Mercein v. People ex rel. Barry

25 Wend. 63
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedDecember 15, 1840
StatusPublished
Cited by121 cases

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Bluebook
Mercein v. People ex rel. Barry, 25 Wend. 63 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1840).

Opinion

After advisement, the following opinion was delivered in the supreme court:

By the CoiCrt,

Bronson, J.

We have so recently considered some of the questions which arise in this case, that it cannot be necessary to examine them much at large on the present occasion. Nothing which fell from the respondent’s counsel has shaken the opinion we have heretofore expressed, that in these unhappy controversies between husband and wife, the former, [57]*57if he chooses to assert his right, has the better title to the custody of their minor children. The law regards him as the head of the family ; obliges him to provide for its wants; and commits the children to his charge, in preference to the claims of the mother or any other person. The People v. Chegaray, 18 Wend. 637. The People ex rel. Nickerson, 19 Wend. 16, and cases cited. See also The King v. Greenhill, 4 Ad. & Ellis 624. The King v. Isley, 5 Ad. & Ellis, 441. Whatever sympathy we may feel for this lady, or however strongly we may wish that the relator had relinquished his claim to one of the two children, we have no choice but to administer the law as we find it.

In cases of voluntary separation between husband and wife, there must of necessity be some legal rule in relation to the custody of their minor children ; without it, the matter would probably be determined by force. This would be likely to widen the breach between the parties ; and if it did not endanger the personal safety of the children, it could hardly fail to alienate their affections from one or both of the contending parties. Whether the common law has given a just and proper rule, or whether a better might not be devised *are questions which do not address them- [ *73 ] selves to our consideration.

On habeas corpus, the court usually does no more than to relieve the party from all improper restraint. But in the case of children of such tender years as to be unable to elect for themselves, an order is made in relation to their custody.

The right of the father may be forfeited by misconduct, or lost by misfortune : and when he attempts to assert it by habeas corpus, the court exercises a discretion, having regard to the welfare of the children, and may leave them in the custody of the mother or some other person, in preference to the claims of the father. Matter of McDowles, 8 John. 328. Matter of Waldron, 13 John. 418. Matter of Wollstonecraft, 4 John. Ch. R. 80. But this is not an arbitrary discretion or a license to do what we please in relation to the custody. On the contrary, I deem it well settled, that, in the absence any positive disqualification on the part of the father, for the proper discharge of his parental duties, and when there is no other special reason, touching the welfare of the children, for preferring the mother, the father has a paramount right to the custody, which no court is at liberty to disregard.

In taking into consideration the probable welfare of the children, we do not presume, without proof, that it will be best promoted by preferring the mother. The law has settled that question the other way, by preferring the father. His claim cannot be set aside upon light grounds, or upon mere conjecture that the interests of the children require it. He must be chargeable with such grossly immoral conduct, as shows him plainly disqualified for the [58]*58proper discharge of parental duties; or else it must appear, that, in consequence, of disease or some other misfortune, he wants either the capacity or the means for the proper training of the children, according to their circumstances and expectations in life. And whatever may be the objections to the father, they cannot prevail, if the same objection, or others of the like magnitude, can be urged against the mother. In short, the claim of the father is preferred, until it plainly appears that the interests of the children require it to be set aside.

[ *74 ] *In settling the question of custody, we. have nothing to do with the causes which led to the separation of the husband and wife, except as those causes affect personal character, and touch the qualifications of the parties for the proper exercise of the parental office. If we go beyond that, we violate a principle which lies at the foundation of the whole matter, by overlooking the welfare of the children, for the purpose of punishing one of their parents.

In this case, the respondent appended to his return before Judge Inglis, an affidavit made Mrs. Barry, when the parties were before the recorder; and another affidavit made by her when the matter was before the chancellor. Aside from these affidavits, there is not a particle of evidence going to impeach the relator’s title to the custody of the child. Indeed, he stands before the court chargeable with no fault, while the wife is without a shadow of excuse for the desertion of her husband.

There is a serious objection against receiving these affidavits, except in cases where the party seeks protection against personal violence, the general rule certainly is, that the husband and wife cannot be witnesses against each other; and. I have never been able to get over the difficulty which I felt in The People v. Chegaray, 18 Wend. 637, concerning the admissibility of such evidence. Where there has been no act or threat of personal violence, it can rarely, if ever, answer any valuable end in the administration of justice, to inquire into those little difficulties and private griefs, which sometimes exist between husband and wife ; and spreading their differences before the world could hardly fail to widen the breach between the parties, and put an end to all hopes of reconciliation. This would be so, if the proof came from other sources ; but it would be much worse, if the parties were suffered to become mutual accusers of each other.

But in the view I have taken of the case, it is unnecessary to pass definitively upon the admissibility of such evidence. On looking into these affidavits we find that Mrs. Barry, entertained suspicions against her husband, and complains of unkind treatment. Her suspicions are wholly unsupported by proof; and'if we read hercomplaints in connection with the re- [ *75 ] butting *evidence from other sources, we cannot but see that she was as much at fault as her husband, in the angry controversies [59]*59which sometimes sprung up between them; And if we lay the rebutting evidence entirely out of the case, on the ground that it was not received by the judge, and then make but a reasonable allowance for the probable coloring of an interested and excited party, there is nothing in the affidavit of the wife laying a proper foundation for rejecting the husband’s claim to the custody of the child. Mrs. Barry, taking her own statements and rejecting all explanations, has made out nothing like a case for asking a divorce, either absolute or limited; and although she has cause of complaint against her husband, there is no reason to doubt that he is as ¡.well qualified as she is for the proper discharge of parental duties. That is enough to settle the question of custody in his favor; especially in a case where it does not appear, that the child has any expectations in the way of property or advancement on the part of the mother, which will be lost by yielding to the claim of the father.

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