Joseph Richard Demski v. Cassidie Petlick

CourtMichigan Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 5, 2015
Docket322193
StatusPublished

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Opinion

STATE OF MICHIGAN

COURT OF APPEALS

JOSEPH RICHARD DEMSKI, FOR PUBLICATION March 5, 2015 Plaintiff-Appellee, 9:10 a.m.

v No. 322193 Berrien Circuit Court CASSIDIE ANN PETLICK, f/k/a CASSIDIE LC No. 12-003323-DP ANN POINTER, and JEFFREY PETLICK,

Defendant-Appellants.

Before: BOONSTRA, P.J., and DONOFRIO and GLEICHER, JJ.

BOONSTRA, P.J.

Defendants appeal by right the February 4, 2014 order of the trial court awarding joint legal custody of the minor child to plaintiff and defendant Cassidie Petlick (“Cassidie”), awarding sole physical custody to Cassidie, and granting parenting time to plaintiff; defendants additionally appeal the August 29, 2013 order of filiation determining plaintiff’s paternity of the minor child. We affirm.

I. PERTINENT FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

Defendant Jeffrey Petlick (“Jeffrey”) began a romantic relationship with Cassidie, f/k/a Cassidie Pointer, in 2006; that relationship ended in March 2010. Thereafter, Cassidie began a romantic relationship with plaintiff, in April 2010. That relationship lasted approximately 4-1/2 months, during which time plaintiff and Cassidie engaged in sexual relations. Jeffrey and Cassidie did not have sexual relations during the time period of Cassidie’s relationship with plaintiff.

In May 2010, Cassidie became pregnant. Plaintiff learned of the pregnancy in June 2010. Plaintiff testified that approximately three or four weeks later, he talked with Cassidie about getting married. In July 2010, while Cassidie was still in a relationship with plaintiff, Jeffrey learned that Cassidie was pregnant. Jeffrey acknowledged at trial that he always knew that the minor child was not his biological child and that plaintiff was the minor child’s biological father.

In early August 2010, Cassidie’s relationship with plaintiff ended, after which Cassidie and Jeffrey resumed their previous relationship. Plaintiff testified that he offered Cassidie financial and emotional assistance at that time, but that she rejected his help. Cassidie told plaintiff that he had no idea what it took to raise a child and that there was “no way” she was

-1- “going to hand her kid over to somebody like [plaintiff].” Plaintiff testified that he felt that Cassidie was pressuring him to back away from the situation.

In September or October 2010, Cassidie went to plaintiff’s house to show him ultrasound photographs of the unborn minor child. Jeffrey (who was not present) testified that plaintiff acted as though he did not care to see the photographs and “groped” Cassidie. Cassidie testified that during the first few minutes at plaintiff’s house, she discovered that he was “highly under the influence,” and that plaintiff tried to put his hands on her. Plaintiff denied touching or attempting to touch Cassidie when she stopped by his house to show him the photographs.

Jeffrey testified that, in late 2010, plaintiff told him that he wanted to “sign off” in regard to raising the minor child. Plaintiff and Cassidie sent a series of text messages to each other discussing the possibility of plaintiff signing away his rights in exchange for not being required to pay child support. Plaintiff acknowledged that, in November 2010, there was a brief period of time when he did not want to be involved with the minor child. Plaintiff testified that a few weeks later, he changed his mind. Plaintiff testified that he did not seriously consider walking out of the minor child’s life, but that Cassidie’s initial reluctance to receive his help discouraged him because he did not want the minor child to be raised in an environment with conflict. Jeffrey testified that, by the end of November 2010, he and Cassidie had decided that plaintiff was not going to be involved with the minor child.

Plaintiff obtained legal counsel who sent Cassidie a letter on January 13, 2011 indicating that plaintiff had retained counsel “in order to assist and facilitate his involvement with prenatal doctor’s appointments as well as the birth of your daughter” and to assist in establishing paternity “as well as an eventual custody and parenting time arrangement.” The letter also made reference to plaintiff’s desire to be present at the birth of the minor child. Cassidie did not contact plaintiff after she received the letter. Cassidie testified that she did not take the letter seriously, because five weeks earlier, plaintiff had told her that he wanted to sign away his rights. Plaintiff testified that at the beginning of January 2011, he saw Jeffrey at a gas station and tried to talk to him. Jeffrey told plaintiff to “stay the f--- away” and that he was a “f------ piece of s--- .”

On a date later in January 2011, at approximately 2:30 p.m. or 3:00 p.m., Cassidie’s water broke. At approximately 5:30 p.m. or 6:00 p.m. the same day, Jeffrey and Cassidie were married. At trial, Jeffrey testified that he and Cassidie had intended to get married on a date in February 2011, but altered this plan when it became apparent that the minor child would be born before that date. Jeffrey testified that they wanted to be married before the minor child was born so that the minor child would be born as a legitimate child into a family with a married mother and father. Cassidie testified that it was important not to have the minor child out of wedlock because she wanted to ensure that the child had a family. At approximately 7:00 p.m. on the date that Jeffrey and Cassidie were married, and while they were waiting for the minor child to be born, plaintiff arrived at the hospital and waited in the waiting room for approximately two or three hours before leaving.

The minor child, MP, was born the next day. On the day after the birth, Cassidie invited plaintiff to the hospital. Jeffrey testified that at that point he and Cassidie had decided that plaintiff could be involved in MP’s life. Plaintiff visited MP at that time and held her for four

-2- hours. Cassidie testified that while plaintiff was at the hospital, she told him to “[g]ive us a few days, let us get settled and we’ll get ahold of you.” According to plaintiff, Cassidie told him when he left the hospital that she would stay in contact with him. Plaintiff asked Cassidie to inform him of how MP’s first doctor visit went, but Cassidie did not contact him about the visit.

Within a day or two after MP was born, according to plaintiff, Cassidie and Jeffrey told him via text messages to “back off or further action would be taken.” According to Cassidie, she told plaintiff that “[y]ou’re driving us crazy. Give us a few days, let us get settled.” Other than by text messages, Jeffrey and Cassidie did not hear from plaintiff between MP’s birth and April or May 2011. Jeffrey and Cassidie testified that after they did not hear from plaintiff, they considered the “door closed” on plaintiff’s involvement in MP’s life. Plaintiff testified that he was told by Jeffrey and Cassidie that he needed to “back off” or that they would pursue a restraining order or a personal protection order (PPO) against him. Plaintiff said that when he told his attorney of Jeffrey’s and Cassidie’s threats, his attorney advised him to stay away from them. Jeffrey testified to looking into obtaining a PPO, although it does not appear that one was ever issued.

Later in February 2011, Jeffrey and Cassidie went shopping with MP at Sam’s Club. While at the store, MP suffered apnea and stopped breathing. Jeffrey and Cassidie took MP to a series of hospitals for treatment. Jeffrey testified that, as a result of that experience, he solidified his bond with MP.

On June 19, 2011, Jeffrey sent a Facebook message to plaintiff telling him: “Just do us all a favor and go on with your life. We chose the best situation for [MP]. And for you to say I am desperate, you can go f-- yourself.

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