Mary Friend v. Floyd Lamar Friend
Opinion
Rel: April 28, 2023
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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2022-2023
CL-2022-0952
Mary Friend
v.
Floyd Lamar Friend
Appeal from Jefferson Circuit Court, Bessemer Division (DR-20-900125)
THOMPSON, Presiding Judge.
Mary Friend ("the wife") appeals from a judgment entered by the Jefferson Circuit Court, Bessemer Division, divorcing her from Floyd Lamar Friend ("the husband"). We reverse and remand.
On May 11, 2020, the wife filed a complaint seeking a divorce from the husband on the ground that an irretrievable breakdown in their marriage had occurred. The wife asked the trial court to award her, among other things, the marital residence, one-half of the value of the husband's retirement account, periodic and rehabilitative alimony, and an attorney fee. Thereafter, the husband filed an answer and a counterclaim, asking the trial court to divorce the parties and to divide equitably the parties' real property and personal property. The wife filed an answer to the husband's counterclaim.
On November 17, 2021, the trial court conducted a trial. Evidence was presented that the parties married in September 1998, separated in July 2021, and have one child who reached the age of majority after the filing of the divorce complaint but before the trial was conducted. The wife testified that she currently lived in the marital residence, which, she testified, was valued at $145,690 but needed substantial, costly repairs. She stated that the house needed a deck, that due to issues with the foundation the basement flooded when it rained heavily, that the pipes leaked, and that one of the bathrooms had consistent drainage issues. When asked about the cost to repair the foundation, the wife responded
that it would be approximately $26,000. She further explained that the house was built in 1972 and that most of the appliances needed replacing. The husband testified that he did not believe the house needed substantial repairs. He admitted that he had removed the deck approximately ten years ago because it was a safety hazard and stated that it had not been replaced because the parties had not been able to decide whether to build another deck or landscape the area.
The wife testified that she was 52 years old and had been diagnosed with depression at the age of 12 and bipolar disorder at the age of 22. She stated that the husband was aware of these diagnoses when they married. She explained that she is under the care of a psychiatrist for her bipolar disorder and that she takes three medications daily. According to the husband, in 2014, the wife had an episode of paranoia at a gas station in Texas during which she informed other customers that the husband was kidnapping her and the son. He stated that law- enforcement officers were called and that, fortunately, the wife's sister intervened before he was arrested. The wife testified that she had been hospitalized in 2019 after suffering an episode of paranoia, during which she had kicked the wall, making a hole, and had acted aggressively
toward the husband. The husband testified that during that incident, the wife stabbed him with a knife, but he did not call law-enforcement officers. The wife admitted that she had been hospitalized twice in 2020 for having mental issues, including having suicidal tendencies.
The wife testified that she has an associate degree in child development and that she had worked part-time in a day care for about ten years, then full time as a teacher's assistant in a day care for a short period. She stated that she had earned between $10 to $15 per hour at those jobs. Evidence was presented that she had also been employed by a bank and by Blue Cross Blue Shield. She stated that most recently she had been employed as a nanny but that that employment had ended. She testified that she had applied for disability income but had been denied and was currently seeking full-time employment. The trial court admitted into evidence a copy of the wife's 2019 tax return that indicated that the wife's adjusted gross income for that year was $12,200. She explained that she did not have a retirement-savings account because, approximately 18 years earlier, she had cashed out the assets in her 401(k) retirement account and given the funds to the husband to pay their delinquent bills.
The wife testified that the husband, who had worked for Mercedes-
Benz since 1997, earned between $85,000 to $100,000 per year, received funds from a family trust, and had a 401(k) retirement account with Mercedes-Benz valued at $257,259.25 as of May 2020, when she filed the divorce complaint. The wife explained that the husband had used income from the family trust to pay for two years of their child's secondary private-school education, a two-week family vacation to Europe in 2017, and a family vacation to Walt Disney World in 2015.
The husband testified that his gross income from Mercedes-Benz in 2019 was $86,966; his 2020 tax return, which was admitted into evidence, indicated that his net wages for 2020 were $81,714.14. The husband stated that the value of the funds in his retirement account as of April 1, 2020, was $319,443.10, and that between April 1 and April 30, 2020, he had withdrawn $63,954 from that account. He admitted that in May 2020, he also had an account with TD Ameritrade with assets in the amount of $15,047.56 and at least two savings accounts. Documents were admitted into evidence indicating that between $20,000 and $40,000 was in those savings accounts at one time. The husband, however, testified that at most $200 was in those accounts at the time of
trial. He admitted that he was a beneficiary of a family trust and had received financial assistance from that trust but denied that any of those funds were used for the benefit of his marriage. The husband testified that he did not have access to the funds in the trust because those funds were invested. The husband testified that he was responsible for the family's bills and admitted that he and the wife had filed for bankruptcy several years ago. He testified that he drives a 2009 Lexus vehicle and that his monthly expenses were $1,116.26.
With regard to the breakdown of the marriage, the wife testified that the husband engaged in gambling and had taken out numerous loans and had pawned some of her jewelry to repay his debts. The husband stated that it had been over 15 years since he had visited a casino, denied any gambling debt, and denied having pawned the wife's jewelry. The wife further testified that after she had found a condom in the husband's luggage when he returned from a work trip to Germany, the husband had admitted to having visited with prostitutes on that trip. She stated that she had also found notes indicating that he had bought Valentine's Day gifts for women other than herself. The husband denied being unfaithful to the wife. The husband insisted that the marriage was
irretrievably broken due to the wife's mental illness and her general failure to fulfill her role in the marriage.
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