Leytrick, A. v. Leytrick, S.
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Opinion
J-S41017-23
NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT O.P. 65.37
ADAM LEYTRICK : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : STEPHANIE LEYTRICK : : Appellant : No. 815 WDA 2023
Appeal from the Order Entered June 14, 2023 In the Court of Common Pleas of Mercer County Civil Division at No(s): No. 2022-02278
BEFORE: PANELLA, P.J., OLSON, J., and STEVENS, P.J.E.*
MEMORANDUM BY OLSON, J.: FILED: December 21, 2023
Appellant, Stephanie Leytrick (“Mother”), appeals from the order
entered on June 14, 2023, which denied Mother’s petition to relocate and
modified an existing child custody order. We affirm.
The trial court thoroughly summarized the underlying facts of this case:
Mother [currently resides in Grove City, Pennsylvania] with the children C.L., 9 years old, and V.L., 7 years old. [Adam Leytrick (“Father”) is 44 years old] and also resides in Grove City, Pennsylvania. Father resides alone, other than when the subject children are with him.
Father has lived in the Grove City area for approximately [14] years and the children have lived in the Grove City area their entire lives. The parties were married April 24, 2010. There is a dispute, and it is unclear, when the parties separated. Mother alleged both March 2022 as well as September 2022 while [Father] alleged January 2022. All parties agreed since separation the children have resided primarily with [Mother]. ____________________________________________
* Former Justice specially assigned to the Superior Court. J-S41017-23
Father was previously employed as a meat cutter at Giant Eagle in New Castle, Pennsylvania. He is currently unemployed but the issue is being grieved through the union process. Mother works for an agency known as "clipboard" and is [a registered nurse (“RN”)]. She works primarily in long term care facilities in Beaver and Clarion Counties. Mother currently makes $48.00/hour. Mother works approximately [20] hours per week.
Mother's parents live approximately [45] minutes from her current location as does her brother. She also has four [] nieces and nephews, ranging in age from [four] to [11].
Father's family is comprised of [61] people from the generation of his parents, himself, and his children. The court notes the subject children are close with their paternal cousins. Mother admitted the children have a good relationship with their maternal grandparents as well as with paternal grandmother.
All witnesses agreed the children are well-behaved, do well in school, and are active. When with [Father], the children play with other kids in his neighborhood, C.L. plays garage hockey with [Father], they go on walks, or hunting, [Father] plants flowers, watches movies and cooks with V.L. and they all go swimming in the pool. V.L. likes to sing and dance. When the children are with [Mother] they go bowling, to the park, play school, play frisbee, play ball, or go to the Olympic Fun Center, a roller skating facility. Discipline in [Father’s] house is time out or a smack on the butt and [Mother] testified to relying on timeouts. No evidence was presented as to any physical abuse of the children by any party.
Other than one PFA to be discussed hereinbelow, no evidence was presented as to any physical abuse between the parties and in fact, [Mother] specifically stated [Father] was not physically abusive. Mother admitted [Father] loves the children.
Father testified [Mother] is a great mother and has always had the best interest of the children at heart until her recent decision to relocate to [Lee's Summit, Missouri]. At the time of the children's birth, [Father] worked full-time and [Mother]
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worked part-time. Therefore, [Mother] undertook most of the duties with the children although [Father] cooked and helped with diapers.
Father did know the name of the children's dentist but incorrectly identified the children's pediatrician. When the parties were together [Mother] primarily took the children to the doctors and dentist and tended to them when they were ill. The children tend to come to [Mother] for emotional support. Father did not know the names of the teachers [and did not make any attempt to] call the school to find out. He indicated there was no need because the children do well in school. Father acknowledges there is probably an "app" that would allow him to have information regarding the children's extracurricular school activities but he had not investigated same.
Father indicated he did not attend children's events because he did not have notice or had to work. The court notes [Father] did not utilize the ability for a school "app" to educate himself. Father admits he has not gone to many of the children's medical appointments. Mother has on at least one occasion sent [Father] a video of the child's extracurricular school activity.
C.L. played baseball for two (2) years. Father coached the first year and attended all practices and games the second year. The child did not play a third year because [Mother] would not commit to make sure the child was there and is not playing this year because [Mother] will not commit as a result of her desire to move to [Lee's Summit, Missouri] with the children.
The controlling custody order is of November 10, 2022. The order provides the parties share joint legal custody with [Mother] exercising primary physical custody. Father's partial custody is on a "week one" and "week two" basis. Week one [Father] has the children from Sunday at 3:00 p.m. until Tuesday morning until they are put on the school bus or returned to [Mother] at 9:00 a.m. Week two [Father] has the children from Saturday at 9:00 a.m. until the children are placed on the bus or return to mother at 9:00 a.m. on Monday morning.
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During Week two [Father] also exercises custody from Thursday after school until Friday morning when the children are placed on the school bus or return to [Mother] at 9:00 a.m. This order provides Thanksgiving visitation with [Mother] from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. and [Father] from 4:00 p.m.
In support of [Father’s] case, in addition to his testimony, he presented the testimony of his mother, Marsha Leytrick, his [sister-in-law], Susan Leytrick and his aunt, Susan Dellapiazza. Mother presented the testimony of herself, as well as her fiancé, Jason Atkinson, and her father, Paul Sereda. All witnesses which addressed [Father’s] drinking agreed [Father] had a moderate to severe drinking problem prior to March 2022. Father likewise agreed. Father drank approximately [eight to 12] cans [of] beer on a daily basis. All evidence indicated [Father’s] drinking occurred after work, and while at the home. Father voluntarily went to rehab because [Mother] threatened she would move away and he would never see the children again. Father successfully completed a [14] day rehab at Banyon Treatment Facility in March 2022. Father's "sober date" is March 21, 2022. Father stated he has an occasional urge to drink, but not very often. When he does, he makes a phone call or attends a meeting.
All of [Father’s] witnesses testified since rehab [Father] has not consumed any alcohol in any manner. To maintain his sobriety [Father] reads "the big book," attends meetings, attends speaker meetings, and talks with a woman that has over a decade of sobriety.
Paternal grandmother testified since [Father’s] rehab there has been a 100% change, he is 100% active in the children's lives, spends time with the children playing garage hockey, swimming, and other activities. Paternal grandmother indicated no concern for the children's safety in [Father’s] custody, no evidence of a relapse, and they talk daily.
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J-S41017-23
NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT O.P. 65.37
ADAM LEYTRICK : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : STEPHANIE LEYTRICK : : Appellant : No. 815 WDA 2023
Appeal from the Order Entered June 14, 2023 In the Court of Common Pleas of Mercer County Civil Division at No(s): No. 2022-02278
BEFORE: PANELLA, P.J., OLSON, J., and STEVENS, P.J.E.*
MEMORANDUM BY OLSON, J.: FILED: December 21, 2023
Appellant, Stephanie Leytrick (“Mother”), appeals from the order
entered on June 14, 2023, which denied Mother’s petition to relocate and
modified an existing child custody order. We affirm.
The trial court thoroughly summarized the underlying facts of this case:
Mother [currently resides in Grove City, Pennsylvania] with the children C.L., 9 years old, and V.L., 7 years old. [Adam Leytrick (“Father”) is 44 years old] and also resides in Grove City, Pennsylvania. Father resides alone, other than when the subject children are with him.
Father has lived in the Grove City area for approximately [14] years and the children have lived in the Grove City area their entire lives. The parties were married April 24, 2010. There is a dispute, and it is unclear, when the parties separated. Mother alleged both March 2022 as well as September 2022 while [Father] alleged January 2022. All parties agreed since separation the children have resided primarily with [Mother]. ____________________________________________
* Former Justice specially assigned to the Superior Court. J-S41017-23
Father was previously employed as a meat cutter at Giant Eagle in New Castle, Pennsylvania. He is currently unemployed but the issue is being grieved through the union process. Mother works for an agency known as "clipboard" and is [a registered nurse (“RN”)]. She works primarily in long term care facilities in Beaver and Clarion Counties. Mother currently makes $48.00/hour. Mother works approximately [20] hours per week.
Mother's parents live approximately [45] minutes from her current location as does her brother. She also has four [] nieces and nephews, ranging in age from [four] to [11].
Father's family is comprised of [61] people from the generation of his parents, himself, and his children. The court notes the subject children are close with their paternal cousins. Mother admitted the children have a good relationship with their maternal grandparents as well as with paternal grandmother.
All witnesses agreed the children are well-behaved, do well in school, and are active. When with [Father], the children play with other kids in his neighborhood, C.L. plays garage hockey with [Father], they go on walks, or hunting, [Father] plants flowers, watches movies and cooks with V.L. and they all go swimming in the pool. V.L. likes to sing and dance. When the children are with [Mother] they go bowling, to the park, play school, play frisbee, play ball, or go to the Olympic Fun Center, a roller skating facility. Discipline in [Father’s] house is time out or a smack on the butt and [Mother] testified to relying on timeouts. No evidence was presented as to any physical abuse of the children by any party.
Other than one PFA to be discussed hereinbelow, no evidence was presented as to any physical abuse between the parties and in fact, [Mother] specifically stated [Father] was not physically abusive. Mother admitted [Father] loves the children.
Father testified [Mother] is a great mother and has always had the best interest of the children at heart until her recent decision to relocate to [Lee's Summit, Missouri]. At the time of the children's birth, [Father] worked full-time and [Mother]
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worked part-time. Therefore, [Mother] undertook most of the duties with the children although [Father] cooked and helped with diapers.
Father did know the name of the children's dentist but incorrectly identified the children's pediatrician. When the parties were together [Mother] primarily took the children to the doctors and dentist and tended to them when they were ill. The children tend to come to [Mother] for emotional support. Father did not know the names of the teachers [and did not make any attempt to] call the school to find out. He indicated there was no need because the children do well in school. Father acknowledges there is probably an "app" that would allow him to have information regarding the children's extracurricular school activities but he had not investigated same.
Father indicated he did not attend children's events because he did not have notice or had to work. The court notes [Father] did not utilize the ability for a school "app" to educate himself. Father admits he has not gone to many of the children's medical appointments. Mother has on at least one occasion sent [Father] a video of the child's extracurricular school activity.
C.L. played baseball for two (2) years. Father coached the first year and attended all practices and games the second year. The child did not play a third year because [Mother] would not commit to make sure the child was there and is not playing this year because [Mother] will not commit as a result of her desire to move to [Lee's Summit, Missouri] with the children.
The controlling custody order is of November 10, 2022. The order provides the parties share joint legal custody with [Mother] exercising primary physical custody. Father's partial custody is on a "week one" and "week two" basis. Week one [Father] has the children from Sunday at 3:00 p.m. until Tuesday morning until they are put on the school bus or returned to [Mother] at 9:00 a.m. Week two [Father] has the children from Saturday at 9:00 a.m. until the children are placed on the bus or return to mother at 9:00 a.m. on Monday morning.
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During Week two [Father] also exercises custody from Thursday after school until Friday morning when the children are placed on the school bus or return to [Mother] at 9:00 a.m. This order provides Thanksgiving visitation with [Mother] from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. and [Father] from 4:00 p.m.
