Oberlander v. Handy

913 N.E.2d 734, 2009 Ind. App. LEXIS 1670, 2009 WL 3047355
CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedSeptember 24, 2009
Docket08A04-0903-CV-121
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Oberlander v. Handy, 913 N.E.2d 734, 2009 Ind. App. LEXIS 1670, 2009 WL 3047355 (Ind. Ct. App. 2009).

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OPINION

BAKER, Chief Judge.

Appellant-petitioner Anita (Handy) Ob-erlander appeals the trial court's order denying her request for relief from judgment, arguing that the trial court erred by refusing to modify its decision to award custody of Anita's child with appellee-peti-tioner Kevin Handy to Kevin. Finding that Anita is not entitled to relief pursuant to Trial Rules 59 or 60, but that the trial court should consider whether a modification of eustody is warranted, we affirm and remand for further proceedings.

FACTS

Anita and Kevin began dating in March 2005, and Anita gave birth to the parties' daughter, A.H., on March 14, 2006. Anita also had three children from a prior marriage: De.O., born in March 1991, Dy.0., born in August 1994, and E.O., born in March 1996. Anita and Kevin were married in December 2006, and Anita filed a petition to dissolve the marriage and a petition seeking a protective order on March 22, 2007.

The parties' relationship was tumultuous and frequently violent. Between March 2005 and February 2008, Anita called the police and requested assistance on multiple occasions, alleging that Kevin had physically assaulted her and/or the children.

On March 22, 2007, a protective order was entered that prohibited Kevin from contacting or approaching Anita or the children. During the ensuing week, Kevin allegedly drove by and sometimes parked near Anita's home on numerous occasions and peered into her windows in the middle of the night. Additionally, Anita discover ed a sound transmitter under her bed, which Kevin admitted placing there but stated he had done so before the entry of the protective order.

On April 1, 2007, Anita and the children discovered Kevin hiding in their home; Anita deployed a stun gun, but Kevin disarmed her and used the stun gun on her. Kevin fled before the police arrived. The next day, Kevin led police officers on a high speed chase that resulted in a crash and required Kevin to be air-lifted to a hospital.

He was charged with residential entry, battery, domestic battery, interference with the reporting of a crime, and invasion of privacy, and eventually pleaded guilty to class D felony domestic battery. Kevin was sentenced to three years, with two and one-half years suspended to probation and six months on home detention.1 In a separate proceeding in Cass County, Kevin was charged and convicted of class D felony resisting law enforcement. He was sentenced to eighteen months, with ten days served in jail and the rest suspended to probation.

After Kevin was discharged from the hospital, he allegedly continued to drive past Anita's residence and telephoned Anita repeatedly. Kevin began taking anger management classes and Kevin and Anita resumed couples' counseling with Reverend Thomas MceShannock. On June 7, 2007, Reverend McShannock wrote a letter to the trial court requesting that the protective order be modified: -

Both Kevin and Anita ... have been under my care since March 12, 2007, for the purpose of improving their marital [736]*736relationship. Unfortunately, therapy quickly reached an impasse due to Kevin's controlling and abusive behavior.
[Kevin] was given a thorough psychiatric evaluation after being hospitalized following his suicide attempt. At that time, he was placed on medication that helped [Kevin] to control his temper and his compulsive and controlling behavior.
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I have come to the conclusion that Kevin is now fully engaged in the therapeutic process in order to change his behavior. It is my professional opinion that [Kevin] should be given a chance to rebuild his relationship with [Anita] and her children ...
In addition, [Anita] has asked me [tol help her set a plan that could allow Kevin to practice his new behaviors while at the same time giving her and her children some protection against the possible return of Kevin's old abusive behavior.
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[Anita] wishes to continue with keeping Kevin from coming in the house. Kevin should be allowed to telephone Anita during a mutually agreed upon calling schedule. ...
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I would also recommend that Kevin be given 3-4 hours [per] week to meet in a public area with his family for a family visitation....

Pet. Ex. B. On July 24, 2007, the parties agreed that Kevin could have restricted visitation if he continued counseling and taking his medication, and the protective order was modified accordingly.

In August 2007, Kevin's parenting time with his daughter from another marriage was halted because of his behavior. In September 2007, Kevin returned to the marital home against Anita's wishes but the police informed Anita that the modified protective order was ambiguous as to whether Kevin was permitted to be in the residence; thus, they refused to order him to leave. Kevin began living there and refused to leave.

On February 20, 2008, Anita received a telephone call regarding her youngest son, who was home with Kevin. She called Kevin, who demanded to know why her cell phone-which he had allegedly broken earlier in the week-had been turned off all day. Anita returned home, finding De.O. standing outside, locked out. Evidently, De.O. had done something to the computer keyboard, and Kevin told Anita that De.0. was "a fucking cock sucker and a bitch boy." Tr. p. 31. Kevin demanded to know where Anita had been all day long, accusing her of "being out fucking around," id. at 32, eventually throwing his wedding ring at Anita's face. Kevin allegedly destroyed a Nintendo game system and later apologized to Anita for throwing AH. out of the computer chair, causing the child's head to hit the coffee table. Anita called the police, who arrived and investigated the situation. Kevin did not want to permit Anita to leave the home, but police officers remained so that she could gather her belongings and leave with the children. Approximately one week later, Anita and the children moved to South Carolina, where her father lives, because "there was absolutely no way that I could be anywhere within the state or within any county next to [Kevin] because he would hunt me down and find me. As he had in the past." Id. at 48.

During March and April 2008, Kevin incessantly telephoned and emailed Anita while she was in South Carolina, filling up her voicemail box with messages. He [737]*737stopped contacting her after he was sentenced on May 15, 2008, on the domestic battery charge, because a condition of probation was that he cease contact with Anita.

On April 1, 2008, the trial court set the final hearing for July 22, 2008. Anita's attorney had withdrawn and she attempted to find an attorney through legal aid, but was evidently unsuccessful. Anita was unable to attend the final hearing because she did not have the financial resources to travel to Indiana; she also later testified that she feared for her safety and A.H.'s safety if they returned to Indiana. The trial court proceeded with the hearing in her absence and ruled in Kevin's favor, awarding him full custody of A.H. and all marital property except for the vehicle being driven by Anita Among other things, the court found that Anita

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