Patton v. Patton

337 S.E.2d 607, 78 N.C. App. 247, 1985 N.C. App. LEXIS 4318
CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedDecember 17, 1985
Docket8514DC153
StatusPublished
Cited by21 cases

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Patton v. Patton, 337 S.E.2d 607, 78 N.C. App. 247, 1985 N.C. App. LEXIS 4318 (N.C. Ct. App. 1985).

Opinions

BECTON, Judge.

I

Plaintiff-wife, Shirley Patton, filed her complaint against defendant-husband, David Patton, on 5 February 1982, seeking a pendente lite award of alimony, custody, child support, and attorney’s fees. The trial court entered an order awarding the wife custody of the children, possession of the marital residence, $500 per month child support, $500 per month alimony pendente lite, and $4,000 in attorney’s fees. The husband filed an answer and counterclaim in which he sought an absolute divorce. The wife filed a reply and cross-action, wherein an equitable distribution of marital property was sought. A judgment of absolute divorce was entered on 1 December 1983, reserving the issues of child support, alimony, attorney’s fees, and equitable distribution.

The reserved issues came on for hearing in May and June of 1984, and by judgment entered 28 August 1984, the wife was awarded $1,000 per month permanent alimony on grounds of abandonment, $500 per month child support, the marital residence and personalty contained therein, and $3,000 attorney’s fees. The husband was awarded his interest in two businesses, any retirement money taken from these businesses, and any personalty already removed from the marital residence. Husband filed a post-hearing motion to alter, amend or modify this judgment, which was denied. From the order entered on the reserved issues and from the order denying his post-hearing motion, husband appeals, alleging that the trial court committed reversible error in (1) concluding the wife was abandoned by the husband; (2) failing [250]*250to specifically find the husband’s income at the time of the hearing; (3) making certain findings relating to the equitable distribution of marital assets; (4) awarding attorney’s fees; and (5) denying the husband’s post-hearing motion. We find no merit in any of these arguments with the exception of the award of attorney’s fees. We remand this cause so that proper findings of fact can be made on the attorney’s fees issue.

II

The parties were married in Pennsylvania in 1959. They had four children, one of whom was still a minor at the time of the hearing. When they married, husband had received his college degree and had begun his career as a teacher. Shortly thereafter, the wife received her degree in elementary education, and for the first few years of the marriage was employed in that field. From about 1963 until she took a part-time job in the year before their separation, the wife worked as a homemaker. In 1962, the family moved to Durham, North Carolina, where the husband took a job selling industrial products. In 1966, the husband started an industrial equipment supply company called Pateo, Inc., along with his brother Richard. The husband’s involvement with Pateo as both vice-president and sales representative constituted both his primary business interest and the primary source of income for the parties throughout the marriage.

Although the parties described the history of their marital relationship somewhat differently, they generally agreed that there had been some'good and happy times interspersed with unhappy ones and crises; that they had discussed separation on several occasions before 1981; and that from about 1980 on, the relationship began to seriously deteriorate. This deterioration culminated on 8 March 1981 when, upon husband’s return from the ACC Basketball Tournament, the wife confronted him with her suspicions that he was involved with another woman. Husband left the marital home that night and has not resided there since.

III

The husband first contends that the trial court erred in concluding that he abandoned his wife. N.C. Gen. Stat. Sec. 50-16.2(4) (1984) provides that a dependent spouse is entitled to alimony [251]*251when the supporting spouse abandons the dependent spouse. Abandonment is a legal conclusion which must be based upon factual findings supported by competent evidence. See Steele v. Steele, 36 N.C. App. 601, 244 S.E. 2d 466 (1978). Although there is no statutory definition of abandonment, it has been judicially defined thus:

One spouse abandons the other, within the meaning of the statute, where he or she brings their cohabitation to an end without justification, without the consent of the other spouse and without intent of renewing it.

Panhorst v. Panhorst, 277 N.C. 664, 670-71, 178 S.E. 2d 387, 392 (1971). The burden of proof as to each of the elements of abandonment is on the party seeking alimony. Heilman v. Heilman, 24 N.C. App. 11, 210 S.E. 2d 69 (1974). Each case must be determined in large measure upon its own particular circumstances. Tan v. Tan, 49 N.C. App. 516, 272 S.E. 2d 11 (1980), disc. rev. denied, 302 N.C. 402, 279 S.E. 2d 356 (1981).

Although there is no dispute that the husband had no intent to return to the marital home after 8 March 1981, he contends that the evidence conclusively shows justification for his departure and his wife’s consent thereto. Conceding that an “all-embracing” definition cannot be formulated, our Supreme Court has made the following comments on justification:

Ordinarily, . . . the withdrawing spouse is not justified in leaving the other unless the conduct of the latter is such as would likely render it impossible for the withdrawing spouse to continue the marital relation with safety, health, and self-respect ....

Caddell v. Caddell, 236 N.C. 686, 691, 73 S.E. 2d 923, 926 (1953). The evidence in this case at most discloses a marital relationship that was sometimes rocky and a sexual relationship which, in the husband’s estimation, left something to be desired. It does not reveal a situation which the husband was compelled to leave for reasons of “safety, health, and self-respect.”

By way of contrast, in Heilman, the evidence showed a nonexistent sex life, a wife deeply hypercritical of her mate, and a husband whose stomach ailments and insomnia disappeared when he left the marital home. According to this Court, “all of the [252]*252evidence [depicted] a marriage totally lacking in conjugal harmony,” 24 N.C. App. at 16, 210 S.E. 2d at 72, and supported a finding of justification. At bar, the trial court’s findings, based upon competent evidence, were that throughout the marriage the wife was a capable homemaker and good mother; that the couple enjoyed recreational activities with family and mutual friends; and that when problems arose in the relationship, the wife sought counseling for the couple. Thus, the wife met her burden of proof for lack of justification for the husband’s departure.

On the issue of the wife’s consent to her husband’s departure, the following findings of fact made by the trial court are pertinent:

Sensing there were difficulties in the marriage and beginning in May of 1980, the [wife] sought counselling. . . . At the request of his wife, the [husband] attended a couple of the sessions, but no more [, w]hile the [wife] continued, both prior to and subsequent to the separation that occurred, to seek counselling in efforts to try to determine if there were methods by which she could take steps so that the marriage could be improved or saved.
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