In support of [Father’s] case, in addition to his testimony, he presented the testimony of his mother, Marsha Leytrick, his [sister-in-law], Susan Leytrick and his aunt, Susan Dellapiazza. Mother presented the testimony of herself, as well as her fiancé, Jason Atkinson, and her father, Paul Sereda. All witnesses which addressed [Father’s] drinking agreed [Father] had a moderate to severe drinking problem prior to March 2022. Father likewise agreed. Father drank approximately [eight to 12] cans [of] beer on a daily basis. All evidence indicated [Father’s] drinking occurred after work, and while at the home. Father voluntarily went to rehab because [Mother] threatened she would move away and he would never see the children again. Father successfully completed a [14] day rehab at Banyon Treatment Facility in March 2022. Father's "sober date" is March 21, 2022. Father stated he has an occasional urge to drink, but not very often. When he does, he makes a phone call or attends a meeting.
All of [Father’s] witnesses testified since rehab [Father] has not consumed any alcohol in any manner. To maintain his sobriety [Father] reads "the big book," attends meetings, attends speaker meetings, and talks with a woman that has over a decade of sobriety.
Paternal grandmother testified since [Father’s] rehab there has been a 100% change, he is 100% active in the children's lives, spends time with the children playing garage hockey, swimming, and other activities. Paternal grandmother indicated no concern for the children's safety in [Father’s] custody, no evidence of a relapse, and they talk daily. Paternal grandmother indicated when [Father] was drinking you could tell by his eyes, his more "mellow" attitude, but she did not notice a change in his speech.
Father's [sister-in-law], Susan Leytrick, indicated prior to rehab [Father’s] drinking would render him lethargic, slurred speech and his demeanor would be different and essentially
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more isolated. She sees [Father] on an occasional basis. Since rehab there has been no evidence of drinking or alcohol issues.
Father's aunt, Susan Dellapiazza, indicated she was able to tell when [Father] had been drinking because of his red face, not eating, slurring speech, and isolating. She has seen no evidence since [Father’s] rehab of drinking or any evidence of alcohol whatsoever. She has no safety concerns regarding the children being in [Father’s] care and no doubt [Father] is no longer drinking.
Mother testified she believes [Father] continues to drink. However, the court does not find this testimony credible. Mother stated as a result of being together for [22] years she knows what [Father] sounds like when he is drunk and even in the last week, and multiple other times, she believes he has sounded drunk on phone calls with the children. However, when [Mother] requested the police to perform a welfare check as a result of her suspicions, the police took no action and did not remove the children from [Father’s] care. Additionally, [Mother] testified the minor children told her [that Father “said that there was water in his beer can.”] However, in addition to said testimony being hearsay, the children did not testify to same. Mother also alleged [Father] continues to drink based on a photograph, which was not admitted into evidence, allegedly containing a beer can within said photograph. Said evidence is insufficient to find [Father] continues to drink, or more importantly, any alcohol usage is a danger to the children.
Of concern to this court is [Father’s] decision to unilaterally remove himself from depression/anxiety medications. It is this court's intent to order [Father] to schedule an evaluation, and to comply with any recommendations regarding treatment and medications. During [Father’s] rehabilitation a physician ordered medication for depression and anxiety. This medication included one medicine to be taken one time daily, and a second medication to be taken [one to four] times a day, if needed. Father unilaterally removed himself from the medications in the last month or two without consulting, informing, or involving a physician.
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In approximately September 2022 [Mother] requested a PFA order on behalf of herself and the children. Following a hearing on September 21, 2022 [the trial] court granted a [six] month PFA order with regard to [Mother] and denied the order with regard to the children.
Mother alleged in the [PFA] petition, in relevant part, through the course of an argument "[Father] flung the door open so forcefully, that the door knob hit [Mother] and knocked her down." Mother alleged this caused a bruise on her hip.
The petition also alleged the children are scared of [Father]. During the course of the instant proceedings [Mother] indicated regarding the PFA there was an argument, about custody of the children, and during the course of the argument [Father] pushed through an unlocked door and the door hit her in the hip. Mother alleged the door left a bruise "for weeks." Father testified he did not force the door open but rather placed his foot in the door to prevent [Mother] from closing it and he believed [Mother] fell into the door.
The court notes despite the allegations in the PFA petition the children were afraid of [Father], the children testified on September 21, 2022 in the course of the PFA hearing. At that time, V.L., was [six] years old, and indicated [Father] does "grab her by her hands or her arms and that it hurts" when she is not listening. Despite [Mother’s] testimony she only uses time out, V.L. through the course of the PFA hearing testified [Mother] smacks her on the butt "sometimes" and that [Father] "does it all the time." When this court asked whether [Father] ever says anything that makes V.L. afraid of him, she limited her response to an incident in which she believed [Father] forced her to "eat a pill." When the [trial court] followed up asking if [Father] had ever done or said anything that makes her afraid V.L. indicated no. V.L. specifically testified, "if [Father] didn't make me eat the pill I wouldn't be scared of him."
C.L. testified regarding the "pill" incident indicating [Father] attempted to have V.L. take an adult Advil as opposed to a small Advil. C.L. also testified sometimes [Father] says if the child calls [Mother] he would smack the child which "makes me feel a little bit scared." C.L. indicated [Father] has never actually smacked the child. C.L. indicated [Mother]
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"sometimes she grabs my arm" when he is not listening essentially pinching his wrist. C.L. indicated [Father] was "way more scary because he screams really loud." Although child indicated [Father] makes "threats," child was unable to produce any examples. C.L. testified with regard to the "door" incident. The parents were arguing about [Father] taking children for custody time, [Mother] tried to shut the door and [Father] "like pushed it and then slammed it into my mom." Father believes his relationship with C.L. was awesome and they were both very active and like outside. Father's relationship with V.L. was very good and they plant flowers, cook and watch movies.
The [trial court] believes both parents have inappropriately talked with the children regarding the potential move to Lee's Summit[, Missouri]. The [trial court] finds [Mother] improperly influenced the children to desire to move to Lee's Summit. V.L. testified through the course of the instant proceedings the hearing was about moving to Kansas City and [Mother] told her that. V.L. testified they had been to Kansas City on [two] occasions. V.L. indicated the trip to Kansas City was like a vacation. V.L. testified she wanted to do gymnastics in Kansas City but did not know gymnastics were available in Mercer County. The child also stated she did not know what gymnastics were. Mother told V.L. there was gymnastics in Kansas City but did not tell her there was gymnastics in the area.
V.L. also wished to go to Kansas City because there is a roller coaster. When asked whether V.L. preferred to live in Grove City or Kansas City she indicated Kansas City. Her explanation was it was a bigger city. When the Court asked her to compare Kansas City to Pittsburgh, she indicated "Kansas City is way better" and it was because she was going to get new friends. When the [trial court] inquired as to whether V.L. would be okay staying in Grove City[, V.L. responded that] "it would have been okay, I mean no." When asked why the child twice simply stated she wanted to move to Kansas City, she indicated it is fun there. When V.L. was asked how often [Mother] talks to the child about Kansas City the child indicated "a little often." The child indicated if [Mother] was not able to go to Kansas City, [Mother] would be "really sad and she'll cry" and she will not be able to talk to her fiancé. V.L. also indicated [Mother], at least [three]
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times, told her she would cry if she could not go to Kansas City. V.L. also indicated [Father] told her they are not moving.
C.L. indicated he was at the hearing because [Mother] wanted to move to Kansas City and he felt really good about it because he did not like going back and forth between his parent's houses and wanted to stay at [one] place. C.L. indicated he does not like his [Father’s] house because he does not feel safe to go there but indicated [Father] has never hurt him, only hurts his feelings. C.L. indicated he would be okay only seeing his [Father] once or twice a year. When the Court inquired whether [Mother] told C.L. why she wants to move to Kansas City he indicated because she has a better job there, she met a really nice man there that helps her and it would be a better life for us. In fact, C.L. indicated [Mother] told him that the morning of the hearing.
C.L. also indicated [Mother] told him if the [court] does not approve the move to Kansas City "she would be really sad." C.L. alleges he hates going to [Father’s house], gets nauseous at [Father’s house], and sometimes cannot eat. When the court inquired as to why the child had earlier indicated he plays soccer, hockey and baseball at [Father’s] house he said "to buy some time." When the court inquired whether [Mother] had even spoken to the child about how often he should see his [Father], the child indicated "maybe every [five] weeks." However, the child then denied the conversation. The court notes [Mother’s] proposed visitation schedule is every [five] weeks. C.L. indicated Kansas City was preferable because [Mother] has a better job, there are “way better schools,” “way better soccer and football leagues” and “way better friends and stuff.” When the [court] inquired as to whether [Mother] told C.L. how she would feel if she could not move to Kansas City, he indicated she would cry "because she met a wonderful guy" and "he is the most amazing person." The move would allow "my mom can be happy every single day." He also indicated "my dad never treated my mom nice at all." The [court] notes some of the phrases used by C.L. do not seem the natural language of a [nine-year-old] child. Of note is [Mother] used the phrase that her fiancé was a "wonderful, caring man." The child also pointed out the [two] times they left Kansas City "my mom always cries because we have to leave."
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The child indicated during the course of the instant proceedings on March 31, 2023 the incident with regard to the PFA "made me feel that I never want to see him again. I never want to care for him. He has hurt my mom so many times, her feelings. Sometimes when he hurts her feelings, he hurts mine." Interestingly, only a few weeks after the incident in September 2022 both children indicated they would have no problem going to [Father’s] house again after a [two] week pause of visitation. C.L. indicated when he moves to Kansas City he will play pickleball but he does not play pickleball here because [Mother] told them they do not have it here. C.L. indicated his plan is to play sports in Kansas City but if he did not go to Kansas City he would probably not play sports here but he cannot answer why.
Father credibly testified he had great difficulty visiting the children prior to a court order or gaining any amount of time beyond the court order. Father credibly testified "it is always a struggle to get the kids" and when [Mother] works she takes the children to her parents rather than offering the time to [Father]. Father acknowledged in the last approximate month there have been [two] times [Mother] has agreed to extra time. One was the weekend of the hearing and the other was to allow [Father] to take C.L. hunting. Subsequent testimony established the hunting day was in exchange for [Father’s] agreement to bring the children to a church event on Easter day. The children were at an Easter program at the maternal grandparent's church. Father agreed to bring the children for breakfast to the church and allow them to participate in the program, which occurred. Mother and her parents were in attendance. This credible testimony is contrary to [Mother’s] testimony [Father] did not allow the children to see her at all this Easter.
Both parties threaten to, or actually, call the police on each other. Father wished [for] the children on Sunday at 9:00 a.m.[,] despite the fact the court order provided he did not receive custody until 3:00 p.m. on Sundays and he threatened to call the police. Mother called the police for a welfare check based on her alleged belief [Father] was under the influence and because [Father] was not allowing the children to talk to her "without supervision."
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By agreement of the parties [the trial court] issued an order on December 22, 2022 providing the children to be with [Father] from December 22, 2022 after school, or 5:00 p.m., whichever is earlier, until 10:30 a.m. on Sunday. Mother then retained custody until January 2, 2023. Father did not appear at the scheduled exchange on Christmas Day at 10:30 a.m. requiring [Mother] to go to [Father’s] home to retrieve the children. Father's explanations were inconsistent and lacked credibility. It was clear to the court [Father was] determined to simply disregard the court order.
