Pellegrin v. Pellegrin

1998 SD 19, 574 N.W.2d 644, 1997 S.D. LEXIS 139
CourtSouth Dakota Supreme Court
DecidedFebruary 25, 1998
DocketNone
StatusPublished
Cited by29 cases

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Pellegrin v. Pellegrin, 1998 SD 19, 574 N.W.2d 644, 1997 S.D. LEXIS 139 (S.D. 1998).

Opinions

AMUNDSON, Justice.

[¶ 1.] Warren K. Pellegrin (Warren) filed for divorce against Norma L. Pellegrin (Norma) on the grounds of irreconcilable differences and requested an equitable division of the parties’ property and debts. Norma filed a counterclaim seeking a divorce on alternative grounds of irreconcilable differences and extreme mental cruelty. The trial court granted Warren a divorce on the grounds of extreme cruelty, denied Norma’s request for a divorce on the grounds of extreme cruelty, and made an equitable division of the property and debts. Norma appeals. We affirm.

FACTS

[¶ 2.] Warren and Norma Pellegrin were married in 1975. Warren was seventy and Norma was sixty-three years old at the time of trial. Warren and Norma both had been previously married and have five and six adult children, respectively. They have no children by this marriage.

[¶ 3.] At the time of their marriage, Warren was a graduate of SDSU and a school teacher, earning approximately $7,000 per year. Warren retired from teaching in 1991. In addition to teaching full time, he worked on the ranch at Enning, South Dakota, where the couple came to live within the first years of their marriage. Norma had a high school degree and worked two jobs — as a cook at [646]*646the school and nights as a waitress. Norma also helped out on the ranch, including mowing and raking hay during the summer. Norma eventually acquired a college degree during the marriage and has been employed continuously as a school teacher since 1991.

[¶ 4.] Warren and Norma have contrasting states of health. On the one hand, Warren has suffered from poor health. During the past six months, he has suffered from congestive heart failure and also a slight stroke. His poor health condition has caused him to retire from active ranching. On the other hand, Norma enjoys good health.

[¶ 5.] The parties each brought assets into the marriage. Warren’s notable assets at that time included 560 acres of pasture and cropland, eighteen cows and a pickup. Warren’s net worth was reduced by debts of approximately $17,000. Norma owned a trailer home in Wall with an addition added to it, a 1975 Pontiac, and substantial amounts in CD’s, savings and checking accounts.

[¶ 6.] The ranch operation grew during the marriage. The parties purchased 80 acres of land from Warren’s brother and 320 acres of pasture at Marcus (Marcus land), tripled their cattle herd, built buildings and improvements, and planted trees.

[¶ 7.] Eventually, the marriage became strained and Warren filed for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences along with a request for a division of the parties’ property. Norma counterclaimed, seeking divorce on alternative grounds of irreconcilable differences and extreme mental cruelty, and requested a property division as well. Warren stipulated that the decree of divorce could be entered in favor of both parties on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. However, Norma would not give her consent to a divorce on those grounds at the trial before the court on September 26 and 27, 1996. She stated she did not want a divorce, that she was too old to go through one, and that she filed for divorce just to protect herself. After refusing to stipulate to the divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences at trial, counsel for Norma allowed Warren to lay grounds for an alternative theory for the divorce. Warren then proceeded with evidence in support of a divorce based on extreme cruelty.

[¶ 8.] The trial court granted Warren a divorce on grounds of extreme cruelty and denied Norma’s counterclaim on the same grounds. The court also found the value of the marital estate to be $222,355, after excluding a premarital allowance of $28,000 for Warren’s family ranch1 and a premarital allowance for the value of a trust of which Norma was a beneficiary.2 The assets representing the $222,355 were divided by the court into substantially equal shares for each party. Norma brought this appeal raising the foliowing issues:

I. Whether Norma established grounds for a divorce on the basis of extreme mental cruelty.

II. Whether the trial court’s division of property and debts of the marriage was an abuse of discretion.

STANDARD OF REVIEW

[¶ 9.] “Findings of fact are not set aside unless this court finds them to be clearly erroneous; and we must give ‘due regard’ to the opportunity of the trial court ‘to judge the credibility of the witnesses.’ ” Osman v. Keating-Osman, 521 N.W.2d 655, 657 (S.D.1994) (citation omitted).

[¶ 10.] A trial court’s division of property will not be overturned by this court unless it appears the trial court abused its discretion. Billion v. Billion, 1996 SD 101, ¶ 14, 553 N.W.2d 226, 230; DeVRIES v. DeVRIES, 519 N.W.2d 73, 75 (S.D.1994). “The term ‘abuse of discretion’ refers to a discretion exercised to an end or purpose not justified by, and clearly against, reason and evi[647]*647dence.” DeVRIES, 519 N.W.2d at 75 (citing Gross v. Gross, 355 N.W.2d 4, 7 (S.D.1984)). The determination is not “whether we would have made the same ruling, but whether ‘a judicial mind, in view of the law and the circumstances of the particular case, could reasonably have reached such a conclusion.’ ” Id. (citing Steffens v. Peterson, 503 N.W.2d 254, 257 (S.D.1993)).

DECISION

[¶ 11.] I. Norma’s Claim of Extreme Mental Cruelty

[¶ 12.] As a preliminary matter, we note that Norma’s brief on this issue strays from the discussion of Norma’s claim for divorce to the propriety of the court granting Warren a divorce. Shortly thereafter, however, she admits that she “does not argue the issue of whether Warren should have been granted a divorce. She requested the divorce be granted to both parties on the grounds of extreme mental cruelty. The issue is the trial court’s denial of a divorce to her on grounds of extreme mental cruelty.” Moreover, her own proposed findings of fact did not contest the fact that Warren is entitled to a divorce on the basis of extreme mental cruelty. Even were we to ignore her stated waiver of the issue of Warren’s grant of divorce, Norma’s failure to cite any authority on this issue effectively waives it. Zens v. Chicago, Milwaukee, St. Paul & Pac., 479 N.W.2d 155, 159 (S.D.1991) (citation omitted). Therefore, we proceed to the issue of Norma’s claim for divorce on the basis of extreme mental cruelty.

[¶ 13.] “Extreme cruelty is the infliction of ... grievous mental suffering upon the other, by one party to the marriage.” SDCL 25-4-4. “In a marital setting, the definition of extreme cruelty differs according to the personalities of the parties involved.” Schaack v. Schaack, 414 N.W.2d 818, 820 (S.D.1987) (citing Brandsma v. Brandsma, 318 N.W.2d 318, 318 (S.D.1982)). The trial court found that Norma failed to meet her burden of proof to show extreme mental cruelty. Norma’s testimony before the trial court was marked by her repeated statements that she did not want a divorce, but the record reflects very little evidence that could support a finding that Warren had engaged in extreme mental cruelty.

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