People ex rel. Wilcox v. Wilcox

22 Barb. 178, 1854 N.Y. App. Div. LEXIS 178
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedSeptember 20, 1854
StatusPublished
Cited by21 cases

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People ex rel. Wilcox v. Wilcox, 22 Barb. 178, 1854 N.Y. App. Div. LEXIS 178 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1854).

Opinion

Mason, J.

This is a proceeding upon habeas corpus, instituted by the relator, to obtain possession and custody of her infant daughter, Theresa Wilcox, who was eight years of age in December last. The relator was married to Nathan B. Wilcox, a son of the respondent, in February, 1838, and who died in February last, leaving him surviving the relator, his wife, and two infant daughters, Theresa and Charlotte ; Charlotte being two years younger than Theresa. At the time and after the birth of Theresa, the relator was in such feeble health that she was [180]*180unable to have the care and charge of Theresa, and she was taken, when but a few weeks old, to the respondent’s, where she has remained ever since. Mrs. Wilcox, the wife of the respondent, has had the charge of her, assisted by her daughter. The grand parents and family have become very much attached to her. Nathan B. Wilcox became very intemperate; and in July, 1848, the relator’s father, Ira Wilcox, who resided in Oxford, Chenango county, took her from him and she ceased to cohabit or live with her husband from that time, who, it would seem from the evidence, continued to be very intemperate up to his death, and died of delirium tremens in February last. At the time the father of the relator took her home, in 1848, Theresa had been with her mother at Utica, her then residence, for a short time, and she was taken by the relator’s father to the respondent and left there under an agreement that he should pay $52 a year towards her support, and which sum he has paid every year since that time. It would seem from the evidence in the case, that the father of Theresa never made any legal disposition of the custody or guardianship of this child; and his declarations in regard to his desires as to the future custody of the child are quite inconsistent. If the respondent’s witnesses are to be credited—and we find no reason to disbelieve them—he verbally gave this child to his mother, the wife of the respondent, and enjoined upon the respondent and his wife that they should always take care of her and regard her as they would their own child. While on the contrary, the relator produces and proves letters written by him during the years 1852 and 1853, and some of them after it is alleged that he had given Theresa to her grand parents. In these letters he expresses a strong desire that his two daughters should be brought up together and by their mother, and in two of the letters at least, expresses a determination to take Theresa from her grand parents and commit her to her mother, the relator. In these letters to his wife he speaks of the difficulty of severing the ties of attachment which exist on the part of the grand parents towards this child, and says, “ I expect when the time comes for her to go, there will be a fuss.” It would seem [181]*181from this correspondence that the father desired that this child should be brought up by her mother and with her sister; and it is quite difficult to reconcile his letter of February 6th, 1852, with the idea that he preferred to commit the custody of this child to the respondent and his wife rather than to the relator. Ira Wilcox, the father of the relator, a man of fortune, died November 29,1852, making a very handsome provision in his will for the two children of the relator. They are to receive an annuity of $300 each,. until they attain the age of twelve years, when it is to be increased to $600, until they attain the age of twenty-one years, when they are each to receive a very handsome estate. The relator has an annuity under the will of her father of $1500. This annuity to these two children is by will placed in charge of the relator, “ to be expended by her in the nurture, maintenance and education of said children,” and this child has no other property. It seems from the evidence in the case, that after the father of the relator took her home in 1848, he interdicted all intercourse between the relator and her husband, unless short interviews were had in the presence of the family or of some members of it; and it seems from the evidence that the relator never visited the family of the respondent after she separated from her husband in 1848, until after the death of her husband and on the first of June last, when she went to obtain Theresa. She has seldom seen Theresa since 1848, and then only when she was brought to Oxford by her father on a visit for a few days. She swears, however, that she has always been desirous of obtaining her, and having the custody, nurture and education of her herself; and it. appears from the evidence, that in 1851 she made an effort to obtain her, and the consent of her father was obtained, but .the grand parents refused to let her go: the father all the while affirming that he was willing she should go if the grand parents were willing, ,but they refusing she was allowed to remain. The father of Theresa died on the 7th day of February last, while the relator was temporarily absent from the state and in Florida; and on the 10th day of February, but three days after the death of the father, the respondent, in the absence of [182]*182the relator from the state, was on petition to the surrogate of Oneida county appointed general guardian of Theresa. This appointment was made on the same day of the application and. without notice to any of the relations', although the application shows that there were relations living in the county of Oneida.

It appears from the testimony given before me, upon this investigation, that the relator is a lady of refinement and education, entirely competent to have the nurture and education of her children committed to her; and it .appears quite satisfactory, from the evidence, that the child has been uncommonly well cared for in the family of the respondent, and that they are very much attached to the child, and the child very much attached to them ; and I entertain no doubt but the wife of the respondent has proved herself a faithful mother to the child, and that she is entirely competent to the proper discharge of all the duties of nurture and training, which the interest of this child may require. And I entertain as little doubt, from the evidence before me, that no detriment can arise to this child from any want of respectability of the family in which she has been thus far reared. The respondent and his family have maintained a respectable standing and position in society, and the long acquiescence of the relator and her father in the residence of this child in the respondent’s family implies all this. I do not attach very much importance to the unguarded, and to say the least, highly improper and violent expression of the respondent at the time the relator called with Mr. Mygatt to obtain her child. They were words spoken under a very high state of excitement, and it is but charitable to attribute them to an outburst of uncontrollable feeling. I cannot think the respondent is a man of general profanity, or of ungovernable passions. The relator having resided in his family must have known him well, and if such had been the case I cannot think she would have consented to have the child remain so long in his family; and we should reasonably expect that if such was the case, some general evidence at least of the fact would have been given on this investigation. The case is not one free from embarrassments, as to the duty of the court in regard to the determination which-[183]*183should be made as to the"custody of the child. I found, on examining the child, that she most decidedly prefers to remain where she is, with her grand parents. She expressed herself very decided in her preference.

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