Father's mother, Marsha Leytrick credibly testified she usually sees the subject children weekly, sometimes babysits the children and visits with the children at her home. She lives approximately an hour and half away from [Father’s] residence[.] Her observation of the children and [Father’s] interaction indicate "a lot of love" and she sees no signs of friction or fear. The witness testified, and it is clear to the [court], the parties do not get along well at all.
Father presented the testimony of his aunt, Susan Dellapiazza. The witness testified she is close with [Father], they see each other approximately twice a month, mostly at maternal grandmother's house in Bridgeville. The witness lives close to maternal grandmother. She believes [Father] is an outstanding and good father, he is very active, they fish, play garage hockey, cook and walk the dog. The witness described [Father] and children as close. The witness believed [Father] and children were a "very close unit."
Mother testified with regard to her desire to move to Lee's Summit, Missouri, a suburb of Kansas City. Although [Mother’s] testimony couched the move for the benefit of the children, it is clear the sole basis for the move is her engagement to Jason Atkinson ("fiancé"). The relationship of [Mother] and fiancé began in March 2022 online and they first met in person in Missouri on March 24, 2022.
Initially the parties visited once a month and now visit every [two to three] weeks. On her first visit to Missouri she fell in love with the city. Mother testified the children did not meet fiancé until the end of 2022. This is contrary to testimony the children met the fiancé in August of 2022.
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Mother made the decision at the end of 2022 or the beginning of 2023 to move to Lee's Summit. Lee's Summit is an approximate [12-hour] drive or [two-and-one-half] hour flight from the parties' current residences. The houses [Mother] proposes to rent in Lee's Summit are of a suburban nature with yards. The homes currently identified by [Mother] are approximately [one] block from fiancé, will be rented, and each has [four] bedrooms. It is [Mother’s] plan to wed fiancé in October 2023, which she plans to do regardless of whether this court approves the relocation.
Upon the marriage it is [Mother’s] belief her fiancé and his [four] children will move in to the home she is renting. [Mother] initially testified the children did not meet her fiancé until the end of 2022 although subsequent testimony established the first trip with the children to Kansas City was in August 2022 and that Christmas 2022 was the second trip. Mother indicated the [four] bedroom home can be rented for approximately $1,200.00 per month and her current rent for an apartment is $750.00 per month. Mother indicated if the court denies relocation she is unsure whether she will move to Kansas City but the marriage will still occur.
Mother testified in an incredible fashion she did not believe the move the Kansas City would affect the children's relationship with [Father] in any way because of technology. Mother did acknowledge [Father] would be unable to attend extracurricular or sporting activities, but alleged [Father] had never done so before. However, this court notes [Father] coached C.L. in baseball one year and in his second year attended all practices and games. When questioned whether [Mother’s] proposed partial visitation with [Father] if the move is approved would affect her bond with children if the schedule was flipped, [Mother] was unsure.
Mother attempted to couch her desire to move to Kansas City with her fiancé as for the benefit of the children as it would show the children stability, emotional stability, and they would see a lifelong stable partnership between [Mother] and her fiancé. Mother testified she believes it important for the children to see her with a dependable and supportive partner. Mother believes it's very important for the children to see "love between a couple."
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Mother testified education is very important and the kids are doing very well at Grove City. Mother further testified the school district in Kansas City is rated "A+" and that Grove City Schools are "B+". Mother was unable to provide any details other than an internet search to support the ratings. Mother acknowledged the class sizes appeared to be the same and there was no meaningful difference between the school districts. All parties agreed the children do well in school.
Mother currently makes $48.00/hour working for a company called "clipboard". She indicated this company is present in her proposed relocation and she would make $90.00/hour. Mother works per diem approximately [20] hours per week. Mother did not check whether there is higher pay available in any other cities other than Kansas City. Mother did not research any other school districts or schools in other cities, but rather chose the Lee's Summit Schools because that's where her fiancé’s children attend.
Mother admitted she only researched the Lee's Summit School District after she decided to relocate. Mother is an RN. In Kansas City she should be able to obtain her BSN and work towards her goal of being a flight nurse at Ottawa University. Mother credibly testified this opportunity was not as easily available in her current location as the Ottawa program would be approximately [15] minutes from her home and any such programs in Pennsylvania would be at least [one] hour[] from her home.
Mother testified in Kansas City, her fiancé, and her fiancé’s [two] sisters would be available for childcare. Mother also testified childcare would not be necessary as fiancé makes significantly more money and therefore, she could work less. Mother believed her RN license would easily transfer and her Pennsylvania license is sufficient to allow her to work in Missouri.
Mother asserted the childcare availability is particularly important with regard to the move as [Father] is not dependable and does not provide childcare and in fact at the last minute will cancel his commitments. The court notes the availability of maternal grandmother to babysit as well as daycares in the Grove City area. The court also notes the
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children have a strong bond with the maternal grandmother and they see her every couple weekends.
Mother's fiancé is heavily involved in the church and they plan on having counseling for couples with blended families following the move. Mother proposes the court authorize the relocation to Kansas City area and grant her primary physical custody subject to [Father’s] partial custody rights. Mother proposes [Father’s] custody rights be comprised of [two] weeks in the beginning and end of summer as well as during the remainder of the year, [Mother] will return for a long weekend every [five] weeks. Mother also proposes a week of partial custody with [Father] at Easter and a week at Christmas time. Mother indicated she will pay all airfare for her and the children to return, she will then stay in the area visiting her family and friends, and then return with the children at the conclusion of each partial custody of [Father].
Mother presented the testimony of her fiancé, Jason Atkinson. The witness lives in Lee's Summit, Missouri with his [four] children, ages [14, 11, eight, and six]. He has never committed a crime, been subject of a restraining order, been a party to a Children & Youth Services investigation, nor is he subject to any physical disability or illness that prevents caring for children including mental illnesses or disabilities. [Fiancé] is Director of Business Development for a financial advisor and works 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday.
[Fiancé] confirms the parties began talking on Twitter before visiting in person which they have done at least a dozen times. Mother and fiancé have visited both in Kansas City and in Pennsylvania and speak [two to three] hours a day, at least, on the phone. During the subject children's visit at Christmas 2022 they went to the park, played video games together, and played baseball. The parties also went to a golf driving range known as Top Golf, went to a nephew's wedding and "had a really fun time." [Fiancé] and C.L. played "a little bit" of pickleball in Kansas City. It is clear to the court fiancé has a very strong affection for both children.
[Fiancé] characterized the relationship between the children and [Mother] as very good. He indicated she is “the most fantastic mother I've ever met.” [Fiancé] described the
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neighborhood as houses of approximately 1,500 square feet, single family homes, and in the $200,000 range.
[Fiancé] is unable to relocate here due to the nature of his job especially in comparison to mother's ability to easily relocate as an RN. [Fiancé] added "obviously, I have [four] kids of my own, as well."
Mother also presented the testimony of her father, Paul Sereda. The witness lives in Greenville, Pennsylvania which is approximately [35] minutes from the [parties’] current location.
The witness owns a tavern. He sees the subject children usually a couple times a week and at least, every other weekend. They go to the park which is right next door to his residence, play ball, ride on the side by side, or go through the woods, go to fairs, horseback riding, and around farms. He also teaches C.L. about gun safety. Since the parties' separation witness has not observed [Father] around the children. Witness sees the children a lot more in the summer. Witness has taught V.L. how to play guitar and maternal grandmother has taught the children some piano.
Both the maternal grandparents spend a lot of time with the children and have a very close bond. Witness described [Mother’s] relationship with the children as very caring and "a mother bear" and believe she is a wonderful mother. The children and grandparents are very attached and close to each other.
The subject children have [four] maternal cousins in the Pittsburgh area. Witness believed [Father’s] primary deficiency in parenting was his alcohol consumption and the drinking prevented [Father] from engaging with or watching the children.
Witness also called the police for a "welfare check" on [Father] and the children and to his knowledge the police took no action following said check.
Mother has no relatives on either side of the family in the Kansas City area.
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The children enjoy going to school in the Grove City School District. The court appointed David Gloss, Esquire as Guardian Ad Litem ("GAL") for the children. In addition to a report, which is admitted into evidence, the GAL testified in these proceedings. It was the GAL's conclusion relocation was not in the best interest of the children. The GAL further believed the evidence was clear the children had "been prepared by the mother" for the meeting with the GAL and led to believe life in Missouri is "nirvana". As examples the GAL pointed out V.L. desired to move to Missouri to ride a yet to be built roller coaster and C.L.'s mimicking of [Mother’s] statements. The GAL further stated that C.L., when pressed, will admit he has had good times at [Father’s] house.
The GAL summarized his position by stating the children were born and raised in the area, all friendships and family are in the Grove City area, no family in Kansas City, all grandparents are within close proximity to Mercer County and a belief that an 850 mile move will significantly damage the relationship with [Father]. The GAL's investigation determined both the children and the school district were aware the parent's divorce was "a bad situation" and [Father] and GAL believed that C.L. and [Father] should participate in joint therapy. The GAL saw no enhancement to the children's lives if relocation was granted.
Father believes counseling between he and C.L. is appropriate as well as the parties should undertake co- parenting classes. Father is "extremely happy" when he has his children and does not believe there is any issue with their relationship other than [Mother’s] interference. Father indicated he does not receive the [court-ordered] phone calls from the children while they are in [Mother’s] custody.
Father believes the relationship with the children has grown over the last year and the relocation would "devastate" the relationship he and his family have with the children. Father also believed it would be "horrible" to move the children away from their family, friends, and dog. Father believes he should have 50/50 custody, and at a minimum, the children should be with him and not the maternal grandparents when mother works.
Trial Court Opinion, 6/14/22, at 1-22.
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On December 20, 2022, Mother filed her petition to relocate from Grove
City, Pennsylvania to Lee’s Summit, Missouri. See Mother’s Petition to
Relocate, 12/20/22, at 1-2. Father opposed the petition and the trial court
held a hearing on the matter. On June 14, 2023, the trial court filed its
findings of fact, conclusions of law, and order in the case, where it denied
Mother’s petition to relocate and modified the existing child custody order.
Mother filed a timely notice of appeal. See Trial Court Opinion and Order,
6/14/23, at 1-45. She raises one claim on appeal:
Whether the [trial] court erred as a matter of law or abused its discretion in denying [Mother’s] petition for relocation due to [] the court finding that the children’s relationship with [Father] would deteriorate while ignoring the factors of relocation[] and the best interest of the children would be with [Mother] relocating and [Father] having more time under [Mother’s] proposal than the ordered custody[?]
Mother’s Brief at 5.
Our scope and standard of review of custody determinations are
well-settled.
Our scope [of review] is of the broadest type and our standard [or review] is abuse of discretion. This Court must accept findings of the trial court that are supported by competent evidence of record, as our role does not include making independent factual determinations. In addition, with regard to issues of credibility and weight of the evidence, this Court must defer to the trial [court that] presided over the proceedings and[,] thus[,] viewed the witnesses [firsthand]. However, we are not bound by the trial court's deductions or inferences from its factual findings. Ultimately, the test is whether the trial court's conclusions are unreasonable as shown by the evidence of record. We may reject the conclusions of the trial court only if they involve an error of
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law, or are unreasonable in light of the sustainable findings of the trial court.
...
