Okorie, A. v. Okorie, G.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided February 18, 2025·No. 1202 MDA 2024·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT O.P. 65.37

ALOYSIUS OKORIE : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

v. :

:

:

GLADYS OKORIE, :

:

Appellant :

: No. 1202 MDA 2024

Appeal from the Order Entered July 24, 2024 In the Court of Common Pleas of Luzerne County Civil Division at No(s):

08765-2022

BEFORE: OLSON, J., DUBOW, J., and McLAUGHLIN, J. MEMORANDUM BY McLAUGHLIN, J.: FEBRUARY 18, 2025 Gladys Okorie (“Mother”) appeals from the order granting Aloysius Okorie (“Father”) primary custody of M.O.,1 J.O., and B.O. (collectively, “Children”) and granting Father’s petition to relocate to Texas. Mother argues the trial court improperly applied the custody and relocation factors and abused its discretion in finding it was in Children’s best interest for Father to have primary physical custody of Children and for Children to relocate with Father. We affirm.

Father initiated this custody action in October 2022 and filed a notice of proposed relocation to Texas. Mother objected. In February 2024, the court commenced a custody trial, where it conducted judicial interviews of M.O. and

J.O.

1 Some documents state the child’s initial are N.O. However, the correct initials are M.O. Trial Court Opinion, filed Sept. 25, 2024, at 1 n.1.

M.O. was 11 years old at the time of the hearing and testified that he wanted to go to Texas with Father. N.T., Feb. 20, 2024, at 6. He stated that Mother says Father’s mother is a “witch” and the other relatives “have been mean.” Id. at 7. M.O. stated his Mother has “been calling [M.O.] demonic, evil and all that stuff.” Id. He testified that his Father “has been protecting [him]; but, [Mother] is coming in to slap [him] or hit [him] or spank [him] or anything like that.” Id. at 8. He stated that Mother has M.O. and J.O. write at least 25 sentences from the Bible every day and does not let them have a break. Id. at 9. He testified that if they do not finish, Mother wakes M.O. and J.O. at midnight to finish the sentences. Id. at 10. He testified that Mother “would punish [them] and not let [them] go to the bathroom at all, make [them] eat on [their] hands, be hitting [them] where our legs would be bleeding and everything.” Id. at 12. He stated Mother used a wire to hit Children’s legs. Id. at 13.

J.O., who was 10 years old at the time of the hearing, testified that Mother locked him and M.O. in the bedroom and they went to the bathroom in the bedroom because they had nowhere else to go. He said that as punishment, Mother “whipped” them and “stepped on [their] back[s].” Id. at 20. The court asked whether M.O. promised that he was telling the truth, and M.O. responded, “Yeah. I’m promising you just so I can get out of this torture.” Id. at 21.

J.O. testified that Father “just said that [he] ha[d] to tell [the court] all the things that happen in the house.” Id. at 28. He said that Mother scratches

him and once starved Children for three days. Id. at 29. He said that Mother hits Children on their backs with a wire and sometimes steps on their backs. Id. at 30-31. He testified Mother makes J.O. and M.O. write sentences from the Bible and if they do not finish, Mother will wake them in the middle of the night to write them. Id. at 33.

The parties underwent mental health evaluations and the court appointed a guardian ad litem (“GAL”) for M.O. and J.O. The GAL filed a report finding Mother should be awarded primary custody. In the GAL’s view, Father was acting in his, not Children’s, best interest, and was “brainwash[ing]” Children “to alienate their affections towards Mother in order for Father to get what he wants.” Letter From GAL to Trial Court, dated Apr. 19, 2024, at 5.

The court conducted the second day of the custody hearing in July 2024, and Mother and Father testified. That same month, the court awarded Father primary physical custody and granted Father’s relocation petition. The court made the following findings regarding the custody factors:

(1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between the child and another party.

This factor is neutral.

(2) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member of the party’s household, whether there is a continued risk of harm to the children, or an abused party and which party can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child.

Father testified that he never abuses Mother, but that he has been a victim of abuse by Mother. Mother denies that she has abused Father or the children.

Although the evidence does not establish that either party has abused the other, there is ample evidence to support a finding that Mother has used excessive corporal punishment against the children. These actions by Mother have caused injury to the children and there is a continued risk of harm to the children.

The Court finds Mother’s explanation of photos showing the results of injury on the children’s bodies unreasonable and not believable.

Father has and can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the children.

This factor weighs heavily against Mother and in favor of Father.

(2.1) The information set forth in section 5329.1(a) (relating to consideration of child abuse and involvement with protective services).

Father testified he contacted Luzerne County Children and Youth Agency and there has not been a finding of abuse against either party.

This factor weighs neutral.

(3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the children.

Each party testified that he/she performed most of the parental duties.

This factor weighs neutral.

(4) The need for stability and continuity in the children’s education, family life and community life.

The school age children have been performing well in school. However, their family life has been nothing short of continued turmoil mostly because of Mother’s actions and the dysfunctional family dynamic. Father is heavily involved in bringing the children to soccer and church . . . where Mother wishes to not be a part of those community activities.

This factor weighs against Mother.

(5) The availability of extended family.

Both Father and Mother have no extended family in Luzerne County, Pennsylvania. Father has extended family in Texas, which includes his mother, two sisters, their children and his uncles. Mother has no family in the United States.

This factor is neutral.

(6) The Children’s sibling relationships.

The parties have three children, two boys and one girl.

The children have the usual sibling difficulties, but it is troubling that at least one child feels that Father has to protect the children from Mother. The fractured dynamic with the parents also creates division among the children. [B.O.] is usually with the Mother while Father locks the boys away from Mother so they can sleep uninterrupted while he goes to work.

This factor weighs against Mother.

(7) The well-reasoned preference of the children, based on the child’s maturity and judgment.

The Court interviewed in camera the two older siblings and has considered their preference in arriving at the custody order.

This factor weighs against Mother.

(8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other parent, except in cases of domestic violence where reasonable safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm.

The actions of Father can be considered the turning of the children against Mother, however the Court perceives his actions as protecting the children from abuse.

This factor favors Father.

(9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child’s emotional needs.

This factor favors Father.

(10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational and special needs of the children.

The emotional well-being of the children is a significant concern for the Court.

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