Lamb v. Lamb

33 Va. Cir. 442, 1994 Va. Cir. LEXIS 775
CourtStafford County Circuit Court
DecidedApril 26, 1994
DocketCase No. (Chancery) 93000073
StatusPublished

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Lamb v. Lamb, 33 Va. Cir. 442, 1994 Va. Cir. LEXIS 775 (Va. Super. Ct. 1994).

Opinion

By Judge James W. Haley, Jr.

I. The grounds for divorce, the propriety of spousal support and equitable distribution are all before the court for resolution.

II. The parties were married in 1963. No children resulted from the union but each had children from prior marriages. At the time of marriage Husband drove a delivery truck and Wife worked as a waitress. Thereafter Wife worked for a bank. After having worked part-time at the trade, Husband began a full-time upholstery business in 1973. Soon thereafter Wife joined in this enterprise and the parties worked jointly thereon, developing a substantial business which only terminated when the parties separated on December 12, 1992. The evidence does not justify a conclusion that either party contributed substantially more to the success of this business than the other.

The parties’ residence was acquired prior to marriage from Wife’s parents (Wife purchasing a sibling’s interest therein) with a then apparent value of $10,000.00 to $20,000.00. To the residence was added post-marriage an outbuilding, a den and a bedroom. The property is jointly titled and agreed to be marital property. Adjacent to the residence are two commercial lots likewise jointly-owned and marital on which structures were built in which the upholstery business was con[443]*443ducted. The parties agree these structures can generate rental income of $250.00 to $700.00 per month.

Husband is 64 and arthritic, a condition Wife concedes. Although Husband claims this infirmity precludes gainful employment, Husband had been working for nine years assisting a local auctioneer earning $550.00 monthly until shortly after depositions were taken in this cause on November 9, 1993. Wife is 67 years old and it is uncontradicted that her health is precarious. In December 1992 when the parties separated, Wife’s kidney was removed as cancerous. Since then she has undergone two surgeries, one a hysterectomy and the other in conjunction with care for a broken leg. Wife cannot realistically obtain future employment. The parties’ respective ages preclude meaningful further educational opportunities to enhance employment prospects. There is no evidence but that the parties are in good mental health.

As noted above, the parties separated in December 1992. Since that time, Husband has purchased a residence in Spotsylvania County, where he lives with one Deborah Curtis who he admits is properly characterized as his “girlfriend.” Wife has remained in the marital residence in Stafford County.

The circumstances leading to the separation of the parties are sadly not unique. Suffice it to say that Husband complains of his Wife’s unfounded complaints of his unfaithfulness over the years, that these complaints were expressed to third parties to his embarrassment, that sexual relations between the parties ceased, and that the marriage had deteriorated into a continuous argument. Wife testified that in August-September 1992, Husband began removing articles from the home, for the first time in their marriage did not come home until late or not at all, and expressed to at least one family member of the cessation of any love he may have had for Wife. The court notes that Wife’s attribution to Husband of outside female interests, if not then true, was prophetic. It is fair to say that “the marriage perhaps was over with long before . . .” the parties separated, as Wife affirmatively responded to counsel’s query.

The court has noted the parties relatively equal monetary contribution to the marriage (with the exception of the provenance of the marital residence) and the court cannot conclude on the evidence proffered that either party has made a greater non-monetary contribution to the marriage than the other.

[444]*444The evidence discloses that all assets set forth in memoranda filed by counsel are marital, that these assets were acquired throughout the marriage, and that the parties are in essence debt free. Insufficient evidence was offered as to tax consequences to either party.

III. Wife claims Husband deserted. Husband alleges constructive desertion. Each has the burden of showing the same by a corroborated preponderance of the evidence. See Hurt v. Hurt, 16 Va. App. 792, 433 S.E.2d 493, 498 (1993).

In Dexter v. Dexter, 7 Va. App. 36, 42, 371 S.E.2d 816, 819 (1988), the court stated:

“Desertion is a breach of matrimonial duty, and is composed first, of the actual breaking off of the marital cohabitation, and secondly, an intent to desert in the mind of the offender. Both must combine to make the desertion complete.” Zinkhan v. Zinkhan, 2 Va. App. 200, 205, 342 S.E.2d 658, 660 (1986) quoting Nash v. Nash, 200 Va. 890, 893, 108 S.E.2d 350, 352 (1958). “The ‘matrimonial cohabitation’ consists of more than sexual relations. It also imports the continuing condition of living together and carrying out the mutual responsibilities of the marriage relationship . . .” Petachenko v. Petachenko, 232 Va. 296, 299, 350 S.E.2d 600, 602 (1986) (citation omitted). “The burden of proving desertion should be by a preponderance of the evidence.” Bacon v. Bacon, 3 Va. App. 484, 490, 351 S.E.2d 37, 40-41 (1987).
The law is settled that desertion as a ground for divorce does not depend on which spouse actually leaves the family home, Zinkhan, 2 Va. App. at 208, 342 S.E.2d at 662, and that desertion may occur within the family home or “under the same roof.” See, e.g., Jamison v. Jamison, 3 Va. App. 644, 647, 352 S.E.2d 719, 721 (1987); Goodwyn v. Goodwyn, 222 Va. 53, 55, 278 S.E.2d 813, 814 (1981); Chandler v. Chandler, 132 Va. 418, 431-32, 112 S.E. 856, 860 (1922).

The evidence as a whole fails to establish desertion or constructive desertion by the required evidentiary standard. Rather, the evidence as a whole of the parties’ marital relationship is best summarized as “the facts establish that both parties had ‘accepted that the marriage had ended, that both intended to separate at some time in the future, and that the husband acquiesced in the separation, precluding the finding of [445]*445desertion’.” Barnes v. Barnes, 16 Va. App. 98, 101, 428 S.E.2d 294, 297 (1993).

Accordingly, the divorce will be granted upon the non-fault separation grounds set forth in Code Section 20-91(9). And even had desertion been established:

A trial court is not compelled to give precedence to one proven ground of divorce over another. Robertson v. Robertson, 215 Va. 425, 426, 211 S.E.2d 41, 43 (1975).

Williams v. Williams, 14 Va. App. 217, 415 S.E.2d 252 (1992).

IV. The parties have asked the court for equitable distribution.

A court . . . must consider all of “the factors enumerated in Code Section 20-107.3(E).” Marion v.

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