With any child custody case, this Court has long stated that the paramount concern is the best interests of the child. This standard requires a case-by-case assessment of all [] the factors that may legitimately affect the physical, intellectual, moral and spiritual well-being of the child. When a custody dispute involves a request by a party to relocate, we have explained, there is no black[-]letter formula that easily resolves relocation disputes[. R]ather, custody disputes are delicate issues that must be handled on a case-by-case basis.
C.M.K. v. K.E.M., 45 A.3d 417, 421 (Pa. Super. 2012) (quotation marks,
citations, and original brackets omitted).
Section 5337(h) of the Pennsylvania Domestic Relations Code, 23
Pa.C.S.A. §§ 5321-5340, sets forth the factors that a trial court must consider,
“giving weighted consideration to those factors which affect the safety of the
child[,]” in determining whether to grant, or deny, a petition for proposed
relocation. 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5337(h). Those factors are as follows:
(1) The nature, quality, extent of involvement[,] and duration of the child's relationship with the party proposing to relocate and with the nonrelocating party, siblings[,] and other significant persons in the child's life.
(2) The age, developmental stage, needs of the child[,] and the likely impact the relocation will have on the child's physical, educational[,] and emotional development, taking into consideration any special needs of the child.
(3) The feasibility of preserving the relationship between the nonrelocating party and the child through suitable custody arrangements, considering the logistics and financial circumstances of the parties.
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(4) The child's preference, taking into consideration the age and maturity of the child.
(5) Whether there is an established pattern of conduct of either party to promote or thwart the relationship of the child and the other party.
(6) Whether the relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the party seeking the relocation, including, but not limited to, financial or emotional benefit or educational opportunity.
(7) Whether the relocation will enhance the general quality of life for the child, including, but not limited to, financial or emotional benefit or educational opportunity.
(8) The reasons and motivation of each party for seeking or opposing the relocation.
(9) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member of the party's household and whether there is a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused party.
(10) Any other factor affecting the best interest of the child.
23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5337(h)(1-10). “The party proposing the relocation has the
burden of establishing that the relocation will serve the best interest of the
child as shown under the factors set forth in” Section 5337(h). 23 Pa.C.S.A.
§ 5337(i)(1). “Each party has the burden of establishing the integrity of that
party's motives in either seeking the relocation or seeking to prevent the
relocation.” 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5337(i)(2).
When the non-relocating party objects to both the relocation, as well as
the proposed modification of custody in a counter-affidavit, the trial court, in
addition to considering the ten factors enumerated in Section 5337(h), must
also consider the sixteen custody factors set forth in Section 5328(a) before
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granting relocation and modifying an existing custody order. A.M.S. v.
M.R.C., 70 A.3d 830, 836 (Pa. Super. 2013). Those factors are as follows:
(1) Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing contact between the child and another party.
(2) The present and past abuse committed by a party or member of the party's household, whether there is a continued risk of harm to the child or an abused party[,] and which party can better provide adequate physical safeguards and supervision of the child.
(2.1) The information set forth in [23 Pa.C.S.A. §] 5329.1(a) (relating to consideration of child abuse and involvement with protective services).
(3) The parental duties performed by each party on behalf of the child.
(4) The need for stability and continuity in the child's education, family life[,] and community life.
(5) The availability of extended family.
(6) The child's sibling relationships.
(7) The well-reasoned preference of the child, based on the child's maturity and judgment.
(8) The attempts of a parent to turn the child against the other parent, except in cases of domestic violence where reasonable safety measures are necessary to protect the child from harm.
(9) Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent[,] and nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child's emotional needs.
(10) Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional, developmental, educational[,] and special needs of the child.
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(11) The proximity of the residences of the parties.
(12) Each party's availability to care for the child or ability to make appropriate child-care arrangements.
(13) The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness and ability of the parties to cooperate with one another. A party's effort to protect a child from abuse by another party is not evidence of unwillingness or inability to cooperate with that party.
(14) The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or member of a party's household.
(15) The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a party's household.
(16) Any other relevant factor.
23 Pa.C.S.A. § 5328(a)(1-16).
In the case at bar, the trial court carefully considered the ten factors of
Section 5337(h) in denying Mother’s relocation petition and the sixteen factors
of Section 5328(a) in modifying custody. On appeal, Mother takes issue with
the trial court’s credibility determinations, as well as the weight the trial court
placed on certain evidence and certain factors when it denied her relocation
petition. See Mother’s Brief at 13-19. However, this Court cannot disturb a
trial court's factual findings or its credibility and weight determinations absent
a finding that the trial court abused its discretion. C.M.K., 45 A.3d at 421.
Here, a review of the trial court’s thorough and careful June 14, 2023 opinion
demonstrates that there has been no such abuse. Therefore, after reviewing
the briefs of the parties, the relevant law, the certified record, and the opinion
of the able trial court judge, the Honorable Ronald D. Amrhein, Jr., we
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conclude that Mother is not entitled to relief in this case, for the reasons
expressed in Judge Amrhein’s June 14, 2023 opinion. Therefore, we affirm on
the basis of Judge Amrhein’s opinion and adopt it as our own. In any future
filing with this or any other court addressing this ruling, the filing party shall
attach a copy of Judge Amrhein’s June 14, 2023 opinion.
Order affirmed. Jurisdiction relinquished.
12/21/2023
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22 JUN I% AMIE 36 RUTH A. BICE pROTONOTARY
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF MERCER COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION
ADAM LEYTRICK, Plaintiff
VS. : No. 2022-2278
STEPHANIE LEYTRICK, Defendant
FINDINGS OF FACT, CONCLUSIONS OF LAW AND ORDER
Currently before this Court is Plaintiff/Father's Motion to Modify Custody
requesting joint physical custody as well as Defendant/Mother's Request to Relocate to
Lee's Summit, Missouri. The Court presided over hearings on March 31, 2023 and May
31, 2023. The Court also notes the minor children wre e interviewed on September 21,
2022 regarding a Protection from Abuse ("PFA") action filed by Mother against Father
which is related to the instant proceedings.
FINDINGS OF FACT
Mother, Stephanie Leytrick, currently resides at 507Stewart Avenue, Grove
City, Mercer County, Pennsylvania 16127 with the children C.L., 9 years old, and V.L., 7
years old. Father is forty-four (44) years old and also resides in Grove City,
Pennsylvania. Father resides alone, other than when the subject children are with him. 37-FINDINGS OF FACT
Father has lived in the Grove City area for approximately fourteen (14) years and
the children have lived in the Grove City area their entire lives. The parties were married
April 24, 2010. There is a dispute, and it is unclear, when the parties separated. Mother
alleged both March 2022 as well as September 2022 while father alleged January 2022.
All parties agreed since separation the children have resided primarily with mother.
Father was previously employed as a meat cutter at Giant Eagle in New Castle,
Pennsylvania. He is currently unemployed but the issue is being grieved through the
union process. Mother works for an agency known as "clipboard" and is an RN. She
works primarily in long term care facilities in Beaver and Clarion Counties. Mother
currently makes $48.00/hour. Mother works approximately twenty (20) hours per week.
Mother's parents live approximately forty-five (45) minutes from her current
location as does her brother. She also has four (4) nieces and nephews, ranging in age
from four (4) to eleven (II),
Father's family is comprised of sixty-one (6I) people from the generation of his
parents, himself, and his children. The court notes the subject children are close with their
paternal cousins. Mother admitted the children have a good relationship with their
maternal grandparents as well as with paternal grandmother.
All witnesses agreed the children are well-behaved, do well in school, and are
active. When with father, the children play with other kids in his neighborhood, C.L.
plays garage hockey with his father, they go on walks, or hunting, father plants flowers, ' 2 37-FINDINGS OF FA
watches movies and cooks with V.L. and they all go swimming in the pool. V.L likes to
sing and dance. When the children are with mother they go bowling, to the park, play
school, play frisbee, play ball, or go to the Olympic Fun Center, a roller skating facility.
Discipline in father's house is time out or a smack on the butt and mother testified to
relying on timeouts. No evidence was presented as to any physical abuse of the children
by any party.
Other than one PFA to be discussed hereinbelow, no evidence was presented as to
any physical abuse between the parties and in fact, mother specifically stated father was
not physically abusive. Mother admitted father loves the children.
Father testified mother is a great mother and has always had the best interest of
the children at heart until her recent decision to relocate to Lee's Summit. At the time of
the children's birth, father worked full-time and mother worked part-time. Therefore,
mother undertook most of the duties with the children although father cooked and helped
with diapers.
Father did know the name of the children's dentist but incorrectly identified the
children's pediatrician. When the parties were together mother primarily took the
children to the doctors and dentist and tended to them when they were ill. The children
tend to come to mother for emotional support. Father did not know the names of the
teachers or call the school to find out. He indicated there was no need because the
children do well in school. Father acknowledges there is probably an "app" that would 3 37-FINDINGS OFF T
allow him to have information regarding the children's extracurricular school activities
but he had not investigated same.
Father indicated he did not attend children's events because he did not have noti
or had to work. The court notes father did not utilize the ability for a school "app" to
educate himself. Father admits he has not gone to many of the children's medical
appointments. Mother has on at least one occasion sent father a video of the child's
extracurricular school activity.
C.L. played baseball for two (2) years. Father coached the first year and attended
all practices and games the second year. The child did not-play a third year because
mother would not commit to make sure the child was there and is not playing this year
because mother will not commit as a result of her desire to move to Lee's Summit with
the children.
The controlling custody order is of November 10, 2022. The order provides the
parties share joint legal custody with mother exercising primary physical custody.
Father's partial custody is on a "week one" and "week two" basis. Week one father has
the children from Sunday at 3:00 p.m. until Tuesday morning until they are put on the
school bus or returned to mother at 9:00 a.m. Week two father has the children from
Saturday at 9:00 a.m. untiJ the children are placed on the bus or return to mother at 9:00
a.m. on Monday morning. 37 -FINDINGS OF F CT
During Week two father also exercises custody from Thursday after school until
Friday morning when the children are placed on the school bus or return to mother at
9:00 a.m. This order provides Thanksgiving visitation with mother from 9:00 a.m. to 4:
p.m. and father from 4:00 p.m.
In support of father's case, in addition to his testimony, he presented the
testimony of his mother, Marsha Leytrick, his sister in law, Susan Leytrick and his aunt,
Susan Dellapiazza. Mother presented the testimony of herself, as well as her fianc~, Jaso
Atkinson, and her father, Paul Sereda. All witnesses which addressed father's drinking
agreed father had a moderate to severe drinking problem prior to March 2022. Father
likewise agreed. Father drank approximately eight (8) to twelve (12) cans a beer on a
daily basis. All evidence indicated father's drinking occurred after work, and while at the
home. Father voluntarily went to rehab because mother threatened she would move away
and he would never see the children again. Father successfully completed a fourteen ( 14)
day rehab at Banyon Treatment Facility in March 2022. Father's "sober date" is March
21, 2022. Father stated he has an occasional urge to drink, but not very often. When he
does, he makes a phone call or attends a meeting.
All of father's witnesses testified since rehab father has not consumed any alcohol
in any manner. To maintain his sobriety father reads "the big book", attends meetings.
attends speaker meetings, and talks with a woman that has over a decade of sobriety.
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Paternal grandmother testified since father's rehab there has been a 100% change,
he is 100% active in the children's lives, spends time with the children playing garage
hockey, swimming, and other activities. Paternal grandmother indicated no concer for
the children's safety in father's custody, no evidence of a relapse, and they talk daily.
