LaRue v. LaRue

531 P.2d 84, 216 Kan. 242, 1975 Kan. LEXIS 320
CourtSupreme Court of Kansas
DecidedJanuary 25, 1975
Docket47,604
StatusPublished
Cited by30 cases

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LaRue v. LaRue, 531 P.2d 84, 216 Kan. 242, 1975 Kan. LEXIS 320 (kan 1975).

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The opinion of the court was delivered by

Schroeder, J.:

This is an appeal by John A. LaRue (defendant-appellant) from an order of the Franklin County District Court dissolving his marriage with Nina Davis LaRue (plaintiff-appellee) and dividing their property.

The appellant contends: (1) There was no substantial evidence to support the trial court’s finding that the parties were incompatible; (2) the trial court erred in giving credence to the appellee’s testimony in view of her demeanor; and (3) the property settlement award granted the appellee is not supported by substantial evidence.

Nina Davis LaRue and John A. LaRue were married February 12, 1945. At the time of their marriage Nina was a 56-year-old widow and John was 39. The parties were living in Carthage, Missouri, where Nina managed a hotel and John worked as a projectionist in the hotel theater.

In 1947, the couple moved onto a 210 acre farm northeast of Ottawa, Kansas, owned by Nina. She inherited the farm from her previous husband. The parties farmed the tillable land and raised cattle.

On May 15, 1973, John became ill, and Nina called an ambulance to have him taken to a hospital where he underwent surgery. Upon release from the hospital, John was not permitted by Nina to return to their home. John initially stayed in a motel and then moved into a small boarding home.

On July 6, 1973, Nina sued for a divorce alleging irreconcilable incompatibility. John answered with a general denial, and filed a cross-petition in which he also sought a divorce on the ground of irreconcilable incompatibility. John abandoned his claim for divorce at the trial.

[244]*244The appellant first asserts the trial court’s conclusion that the parties were incompatible is unsupported by the evidence. It is argued the record is void of any showing of temperament that represents the destruction of the parties’ marital relationship and the appellee’s testimony does not establish an irremediable rift or discord.

The only testimony included in the record on appeal concerning the parties’ marital relationship is that of the appellee. She was asked by her attorney why, after 28 or 29 years of marriage, all of a sudden when the appellant went to the hospital, she filed for a divorce. The appellee replied as follows:

“. . . Cause he hadn’t done anything for so long and I got tired of keeping him and cooking for him, and cooking fish and hamburgers. He couldn’t eat anything else and I just decided that I didn’t want to do it any longer, I couldn’t do it any longer. . . .”

The appellee further stated:

“. . . I was so sick and tired of looking at him that I hated him and then I said when I — they took him out of that door, when they took him onto that little back doorstep and I made up my mind this is the last time I want to see you, I am through.”

The appellee also complained that the appellant never really did any of the farm work because he was “too damn lazy”, and on at least one occasion the appellant refused to assist with the dehorning, branding, clamping of the cattle and the loading for market. The appellee claimed the cattle belonged to her and she had raised them. Furthermore, according to the appellee, the appellant tried to get money from her all the time and he used to get into her pocketbook and take money before she stopped him.

Also indicative of state the parties’ marital relationship was the appellee’s repeated reference to the appellant as “that thing over there”, and descriptions of the appellant such as “dumb” and “lazy”.

The appellant argues that the foregoing evidence falls short of establishing the couples’ incompatibility.

Recently, this court had occasion to consider incompatibility as a ground for divorce in Berry v. Berry, 215 Kan. 47, 523 P. 2d 342. There it was said incompatibility may be broadly defined as such a deep and irreconcilable conflict in personalities or temperaments of the parties as makes it impossible for them to continue a normal marital relationship. The conflict of personalities and dispositions must be so deep as to be irreconcilable and irremediable.

[245]*245It is also recognized in Berry, supra, that incompatibility does not refer to petty quarrels and minor bickerings which are merely evidence of normal human frailty, but refers to conflicts in personalities and dispositions so deep as to be irreconcilable and to render it impossible for the parties to continue a normal marital • relationship.

While a divorce should not be granted perfunctorily or merely upon a party’s charge of incompatibility without real proof of the fact, undoubtedly the legislature in supplying the additional ground of incompatibility intended to liberalize our divorce laws by broadening the basis upon which it may be granted. (Berry v. Berry, supra.)

In our opinion the appellee’s testimony sufficiently supported the trial court’s finding of incompatibility. Her testimony clearly demonstrates a long-standing, deep-seated dispute between the parties as to work load responsibilities on the farm and financial matters generally. The appellee quite evidently harbors nothing but hostility and resentment for the appellant. It is inconceivable that appellant’s temperament can be compatible with the appellee’s, if hers is incompatible with his. (Burch v. Burch, 195 F. 2d 799 [3rd Cir. 1952].)

The appellant contends the trial court abused its discretion by not requiring corroboration of the appellee’s testimony. The appellant states if he is “correct in his contention that there is no evidence on record showing the parties incompatible, the trial court abused its discretion by not requiring corroborating testimony to fill the void of the Appellee’s direct testimony.”

Actually, the appellant seems to be reasserting his argument that there is insufficient evidence to support the finding of incompatibility. Having already concluded that sufficient testimony exists, this claim has no merit. It was recognized in Berry v. Berry, supra, that our law is now changed so that either party may, in the trial court’s discretion, obtain a decree of divorce or separate maintenance upon the uncorroborated testimony of either or both of the parties. (K. S. A. 1974 Supp. 60-1609 [d].) The record does not disclose any abuse of the exercise of the power of discretion in the instant case.

The appellant contends the trial court erred in the weight and credibility given the appellee’s testimony because of her demeanor as shown by the record. It is readily apparent from the record the appellee, 85 years of age at the time of trial, was uncooperative and refused to testify as to the disposition of certain assets; she refused to abide by the court’s order restraining her from disposing of liquid [246]*246assets; she was evasive, and rude to the court and counsel. However, there is no indication in the record the trial court was deprived of its ability to weigh the evidence and determine this case by reason of the appellee’s demeanor during the trial. The point is sufficiently answered by the long standing rule that the district court as the trier of facts in a case, is the sole judge of the credibility of the witnesses and of the weight to be given the evidence presented at the trial. (Hoppe v. Hoppe, 181 Kan. 428, 312 P. 2d 215; and Saint v. Saint, 196 Kan. 330, 411 P. 2d 683.)

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