Jonathan Patrick v. Morgan Patrick

Court of Civil Appeals of Alabama·Decided December 19, 2025·No. CL-2025-0117·Published

Opinion

Rel: December 19, 2025

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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2025-2026

CL-2025-0117

Jonathan Patrick

v.

Morgan Patrick

Appeal from Madison Circuit Court (DR-23-900081.80)

FRIDY, Judge.

This is the second time Jonathan Patrick ("the husband") and Morgan Patrick ("the wife") have come before this court in this divorce action. In Patrick v. Patrick, 419 So. 3d 555, 557 (Ala. Civ. App. 2024), the husband appealed the judgment of the Madison Circuit Court ("the

trial court") divorcing him from the wife, dividing their marital assets, awarding the wife alimony, and awarding him sole legal and sole physical custody of the parties' eight-year-old child ("the child"). In that appeal, we reversed the judgment insofar as it awarded the wife alimony and divided the parties' marital property and remanded the case with instructions to the trial court to comply with the requirements of § 30-2- 57, Ala. Code 1975. The trial court has entered an amended judgment, as directed, without changing the amount of the alimony award or the division of the marital property. The husband, appearing pro se, appeals from the amended divorce judgment. For the reasons set forth herein, we affirm the judgment.

Background

The parties married on June 8, 2013, and the child was born almost two years later. On January 27, 2023, the husband commenced a divorce action against the wife, and, on April 5, 2023, the wife answered the complaint and filed a counterclaim for divorce. The trial court held a trial in the action on January 30, 2024.

The husband, who was thirty-nine years old at the time of the trial, testified that the wife and he met on an Internet site and began a long-

distance relationship. The wife lived in Ohio and the husband was an undergraduate student and working at the University of Alabama at Huntsville ("UAH"). The parties dated for about four years before getting married, he said. After the wife moved to Alabama in 2009, the husband said, he realized that she had a drinking problem, which, he said, was a "frequent point of friction in [their] relationship." The husband did not drink alcohol and said that he would characterize himself as naіve about alcohol consumption.

At the trial, the wife's testimony was often confusing or evasive.

She said that she had been in a detoxification center in the weeks leading up to the January 2024 trial because, as she put it, she had "an alcohol problem." She said that she had been treated in an alcohol-rehabilitation center once before but that that treatment had not been successful. In addition to receiving treatment at rehabilitation facilities, the wife said, she had been hospitalized several times for alcohol-related issues, including pancreatitis, in the five years leading up to the husband's filing of the divorce complaint, and doctors had told her that she would die if she did not stop drinking. The wife, who was forty years old when the trial was held, acknowledged that she had been drinking one and a half

to two pints of alcohol a day. During the litigation of this case, the trial court ordered the wife to submit to color-code alcohol testing, but she did not comply, saying that she did not have the money to do so.

The wife conceded that her alcohol use had had a negative effect on the marriage. However, she said, the husband had been "an enabler," bringing alcohol home to her. She said that she believed that the husband bought the alcohol about 75% of the time. Even after the husband filed the divorce action, the wife said, he bought about 40% or 50% of the alcohol she drank. She said that she asked the husband to attend counseling so that he would understand living with a recovering addict but that he did not follow through with that request. She also testified that the husband's conduct had a role in the breakdown of the marriage. She said that "he became old too quick" and that there were things she still wanted to do. She said that, "[o]nce he got his big boy job, he wasn't coming home as much." When the husband was home, she said, he would "sit in front of the Xbox," adding that they never went anywhere or did anything.

The husband testified that he had purchased alcohol for the wife, but not to the extent to which the wife testified. He explained that the

wife was not openly drinking in front of him and was sneaking alcohol into the house. In 2021, the husband said, he confronted the wife about her drinking and told her it had to stop. He said that she told him that the way that he could help her "was by buying it and hiding it in the house so that she could taper off." He said that he "would pour a shot and hide it, and then whenever the [wife's] craving got too bad, she would go find wherever [he] hid it and then drink it." He said that he first purchased liquor for the wife in 2021. However, the husband said, the wife then began calling him at work to tell him that she "need[ed] a pint," and so, he said, he would buy liquor for her so that she would not drink and drive. Once the divorce action had been filed, the husband said, he bought liquor for the wife when she would have some item of his and threaten to damage it if he did not buy her alcohol.

The wife admitted that, during the marriage, she had had "inappropriate" relationships with a man in Germany, D.H., and a man in Finland, J.L., both of whom she met on the Internet. She admitted "sexting" with both men. She volunteered that she "really liked" D.H. and "was tapped out of the marriage by then." She testified that she had told the husband that she was thinking about moving to Germany and that

she was thinking about having a child with D.H. She said that the last time she had talked with him was the day before the trial.

The wife said that J.L came to Huntsville and that she had sex with him at his hotel. She said that she had told J.L. that she loved him and that she had talked about having a baby with him as well, adding that she wanted another child. The last time she had talked to him was the morning of the trial.

The wife said that, during the pendency of the case, she had sent money to both D.H. and J.L. to repay loans they had made to her, but, it was pointed out, during her deposition she had said that she was sending one of the men money to buy a crock-pot for his mother. She testified that she was using the husband's money to repay the loans.

The husband testified that he became aware of the wife's relationship with D.H. in early 2021, when he saw sexually explicit messages on the wife's cellular telephone. He said that he demanded that she end the relationship, but the wife continued it. He said that he learned about J.L. in March 2022 when he saw a sexually explicit conversation between the wife and J.L. on Facebook, a social-media

website. He said that he learned that the wife had had a sexual relationship with J.L. after the wife's deposition in this matter.

The husband, who has a master's degree, was employed as the head of the Complex Systems Integration Lab at UAH. He also worked part time as an adjunct faculty member for the mathematics department and for the systems engineering department. He said that he had had a difficult time balancing life and work and that his focus during the marriage was on trying to get out of debt, but that that was not the wife's focus.

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