Parker v. Parker

946 So. 2d 480, 2006 WL 1719938
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedJune 23, 2006
Docket2040696
StatusPublished
Cited by54 cases

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Parker v. Parker, 946 So. 2d 480, 2006 WL 1719938 (Ala. Ct. App. 2006).

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Kelly Frances Parker ("the mother"), sued her husband, Robert Charles Parker ("the father"), for a divorce in July 2003, alleging, in part, an incompatibility of temperament and an irretrievable bre kdown of the marriage as grounds for the divorce. The trial court entered a final judgment on April 19, 2005, divorcing the parties, awarding custody of the parties' two children to the father, granting the mother visitation rights, and dividing the marital property; the trial court reserved ruling on the issue of child support due to the mother's "apparent" lack of income.

The mother timely filed a notice of appeal on April 22, 2005, three days after the entry of the judgment. Thirty days after the entry of the judgment, the father filed *Page 482 a postjudgment motion to alter or amend the judgment. The trial court denied the father's postjudgment motion 62 days later, on July 20, 2005. The father then cross-appealed, timely filing his own notice of appeal 14 days later, on August 3, 2005.

I. Factual Background
The parties married in January 1991. The parties had two daughters born to them during the marriage; the older daughter was born in 1994, and the younger daughter was born in 1997. At the time of the trial, the father was 34 years old, and the mother was 38 years old.

The parties have been separated since 1998. From the time of the parties' separation until two months before trial, the mother has had physical custody of the children, without a court order, but with the father's consent. The father has had custody of the children on the weekends (at least for several years), during spring break, and one month during the summer. The mother has custody of her sister's child, who was placed with her seven years before the trial in this matter by the Georgia counterpart to the Alabama Department of Human Resources ("DHR"), with the cooperation of DHR.

The mother testified that the father was abusive and that he had struck her on several occasions. On the other hand, the father testified that the mother had struck him many times and that she had done so as often as once or twice a week. The father also testified that when he had struck the mother it was in self-defense.

Testimony at trial by several witnesses indicated that the mother has a history of crude confrontations with neighbors, other parents at the children's school, and school officials. One neighbor testified that she had been confronted by the mother, whom she had never met before, as she was leaving her house. The neighbor stated that the mother had approached her and, using vulgar language, had accused her of having sexual intercourse with the father. The neighbor testified that, at the time, the mother was with two children whom the neighbor assumed to be the mother's children.

The principal at the school the parties' children attended testified that she discussed with the mother several concerns the principal had regarding incidents at the school. The principal testified that one incident concerned the mother's blocking traffic as she confronted another parent over problems one of the parties' children had with that parent's child in school. Another incident concerned the mother's allegedly berating another child and that child's mother over the telephone, and then in person. Following an additional incident in which the mother went to the principal's office and loudly complained about the mistreatment she felt the parties' children were receiving from other children in school, the principal wrote a letter to the mother that provided rules for the mother's conduct at the school campus, the violation of which, the principal warned, could "result in [her] arrest by the Hoover Police Department." The principal wrote that she was prompted to take these actions by "recent events that have occurred during the past two weeks involving [the mother] on Green Valley Elementary school grounds as well as the fact we have students afraid to come to school because of these incidents." The principal testified that the mother is the only parent to whom she has ever had to write such a letter.

Additionally, the parties' children were often absent from school without an excuse. One of the children, the father testified, was absent from school 14 times during the then current school year, while the other child was absent 22 times. *Page 483

Although there was testimony at trial indicating that the father was not an ideal parent, there was also ample testimony indicating that the father loved his children and made a concerted effort to provide for their well-being. The father testified that after the parties' separation, he voluntarily paid child support to the mother in the amount of about $750 to $800 a month. Eventually, the father testified, he had to declare bankruptcy. At the time of the trial, the father was paying $615 per month in child support and living in a small efficiency apartment. Evidently concerned that he would need more living space, the father stated that he had recently located an available two-bedroom apartment into which he and the children could move in the event he obtained custody of the children and no longer had to pay child support to the mother.

The father's testimony indicates that he provided more than monetary support for the children; he would often take the children on trips to the beach, to Chattanooga, Tennessee, to the Space and Rocket Center in Huntsville, and to Gulf Shores during the time he had with them. The father also cooked, cleaned, and otherwise provided for the children when they were with him. Indeed, the father's conduct toward the children was such that the mother testified that she has never expressed any objection to the children visiting the father and if she were awarded custody that she would have no problem with the children continuing to visit the father.

Regarding the parties' employment, the father testified that he had been employed at an automobile dealership for the seven years preceding the trial as an automotive technician. He also testified that he did not graduate from high school and that he has not obtained a GED. He earns an average of $3,200 per month.

The father also testified that he leaves for work at about 7:30 in the morning and returns home by about 6:00 at night. Acknowledging the difficulty in caring for the children while he worked, the father testified that he has looked into some church programs and after-school programs for the children. The father stated on his CS-41 Child Support Obligation/Income Affidavit form that his monthly employment income was $3,567.75, and that he pays $569 per month for the children's health insurance.

Although the mother stated on her CS-41 form that she was unemployed, she also, on the same form, indicated that her income from employment was $975 per month. Later, at trial, the mother testified that, at the time she completed her CS-41 form, she was, in fact, employed. Her testimony was as follows:

"Q. [attorney for the father] Do you recall signing a CS-41 on your income and your employment information on January the 12th [2005]?

"A. [the mother] Yes, ma'am.

"Q. Do you recall signing an affidavit stating that you were not currently employed?

"A. Yes, ma'am.

"Q. But you were?

"A. At that time, no, I wasn't. I don't know the exact date I started babysitting. I was not employed when I came to court.

". . . .

"Q. [attorney for the father] Well, January 12th was like a Wednesday, so do you recall also on your affidavit you didn't have any employment wages?

"Q. So January 12th, according to your witness, you were being paid $150 a week to work for her?

"A. No, ma'am, I had not gotten paid.

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