Pattberg v. Pattberg

130 Misc. 2d 893, 497 N.Y.S.2d 251, 1985 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 3281
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedDecember 4, 1985
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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Pattberg v. Pattberg, 130 Misc. 2d 893, 497 N.Y.S.2d 251, 1985 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 3281 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1985).

Opinion

OPINION OF THE COURT

William R. Geiler, J.

Defendant moves for an order staying a hearing on modification of support pursuant to Domestic Relations Law §248 pending a determination as to the constitutionality and enforceability of said statute which provides in pertinent part as follows: "The court in its discretion upon application of the husband on notice, upon proof that the wife is habitually living with another man and holding herself out as his wife, although not married to such man, may modify such final judgment and any orders made with respect thereto by annulling the provisions of such final judgment or orders or of both, directing payment of money for the support of such wife.” The [894]*894phrase "habitually living with another man and holding herself out as his wife” has previously given rise to some controversy and the question of what conduct on the part of the ex-wife was sufficient to satisfy the statute had long troubled the courts (see, Matter of Anonymous, 90 Misc 2d 801 [Fam Ct, Nassau County 1977]; Levine v Levine, 79 Misc 2d 149 [Sup Ct, Kings County 1974]; Citron v Citron, 91 Misc 2d 785 [Sup Ct, Nassau County 1977]; Stern v Stern, 88 Misc 2d 860 [Sup Ct, Nassau County 1976]; Bliss v Bliss, 107 AD2d 394 [1st Dept 1985]).

The requirement of "habitually living with another man” consists of three elements. The first is the duration of the ex-wife’s relationship; this is, what length of time constitutes "habitually”. Although no minimum length of time has been specified by the courts or by the Legislature, this element requires more than an intermittent intimacy and will not be fulfilled if the ex-wife merely spends a night or weekend with another man (see, Matter of Watson, 39 AD2d 660 [1st Dept 1972]). Relationships of five years, one year, nine months and six months have been held sufficient to satisfy this element (Bliss v Bliss, supra; Stern v Stern, supra; Krawczuk v Krawczuk, 49 AD2d 1003 [4th Dept 1975]; Northrup v Northrup, 52 AD2d 1093 [4th Dept 1976], revd 43 NY2d 566 [1978]). The second element, "living with”, involves the character of the relationship and, although the scope of this element has not clearly been determined, it apparently does not extend to the situation where the ex-wife is merely sharing an apartment or house with another man in the manner of a roommate or housemate (see, Citron v Citron, 91 Misc 2d 785 [Sup Ct, Nassau County 1977], supra; Matter of Anonymous, supra; Stern v Stern, supra). The ex-wife must also have a sexual relationship with the man with whom she is living (Citron v Citron, supra; Stem v Stern, supra). A review of the cases in which an annulment of a maintenance award has been granted reveals a common pattern where the ex-wife and her "POSSLQ” (a "POSSLQ” is [are] two persons of the opposite sex sharing living quarters; see, Bureau of Census, US Dept of Commerce, Statistical Abstract of United States, at 44-45 [1980]; see also, Oldham, Cohabitation by an Alimony Recipient Revisited, 20 J Fam L 615, 646) shared living accommodations, slept together, ate together, shared expenses and generally conducted themselves as a couple (Note, Northrup v Northrup: Termination of Alimony under Section 248 of New York’s Domestic Relations Law, 43 Alb L [895]*895Rev 967 [1979]). The third element requires that the ex-wife’s relationship be with another man. The statute specifically refers to a heterosexual relationship and it has been held that allegations of an ex-wife’s homosexual relationship cannot provide a basis for the termination of alimony pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 248 (People ex rel. Kenney v Kenney, 76 Misc 2d 927 [Sup Ct, NY County 1974]).

Before a former husband can obtain relief under Domestic Relations Law § 248, a second requirement must be fulfilled. He must show that his former wife is representing herself as the wife of the man with whom she lives (Northrup v Northrup, supra). Northrup has established that a presumption of "holding out” based solely upon habitually living together is unjustified (43 NY2d 566, 571 [1978], supra). The court specifically emphasized that Domestic Relations Law § 248 consists of a two-part test and that both elements must be proved. Some "assertive conduct” on the part of the ex-wife is needed in addition to habitually living with another man in order to find that a "holding out” has occurred (supra, p 571).

Aside from New York, 10 States have enacted statutes providing for modification or termination of alimony payments upon a showing that the recipient spouse is living or cohabiting with another person (see, Ala Code § 30-2-55; Cal Civ Code § 4801.5; Conn Gen Stats Ann § 46b-86; Ga Code Ann § 19-6-19; Ill Ann Stats, ch 40, § 510 [b]; La Civ Code Ann art 160; Okla Stats Ann, tit 12, § 1289 [D]; Pa Stats Ann, tit 23, § 507; Tenn Code Ann § 36-5-101 [a] [3]; Utah Code Ann § 30-3-5 [6]). These statutes vary substantially in their requirements and effects. Some automatically terminate alimony upon proof of cohabitation (La, Ill, Pa), while others allow modification instead of termination (Cal, Conn, Ga, Okla, Tenn). In some States proof of cohabitation and proof of changed financial circumstances are necessary to warrant alimony modification (Cal, Conn, Tenn) and in two States (Cal, Tenn) proof of cohabitation creates a rebuttable presumption that financial circumstances have changed (see, Note, Alimony, Cohabitation and the Wages of Sin: A Statutory Analysis, 33 Ala L Rev 577 [1982]; Note, Alimony Modification and Cohabitation in North Carolina, 63 NC L Rev 794 [1985]).

The courts of these States passing anticohabitation statutes have uniformly dismissed constitutional attacks launched against them (see, Ivey v Ivey, 378 So 2d 1151 [Ala Civ App 1979] [equal protection attack dismissed]; Sims v Sims, 245 Ga 680, 266 SE2d 493 [1980] [equal protection and due process [896]*896challenges dismissed based on State’s interest in the institution of marriage]; Morris v Morris, 244 Ga 120, 259 SE2d 65 [1979]; Roberts v Roberts, 657 P2d 153 [Okla 1983]). In New York, constitutional challenges have either been dismissed or not entertained (Matter of Hall v Hall, 82 Misc 2d 814 [Fam Ct, Schenectady County 1975], affd 55 AD2d 752 [3d Dept 1976] [constitutional challenge rejected because court can rationally distinguish between persons merely living together in temporary liaison and those living in a more permanent relationship as described in the statute]; Waddey v Waddey, 290 NY 251 [1943] [statute found prospective only and due process challenge not entertained]; Gallin v Gallin, Sup Ct, NY County, Mar. 10, 1977, No. 33710/74 [unconstitutionality argument not reached]; Matter of Wood v Wood, 104 Misc 2d 109 [Fam Ct, Queens County 1980] [Domestic Relations Law § 248 equally available to a wife to bar support of a husband proven to be living with another woman and holding himself as married to her; statute may be construed as gender neutral to preserve its constitutionality]; Note, Alimony Modification: Cohabitation of Ex-Wife with Another Man, 7 Hofstra L Rev 471 [1979]).

The success of a constitutional challenge to New York’s termination-of-alimony statute on equal protection grounds will depend on the level of scrutiny the reviewing court chooses to apply to the classification established by the statute.

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