Paternal grandmother indicated when father was drinking you could tell by his eyes, his
more "mellow" attitude, but she did not notice a change in his speech.
Father's sister in law, Susan Leytrick, indicated prior to rehab father's drinking
would render him lethargic, slurred speech and his demeanor would be different and
essentially more isolated. She sees father on an occasional basis. Since rehab there has
been no evidence of drinking or alcohol issues.
Father's aunt, Susan Dellapiazza, indicated she was able to tell when father had
been drinking because of his red face, not eating, slurring speech, and isolating. She has
seen no evidence since father's rehab of drinking or any evidence of alcohol whatsoever.
She has no safety concerns regarding the children being in father's care and no doubt
father is no longer drinking.
Mother testified she believes father continues to drink. However, the court does
not find this testimony credible. Mother stated as a result of being together for twenty-
two (22) years she knows what father sounds like when he is drunk and even in the last
week, and multiple other times, she believes he has sounded drunk on phone calls with
the children. However, when mother requested the police to perform a welfare check as a
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result of her suspicions, the police took no action and did not remove the children from
father's care. Additionally, mother testified the minor children told her father indicated h
had water in a beer can. However, in addition to said testimony being hearsay, the
children did not testify to same. Mother also alleged father continues to drink based on a
photograph, which was not admitted into evidence, allegedly containing a beer can within
said photograph. Said evidence is insufficient to find father continues to drink, or more
importantly, any alcohol usage is a danger to the children.
Of concern to this court is father's decision to unilaterally remove himself from
depression/anxiety medications. It is this court's intent to order father to schedule an
evaluation, and to comply with any recommendations regarding treatment and
medications. During father's rehabilitation a physician ordered medication for depression
and anxiety. This medication included one medicine to be taken one time daily, and a
second medication to be taken one (1) to four (4) times a day, if needed. Father
unilaterally removed himself from the medications in the last month or two without
consulting, informing, or involving a physician,
In approximately September 2022 mother requested a PFA order on behalf of
herself and the children. Following a hearing on September 21, 2022 this court granted a
six (6) month PFA order with regard to mother and denied the order with regard to the
children.
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Mother alleged in the petition, in relevant part, through the course of an argument
"Defendant [father] flung the door open so forcefully, that the door knob hit the Plaintiff
[mother] and knocked her down". Mother alleged this caused a bruise on her hip.
The petition also alleged the children are scared of the defendant [father]. During
the course of the instant proceedings mother indicated regarding the PFA there was an
argument, about custody of the children, and during the course of the argument father
pushed through an unlocked door and the door hit her in the hip. Mother alleged the door
left a bruise "for weeks". Father testified he did not force the door open but rather placed
his foot in the door to prevent mother from closing it and he believed mother fell into the
door.
The court notes despite the allegations in the PFA petition the children were
afraid of father, the children testified on September 21, 2022 in the course of the PFA
hearing. At that time, V.L., was six (6) years old, and indicated father does "grab her by
her hands or her arms and that it hurts" when she is not listening. Despite mother's
testimony she only uses time out, V.L. through the course of the PFA hearing testified ' mother smacks her on the butt "sometimes" and that dad "does it all the time", When this
court asked whether father ever says anything that makes V.L. afraid of him, she limited
her response to an incident in which she believed father forced her to "eat a pill". When
the Court followed up asking if father had ever done or said anything that makes her
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afraid V.L. indicated no. V. L. specifically testified, "if he[father] didn't make me eat th
pill I wouldn't be scared of him".
C.L. testified regarding the "pill" incident indicating father attempted to have
V.L. take an adult Advil as opposed to a small Advil. C.L. also testified sometimes father
says if the child calls mother he would smack the child which "makes me feel a little bit
scared". C.L. indicated father has never actually smacked the child. C.L. indicated mothe
"sometimes she grabs my arm..." when he is not listening essentially pinching his wrist.
C.L. indicated dad was "way more scary because he screams really loud". Although child
indicated father makes "threats", child was unable to produce any examples. C.L.
testified with regard to the "door" incident. The parents were arguing about father taking
children for custody time, mother tried to shut the door and dad "like pushed it and then
slammed it into my mom". Father believes his relationship with C.L. was awesome and
they were both very active and like outside. Father's relationship with V.L. was very
good and they plant flowers, cook and watch movies.
The Court believes both parents have inappropriately talked with the children
regarding the potential move to Lee's Summit. The Court finds mother improperly
influenced the children to desire to move to Lee's Summit. V.L. testified through the
course of the instant proceedings the hearing was about moving to Kansas City and mom
told her that. V.L. testified they had been to Kansas City on two (2) occasions. V.L.
indicated the trip to Kansas City was like a vacation. V.L. testified she wanted to do 9 37 -FINDINGS OF F 'T
gymnastics in Kansas City but did not know gymnastics were available in Mercer
County. The child also stated she did not know what gymnastics were. Mother told V.L.
there was gymnastics in Kansas City but did not tell her there was gymnastics in the area.
V.L. also wished to go to Kansas City because there is a roller coaster. When
asked whether V.L. preferred to live in Grove City or Kansas City she indicated Kansas
City. Her explanation was it was a bigger city. When the Court asked her to compare
Kansas City to Pittsburgh, she indicated "Kansas City is way better" and it was because
she was going to get new friends. When the Court inquired as to whether V.L. would be
okay staying in Grove City "it would have been okay, I mean no". When asked why the
child twice simply stated she wanted to move to Kansas City, she indicated it is fun there.
When V.L. was asked how often mother talks to the child about Kansas City the child
indicated "a little often". The child indicated if mother was not able to go to Kansas City,
mother would be "really sad and she'II cry" and she will not be able to talk to her fianc~.
V.L. also indicated mother, at least three (3) times, told her she would cry if she could not
go to Kansas City. V.L. also indicated father told her they are not moving.
C.L. indicated he was at the hearing because his mother wanted to move to
Kansas City and he felt really good about it because he did not like going back and forth
between his parent's houses and wanted to stay at one (I) place. C.L. indicated he does
not like his father's house because he does not feel safe to go there but indicated father
has never hurt him, only hurts his feelings. C.L. indicated he would be okay only seeing
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his father once or twice a year. When the Court inquired whether mother told C.L. why
she wants to move to Kansas Cty he indicated because she has a better job there, she met
a really nice man there that helps her and it would be a better life for us. In fact, C.L.
indicated mother told him that the morning of the hearing.
C.L. also indicated mother told him if the Court does not approve the move to
Kansas City "she would be really sad". C.L. alleges he hates going to his father's, gets
nauseous at his father's, and sometimes cannot eat. When the court inquired as to why the
child had earlier indicated he plays soccer, hockey and baseball at father's house he said
"to buy some time". When the court inquired whether mother had even spoken to the
child about how often he should see his father, the child indicated "maybe every five (5)
weeks". However, the child then denied the conversation. The court notes mother's
proposed visitation schedule is every five (5) weeks. C.L. indicated Kansas City was
preferable because mom has a better job, there are "way better schools", "way better
soccer and football leagues" and "way better friends and stuff'. When the Court inquired
as to whether mother told C.L. how she would feel if she could not move to Kansas City,
he indicated she would cry "because she met a wonderful guy" and "he is the most
amazing person". The move would allow "my mom can be happy every single day". He
also indicated "my dad never treated my mom nice at all". The Court notes some of the
phrases used by C.L. do not seem the natural language of a nine (9) year old child. Of
note is mother used the phrase that her fianc~ was a "wonderful, caring man". The child It 37 -FINDINGS OF FACT
also pointed out the two (2) times they left Kansas City "my mom always cries because
we have to leave".
The child indicated during the course of the instant proceedings on March 31,
2023 the incident with regard to the PFA "made me feel that I never want to see him
again. I never want to care for him. He has hurt my mom so many times, her feelings.
Sometimes when he hurts her feelings, he hurts mine." Interestingly, only a few weeks
after the incident in September 2022 both children indicated they would have no problem
going to father's house again after a two (2) week pause of visitation. C.L. indicated
when he moves to Kansas City he will play pickleball but he does not play pickleball he
because his mom told them they do not have it here. C.L. indicated his plan is to play
sports in Kansas City but if he did not go to Kansas City he would probably not play
sports here but he cannot answer why.
Father credibly testified he had great difficulty visiting the children prior to a
court order or gaining any amount of time beyond the court order. Father credibly
testified "it is always a struggle to get the kids" and when mother works she takes the
children to her parents rather than offering the time to father. Father acknowledged in the
last approximate month there have been two (2) times mother has agreed to extra time.
One was the weekend of the hearing and the other was to allow father to take C.L.
hunting. Subsequent testimony established the hunting day was in exchange for father's
agreement to bring the children to a church event on Easter day. The children were at an 12 37 -FINDINGS OFF CT
Easter program at the maternal grandparent's church. Father agreed to bring the children
for breakfast to the church and allow them to participate in the program, which occurred,
Mother and her parents were in attendance. This credible testimony is contrary to
mother's testimony father did not allow the children to see her at all this Easter.
Both parties threaten to, or actually, call the police on each other. Father wished
the children on Sunday at 9:00 a.m. despite the fact the court order provided he did not
receive custody until 3:00 p.rn. on Sundays and he threatened to call the police. Mother
called the police for a welfare check based on her alleged belief father was under the
influence and because father was not allowing the children to talk to her "without
supervision".
By agreement of the parties this court issued an order on December 22, 2022
providing the children to be with father from December 22, 2022 after school, or 5:00
p.m., whichever is earlier, until 10:30 a.m. on Sunday. Mother then retained custody until
January 2, 2023. Father did not appear at the scheduled exchange on Christmas Day at
10:30 a.m. requiring mother to go to father's home to retrieve the children. Father's
explanations were inconsistent and lacked credibility. It was clear to the court father
determined to simply disregard the court order.
Father's mother, Marsha Leytrick credibly testified she usually sees the subject
children weekly, sometimes babysits the children and visits with the children at her
home. She lives approximately an hour and half away from father's residence, Her
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observation of the children and father's interaction indicate "a lot of love" and she sees
no signs of friction or fear. The witness testified, and it is clear to the Court, the parties
do not get along well at all.
Father presented the testimony of his aunt, Susan Dellapiazza. The witness
testified she is close with father, they see each other approximately twice a month, mostly
at maternal grandmother's house in Bridgeville. The witness lives close to maternal
grandmother, She believes father is an outstanding and good father, he is very active,
they fish, play garage hockey, cook and walk the dog. The witness described the father
and children as close. The witness believed the father and children were a "very close
unit".
Mother testified with regard to her desire to move to Lee's Summit, Missouri, a
suburb of Kansas City. Although mother's testimony couched the move for the benefit of
the children, it is clear the sole basis for the move is her engagement to Jason Atkinson
("fianc~"). The relationship of mother and fianc~ began in March 2022 online and they
first met in person in Missouri on March 24, 2022.
Initially the parties visited once a month and now visit every two (2) to three (3)
weeks. On her first visit to Missouri she fell in love with the city. Mother testified the
children did not meet fianc~ until the end of 2022. This is contrary to testimony the
children met the fianc~ in August of 2022. 37-FINDINGS OF FAT
Mother made the decision at the end of 2022 or the beginning of 2023 to move to
Lee's Summit. Lee's Summit is an approximate twelve (12) hour drive or two (2) and
one-half (1/2) hour flight from the parties' current residences.
