R.E. v. H.F.

2017 Ohio 2815
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided May 12, 2017·No. L-16-1232·Published·Cited by 2 cases

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO SIXTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

LUCAS COUNTY

R.E. Court of Appeals No. L-16-1232 Appellant Trial Court No. JC 12223141 v. H.F. DECISION AND JUDGMENT Appellee Decided: May 12, 2017

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Laurel A. Kendall, for appellant.

Dan Nathan, for appellee.

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JENSEN, P.J.

{¶ 1} Father, R.E., appeals the judgment of the Lucas County Court of Common Pleas, Juvenile Division, granting mother’s, H.F., motion for custody of their minor child, M.E. For the reasons that follow, we affirm.

I. Facts and Procedural Background

{¶ 2} Father and mother are unmarried and have one child together, a daughter, M.E., who was born in 2010. In December 2013, father was designated the residential parent by agreement of the parties. Under the 2013 shared parenting agreement, M.E. resided with father during the school year, with mother to have parenting time on the weekends. During the summer, the arrangement would reverse and mother would have M.E. during the week, with father having parenting time on the weekends.

{¶ 3} On June 26, 2015, mother moved to modify the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities, seeking custody of M.E. Father responded by filing a motion to modify the terms of the transportation agreement, and for child support. A CASA was appointed, and the matter proceeded to a trial on March 25, 2016.

{¶ 4} At the trial, mother testified that she was currently unemployed and applying for social security disability for her diagnosed anxiety, bipolar, depression, ADHD, and ADD. She resided with her mother, and did not have a driver’s license. She testified that she was supported by her mother and by her fiancé, who would also provide her with transportation. In addition to M.E., mother has one other child, an eight-year-old, biracial daughter. Mother testified that the two children get along well.

{¶ 5} Mother also testified that at the time of the shared parenting agreement, father expressed a desire for M.E. to attend Maumee schools, where he resided, as opposed to Toledo Public schools, where mother resided. However, mother testified that since the shared parenting agreement, father has moved multiple times, and now resides in the Toledo Public school district. Mother further testified that father has two older sons, and that one of the sons was expelled from school.

{¶ 6} Mother stated that she believed father should not have sole custody of M.E.

because he has anger problems and “he’s really harsh on the kids.” Mother explained that father was physical, and that one time father got drunk and they got into an argument, and father gave mother a black eye and threw her outside with nothing but a shirt on. She added that another time father threatened to “f**k [her] up” because M.E. was twerking at his house. She also testified that father was sent to jail in 2014 for beating up his ex-girlfriend. Mother testified that, in general, father does not treat women well, and refers to them as “bitches and whores and hood rats and hoes and sluts,” which concerns her since he is raising her daughter.

{¶ 7} In addition to his treatment of women, mother testified that father often uses the term “nigger,” which concerns her because M.E.’s older sister is biracial. Mother further explained that when M.E. comes back from father’s house, M.E. will call everyone “bitches,” has used the word “nigger,” and has called mother “fig-nasty.”

{¶ 8} Finally, regarding her perception of father’s parenting, mother testified that she has observed him disciplining his two sons by punching them in their head, or by pushing their face and knocking them over.

{¶ 9} Father also testified at the trial, initially as on cross-examination. Father testified that he has only physically disciplined his children a few times, and it was because his oldest son had hit a girl. Father did acknowledge that his children physically fight, and he lets them fight until it goes too far, then he stops it. Father also conceded that since the December 2013 order, he has moved four or five times, and currently resides in the Toledo Public school district. In addition, father identified several posts from his Facebook account that contained crass, misogynistic, and racist memes, which he admitted he found funny. Father also admitted that he has used the term “nigger” when referring to black people, and that he texted mother “F**k you, I hope you choke and die on that nigger dick you have been sucking.” Further, regarding the text message wherein father threatened mother by saying “I’m going to f**k you up,” father testified that what came across was auto-corrected, and he intended to type “What the f**k is going on? Why is my daughter twerking.” Finally, father testified about circumstances that resulted in a recent domestic violence charge that was ultimately dismissed because the victim failed to appear. Father explained that he was drinking with his girlfriend at the time, he blacked out, and all he remembered was that he awoke with a black eye and scratches on his arms and legs, and that his girlfriend had a black eye. He offered that his girlfriend later told him that she kicked him into his computer and kicked him in his face, and then he hit her.

{¶ 10} On direct examination, father testified that he does not allow his sons to play rough with M.E., and that she has never been hurt while under his care. Father also explained his frequent moves, stating that he initially moved from the Maumee school district when his son was expelled for fighting, but offered that the son was actually defending another child from a bully. He then stayed at a place temporarily while he saved money, and then purchased a home which he moved out of and is now using as rental income. Concerning the Facebook posts, father testified that he is a very active user, but he does not let his children see his account, and his account is supposed to be private and therefore inaccessible to anyone other than his “friends.” Father testified that he has many posts of things about life, about kids, and about fathers and kids. Father also testified that “I am not racist in any way. I just use words.” Finally, father testified that he was upset about his daughter “twerking” because he understood it to be a sexual dance that is inappropriate for a child of M.E.’s age.

{¶ 11} Father also called the administrator of M.E.’s preschool as a witness. The administrator testified that M.E. does very well in school and has no problems getting along with other children of all ethnic and cultural backgrounds. The administrator also testified that mother has never met with the administrator or other staff, attended a parent-teacher conference or requested a conference, or contacted the preschool to get information about M.E.

{¶ 12} Lastly, the CASA testified. The CASA testified that as part of his investigation he visited both homes, interviewed both parents, and interviewed all of the siblings. The CASA found father’s home to be adequate, and did not find anything of concern regarding how M.E. is treated. On cross-examination, the CASA admitted that he did not complete an unannounced visit as requested by mother, explaining that he has had some personal issues that have vied for his time. He testified that, in his opinion, father’s racist statements, while “stupid and misogynistic,” would not have any effect on

M.E.’s best interests. Further, he testified that there is no indication that father’s lack of residential stability would continue. The CASA also acknowledged that M.E. expressed to him a desire to live with mother. Finally, the CASA testified that it was his recommendation that the current parenting arrangement be maintained, and nothing he heard during the trial changed his opinion.

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