J.J.R. VS. K.A.R. (FM-08-0542-19, GLOUCESTER COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided November 19, 2021·No. A-1268-20·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1268-20

J.J.R.1, Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. K.A.R.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Submitted October 25, 2021 – Decided November 19, 2021 Before Judges Fasciale and Firko.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Gloucester County, Docket No. FM-08-0542-19.

Kennedy & Vassallo, attorneys for appellant (Nancy Kennedy Brent, on the briefs).

Law Offices of Lynda L. Hinkle, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Jarred McCart, on the brief).

1 We use initials to protect the identity of the parties and children and to preserve their confidentiality. R. 1:38-3(d)(13).

PER CURIAM In this post-judgment custody and parenting time dispute, plaintiff J.J.R.

(father) appeals from the Family Part's December 11, 2020 order denying his motion to change the residential custody status of the parties' daughter E.R., born in 2005. The judge granted defendant K.A.R.'s (mother) cross-motion to compel cooperation relative to parenting time and granted her request for counsel fees in the amount of $1,983 to be paid by plaintiff. For the reasons that follow, we affirm the decision to deny plaintiff's motion to change the residential custody status of E.R., but we reverse and remand the award of counsel fees because the judge did not address the factors required by Rules 5:3-5(c), 4:42-9, and RPC 1.5(a).

I.

The following facts are derived from the motion record. The parties divorced in April 2019, after a sixteen-year marriage. Two children were born of the marriage: Z.R., born in 1998; and E.R., a daughter born in 2005, who is the subject of the matter under review. Although not referenced in the final judgment of divorce (FJOD), the parties executed a two-page property settlement agreement (PSA) on March 16, 2019. On May 1, 2020, the parties entered a consent order, which modified the FJOD.

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The FJOD granted joint legal custody of the parties' two children and liberal, reasonable parenting time, as agreed to by the parties. Defendant was designated as the parent of primary residence (PPR), and plaintiff was designated as the parent of alternate residence (PAR). Plaintiff was ordered to pay child support of $132 per week directly to defendant. The PSA reiterated the terms of custody and parenting time but reduced the child support obligation to $86 per week. After the consent order was entered, E.R.'s relationship with defendant deteriorated to the point she no longer wanted to reside with defendant.

According to defendant, she attributes E.R.'s unhappiness to her stricter parenting style and "setting rules." On the other hand, plaintiff stated E.R. informed him that defendant "is very belittling to her"; "does not take her feelings into consideration"; "seems out of control of her emotions"; "is attempting to manipulate [E.R.]"; "refuses to consider rational and logical perspectives if they differ from her own thoughts"; and "is trying to cas t herself as a victim."

Thereafter, E.R. began living with plaintiff. E.R.'s grades declined, which defendant blamed on plaintiff's lack of structure and discipline, while plaintiff pointed out the challenges of online learning during the COVID-19 pandemic.

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The parties' ability to co-parent worsened as evidenced by defendant's allegation that plaintiff unilaterally took the then fifteen-year-old E.R. to a gynecologist to obtain a birth control prescription. Defendant was not advised of the prescription until plaintiff was on his way to a pharmacy to fill it.

Defendant also claims plaintiff took E.R. to another unspecified doctor's appointment without her prior knowledge, and he refused to communicate with her regarding E.R. Plaintiff refused to return E.R. to defendant's home. Defendant alleges this failure to communicate adversely affects her relationship with E.R., and plaintiff fails to encourage E.R. to reengage in individual and joint therapy with defendant despite E.R.'s prior consistent attendance.

On September 17, 2020, plaintiff filed a motion seeking the following relief: (1) "[a] change in the physical custody of the parties' minor [child], [E.R.], . . . with [p]laintiff being named the [PPR]"; (2) "[p]arenting time to be determined between the parties with substantial input from [E.R.]"; (3) "[a] recalculation of child support"; and (4) any other equitable remedies. Defendant filed a notice of cross-motion for post-judgment relief on November 23, 2020, requesting the judge: (1) deny plaintiff's motions; (2) enforce the PSA as it pertains to parenting time; (3) require E.R. to continue with therapy; and (4) award her counsel fees and costs.

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Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, the hearing on the motions was scheduled to take place via Zoom on December 11, 2020. An email to the parties' attorneys was sent on December 10, 2020, containing a Zoom link and the date, time, meeting identification, and passcode for the hearing. The judge heard oral argument from both counsel, and the litigants were allowed to appear virtually.

Later that same day after the hearing, the judge issued a written fifteen-

page memorandum and order. The judge denied plaintiff's motion for a change in the parental residency designation and to recalculate child support. The judge highlighted that defendant is "the primary caretaker" of E.R. and "has greater autonomy over the day-to-day decisions with the child." In his memorandum and order, the judge found:

[p]laintiff has failed to meet his burden. The circumstances he describes simply represent the struggles of raising a teenager. As joint custodians, the parties share "the legal authority and responsibility for making 'major' decisions regarding the child's welfare,"

not "minor day-to-day decisions." Beck [v. Beck], 86 N.J. [480], 487 [(1981)]. Plaintiff has not followed that principle. He has not encouraged E.R. to mend her relationship with her mother, despite [d]efendant's efforts to work on the issues that divide them. And perhaps more troubling, he unilaterally decided to have E.R. stop attending therapy and start taking birth control pills. Such major decisions require consultation between both joint custodial parents.

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Plaintiff suggests that parenting time for E.R.

should be her decision, asking that "[p]arenting time be determined between the parties with substantial input from the parties['] minor daughter." That would not be appropriate. The parties must first get on the same page, or at least in the same book, regarding parenting of E.R. True, a child of her age should be heard. But she should not have the final say. The parents (one or both) cannot abdicate their role as parent to ensure the health, safety and welfare to the very child for which they are legally and morally responsible.

The judge ordered the parties to attend "either family therapy or mediation" pursuant to Rule 1:40-5(a)(2).2 The judge also denied plaintiff's request to recalculate child support because no changed circumstances were established. As to defendant's cross-motion, the judge granted her request for counsel fees and ordered plaintiff to pay the sum of $1,983 on an installment

2 Rule 1:40-5(a)(2) provides:

In addition to the general requirements of Rule 1:40-4, the parties shall be required to attend a mediation orientation program and may be required to attend an initial mediation session. Mediation sessions shall be closed to the public. The mediator and the parties should consider whether it is appropriate to involve the child in the mediation process. The mediator or either party may terminate a mediation session in accordance with the provisions of Rule 1:40-4(h).

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