Meadows v. Meadows

782 S.E.2d 561, 246 N.C. App. 245
CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedMarch 15, 2016
Docket15-527
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Meadows v. Meadows, 782 S.E.2d 561, 246 N.C. App. 245 (N.C. Ct. App. 2016).

Opinion

CALABRIA, Judge.

*246 Ben Jamin Meadows ("defendant") appeals from an initial custody order awarding primary and legal custody of Billy 1 to Melissa Allison Meadows ("plaintiff") and supervised visitation to defendant. We affirm.

I. Background

Plaintiff and defendant (collectively, "the parties") were married on 6 October 2007. The parties had one child, Billy, born on 30 September 2011. Defendant's mother, Gloria Meadows ("Intervenor") provided substantial assistance in caring for Billy for extended periods of time while plaintiff dealt with certain mental health issues. After the parties separated on 14 January 2013, plaintiff and Billy lived with plaintiff's parents and continued living with plaintiff's parents through the custody and visitation hearings, which concluded on 5 August 2014.

Plaintiff filed a complaint on 14 January 2013 for post-separation support, alimony, child custody, child support, and equitable *247 distribution. On 22 January 2013, the parties *563 agreed in a memorandum of order that plaintiff would have temporary custody and defendant would have supervised visitation of Billy. Intervenor filed an amended motion for intervention to "pursue a custody claim for the minor child, or in the alternative, a claim for grandparent visitation." 2 In another memorandum of order that modified the prior order, defendant was to have supervised visitation with Billy for up to two hours each week at the Supervised Visitation Center in Burlington, North Carolina.

Following hearings, the trial court entered an order on 16 September 2014 giving, inter alia, "primary legal and physical custody" of Billy to plaintiff, and limiting defendant's visitation rights to "supervised visitation at the [Family Abuse Services center ("FAS") ] in Burlington, North Carolina every other Sunday for up to two (2) hours." The trial court's unchallenged findings of fact relevant to this appeal are as follows:

38. The minor child herein is a well-adjusted toddler with normal ailments as well as normal physical and emotional development.
39. During his infancy years to current date, the minor child has been surrounded by family who love and care for him. As reasonably expected during Plaintiff's manic episodes, this same family came together to "assist" in caring for the minor child. Their effort is a testament of love and support rather than attempt to alienate the minor child from either parent.
40. During the entire trial, the Defendant did not appear nor did he provide any sworn testimony as to his own fitness and best interests of the minor child herein.
41. ..... The Defendant's legal counsel has had ample opportunity, however, [to] develop testimony and evidence throughout these proceedings via Plaintiff's and Intervenor's cases-in-chief.... [T]he [c]ourt was still left without sufficient evidence of the Defendant's character, temperament and abilities to support and care for the minor child herein.
42. At best attempt to deduce any evidence as to Defendant's parenting abilities, the [c]ourt considered the verified pleadings of his own mother, the Intervenor[,]
*248 wherein she alleged and subsequently testified about a period of time when "That Defendant fully acquiesced in Intervenor's care of Little [Billy] and deferred principal caregiving duties for the child to Intervenor." Within the same pleadings, the Intervenor alleged that her son was "immature" and unable to adequately care for the minor child herein.
43. Otherwise, the [c]ourt cannot assume facts not in evidence of his fitness and ability to care for this toddler beyond the existing "temporary" supervised visitation schedule and how the Defendant interacts under strict guidelines of a visitation agency such as FAS.
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45. When Plaintiff separated from Defendant, Plaintiff hired Derek Ellington with Ellington Forensics, Inc. to inspect the parties' computer and other hard drives for evidence of [Defendant's] infidelity.
46. Mr. Ellington regularly reviews photos and other data images and is bound by N.C.G.S. § 66-67.4, which requires any processor of photograph images or any computer technician who, within the person's scope of employment, observes an image of a minor or a person who reasonably appears to be a minor engaging in sexual activity shall report the name and address of the person requesting the processing of the film or owner of the computer to the Cyber Tip Line at the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children or to the appropriate law enforcement official in the county in which the image or film was submitted.
47. After reviewing the content and data on one of the hard drives, Mr. Ellington contacted Plaintiff's counsel, and Plaintiff's counsel contacted Creedmoor Police Department.
48. After reviewing a small sample of the images on the hard drives, Detective Ricky Cates of the Creedmoor Police Department issued a search warrant to seize the computer and hard drives.
*564 49. During his deposition on June 19, 2013, the Defendant was specifically asked certain questions by Plaintiff's *249 counsel regarding images on the computer and other hard drives seized by the police, including questions about creating pornographic images of children, and Defendant refused to answer any of the questions pertaining to that subject during ... Defendant's [d]eposition[ ].
50. Intervenor does not believe that Defendant has an issue with child pornography and stated during her deposition and under oath during her testimony herein that "She would not believe it even if someone told her."
51. Despite the [c]ourt's previous instructions to supervise the visits between the Defendant and minor child, Intervenor admittedly did not follow the [c]ourt's directive. Her actions under the circumstances demonstrated inconsistency with her verified pleadings of "abandonment, neglect and unfitness" as it relates to Defendant.
52. The [c]ourt makes the determination that a psychological evaluation of the Defendant is necessary before unsupervised visitation occurs. The evaluation/examination should include the [c]ourt's entire record for examination by a licensed psychologist.
53.

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