Nienaber v. Marriage of Nienaber

787 N.E.2d 450, 2003 Ind. App. LEXIS 744, 2003 WL 1986654
CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 30, 2003
Docket15A04-0209-CV-443
StatusPublished
Cited by24 cases

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Nienaber v. Marriage of Nienaber, 787 N.E.2d 450, 2003 Ind. App. LEXIS 744, 2003 WL 1986654 (Ind. Ct. App. 2003).

Opinion

OPINION

FRIEDLANDER, Judge.

The marriage of Joseph W. and Janine E. Nienaber was dissolved by a March 19, 1999 decree of dissolution. Janine was awarded custody of the parties' two minor children and Joseph was granted visitation rights and ordered to pay child support. Thereafter, Joseph sought a modification of custody and an order finding Janine in contempt of the dissolution decree. Joseph was successful in those endeavors, and Janine now appeals, presenting the following restated issues for review:

1. Did the trial court apply incorrect criteria in making the determination to modify custody?
2. Did the trial court err in modifying child support by failing to apply the income shares model contained in *452 the Indiana Child Support Guidelines?

We affirm.

Because the issues presented are fact sensitive, we will provide a detailed recitation of the facts, viewed in a light most favorable to the ruling. When Joseph and Janine divorced, their two children, J.N. and J.LN., were ten and eight years old, respectively. Dr. Richard Lawlor performed a custody evaluation to assist the court in making a custody determination. Dr. Lawlor noted that both children exhibited significant behavioral problems. He reported that "[njeither parent presents as particularly effective with regard to dealing with the significant behavior problems each of the children has." Appellant's Appendix at 17. With respect to Janine, he reported that there were interactions in which she was "yelling and sereaming" at the children, during which times she was "clearly verbally abusive" and her parenting was "ineffective". Id. He stated that, at times, her interactions with the children were "psychologically abusive." Id. Joseph's parenting was described as "not abusive, but not effective either." Id. Dr. Lawlor recommended, "tentatively, and with reservations," id., that physical custody be awarded to Janine. The court accepted that recommendation and Janine was awarded custody of the children. Joseph was ordered to pay child support in the amount of $184.00 per week, with payments to be made through an income withholding order. Joseph was granted regular, weekly visitation rights. With respect to those rights, the court ordered, "[the support shall abate by one-half during the extended visits of seven (T) consecutive days or more, and Wife shall pay back to Husband a sum of money equal to the abatement of one-half of the support after she receives it for those periods of time when he has extended visitation." Appellant's Appendix at 21.

The next three years were marked by a general deterioration of the children's situation in Janine's home. J.N. in particular did not do well. He performed poorly in school, failing the sixth grade. He also experienced frequent disciplinary problems.

Meanwhile, Janine persisted in attempting to discipline the children primarily through yelling. According to Joseph, Janine did not engage in "just normal screaming." Transeript, Vol. I at 9. Rather, she was prone to "sereeching at the top of her voice for long periods of time." Id. In fact, Joseph worked with a neighbor of Janine's who was so disturbed by Janine's yelling that she asked him, "when are you going to file your motion to change custody", and then later told him "I hope you win that thing." Id. at 8. Janine, who is afflicted with multiple sclerosis (MS), admitted "I do ... my share of screaming because I don't have [the] ability to walk and run and grab and chase." Id. at 59. Janine's difficulty in controlling J.N. was reflected in the fact that she had called local law enforcement officials on several occasions because she was unable to control him. Those calls were prompted when J.N. committed acts including curfew violations, theft, arguments with Janine and J.ILN., and "being out with ... the wrong type of individual." Id. at 9. The relationship between J.N. and his mother was 'such that J.N. constantly threatened to run away if Joseph forced J.N. to return to Janine's after visiting at Joseph's house. For some time, J.N. had expressed a strong preference to live with his father. Joseph testified that J.N. had been "begging [him] for the last two years to file this motion for change of custody." Id. at 4. J.LN. also had expressed a desire to live with her father. 1

*453 The aforementioned problems were exacerbated by what both Janine and Joseph conceded was a total breakdown in their ability to effectively communicate with each other. Joseph described the situation as follows:

No, there's, no there's never been any communication between us since the separation back in '97 or '98 other than, I mean as soon as we get on the telephone together, it's the voices raise, the anger persists and either she'll slam the phone down or I'll end the conversation. I mean there's no talking between us.

Id. at 7. To illustrate the point, Joseph was asked upon cross-examination why he had not informed Janine that, on one occasion, J.LN. had cut herself with scissors while staying with Joseph. He responded,

All I know is that if I call her and talk to her and I would have told her that, I would have been harangued as being a worthless piece of cow shit whatever and then totally irresponsible, less than irresponsible and I'm not going to sit there and listen to that crap.

Id. at 34. Janine and Joseph's acrimonious relationship caused other difficulties for the children. Janine refused to keep Joseph informed school and extracurricular activities. When he was in the first grade, J.N. was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder. As a result, he took the prescription medication Aderal. Janine refused to send about the children's: J.N.'s medicine with him when he went to stay at Joseph's house. Joseph testified that he was unable to obtain any medication that J.N. could take while he was at his father's house because "Aderal is so tightly ... controlled that they ... can issue one prescription with no refills and until that one prescription has run out, they can't give out another prescription." Id. at 6.

Apparently because of her medical condition, 2 Janine had begun to experience difficulty driving. She acknowledged that she sometimes had to use her hands to move her foot from the brake to the accelerator and vice versa. She was involved in several minor accidents in the first eight months of 2002. Notwithstanding the effects of her disability, Janine continued to drive with the children in the vehicle.

As detailed above, the decree provided that if the children visited with Joseph for more than seven consecutive days, his support obligation would abate by one-half during such time, and Janine would pay back that amount to Joseph. During each of the first four summers after the dissolution decree was entered, the children stayed with Joseph for an extended period of time, thus triggering Janine's abatement obligation. Janine failed to comply in each instance. In order to obtain the abatement, Joseph was forced to take Janine to court all four times.

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