J.J.K. v. N.E.K.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided May 13, 2021·No. 940 MDA 2020·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

J.J.K. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

Appellant :

:

v. :

:

N.E.K. :

:

: No. 940 MDA 2020

Appeal from the Order Entered June 12, 2020 In the Court of Common Pleas of Lancaster County Civil Division at No(s): CI-15-06455

BEFORE: STABILE, J., NICHOLS, J., and STRASSBURGER, J.* MEMORANDUM BY NICHOLS, J.: FILED MAY 13, 2021 J.J.K. (Father) appeals pro se1 from the order that denied his petition to modify the existing custody order with respect to his sons, J.A.K., born in April of 2008, and J.R.K., born in March of 2010 (collectively, the Children). For the reasons that follow, we vacate the trial court’s no-alcohol provision as it applies to Father, but otherwise affirm.

By way of background, the record reveals that the Children were born during the marriage of Father and N.E.K. (Mother). The parties separated in July of 2015, and they subsequently divorced. Protracted custody litigation ensued. Relevant to the instant matter, Father and Mother have had shared

* Retired Senior Judge assigned to the Superior Court. 1 Father is a licensed attorney. Trial Ct. Op., 6/12/20, at 2.

legal and physical custody of the Children since their separation. The existing custody order, which was dated September 11, 2017, and entered on September 13, 2017, granted custody to Father every Monday until Wednesday, and Mother every Wednesday until Friday. The order directed that the parties alternate weekend custody, which the order defined as Friday until Monday. Order, 9/11/17, at ¶¶ I–II.

In 2018, Father remarried, and he and his wife have a son, who was thirteen months old at the time the subject proceeding. Trial Ct. Op. at 2; N.T., 6/2/20, at 62. Father has lived in his current home since 2018, and Mother has resided in her home since the parties’ separation.2 Trial Ct. Op. at 2.

On September 18, 2019, Father filed the underlying pro se petition to modify the existing custody order. Father alleged, in part:

[J.R.K., the parties’ younger son,] had made suicidal statements to Mother approximately two weeks prior. . . . [O]n September 13, 2019, J.R.K. had gone to the kitchen at Mother’s home and held a knife to his heart. J.R.K. communicated to Father that he has been upset because Mother is never home and that she does not do anything with them when she is home. . . .

Pet., 9/18/19, at ¶ 5(A). Further, Father alleged that “[s]ince at least June of 2018, Mother has routinely left the [C]hildren home unsupervised for extended periods during both the daytime and evening hours, for various

reasons, including social occasions.” Id. at ¶ 5(B). In addition, Father

2It is not clear whether Mother lives in the former marital residence. Father and Mother live in the same school district.

asserted that “[i]n June of 2019[,] the [C]hildren reported that Mother let J.R.K. sit on her lap and steer the car for an extended period of time after Mother had ‘5 or 6’ vodka drinks and was ‘acting like she had no idea what was going on.’” Id. at ¶ 5(C).

The trial court appointed Jeffrey S. Shank, Esq. as the Children’s guardian ad litem (GAL) on September 30, 2019. The GAL prepared a report with a recommendation that “the shared schedule continue.” GAL Report, 4/15/20, at 9.

Following delays caused by court emergency closings due to the COVID-

19 pandemic, the trial court held an evidentiary hearing on June 2, 2020, at which Father represented himself. Father then testified with respect to his request for primary physical custody.

Father also called the Kim Thvedt a “psych[] liaison” who performed a psychosocial assessment of J.R.K. on September 17, 2019, when Father took J.R.K. to the emergency room after learning of J.R.K.’s suicidal ideations. Ms. Thevdt testified by telephone that she had a “nice conversation” with J.R.K. regarding what was going on in his life. N.T., 6/2/20, at 177. She further explained:

[J.R.K.] denied suicidal and homicidal ideations. He did admit that he h[el]d his knife to his chest with a plan to kill himself the Friday before. He states that he did this while [M]other was in the shower. She was getting ready to go out without him and his brother.

He states that he started having thoughts like this about a month previous to this visit [to the emergency room], states he sometimes felt that he was not a good person but that holding the

knife to his chest scared him. He says he did it. He did this because [Mother] is never home. . . . [He] says he feels [Mother]

does not love him; that she goes out all the time without him and she doesn’t spend time with him.

Id. at 177–78. Ms. Thvedt stated that J.R.K. also discussed Mother’s drinking and an incident where she had him steer her car after she had been drinking. Id. at 180. Ms Thvedt testified that she gave a report of “alleged” child abuse to ChildLine. Id. at 190.

The trial court separately interviewed the Children in camera in the presence of the GAL. The older child, J.A.K., was twelve years old at the time of the hearing and testified that he preferred “to spend more time with [Father] . . . .” N.T., 6/2/20, at 126. J.A.K. explained:

[Father] just, you know, interacts with us so much more and it seems so much more fun and I feel like I’m in so much more bad moods when I’m at [Mother’s]. It’s like, [J.A.K.], do you want to go do something? Not really. But at [Father’s], [J.A.K.], do you want to go play basketball? Oh, yeah, sure.

THE COURT: What do you think the difference is? Why do you say, yes, when [Father] asks you to do something?

[J.A.K.]: Because I feel just like when [J.R.K.] or [Mother] ask me to do something, it’s just kind of like—I’m going to rephrase that.

We’re just kind of there so much, and we’re not really together at all. And I’ll just be, like, laying in my bed and [J.R.K.] will be like, [J.A.K.], do you want to go someplace? No, not really. When I with [Father], we’re up and moving and doing stuff. And it’s like, you guys want to go on a walk and play basketball? Sure, whatever.

Id. at 126–27.

J.R.K., then ten years old, testified with respect to his custody preference as follows:

THE COURT: Right now you’re spending about half your time at your dad’s house and half the time at [Mother’s] house. How do you feel about that schedule?

[J.R.K.]: I like it.

THE COURT: So you wouldn’t want to ever see that change?

[J.R.K.]: No.

Id. at 154. Both J.A.K. and J.R.K. testified that they want to remain together and not be separated with respect to any custody schedule. Id. at 135, 155.

Mother testified on her own behalf. In addition, the GAL testified regarding his recommendation not to change the custody schedule. The GAL testified, “I think the parents should have an equal amount of time because I think they both have a lot to offer and their kids are doing—overall they’re doing very well.” Id. at 55.

By order dated June 11, 2020, and entered on June 12, 2020, the trial court maintained the shared legal and physical custody schedule between Father and Mother. The trial court granted custody to Father every Monday until Wednesday, to Mother every Wednesday until Friday, and to both parties on alternating weekends. The order included a no-alcohol provision, which stated that “[n]either party shall consume alcohol while the Children are in his or her custody or for the twelve hours before that parent’s custodial period . . . .” Order, 6/12/20, at ¶ VI(A).

In its opinion accompanying the order, the trial court listed and considered all of the Section 5328(a) best interest factors. Trial Ct. Op. at 5- 8. The trial court found inapplicable Section 5328(a)(15) and (16). The trial court found that Section 5328(a)(6), the child’s sibling relationships, “slightly favors Father” due to the Children’s half-brother who resides with Father. Id. at 6. The trial court found that the remaining best interest factors favored neither party. Id. at 5-8.

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