Mary Friend v. Floyd Lamar Friend

CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedApril 28, 2023
DocketCL-2022-0952
StatusPublished

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Mary Friend v. Floyd Lamar Friend, (Ala. Ct. App. 2023).

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Rel: April 28, 2023

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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2022-2023 _________________________

CL-2022-0952 _________________________

Mary Friend

v.

Floyd Lamar Friend

Appeal from Jefferson Circuit Court, Bessemer Division (DR-20-900125)

THOMPSON, Presiding Judge.

Mary Friend ("the wife") appeals from a judgment entered by the

Jefferson Circuit Court, Bessemer Division, divorcing her from Floyd

Lamar Friend ("the husband"). We reverse and remand. CL-2022-0952

On May 11, 2020, the wife filed a complaint seeking a divorce from

the husband on the ground that an irretrievable breakdown in their

marriage had occurred. The wife asked the trial court to award her,

among other things, the marital residence, one-half of the value of the

husband's retirement account, periodic and rehabilitative alimony, and

an attorney fee. Thereafter, the husband filed an answer and a

counterclaim, asking the trial court to divorce the parties and to divide

equitably the parties' real property and personal property. The wife filed

an answer to the husband's counterclaim.

On November 17, 2021, the trial court conducted a trial. Evidence

was presented that the parties married in September 1998, separated in

July 2021, and have one child who reached the age of majority after the

filing of the divorce complaint but before the trial was conducted. The

wife testified that she currently lived in the marital residence, which, she

testified, was valued at $145,690 but needed substantial, costly repairs.

She stated that the house needed a deck, that due to issues with the

foundation the basement flooded when it rained heavily, that the pipes

leaked, and that one of the bathrooms had consistent drainage issues.

When asked about the cost to repair the foundation, the wife responded

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that it would be approximately $26,000. She further explained that the

house was built in 1972 and that most of the appliances needed replacing.

The husband testified that he did not believe the house needed

substantial repairs. He admitted that he had removed the deck

approximately ten years ago because it was a safety hazard and stated

that it had not been replaced because the parties had not been able to

decide whether to build another deck or landscape the area.

The wife testified that she was 52 years old and had been diagnosed

with depression at the age of 12 and bipolar disorder at the age of 22.

She stated that the husband was aware of these diagnoses when they

married. She explained that she is under the care of a psychiatrist for

her bipolar disorder and that she takes three medications daily.

According to the husband, in 2014, the wife had an episode of paranoia

at a gas station in Texas during which she informed other customers that

the husband was kidnapping her and the son. He stated that law-

enforcement officers were called and that, fortunately, the wife's sister

intervened before he was arrested. The wife testified that she had been

hospitalized in 2019 after suffering an episode of paranoia, during which

she had kicked the wall, making a hole, and had acted aggressively

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toward the husband. The husband testified that during that incident,

the wife stabbed him with a knife, but he did not call law-enforcement

officers. The wife admitted that she had been hospitalized twice in 2020

for having mental issues, including having suicidal tendencies.

The wife testified that she has an associate degree in child

development and that she had worked part-time in a day care for about

ten years, then full time as a teacher's assistant in a day care for a short

period. She stated that she had earned between $10 to $15 per hour at

those jobs. Evidence was presented that she had also been employed by

a bank and by Blue Cross Blue Shield. She stated that most recently

she had been employed as a nanny but that that employment had ended.

She testified that she had applied for disability income but had been

denied and was currently seeking full-time employment. The trial court

admitted into evidence a copy of the wife's 2019 tax return that indicated

that the wife's adjusted gross income for that year was $12,200. She

explained that she did not have a retirement-savings account because,

approximately 18 years earlier, she had cashed out the assets in her

401(k) retirement account and given the funds to the husband to pay

their delinquent bills.

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The wife testified that the husband, who had worked for Mercedes-

Benz since 1997, earned between $85,000 to $100,000 per year, received

funds from a family trust, and had a 401(k) retirement account with

Mercedes-Benz valued at $257,259.25 as of May 2020, when she filed the

divorce complaint. The wife explained that the husband had used

income from the family trust to pay for two years of their child's

secondary private-school education, a two-week family vacation to

Europe in 2017, and a family vacation to Walt Disney World in 2015.

The husband testified that his gross income from Mercedes-Benz in

2019 was $86,966; his 2020 tax return, which was admitted into evidence,

indicated that his net wages for 2020 were $81,714.14. The husband

stated that the value of the funds in his retirement account as of April 1,

2020, was $319,443.10, and that between April 1 and April 30, 2020, he

had withdrawn $63,954 from that account. He admitted that in May

2020, he also had an account with TD Ameritrade with assets in the

amount of $15,047.56 and at least two savings accounts. Documents

were admitted into evidence indicating that between $20,000 and

$40,000 was in those savings accounts at one time. The husband,

however, testified that at most $200 was in those accounts at the time of

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trial. He admitted that he was a beneficiary of a family trust and had

received financial assistance from that trust but denied that any of those

funds were used for the benefit of his marriage. The husband testified

that he did not have access to the funds in the trust because those funds

were invested. The husband testified that he was responsible for the

family's bills and admitted that he and the wife had filed for bankruptcy

several years ago. He testified that he drives a 2009 Lexus vehicle and

that his monthly expenses were $1,116.26.

With regard to the breakdown of the marriage, the wife testified

that the husband engaged in gambling and had taken out numerous

loans and had pawned some of her jewelry to repay his debts. The

husband stated that it had been over 15 years since he had visited a

casino, denied any gambling debt, and denied having pawned the wife's

jewelry. The wife further testified that after she had found a condom in

the husband's luggage when he returned from a work trip to Germany,

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