The houses mother proposes to rent in Lee's Summit are of a suburban nature
with yards. The homes currently identified by mother are approximately one (1) block
from fianc~, will be rented, and each has four (4) bedrooms. It is mother's plan to wed
fianc~ in October 2023, which she plans to do regardless of whether this court approves
the relocation.
Upon the marriage it is mother's belief her fianc~ and his four (4) children will
move in to the home she is renting. The mother initially testified the children did not
meet her fianc~ until the end of 2022 although subsequent testimony established the first
trip with the children to Kansas City was in August 2022 and that Christmas 2022 was
the second trip. Mother indicated the four (4) bedroom home can be rented for
approximately $1,200.00 per month and her current rent for an apartment is $750.00 per
month. Mother indicated if the court denies relocation she is unsure whether she will
move to Kansas City but the marriage will still occur.
Mother testified in an incredible fashion she did not believe the move the Kansas
City would affect the children's relationship with father in any way because of
technology. Mother did acknowledge father would be unable to attend extracurricular or
sporting activities, but alleged father had never done so before. However, this court notes 15 37-FINDINGS OFF CT
father coached C.L. in baseball one year and in his second year attended all practices and
games. When questioned whether mother's proposed partial visitation with father if the
move is approved would affect her bond with children if the schedule was flipped,
mother was unsure.
Mother attempted to couch her desire to move to Kansas City with her fianc~ as
for the benefit of the children as it would show the children stability, emotional stability,
and they would see a lifelong stable partnership between mother and her fianc~. Mother
testified she believes it important for the children to see her with a dependable and
supportive partner. Mother believes it's very important for the children to see "love
between a couple".
Mother testified education is very important and the kids are doing very well at
Grove City. Mother further testified the school district in Kansas City is rated "A+" and
that Grove City Schools are "B+". Mother was unable to provide any details other than an
internet search to support the ratings. Mother acknowledged the class sizes appeared to be
the same and there was no meaningful difference between the school districts. All parties
agreed the children do well in school.
Mother currently makes $48.00/hour working for a company called "clipboard".
She indicated this company is present in her proposed relocation and she would make
$90.00/hour. Mother works per diem approximately twenty (20) hours per week. Mother
did not check whether there is higher pay available in any other cities other than Kansas 16 37-FINDINGS OF FA T
City. Mother did not research any other school districts or schools in other cities, but
rather chose the Lee's Summit Schools because that's where her fianc~'s children attend.
Mother admitted she only researched the Lee's Summit School District after she
decided to relocate. Mother is an RN. In Kansas City she should be able to obtain her
BSN and work towards her goal of being a flight nurse at Ottawa University. Mother
credibly testified this opportunity was not as easily available in her current location as the
Ottawa program would be approximately fifteen (15) minutes from her home and any
such programs in Pennsylvania would be at least one ( l) hours from her home.
Mother testified in Kansas City, her fianc~, and her fianc~'s two (2) sisters would
be available for childcare. Mother also testified childcare would not be necessary as
fianc~ makes significantly more money and therefore, she could work less. Mother
believed her RN license would easily transfer and her Pennsylvania license is sufficient
to allow her to work in Missouri.
Mother asserted the childcare availability is particularly important with regard to
the move as father is not dependable and does not provide childcare and in fact at the last
minute will cancel his commitments. The court notes the availability of maternal
grandmother to babysit as well as daycares in the Grove City area. The court also notes
the children have a strong bond with the maternal grandmother and they see her every
couple weekends.
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Mother's fianc~ is heavily involved in the church and they plan on having
counseling for couples with blended families following the move. Mother proposes the
court authorize the relocation to Kansas City area and grant her primary physical custody
subject to father's partial custody rights. Mother proposes father's custody rights be
comprised of two (2) weeks in the beginning and end of summer as well as during the
remainder of the year, mother will return for a long weeend k every five (5) weeks.
Mother also proposes a week of partial custody with father at Easter and a week at
Christmas time. Mother indicated she will pay all airfare for her and the children to
return, she will then stay in the area visiting her family and friends, and then return with
the children at the conclusion of each partial custody of father.
Mother presented the testimony of her fianc~, Jason Atkinson. The witness lives
in Lee's Summit, Missouri with his four (4) children, ages fourteen (14), eleven (ID),
eight (8) and six (6). He has never committed a crime, been subject of a restraining order,
been a party to a Children & Youth Services investigation, nor is he subject to any
physical disability or illness that prevents caring for children including mental illnesses or
disabilities. Witness is Director of Business Development for a financial advisor and
works 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday.
Fianc~ confirms the parties began talking on Twitter before visiting in person
which they have done at least a dozen times. Mother and fianc6 have visited both in
Kansas City and in Pennsylvania and speak two (2) to three (3) hours a day, at least, on 18 37 -FINDINGS OF FA T
the phone. During the subject children's visit at Christmas 2022 they went to the park,
played video games together, and played baseball. The parties also went to a golf driving
range known as Top Golf, went to a nephew's wedding and "had a really fun time".
Fianc~ and C.L. played "a little bit" of pickleball in Kansas City. It is clear to the court
fianc~ has a very strong affection for both children.
Fianc~ characterized the relationship between the children and mother as very
good, He indicated she is "the most fantastic mother I've ever met". Fianc~ described the
neighborhood as houses of approximately 1,500 square feet, single family homes, and in
the $200,000 range.
Fianc~ is unable to relocate here due to the nature of his job especially in
comparison to mother's ability to easily relocate as an RN. Fianc~ added "obviously, I
have 4 kids of my own, as well",
Mother also presented the testimony of her father, Paul Sereda. The witness lives
in Greenville, Pennsylvania which is approximately thirty-five (35) minutes from the
parties current location.
The witness owns a tavern. He sees the subject children usually a couple times a
week and at least, every other weekend. They go to the park which is right next door to
his residence, play ball, ride on the side by side, or go through the woods, go to fairs,
horseback riding, and around farms. He also teaches C.L. about gun safety. Since the
parties' separation witness has not observed father around the children. Witness sees the
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children a lot more in the summer. Witness has taught V.L. how to play guitar and
maternal grandmother has taught the children some piano.
Both the maternal grandparents spend a lot of time with the children and have a
very close bond. Witness described the mother's relationship with the children as very
caring and "a mother bear" and believe she is a wonderful mother. The children and
grandparents are very attached and close to each other.
The subject children have four (4) maternal cousins in the Pittsburgh area.
Witness believed father's primary deficiency in parenting was his alcohol consumption
and the drinking prevented father from engaging with or watching the children.
Witness also called the police for a "welfare check" on father and the children and
to his knowledge the police took no action following said check.
Mother has no relatives on either side of the family in the Kansas City area.
The children enjoy going to school in the Grove City School District. The court
appointed David Gloss, Esquire as Guardian Ad Litem ("GAL") for the children. In
addition to a report, which is admitted into evidence, the GAL testified in these
proceedings. It was the GAL's conclusion relocation was not in the best interest of the
children. The GAL further belicved the evidence was clear the children had "been
prepared by the mother" for the meeting with the GAL and led to believe life in Missouri
is "nirvana". As examples the GAL pointed out V.L. desired to move to Missouri to ride
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a yet to be built roller coaster and C.L.'s mimicking of mother's statements. The GAL
further stated that C.L., when pressed, will admit he has had good times at father's house.
The GAL summarized his position by stating the children were born and raised in
the area, all friendships and family are in the Grove City area, no family in Kansas City,
all grandparents arc within close proximity to Mercer County and a belief that an 850
mile move will significantly damage the relationship with father. The GAL's
investigation determined both the children and the school district were aware th eparent's
divorce was "a bad situation" and the father and GAL believed that C.L. and father
should participate in joint therapy. The GAL saw no enhancement to the children's lives
if relocation was granted.
Father believes counseling between he and C.L. is appropriate as well as the
parties should undertake co-parenting classes. Father is "extremely happy" when he has
his children and does not believe there is any issue with their relationship other than
mother's interference. Father indicated he does not receive the court ordered phone calls
from the children while they are in mother's custody.
Father believes the relationship with the children has grown over the last year and
the relocation would "devastate" the relationship he and his family have with the
children. Father also believed it would be "horrible" to move the children away from
their family, friends, and dog. Father believes he should have 50/50 custody, and at a
minimum, the children should be with him and not the maternal grandparents when 21 37 -FINDINGS OF F CT
mother works. Should mother choose to move to Kansas City, and the children remain in
Mercer County, father proposes the same visitation schedule as proposed by mother
except father believes mother should have eight (8) weeks in the summer.
ANALYSIS OF RELOCATION FACTORS
The Court believes a decision on relocation is necessary before a custody decision
may be made. Therefore, the Court will review relocation factors first.
1. The nature, quality, extent of involvement_andduration of the children's
relationship with the party proposing to relocate and_with the non-relocating
party, siblings, and other significant persons in the children's life,
This factor strongly favors father. The evidence is clear father's relationship with
the children was significantly impaired prior to his rehab, there is no such credible
evidence following his rehab stay. Further, the children have no relations whatsoever in
Kansas City. Within an hour and a half ( 1) hours of their current location the children
have three (3) grandparents, multiple cousins, aunts, uncles and other relatives. There are
no half siblings as neither parent has children from any other relationship. The current
nature of the relationship between V.L. and father appears appropriate. The court notes
C.L. 's testimony regarding his desire to essentially terminate any meaningful relationship
with his father. However, C.L. attributes this desire to an incident occurring in September
2022. The court interviewed the child immediately after the incident and C.L. did not 22 37 -FINDINGS OF FA T
indicate his desire to terminate the relationship with his father. It is further apparent to
this court mother has had extensive discussions with the children and improperly
influenced them.
2. The age,developmental stage, needs of the children and the likely impact the
relocation would have on the children's physical, educational, and emotional
development, taking into consideration any special needs of the children.
This factor strongly favors father. There is no evidence of any special needs of the
children. C.L. is nine (9) years old and V .L. is seven (7) years old. All parties agree they
are well-behaved children and do very well in school. Mother testified her internet
research indicated the Missouri School is an A+ and the local schools are B+ but
admitted essentially there is no meaningful difference. The Court believes there would be
no impact, positive or negative, on the children's physical or educational development,
However, there will be a negative impact on emotional development as there will be in an
area with no relatives whatsoever and separated from all grandparents, aunts, uncles and
importantly, father.
3. The feasibility of preserving the relationship between the non-relocating
party and the children through suitable custodial arrangements, considering
the logistics and financial circumstances of the parties.
This factor favors father. Should Mother relocate Kansas City, her proposed
custody schedule is father having one (I) long weekend every five (5) weeks, a week at 23 37 -FINDINGS OF FA T
Thanksgiving and Christmas, and two (2) two (2) week periods in the summer. However,'
this proposal does not account for the children's contact with any of their grandparents,
their aunts, uncles or cousins. Further, father credibly testified, without any rebuttal, he
does not receive any of the court ordered phone calls when the children are in mother's
custody. Additionally, C.L.'s testimony regarding his attitude towards father indicates
more frequent contact, and more importantly counseling, is necessary. Should C.L. only
see his father one (1) weekend every five (5) weeks and not have the benefit of
counseling, it is extremely likely their relationship will deteriorate beyond repair. The
court further notes C.L.'s opinion, allegedly based on the September 2022 "PFA"
incident is markedly more drastic than at the time of the actual incident.
