Rebekah Muriel, V. Jonathan Farris

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided August 18, 2026·No. 60903-7·Unpublished

Opinion

Filed

Washington State

Court of Appeals

Division Two

August 18, 2026

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

DIVISION II

In the Matter of the Marriage of: No. 60903-7-II

REBEKAH MURIEL, Appellant,

and

JOHNATHAN DAVID FARRIS, UNPUBLISHED OPINION Respondent.

LEE, J. — Rebekah El-Asmar (formerly Muriel) appeals the February 7, 2025 parenting plan entered by the superior court following her petition for a major modification to a prior parenting plan. Specifically, Rebekah1 argues that the superior court abused its discretion when the court (1) failed to find that her former spouse, Jonathan Farris, had a history of domestic violence (DV); (2) ordered joint decision-making on certain decisions; (3) ordered Rebekah to continue mental health treatments; and (4) ordered Rebekah and Jonathan to pay for their own transportation costs.

We hold that the superior court did not abuse its discretion in its determination of Jonathan’s history of DV or in its decision relating to joint decision-making for extracurricular activities. Because Rebekah challenges her mental health counseling requirement for the first time

1 Much of the record on appeal refers to the parties by their first names. Additionally, Rebekah has since remarried and changed her surname. Thus, this opinion refers to the parties by their first names for clarity. No disrespect is intended.

on appeal, Rebekah has failed to preserve this issue for review. Finally, we hold that the superior court did not err when it ordered each parent to pay for their own transportation costs. Accordingly, we affirm the February 7, 2025 parenting plan.

FACTS

A. BACKGROUND Rebekah and Jonathan married in 2006. Rebekah and Jonathan have two children together, Z.F., born in 2014, and E.F., born in 2016. In September 2019, Rebekah filed for divorce. In November 2020, Rebekah and Jonathan agreed to a final parenting plan, and in December 2020, their divorce was finalized.

Based on the November 2020 parenting plan, Jonathan was the custodial parent. Jonathan and Rebekah had joint decision-making. The November 2020 parenting plan also provided for a reunification process between Rebekah and the children. B. FIRST PETITION FOR MAJOR MODIFICATION OF PARENTING PLAN In February 2021, Rebekah filed a petition for a minor change to the November 2020 parenting plan, and then in March 2021, filed a second petition requesting a major change to the November 2020 parenting plan. Rebekah’s petition for a major modification alleged that Z.F. and E.F.’s living situation with Jonathan was “harmful to their physical, mental, or emotional health.” Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 582. See generally RCW 26.09.260(2)(c).

On April 1, Jonathan was found in contempt for failing to obey the terms of the November 2020 parenting plan and December 2020 child support orders. Then, on April 7, the superior court commissioner found adequate cause to move forward with a full hearing regarding Rebekah’s request to change the November 2020 parenting plan.

In June 2021, Jonathan was again found in contempt for failing to obey the terms of the November 2020 parenting plan, this time for engaging in “[d]erogatory communications with [Rebekah].” CP at 48. The commissioner also entered a temporary family law order allowing Rebekah, who resided in San Diego, to take Z.F. and E.F. out of Washington during her summer residential time with the children.

In October 2021, Jonathan brought a contempt motion against Rebekah. Following a contempt hearing, the commissioner found that “[Jonathan] brought this motion for the purpose of retaliation against [Rebekah], after having twice been found in contempt himself” and that “[Jonathan was not] credible on any of the issues he presents in this motion.” CP at 56.

In December 2021, following a hearing, the superior court denied Rebekah’s petition for a major modification. In its oral ruling, the superior court stated:

Here, [Rebekah] has the burden to show that the present environment is detrimental; she has not met that burden. Even if I believed everything she said—

which, for the record, I don’t; I did not find her credible on a lot of issues—there’s still no proof of detriment to the [children].

I will not change primary custody. Not to say that there isn’t a lot of conflict.

I have credibility concerns regarding [Jonathan], as well. And I have concerns, based on his demeanor and manner demonstrated, even when silent on the Zoom platform, that he expresses a great deal of frustration, which is a little bit concerning.

CP at 85.

The superior court also noted the level of conflict between Rebekah and Jonathan:

The amount of conflict is very apparent and it’s a big part of all the contempt motions, the trial and everything else, having dealt with in court. Since the Parenting Plan [from] November 2020, we’re on the third court file. The amount

of pleadings has been astronomical. The current Parenting Plan is inherently unworkable. Now, and in the long run.

Here, we have two parents who cannot cooperate and get along for the best interest of the children. The majority of the evidence that was presented was about communication issues. And many of those were regarding the schedule, trying to set times or change times or dates. It definitely is a mutual conflict. There’s a lack of trust in each other.

CP at 86.

The superior court adjusted the November 2020 parenting plan, specifically regarding notice provisions, travel, and regular video calls with the nonresidential parent. The superior court then addressed Jonathan directly:

[Jonathan], there can be no more disparaging remarks. It is extremely troubling. It has been troubling to all the courts that have been hearing your case for the last two years. I understand that you hate [Rebekah], but she is the mother of your children. It has got to stop.

....

I would like things to calm down a little bit in the next few months.

And, [Jonathan], I will not hesitate to change custody on a temporary basis if the outward hostility, name calling, [and] disparaging remarks [do not] stop.

CP at 89-90.

The superior court also addressed claims regarding Rebekah and mental health issues. The superior court stated: “I’m not concerned with the previous potential diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. I am concerned with [Rebekah] continuing [her] therapy and with her medical management.” CP at 90.

On January 27, 2022, Rebekah and Jonathan appeared before the superior court for presentation of the updated parenting plan. Jonathan remained the custodial parent. Despite the

superior court’s comment during its oral ruling regarding Rebekah continuing mental health counseling, the superior court declined to make a written finding imposing that requirement.

At the presentation hearing, Jonathan and Rebekah disputed several aspects of the parenting plan. During the remotely held hearing, the superior court muted Jonathan based on Jonathan’s interruptions of the court. At the conclusion of the hearing, the superior court judge exited the Zoom platform while the parties continued to argue.

The superior court entered the new final parenting plan in January 2022.2 The January 2022 parenting plan did not impose any RCW 26.09.191 limits on either Jonathan or Rebekah and ordered joint decision-making regarding Z.F. and E.F. for major decisions. The visitation schedule provided in part that Z.F. and E.F. would reside with Rebekah in the summer, for the months of July and August. C. EVENTS FOLLOWING JANUARY 2022 PARENTING PLAN 1. Death Threat and Petition for Modification On February 4, 2022, Rebekah went to Jonathan’s residence to pick up several items of her property, as agreed to during the divorce proceedings. The items included guns that had belonged to Rebekah’s late father. Rebekah’s fiancé (now husband) and Jonathan’s brother were present as third-party witnesses.

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