Mitchell v. Mitchell

193 Iowa 153
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedNovember 15, 1921
StatusPublished
Cited by30 cases

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Bluebook
Mitchell v. Mitchell, 193 Iowa 153 (iowa 1921).

Opinion

Faville, J.

„ ^ o£0domieiiehaSae desertion. — The appellant filed his petition for divorce on the ground of desertion. The appellee filed a cross-petition, praying for a divorce from appellant on the ground of desertion, cruel and' inhuman treatment, and adul^ery. The court granted a divorce to the appellant, and dismissed the appellee’s cross-petition, and by decree awarded alimony to the appellee in the sum of $7,500, expenses in the sum of $288, and attorneys’ fees in the sum of $1,000. Appellant appeals from so much of the decree as awards alimony to the appellee. Appellee contends that she should have been granted a divorce from the appellant upon her cross-appeal, and that, in any event, the award of alimony is inadequate.

I. We will first consider the question raised by appellee’s cross-appeal, as to whether or not the appellant should have been granted a divorce, and whether or not it was error to deny appellee a divorce on her cross-bill. The case has been before this court before, on an appeal from an order allowing temporary alimony. Mitchell v. Mitchell, 188 Iowa 490.

It appears that, at the time of the marriage of these parties, the appellee was past thirty years of age, and the appellant ‘was about four years older. They were married on April 4, 1900, at Camden, New Jersey. At said time, both of the parties were employed in the government printing office at Washington, D. C. After the marriage, the parties lived together as husband and wife in Washington, and occupied the positions they had previously held with the government. The appellee retained her maiden name of Jessie Burritt at all times after the marriage. In 1903, the appellant’s father died in the state of Iowa, leaving considerable property. The appellant was appointed administrator of his estate, and, about September, 1906, [155]*155came to Iowa and remained until March, 1910. During this time, the appellee continued her employment in the printing ( office. The appellant made a trip to Washington in 1910, where he remained for a comparatively short time, and returned to Iowa, and has remained in this state ever since. In the intervening years, the appellee continued to work in the printing office at Washington, and the appellant lived upon a farm of 119 ácres, which he had inherited from his father. During all this period of time, the appellant contributed very little to the support of the appellee. The parties seem to have gone their respective ways, without opposition or protest. The appellee came to Iowa in March, 1917, and immediately instituted an action against the appellant for a divorce. This action she afterwards dismissed. In September, 1918, the appellant instituted this cause.

Neither of these parties was altogether free from blame that they did not sail the sea of matrimony without shipwreck. The voyage was started with the abnormal and unusual arrangement by which the appellee retained her maiden name, and passed herself off as a single woman, although maintaining marital relations with the appellant. It also appears that, after his return to Iowa, the appellant likewise posed as a single person. The marriage was not carried out by these parties in accordance with the ideals that usually surround the marriage relation, and it is not to be wondered at that it resulted in suspicions and separation, criminations and recriminations.

We shall not attempt to set out all of the details of the testimony offered in evidence by the respective parties on this question. It would serve no useful purpose to the parties or to the profession so to do.

With regard to the appellee’s cross-appeal, we find no sufficient evidence in the record to support the allegations of her cross-petition. There is no proof that would warrant the court in decreeing the appellee a divorce on the grounds of desertion. Appellant came to Iowa from Washington with the knowledge, consent, and apparent approval and acquiescence of the appellee. Notwithstanding all the manifold changes that have been made by statutory enactment and judicial pronouncement respecting the relations of husband and wife, it still remains the law that [156]*156the husband is the “head of the household,” nominally at least, and has the right to fix and choose the domicile. Appellant did not desert the appellee, in coming to Iowa and establishing a home. here.

There is also failure on the part -of the appellee to establish by the evidence any such cruel and inhuman treatment on the part of the appellant as meets the requirement in this state that the same must tend to impair her health and endanger her life. The charge of adultery is largely predicated upon the fact that the appellee found a certain letter, addressed to the appellant, which, by reason of its signature, is referred to in the record as the “Emma” letter. This was found by the appellee some time in 1905 or 1906. Of itself, such letter, written by a third party, is wholly insufficient to support the charge of adultery; and even if it were positive proof, it was afterward condoned by the appellee by her continued cohabitation with appellant. The court was right in dismissing appellee’s cross-bill.

In regard to appellant’s case, it is the contention of the appellee that the evidence fails to show desertion by appellee, and that the court erred in granting appellant a divorce. From and after March, 1910, the appellant has made his home in Mahaska County, Iowa. The correspondence between the parties was infrequent, desultory, and lacking in affection and mutuality of interest. The appellant was by no means fair, frank, and open in what little correspondence he had with the appellee, nor can it be said that the appellee excelled the appellant in this respect. There was some correspondence between the parties relative to a house that appellant was building. It appears that appellant sent the appellee some plans for a house, and in March, 1912, the appellee wrote the appellant in regard thereto, and said:

“In conclusion, I have only to say that I have lost all interest in the subject. You can put the parlor down in the cellar and the cellar on the roof if you want to.”

On January 18, 1915, the appellant wrote the appellee as follows :

“I wrote two letters to you about two years ago, that the house was ready to live in and that I was living there alone or in substance to that effect. So far to my knowledge you have [157]*157disdained to answer. I have been living or baching it along the best I could ever since. You knew all the time that whenever you wanted to '.come and act like a woman ought to, the door was open.” ...

No answer was ever received to this letter, and in -1917, the appellee came to Iowa, and instituted the suit which she subsequently voluntarily dismissed.

It is argued strenuously by counsel for appellee that the letter of January 18, 1915,’was a “made-to-order letter,” and was not written in good faith by the appellant.. It is established that the letter was received by the appellee, and never until the trial of her action did. she make any reply thereto, or-attempt to impeach the good faith of the appellant in writing the same.

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