Osman v. Al Jaher

790 S.E.2d 751, 2016 N.C. App. LEXIS 732, 2016 WL 3896318
CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedJuly 19, 2016
DocketNo. COA 15–1170.
StatusPublished

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Osman v. Al Jaher, 790 S.E.2d 751, 2016 N.C. App. LEXIS 732, 2016 WL 3896318 (N.C. Ct. App. 2016).

Opinion

STEPHENS, Judge.

Defendant Jamal Hassan Al Jaher appeals from a domestic violence order of protection ("DVPO") entered against him in Guilford County District Court. Al Jaher argues the district court erred in finding that he placed his wife, Plaintiff Wafa Osman, in fear of imminent serious bodily injury, and in concluding that he committed an act of domestic violence against her. We affirm the district court's order.

Facts and Procedural Background

On 1 May 2015, Osman filed a complaint and motion for DVPO against Al Jaher, alleging generally:

In January of this year, [my] husband and I separated, and I moved to a different residence. Since that time, he has continued to harass me whenever I go to pick up our daughter from his residence. His actions include coming out to the car and yelling at me, not allowing me to leave when I desire, and generally threatening me. I am very afraid of Jamal. Throughout our 27 year relationship he physically and emotionally abused me. He punched me, smacked me, kicked me, burned me, and he even poured trash on me.

Osman further alleged:

[O]n April 19, 2015, I went to pick our daughter, Fatima, up from his residence, and he came out to the car and began ranting again. While he was doing so, Fatima came out of the house and got in my car at which point I tried to leave. However, he went and stood behind the car and said if I wanted to leave I could hit him.... Once I said [that I was calling the police], he ran to the passenger side door, opened it up, and pulled Fatima out of the car and dragged her in the house. As he was dragging her in the house, he yelled that I did not have a daughter anymore. My son called me 3 days later and told me to come pick her up. He said she hadn't eaten because of her nerves, and was ill. When I went to pick her up, my son and Jamal started fighting about the situation and the police had to be called.

On this basis, the district court entered an ex parte DVPO against Al Jaher on 1 May 2015. On 14 May 2015, Al Jaher filed his answer and a motion to dismiss. On Osman's continuance, the return hearing was held 5 June 2015.

During the hearing, Osman testified that she and Al Jaher were married in Sudan, at some point moving to Saudi Arabia before again migrating in 2002 to the United States. Together for a total of twenty-seven years, the parties have five children between them-though only Fatima, their eight-year-old girl, was a minor in 2015. Osman ended the relationship by leaving the marital residence with Fatima on 10 January 2015.

Osman testified that, since their first child's birth in 1988, she had endured a long history of physical abuse by Al Jaher in retaliation for trivial or perceived wrongs, particularly in relation to her childrearing. After the birth of their first child, Al Jaher struck her for being startled by a rodent in the kitchen. On another occasion, because she could not sew clothing for their children, Al Jaher beat her with a chair until it shattered. In about 1997, Al Jaher burned Osman's arms with a hot iron as punishment for a child's accidental injury. Once, while Osman was pregnant, Al Jaher beat her limbs with a cable until they bled.

Osman testified that she wished, during August 2014, to take Fatima to see her dying grandmother in Qatar, but Al Jaher took the girl's passport. She testified further that, while searching for the passport, she was discovered by Al Jaher, who then hit her. Osman grabbed her husband's leg to prevent him from leaving with the passport, but he dislodged her with a kick to the chin. The police were called, but Osman testified she "didn't realize that [she had] bruise [sic] and hits on [her] arm when the police [come] because [she was] wearing [a] long sleeve and long dress. [She] didn't notice...." No charges were filed.

Per Osman, this altercation motivated her to apply for a separate bank account and apartment. Osman testified that on 10 January 2015, she and Fatima secretly departed the marital residence without telling Al Jaher about the new apartment. The first night in their new residence, however, Osman became afraid when Al Jaher tracked her cell phone directly to their unit. As Al Jaher banged on the door, Osman and her daughter became very scared and called the police.

After January 2015, Fatima lived at Osman's new residence full-time, but continued to see Al Jaher during most weekdays because he refused to allow her to ride the bus to the new apartment. Instead, Al Jaher required Osman to pick up and drop off Fatima at his office or residence on a daily basis. She testified that Al Jaher prolonged these meetings to cause confrontations and demand her return to the marriage. Osman testified that Al Jaher would then escalate these confrontations by preventing Fatima from leaving the house to enter the car or by placing his limbs inside the vehicle to physically block Osman from driving away. Osman testified that, on one occasion, Al Jaher physically pulled her out of the vehicle by her arms and head.

Osman testified that on 19 April 2015, Fatima realized she needed a hairdryer from Al Jaher's residence. Osman drove to the apartment with her windows up and doors locked, fearing a confrontation with Al Jaher. Osman testified that when Fatima ran into the house, Al Jaher approached the vehicle, "screaming" at Osman. Before the car's doors could be re-locked upon Fatima's re-entry, Al Jaher opened the door and pulled her back out. Walking the girl inside his residence, he told Osman that she "did not have a daughter" anymore. Although Osman called the police, she lacked a custodial order to compel Fatima's return.

Three days later, on 22 April 2015, Osman received a phone call from one of the parties' older sons, Mohammad, who expressed concerns about Fatima's health at Al Jaher's residence and urged Osman to retrieve Fatima. Again worried about a confrontation with Al Jaher, Osman locked her car's doors and closed its windows, and drove to the former martial residence. Osman testified that when she arrived, Al Jaher and Mohammad were fighting one another in the front yard, with Mohammad holding Fatima in one arm and her effects in the other. Due to the confrontation, Osman called the police. As Osman opened the locks to let Fatima in the vehicle, Al Jaher again took advantage of the temporary breach to enter the vehicle and hit Osman on her shoulder. Before the police arrived, Al Jaher exited the vehicle and stood behind it, which blocked her path and prevented her from leaving. Upon arrival, Greensboro Police Department Officer P.D. Henley de-escalated the situation and enabled Osman to leave with Fatima.

Officer Henley testified that the scene was "heated" when he arrived. Al Jaher was standing behind Osman's vehicle, and told Henley that he did not want Osman to leave. Henley further testified that Al Jaher and Mohammad continued their argument, but, as the conversation was at least in part spoken in a foreign language, Henley could not understand what was said. Henley then interviewed Osman, who told him Al Jaher had struck her. Henley testified that he asked Osman "if she would let [him see the injury, but] based on their culture, she did not want [him] to look at it."

The testimony of Osman's friend and primary confidante, Lynda Merga, tended to show that Osman experienced constant fear of Al Jaher, before and after leaving the marital residence. Merga is an immigration paralegal who belongs to the same community of recent African immigrants in Greensboro. Merga attested she always "felt that something was wrong" with Osman's marriage.

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