M.S. VS. D.H. (FV-14-0267-19, MORRIS COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 25, 2020·No. A-1548-18T2·Unpublished

Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1548-18T2

M.S.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. D.H.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted January 23, 2020 – Decided March 25, 2020 Before Judges Koblitz and Gooden Brown.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Morris County, Docket No. FV-14-0267-19.

Deininger & Associates, LLP, attorneys for appellant (Christopher L. Deininger, on the briefs).

Laddey, Clark & Ryan, LLP, attorneys for respondent (Thomas N. Ryan, on the brief).

1 We employ initials to protect the privacy of the domestic violence victim. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).

PER CURIAM Defendant appeals from an October 30, 2018 final restraining order (FRO)

entered against him in favor of plaintiff pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. We affirm.

Plaintiff hired defendant as a caregiver for his twenty-three-year-old autistic son, J.S., who was prone to violent outbursts. In his role as caregiver, defendant lived with plaintiff and J.S. from August 2017 to August 2018, when plaintiff terminated defendant's employment due to disagreements between the parties.

On October 5, 2018, plaintiff filed a complaint against defendant, seeking a restraining order under the PDVA, alleging defendant committed acts of domestic violence, specifically harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4. In the complaint, plaintiff alleged that on October 1, 2018, when he went to defendant's residence to retrieve a laptop, defendant told plaintiff that if they did not resolve their disagreements, "[plaintiff] will die." Plaintiff also alleged that on September 29, 2018, during a meeting with J.S.'s psychiatrist, defendant told plaintiff that "[plaintiff] could have been dead by now" and showed him "a collage of death and destruction." According to plaintiff, "[defendant] has weapons and was a former black ops."

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Additionally, in the complaint, plaintiff reported a prior history of domestic violence. Plaintiff alleged that in June and July of 2018, defendant walked into his bedroom and "threaten[ed] to harm [him]," and, since August 2018, plaintiff received "dozens [of] phone[] calls" from defendant, demanding "[four] million dollars," a "[twenty-]year emp[lo]yment contract," and "life[]time benefits." Plaintiff also asserted that defendant "pressured [him] into buying a property that has caused [him] financial hardship."

On October 9, 2018, both parties appeared pro se for a final hearing. After the Family Part judge explained the ramifications of an FRO, he granted defendant's request for a two-week adjournment to obtain counsel or prepare "a reply to the allegations." When the parties returned on October 18, 2018, the judge granted an additional one-week adjournment for defendant to obtain counsel. At the final hearing conducted on October 30, 2018, plaintiff was represented by counsel while defendant remained self-represented. During the hearing, in addition to his testimony, plaintiff produced his now ex-wife, Ji.S., as a witness. For the defense, in addition to his testimony, defendant produced a neighbor and a friend to testify on his behalf.

We summarize the relevant testimony. Plaintiff is "the main principal" in "a financial firm." He testified that he hired defendant as "a compensated

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caregiver" for his son, who has been declared "partially incapacitated by the [c]ourts," and for whom he and Ji.S. have "a limited guardianship." According to plaintiff, hiring defendant "allow[ed him] to be . . . at work . . . , rather than having to be home with [his] son." Initially, defendant and J.S. lived in defendant's Morristown home for "approximately a year and a half." 2 However, after J.S. had "an altercation" with one of defendant's neighbors, which resulted in the neighbor obtaining "a restraining order against [J.S.]," defendant and J.S. moved into plaintiff's Newton home in "early August of [2017]."

From that point, the parties' relationship had its ups and downs. At times, plaintiff supported and publicly praised defendant for the positive impact he had on J.S. Plaintiff and defendant even agreed to participate in a joint venture for which plaintiff purchased property (the property), where defendant and J.S. would eventually reside and operate "a 501(c) nonprofit organization" for individuals on the autism spectrum like J.S. Other times, J.S.'s violent tendencies erupted in physical attacks, including interactions that resulted in

2 The two initially met "on a dating site" on the internet. They dated for a short time until defendant "recognized that there was something different about [J.S.]" Despite discontinuing their "romantic relationship," defendant testified J.S. continued to come back to his house and ultimately moved in about four weeks after they first met.

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defendant suffering serious injuries. 3 According to plaintiff, ultimately, the parties' relationship deteriorated to the point where defendant "became very abusive towards [plaintiff]." Plaintiff testified there were times when defendant would be "physically aggressive," and times when he would be "very pas sive aggressive," "very manipulative," and "controlling," making "implied threat[s]."

Plaintiff testified about "two occasions" in particular, one in June and the other in July, 2018, when defendant "just walked into [his] [bed]room in the middle of the night" and "yell[ed] at [him]" in a "very hostile" manner. While defendant's tirade during the June incident was unintelligible, during the July incident, defendant threatened that if plaintiff did not "move on . . . [their] plans" for "the 501(c)," there "will be a very harmful situation" and "things will go horribly wrong." Plaintiff testified that "at that point it was obvious to [him] that [defendant] was weaponizing [his] son against [him]" by "[i]nfluencing him to be hostile towards [him]." 4 Plaintiff described the experiences as "very frightening." He stated defendant appeared "intoxicated" on both occasions, and eventually left the bedroom at plaintiff's request.

3 According to defendant, as a result of J.S.'s violent attacks, he suffered "[t]wo detached retinas, an infarction in [his] brain, and a missing spleen." 4 Defendant acknowledged "that [J.S.] is influenced by anybody he trusts."

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As the relationship continued to deteriorate, the parties agreed that defendant and J.S. would move out, but "[t]hey did not." Instead, plaintiff testified that in mid-August, 2018, defendant made "dozens" of "very hostile and aggressive phone calls to [him]," making various demands, including demanding "$4 million[,] a [twenty-]year employment contract, . . . lifetime benefits," and completion of "renovations that were being done at the property." According to plaintiff, the property "[had] problems," the renovations were costing a lot more money than he had anticipated, and defendant had reneged on his pledge "to sell [his Morristown] home" and "put cash equity into [the] property."

When defendant continued to make these demands, on August 29, 2018, plaintiff told defendant "[w]e are done," terminated his employment, and told him "to leave [his] home right now." When defendant refused to leave, plaintiff called the police for assistance in removing defendant from his home. J.S. followed defendant and resumed residing with him in his Morristown home.

About three weeks later, on September 29, 2018, defendant arranged for a family meeting with J.S.'s psychiatrist, purportedly "to see . . . how [they could] be amicable in [the] situation." Plaintiff, Ji.S., J.S., and defendant attended the meeting. According to plaintiff, during the meeting, defendant

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