M.D.K. v. N.J.L.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided February 28, 2020·No. 802 MDA 2019·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

M.D.K. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

Appellant :

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v. :

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N.J.L. : No. 802 MDA 2019

Appeal from the Order Entered April 17, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Susquehanna County Domestic Relations at No(s): 2013-1525-CP

BEFORE: DUBOW, J., NICHOLS, J., and COLINS, J.* MEMORANDUM BY NICHOLS, J.: FILED: FEBRUARY 28, 2020 M.D.K. (Father), appeals the order denying his petition for modification of custody and awarding Father and N.J.L. (Mother) shared legal and physical custody of the parties’ son, S.D.K. (Child), born May 2013. We affirm.

The record reveals the following pertinent factual and procedural history. Mother and Father were in a relationship, but separated shortly after the birth of Child. On December 10, 2013, Father filed a petition for custody. On May 8, 2014, following a hearing, the trial court entered an order granting the parties shared legal custody of Child, Mother primary physical custody, and Father partial physical custody. Order, 5/8/14. The order granted Father partial physical custody every other weekend from 6:00 p.m. Friday through

* Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court.

6:00 p.m. Sunday, and two non-consecutive weeks during the summer. Id. The order also provided a holiday schedule. Id.

On September 7, 2017, Father filed a petition for modification seeking primary physical custody of Child. Pet. for Modification, 9/7/17, at 1. In the petition, Father alleged that Child was removed from Mother’s custody by Susquehanna County Children and Youth Services (CYS) and was placed in foster care. Id. It appears from the pleadings and testimony that CYS removed Child from Mother’s custody after receiving allegations that Mother’s father (Maternal Grandfather) sexually abused Child.1 By stipulation and order entered November 29, 2017, Mother and Father agreed to share legal and physical custody of Child on a week on/week off schedule. Stipulation and Order, 11/29/17, at 1. The order also directed that Child not have any contact with Maternal Grandfather until Maternal Grandfather participated in a psychosexual risk assessment. Id. at 2.

On April 23, 2018, Father filed the instant petition for contempt and modification of the November 29, 2017 custody order. Father alleged that Mother allowed Maternal Grandfather to have contact with Child before

undergoing the required psychosexual risk assessment. Pet. for Modification

1 The record contains no detailed information regarding the allegations against Maternal Grandfather, the involvement of CYS, or the results of any of the investigations into the allegations. Although Mother, Father, and another witness briefly referenced the allegations, the trial court noted, “[t]here’s really no testimony that the [c]ourt can make any findings with respect” to the allegations that Maternal Grandfather abuse Child. N.T., 4/11/19, at 164. The trial court ultimately determined that the allegations were unfounded. See Order, 4/17/19, at 1.

& Contempt, 4/23/18, at 3. Further, Father sought primary physical custody of Child. Id. Mother filed a response and counterclaim seeking primary custody of Child. Father withdrew his request for contempt before the hearing on his petition. See Order, 2/28/19.

On April 11, 2019, the trial court conducted a hearing on the petition for modification. The trial court heard the testimony of Charmarie Bisel, Child’s therapist; Father; Mother; and H.W., Mother’s boyfriend.

Relevant to this appeal, Ms. Bisel testified that Child attended some counseling briefly, when he was four, and then began attending sessions twice per month after September 2018. N.T., 4/11/19, at 9.

According to Ms. Bisel, Child reported a history of “some hitting”

between Father and his current girlfriend. Id. at 26-27, 36-37. Ms. Bisel acknowledged that the numerous breakups and arguing between Father and his girlfriend negatively affected Child. Id. at 26. However, she believed that the issues between Father and his girlfriend had improved. Id. at 26-27.

Currently, Father takes Child to sessions with Ms. Bisel because the sessions occur during his custodial weeks. Id. at 9-10, 32-33. Ms. Bisel asked Mother to bring Child during her custodial time so he could be seen weekly. Id. at 33. Mother brought Child to one session but did not bring Child back. Id. Ms. Bisel acknowledged that the next session was cancelled due to weather and it was possible that she was supposed to contact Mother to schedule further appointments but failed to do so. Id. at 34.

Ms. Bisel diagnosed Child with adjustment disorder with anxiety, noted that Child has some behaviors suggesting ADHD but did not formally diagnose Child with ADHD. Id. at 10-11. Ms. Bisel testified that Child “improved a great deal” due to the counseling. Id. However, Child remained socially immature and struggled in school. Id. at 17-19. Further, Father told Ms. Bisel that Child missed school during Mother’s custody time. Id. at 19-20.

Ms. Bisel observed that Child loves Mother and Father and wants to spend time with them. Id. at 12, 14. However, Child has difficulty with transitions between Mother and Father in a week on/week off schedule. Id. at 14.

Ms. Bisel testified that consistency and structure in both homes was important. Id. at 14-15, 17. Ms. Bisel believed that Father had Child on a schedule, worked with him on homework, and made sure he got to school regularly. Id. Moreover, there were no behavioral problems during Father’s custodial time. Id. Ms. Bisel could not comment on the situation in Mother’s home because Father was the only parent who brought Child to counseling. Id. at 15.

As to the allegations of abuse, Ms. Bisel testified that Child continues to struggle with a history of sexual abuse. Id. at 11-12. Although Ms. Bisel did not detail the allegations of sexual abuse, she testified that Child stated Mother told Child that one of Mother’s former boyfriends, D.G., “lied to us and that it didn’t happen.” See id.

When asked whether a primary physical custody schedule would be preferable, Ms. Bisel responded:

I would recommend that—his anxiety, but even more than that, his ADHD symptoms that he—and the anxiety, he needs something really consistent, really stable that he can count on.

He needs schedules, he needs the same kind of structure between both parents really. And if that could happen, then that would be fine. I—I don’t know if that’s happening or not.

Id. at 15-16.

Father testified that he has lived in his home for twenty-eight years, and currently resides there with his girlfriend of five years and his brother.2 Id. at 40-42. Father denied any physical violence between himself and his girlfriend. Id. at 42. However, he conceded that on a few occasions, Father and his girlfriend fought, and she moved out to live with her father for a few days. Id. at 60-61. Father testified that he previously worked as a mason but, at the time of the hearing, he was injured and had applied for social security disability. Id. at 45-46. Father had not worked for several years and supported himself with “good family and friends.” Id. at 80-81. Father testified that when Child is in his care, they engage in activities like going to the trampoline park or riding four-wheelers. Id. at 52-53. Father also helps with Child’s homework. Id. at 51-52.

Father acknowledged that up until the fall of 2017, Mother was the primary physical custodian of Child. Id. at 62. However, Father contended

2Father testified that Mother has a mortgage on the home. N.T., 4/11/19, at 44.

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