4. The children's preference, taking into consideration the age and maturity of
This factor is neutral. V.L. age seven (7) does not fully appreciate the impact of
the move. Further, she wanted to move because it would be "fun". V.L. indicated she
wished to move to Kansas City to do gymnastics, was unaware gymnastics were available
in Mercer County, and indicated she did not really know what gymnastics was. Both
children admitted to more than one (I) discussion with mother regarding the move,
various statements made by mother, C.L. used language that does not seem age
appropriate, and neither child indicated anything which would occur in Missouri that was
not available in Mercer County other than mother's fianc~. 24 37 -FINDINGS OFF CT
s. re is an established attern of conduct of either art
or thwart the relationship of the children and the other party.
This factor slightly favors father. Father credibly testified prior to the court order
it was difficult for him to have visitation with the children. Father further credibly
testified since the order mother has only accommodated additional custody on two (2)
occasions. One ( 1) in exchange for an Easter church service. Father credibly testified he
does not receive any of the court ordered phone calls when the children are in mother's
custody. Conversely, father clearly intentionally and willfully violated this court's order
of December 22, 2022 in failing to return the children on Christmas Day.
6. Whether the relocation would enhance the general quality of life for the
party seeking relocation, including but not limited to financial, or emotional
benefit or educational opportunity,
This factor favors mother. Emotionally she will be able to reside with, and marry,
her fiance. Educationally she will be able to reside within close proximity of a higher
learning center which will facilitate her receiving her BSN degree and advancement in
her chosen career as a nurse. Financially mother testified to an almost double pay rate
should she move while at the same time indicating she will not be working as many hours
due to her fianc~'s financial situation. Further, mother failed to investigate closer options
such as Pittsburgh, Cleveland or Youngstown.
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7. Whether the relocation enhances the general quality of life for the children
inetuding but not limited to financial, emotional benefit or educational
opportunity.
This factor favors father. No testimony was presented establishing mother was
unable to increase her hours of twenty (20) per week to benefit the children financially or
she was unable to find a job from any other agency or working directly for a hospital or
other provider. Mother's testimony was limited solely to her current employer.
Educationally mother admitted the current schools and the Missouri schools are
comparable. All parties agree the children do well in school. Emotionally all parties agree
the children are well adjusted and behave well. All parties testified to the strong
relationship the children have with the parents of both parties as well as cousins, aunts,
and uncles of both parties. Further, C.L. will benefit from the opportunity to enter
counseling with father.
8. The reasons or motivations for each party for seeking oropposing relocation.
This factor is neutral. The court believes mother in good faith has requested
relocation and believes relocation is in the best interest of the children. Father opposes
relocation due to the effect it will have on his relationship with the children and the effect
it will have on the children themselves as well as the relationship between the children
and all of their relatives.
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9. The present and past abuse committed by a party or a member of the party's
household and whether there is a continued risk of harm to the children or
an abused party.
This factor slightly favors mother. Mother admitted other than an incident in
September 2022 the father has never been physical aggressive with her. Mother also
admitted the father has never been physically aggressive with the children. The children's
testimony revealed no physical aggression by either party. Father testified she is a great
mother other than her desire to relocate to Lee's Summit, Missouri. This factor slightly
favors mother as this court did grant the PFA order in favor of mother against father.
However, the court notes the PFA was for six (6) months as opposed to a longer period o
time and the injuries to mother were caused by father aggressively passing through an
unlocked door. This court granted a PFA by finding father recklessly caused bodily injury
as opposed to intentionally or knowingly.
CUSTODY FACTORS 1. Which party is more likely to encourage and permit frequent and continuing
contact between the children and the other party.
This factor slightly favors father. The credible testimony establishes father does
not receive his court ordered phone calls during mother's custody, The credible testimony
establishes when mother works, the children are taken to her parents, rather than to
father. Mother, other than the weekend before the May 31, 2023 hearing and one (1) 27 37-FINDINGS OF FACT
other occasion, in exchange for father's concession on Easter, has not agreed to any
additional time. Father failed to follow this court's order on December 22, 2022 and
interfered with mother's ability to regain custody of the children on Christmas Day.
However, mother's proposed partial custody upon relocation is one (I) long weekend
every five (5) weeks, one (I) week at Christmas and Thanksgiving, as well as two (2) tw
(2) week periods in the summer. Father's proposed scheduled should he.have primary
physical custody included eight (8) weeks in the summer with mother. Father also
repeatedly indicated holiday time would be "negotiable" and they could work it out. The
court finds no evidence of any risk to the children moving forward.
2. The present and past abuse committed by a party or member ofthe party's
household, whetherthere is a continued risk of harm to the child or an
abused party and which party can better provide adequate physical
safeguards and supervision of the children, The Court incorporates the discussion of Relocation Factor No. 9. Further, the
court believes each party is capable of adequate physical safeguards and supervision of
the children. There was no testimony presented either party had difficulty providing for
childcare or the children's wellbeing.
3. The parental duties performed by each party on behalfof the children,
This factor strongly favors mother. The court notes father was unable to identify
the children's pediatrician. The father was unable to identify the teachers of the children. 28 37 -FINDINGS OF FA T
The father, other than CL.'s baseball, had little to no involvement in extracurricular
activities. Although father indicated he was not informed of same, he admitted he could
have discovered the information for himself through the school. Mother was primarily
responsible for doctor's appointments, dentist appointments and the like.
4. The need for stability and continuity in the children's education, family, life
and community life,
This factor strongly favors father. The children have resided in Grove City,
Mercer County their entire life. Within approximately one (1) and a half ( 112) hours are
four (4) cousins on the children's maternal side, sixty-one (61) relatives on the paternal
side, including multiple cousins and both maternal grandparents and paternal
grandmother. There was no testimony regarding the children's friends or neighborhood
while in mother's custody. While in father's custody the credible testimony indicated the
children play with friends in the neighborhood. The children do well in school and have
been in Grove City schools their entire educational life. Although the children testified
they wished to play pickleball, ride roller coasters, and testimony regarding singing and
dancing lessons was offered, the court finds all of these opportunities are available in
Mercer County.
5. The availability ofextended family,
This factor strongly favors father. The discussion immediately above is
incorporated herein. 29 37 -FINDINGS OF F CT
6. The children's sibling relationships.
This factor is neutral. Neither party proposes separating the children for custody
purposes. Neither party has children from any prior or subsequent relationships.
7. The_well-reasoned preference of the child, based on the child's maturity and
judgment
The Court incorporates the discussion of Relocation Factor No. 4.
8. The attempts of a parent to tur the children against the other parent, except
in cases of domestic violence_where_reasonable safety_measures are necessary
to protect the children from hgrm.
This factor favors father. The Court notes no reasonable safety measure is
necessary to protect the children from harm. No evidence was presented that either parent
is abusive to the children. However the circumstantial evidence strongly suggests mother
has attempted to tum the children against father. Immediately following mother's request
for PFA order in September of 2022, this Court interviewed both children. V .L. indicated
except for an instance in which father tried to make her take a pill, later determined to be
an Advil through testimony of C.L., she was not afraid of father at all. C.L. testified he
was not afraid of father and he would have no objections returning to father after a two
(2) week pause in custody. However, six (6) months later C.L. testified regarding the
same incident in a much more drastic fashion essentially indicating he had no interest in
having a relationship with his father and he has hated his father since the incident. Both
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children also testified as to how great Kansas City would be and various opportunities
that existed there, and in their opinion, no where else. Both children admitted mother
spoke with them on more than one occasion regarding moving to Kansas City and on the
morning of their testimony. Both children testified as to how sad mother would be if the
move did not occur, how she would cry. C.L. indicated fianc~ is "a wonderful man",
parroting statements made by mother.
9. Which party is more likely to maintain a loving, stable, consistent and
nurturing relationship with the child adequate for the child's emotional
needs.
This factor slightly favors mother. The evidence was clear prior to March 2022
father, although loving his children, was not able to maintain a stable, consistent or
nurturing relationship due to his alcoholism. Mother was mainly responsible for all needs
of the children. The unequivocal testimony is father consumed eight (8) to twelve (I2)
cans of beer per day while at home. Further, since separation, father has not had an
extensive opportunity to care for the children as mother did not agree to partial custody
prior to an order, and the nature of the order is set forth above. There is no evidence the
children are not properly cared for by either party following father' rehab. This Court
acknowledges C.L.'s statements with regard to his emotions and feelings toward father.
The Court incorporates the discussion regarding the children's well-reasoned preference
and attempts to turn the child against the father. 31 37 - FINDINGS OF F CT
10. Which party is more likely to attend to the daily physical, emotional,
developmental, educational and special needs of the child.
This factor is neutral. The Court incorporates custody factors Nos. 8, 9 and 1 O.
11. The proximity of the residences of the parties,
Currently this factor is neutral. The parties live in the same school district and
relatively close to each other. However, should mother move to Lee's Summit, Missouri,
approximately eight hundred and fifty (850) miles away, this factor would strongly favor
father.
12. Each party's availability to care for the children or ability to make
appropriate childcare arrangements.
This factor is neutral. Mother has indicated she works part-time and is available to
care for the children. When she is working her parents are available. Father's testimony
established his family members, in addition to himself, are available to watch the
13. The level of conflict between the parties and the willingness and ability of the
parties to cooperate with one another. A party's effort_to_protect a child from
abuse by another party is not evidence of unwillingness or inability to
cooperate with that party.
The court incorporates relocation factors discussing this issue. Further, the court
finds this factor neutral or slightly favoring father. There is high conflict between the
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parties. The parties have on more than one occasion threatened to call the police on each
other. It is apparent each party has violatcd court orders on at least one occasion. There is
no evidence of abuse by any party towards the children. Mother's failure to allow phone
calls, and very limited visitation schedule for father should she move to Missouri in the
summer and very minimal agreement to partial custody in addition to the court order is
all slightly favorable to father. However, the court notes father's blatant disregard of a
court order with regard to Christmas visitation in 2022.
14. The history of drug or alcohol abuse of a party or member ofa party's
household.
This factor favors mother. Prior to March 2022 the evidence is clear father had a
significant alcohol problem that even his family described as moderate to severe. The
unequivocal testimony establishes father consumed eight (8) to twelve (12) beers per day.
However, since rehab, father asserts his sobriety which is supported by his family's
testimony. Mother's testimony is based on her belief of his intoxication over the phone, a
belief not supported following a welfare check by law enforcement. Mother also
discussed, although did not offer, a photograph containing one (I) can of beer that father
indicated was one (1) of his beers of choice. This factor further favors mother as father
was prescribed depression/anxiety medications in his rehabilitation stay in March 2022
and has removed himself without consulting with a physician.
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15. The mental and physical condition of a party or member of a party's
This factor is neutral as there is no evidence of any mental or physical condition
of any party interfering with custody.
16. Criminal convictions of a party or member of a party's household.
This factor is neutral. There is no evidence of such.
DISCUSSION
The Court incorporates herein the analysis of the factors with regard to relocation
and custody set forth above as well as the findings of fact.
