J.J.R. VS. K.A.R. (FM-08-0542-19, GLOUCESTER COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedNovember 19, 2021
DocketA-1268-20
StatusUnpublished

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J.J.R. VS. K.A.R. (FM-08-0542-19, GLOUCESTER COUNTY AND STATEWIDE), (N.J. Ct. App. 2021).

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-1268-20

J.J.R.1,

Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

K.A.R.,

Defendant-Respondent. ________________________

Submitted October 25, 2021 – Decided November 19, 2021

Before Judges Fasciale and Firko.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Gloucester County, Docket No. FM-08-0542-19.

Kennedy & Vassallo, attorneys for appellant (Nancy Kennedy Brent, on the briefs).

Law Offices of Lynda L. Hinkle, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Jarred McCart, on the brief).

1 We use initials to protect the identity of the parties and children and to preserve their confidentiality. R. 1:38-3(d)(13). PER CURIAM

In this post-judgment custody and parenting time dispute, plaintiff J.J.R.

(father) appeals from the Family Part's December 11, 2020 order denying his

motion to change the residential custody status of the parties' daughter E.R.,

born in 2005. The judge granted defendant K.A.R.'s (mother) cross-motion to

compel cooperation relative to parenting time and granted her request for

counsel fees in the amount of $1,983 to be paid by plaintiff. For the reasons that

follow, we affirm the decision to deny plaintiff's motion to change the residential

custody status of E.R., but we reverse and remand the award of counsel fees

because the judge did not address the factors required by Rules 5:3-5(c), 4:42-9,

and RPC 1.5(a).

I.

The following facts are derived from the motion record. The parties

divorced in April 2019, after a sixteen-year marriage. Two children were born

of the marriage: Z.R., born in 1998; and E.R., a daughter born in 2005, who is

the subject of the matter under review. Although not referenced in the final

judgment of divorce (FJOD), the parties executed a two-page property

settlement agreement (PSA) on March 16, 2019. On May 1, 2020, the parties

entered a consent order, which modified the FJOD.

A-1268-20 2 The FJOD granted joint legal custody of the parties' two children and

liberal, reasonable parenting time, as agreed to by the parties. Defendant was

designated as the parent of primary residence (PPR), and plaintiff was

designated as the parent of alternate residence (PAR). Plaintiff was ordered to

pay child support of $132 per week directly to defendant. The PSA reiterated

the terms of custody and parenting time but reduced the child support obligation

to $86 per week. After the consent order was entered, E.R.'s relationship with

defendant deteriorated to the point she no longer wanted to reside with

defendant.

According to defendant, she attributes E.R.'s unhappiness to her stricter

parenting style and "setting rules." On the other hand, plaintiff stated E.R.

informed him that defendant "is very belittling to her"; "does not take her

feelings into consideration"; "seems out of control of her emotions"; "is

attempting to manipulate [E.R.]"; "refuses to consider rational and logical

perspectives if they differ from her own thoughts"; and "is trying to cas t herself

as a victim."

Thereafter, E.R. began living with plaintiff. E.R.'s grades declined, which

defendant blamed on plaintiff's lack of structure and discipline, while plaintiff

pointed out the challenges of online learning during the COVID-19 pandemic.

A-1268-20 3 The parties' ability to co-parent worsened as evidenced by defendant's allegation

that plaintiff unilaterally took the then fifteen-year-old E.R. to a gynecologist to

obtain a birth control prescription. Defendant was not advised of the

prescription until plaintiff was on his way to a pharmacy to fill it.

Defendant also claims plaintiff took E.R. to another unspecified doctor's

appointment without her prior knowledge, and he refused to communicate with

her regarding E.R. Plaintiff refused to return E.R. to defendant's home.

Defendant alleges this failure to communicate adversely affects her relationship

with E.R., and plaintiff fails to encourage E.R. to reengage in individual and

joint therapy with defendant despite E.R.'s prior consistent attendance.

On September 17, 2020, plaintiff filed a motion seeking the following

relief: (1) "[a] change in the physical custody of the parties' minor [child],

[E.R.], . . . with [p]laintiff being named the [PPR]"; (2) "[p]arenting time to be

determined between the parties with substantial input from [E.R.]"; (3) "[a]

recalculation of child support"; and (4) any other equitable remedies. Defendant

filed a notice of cross-motion for post-judgment relief on November 23, 2020,

requesting the judge: (1) deny plaintiff's motions; (2) enforce the PSA as it

pertains to parenting time; (3) require E.R. to continue with therapy; and (4)

award her counsel fees and costs.

A-1268-20 4 Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, the hearing on the motions was

scheduled to take place via Zoom on December 11, 2020. An email to the

parties' attorneys was sent on December 10, 2020, containing a Zoom link and

the date, time, meeting identification, and passcode for the hearing. The judge

heard oral argument from both counsel, and the litigants were allowed to appear

virtually.

Later that same day after the hearing, the judge issued a written fifteen-

page memorandum and order. The judge denied plaintiff's motion for a change

in the parental residency designation and to recalculate child support. The judge

highlighted that defendant is "the primary caretaker" of E.R. and "has greater

autonomy over the day-to-day decisions with the child." In his memorandum

and order, the judge found:

[p]laintiff has failed to meet his burden. The circumstances he describes simply represent the struggles of raising a teenager. As joint custodians, the parties share "the legal authority and responsibility for making 'major' decisions regarding the child's welfare," not "minor day-to-day decisions." Beck [v. Beck], 86 N.J. [480], 487 [(1981)]. Plaintiff has not followed that principle. He has not encouraged E.R. to mend her relationship with her mother, despite [d]efendant's efforts to work on the issues that divide them. And perhaps more troubling, he unilaterally decided to have E.R. stop attending therapy and start taking birth control pills. Such major decisions require consultation between both joint custodial parents.

A-1268-20 5 Plaintiff suggests that parenting time for E.R. should be her decision, asking that "[p]arenting time be determined between the parties with substantial input from the parties['] minor daughter." That would not be appropriate. The parties must first get on the same page, or at least in the same book, regarding parenting of E.R. True, a child of her age should be heard. But she should not have the final say. The parents (one or both) cannot abdicate their role as parent to ensure the health, safety and welfare to the very child for which they are legally and morally responsible.

The judge ordered the parties to attend "either family therapy or

mediation" pursuant to Rule 1:40-5(a)(2).2 The judge also denied plaintiff's

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