory conservator, and granted appellant substantial visitation.

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