With regard to relocation, the court believes the overwhelming evidence requires
the court deny same. In essence, mother has elected Lee's Summit, Missouri for the sole
and exclusive reason her now fianc~ resides there. Interestingly, when her fianc~ was
asked about moving to Mercer County he referenced having four (4) children as an
impediment to the move. The Court does not question the bond between the fianc~ and
the children. or the relationship between mother and fianc~. However, this does not
overcome the best interest of the children.
The children have lived their entire lives in the Grove City, Pennsylvania area.
The children do well in school. All of the children's grandparents live within
approximately one and a half (l ½) hours of Grove City, as do most of their cousins,
aunts, and uncles. The children have friends, at least in father's neighborhood. 34 37-FINDINGS OF FA T
Mother's testimony regarding the benefits to the children can all be summed up as
they will be better off being exposed to fianc~ and his love for mother. The
extracurricular activities the children assert they wish to perform in Kansas City are
available in the general Grove City area. Interestingly C.L., appears to only wish to
undertake extracurricular activities in Kansas City. but not in Grove City. Schools are
comparable. Children would lose all regular contact with their family. and most
importantly their father.
Although father clearly had a significant alcohol problem prior to March of 2022,
the evidence does not support an ongoing problem. Father's past active alcoholism does
not support removing the children eight hundred and fifty (850) miles, Also father
credibly testified mother had previously threatened she would move the children away
and he would never see them again.
Mother clearly attempt to, and successfully did, influence the children's
testimony. Both children testified as to mother speaking with them regarding the positive
benefits of Kansas City the morning of their testimony before this court. V .L. indicated
mother spoke to her "a little often" about the move. Both children indicated if they did
not move mother would be very sad and would cry all the time. C.L. testified seeing
mother cry upon leaving Kansas City at Christmas 2022.
Mother filed a PFA in September 2022 alleging the children were afraid of father.
C.L. did not testify to same, and V.L. testified other than her belief father attempted to
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have her taken an adult Advil instead of a children's Advil, she was not afraid. Septembe
2022 both children agreed after a two (2) week pause of visitation with father, they woul
have no concerns or issues with returning to the custody. However, six (6) months later,
C.L. indicates thatever since the "PFA incident" he has essentially hated his father and
wants nothing to do with him. The farther away in time from the incident, the worse C.L.
perceives it and the more dramatic his view of the incident is. The only logical conclusion
is this is fueled by mother. The court believes the evidnce e clearly establishes the best
interest of the children are to remain in the Grove City area with their friends, school and
relatives that they are comfortable and thriving with, as opposed to moving to Kansas
City where they will only know fianc~ and his four (4) children.
The court further notes mother testified father refused to allow receipt of the
children in anyway on Easter of 2023 despite the credible testimony an arrangement was
made for the children to appear at the maternal grandparents' church, have breakfast
there, and participate in a play.
As to custody modification, the evidence establishes a significant increase in
custody at this time with father is not appropriate. Regardless of the reasons, C.L. now
expresses serious concerns. Further, the testimony established father, prior to March of
2022, has never been very active or engaged in the children's lives. Father returned home
from work, went outside, and consumed an approximate twelve (12) pack of beer on an
almost daily basis. In the course of the hearing, father did not know teacher's names or 36 37 - FINDINGS OF F CT
the pediatrician's name. Father has not attended many, if any, of V.L's events. Father
indicated mother had not told him of same, but acknowledged he did not explore the
school's app which would have given him that information.
Additionally, father clearly and intentionally violated this court's order with
regard to Christmas 2022 visitation.
Conversely, mother does not ensure the children participate in court ordered
phone calls with father when they are in her custody. Mother was not cooperative with
father in arranging significant partial custody prior to the court's custody order of
Following order, only agreed (2) November 2022. said mother has on two occasions to
agree to any additional time. One of these occasions was the result of a "trade" to a1low
the children to participate in the grandparents' church play. Despite the children's most
recent testimony regarding their desire to not visit father, both children testified as to
many activities they undertake with father, and the time they enjoy there.
Hence this Order,
37 37 -FINDINGS OF FA T FL.ED I} MERCER COUNTY 2023 JUN I4 AMII: 36 RUTH A. BICE PROTHONOTARY
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF MERCER COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA CIVIL ACTION
ORDER /'] AND NOW, this day of June, 2023, IT IS HEREBY ORDERED Mother's
request for relocation to Lee's Summit, Missouri is DENIED.
IT IS FURTHER ORDERD custody of the children is modified as outlined
below:
I. The parties shall have joint legal custody of children, C.L. and V.L. Each party
shall have full and complete access to all scholastic, medical, dental, psychotherapy,
social service, extracurricular and other similar records and reports concerning the
children and the providers of same are hereby authorized and directed to communicate
directly with and furnish copies of any reports, pertaining to the children, as authorized
by law, to either party upon request. Each party shall be entitled to reasonable, advanced
notice of special events in which the children participates including school activities,
healthcare appointments, extracurricular, religious activities and similar events so that
both parents will have an opportunity to share the experience with the children. The
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custodial parent will notify the non-custodial parent of any medical emergency of the
children at the earliest possible moment.
2. Mother shall have primary physical custody of the children subject to Father's
partial physical custody rights as follows:
a. For the school year defined as commencing seven (7) days prior to the
first day of school and ending three (3) days after the last day of school:
i. For "week one" father shall have the children from Sunday at 3:00
p.m. until Tuesday morning at either 9.00 a.m. when he returns the
children to mother or when the children are placed on the school
bus;
ii. For "week two" father shall have the children from Saturday at
9:00 a.m. until Monday morning at 9:00 a.m. when he returns the
children to mother or when the children are placed on the school
bus.
iii. For "week two" father shall have custody of the children from
Thursday after school, or 4:.00 p.m., until Friday morning at 9:00
a.m. when he returns the children to mother or when the children
are placed on the bus.
iv. Should father's visitation include a Monday holiday in which the
children do not have school, other than Easter, Thanksgiving or 39 37 -FINDINGS OF F T
Christmas, the children shall remain with father until 5:00 p.m. as
opposed to the 9:00 a.m. return time.
v. As the parties are currently engaging in a week one/week two
visitation schedule, the rotation as currently exists shall remain in
place with regard to which weeks are one and/or two.
b. The children will always be with Mother on Mother's day and with Father
on Father's day. Said days are defined as 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m.
c. With regard to Christmas:
i. On even numbered years, mother shall have the children from
Noon on Christmas Eve until l :00 p.m. on Christmas Day and
father shall have the children from 1 :00 p.m. on Christmas Day
until 1 :00 p.m. on December 27.
ii. On odd numbered years, father shall have the children from Noon
on Christmas Eve until I :00 p.m. on Christmas Day and mother
shall have the children from 1 :00 p.m. Christmas Day until l :00
p.m. on December 27.
d. With regard to Easter and Thanksgiving:
i. Mother shall always have the children from 8:00 a.m. until 3:00
p.m. and father shall always have the children from 3;00 p.m. until
9:00p.m.
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The above holiday schedule supersedes the normal custody schedule.
e. In the months of June, July and August, father shall have one seven (7)
day consecutive period of visitation each month which shall include his
previously scheduled visitation in said week.
f. For years other than 2023, father shall inform mother in writing no later
than April I of each year of the weeks in which he intends to exercise.
g. For calendar year 2023, the parties shall agree as to father's visitation
weeks.
h. Should mother work more than five (5) consecutive hours, she shall offer
father the opportunity to exercise partial custody during said work time.
Mother shall offer said time immediately upon receipt of her work
schedule. Should father elect to exercise his visitation, and then be unable
to do so, it is his responsibility to ensure the children are properly cared
for either by a relative, competent adult, or daycare provider, at his cost.
All communication with regard to this shall occur through AppClose.
3. The non-custodial party shall be entitled to one (1) ten (10) minute phone call per
day when the children are in the other party's custody. It is the custodial parent's
obligation to ensure the call is initiated and the children remain engaged in same.
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4. The parties shall cooperate with each other to accommodate special requests
concerning physical custody of the children to ensure the children have the fullest
opportunity to enjoy the extended family of hath parties.
5. The parties shall cooperate with each other to accommodate the children's
participation in scholastic and extracurricular activities. The children shall not be enrolled
in any such activity without consent of both parties. or order of court.
6. All custody exchanges shall occur at the Sheetz gas station located in Grove City,
Pennsylvania, Pine Township.
7. Neither party will pennit the children to be transported in any uninsured vehicle
nor in a vehicle operated by an individual who is unlicensed or has consumed an
intoxicant.
8. The children will be always be properly restrained with lap and shoulder harness,
appropriate seat belt, and if required by law, an approved child safety seat.
9. Neither party shall deprecate, disparage or demean the other party, or say or do
anything in the presence of the children, or allow any third party to do so, that would tend
to cause the children to hold the other party in a bad light.
10. The parties will have communication in a respectful manner. Each party shall, at
all times, provide the other party with a working telephone number in the case of
emergency. All communication, except in an emergency, shall be through the Appclose
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application and limited to custody matters. Both parties shall download and initiate that
app within forty-eight (48) hours of today's date.
11. Neither party shall discuss any matters of custody or support in the presence or
hearing of the children, or allow a third party to do so. Each party shall hold the other
party up as someone to be loved, respected and obeyed.
12. Within ten ( I 0) days of this Order, father shall schedule an evaluation with a
psychiatrist or psychologist. Father shall fully disclose his relevant history including the
fact that he was prescribed depression/anxiety medication in March 2022 and he removed
himself from the medication without doctor's orders. Father shall take all medication as
prescribed and attend all follow up appointments as recommended by the
psychologist/psychiatrist.
13. C.L. and father shall enroll in counseling together. If counsel for both parties are
unable to agree on the identity of a provider within thirty (30) days, the GAL shall
designate said provider with deference to insurance issues.
14. This Court shall exercise continuing exclusive jurisdiction of the children in all
matters of custody involving the children.
15. All prior orders of this court are hereby VACATED and this shall be the sole
custody order between the parties unless superseded or modified by order of court.
16. The parties are free to mutually agree, in writing, to modifications of any portion
of this order, whether on a one time, temporary, or more permanent basis. 43 37- FINDINGS OF FA T
17. RELOCATON
Each party shall maintain his or her current residence, and in the event either
party shall intend to change his or her residence, the party proposing to relocate shall give
the other party sixty (60) days advance written notice by certified US mail, return receipt
requested, and by regular US mail, of his or her intent to relocate and provide the
following:
a. The address of the intended new residence.
b. The mailing address, if not the same as the address of the intended new
residence.
c. Names and ages of the individuals in the new residence, including
individuals who intend to live in the new residence.
d. The home telephone number of the intended new residence, if
available.
e. The name of the new school district and school.
f. The date of the proposed relocation.
g. The reasons for the proposed relocation.
h. A proposal for a revised custody schedule.
i. Any other information which the party proposing the relocation deems
appropriate.
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j. A counter-affidavit as provided under 23 Pa.C.S. $5335(d)(1) which can
be used by the non-relocating party to object to the proposed relocation
and the modification of a custody Order.
k. A warning to the non-relocating party that if the non-relocating party does
not file with this Court an objection to the proposed relocation within
thirty (30) days after receipt of the notice, that party shall be foreclosed
from objecting to the relocation.
aid "h Ronald D. Amrheif, Jr., Judge
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