J.H. v. J.Y.W.

CourtSuperior Court of Pennsylvania
DecidedFebruary 4, 2020
Docket1362 WDA 2019
StatusUnpublished

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J.H. v. J.Y.W., (Pa. Ct. App. 2020).

Opinion

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

J.H. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : J.Y.W. : : Appellant : No. 1362 WDA 2019

Appeal from the Order Entered August 7, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County Family Court at No(s): FD-09-004150-004

BEFORE: STABILE, J., KUNSELMAN, J., and PELLEGRINI, J.*

MEMORANDUM BY PELLEGRINI, J.: FILED FEBRUARY 4, 2020

J.Y.W. (Mother) appeals the order of the Allegheny County Court of

Common Pleas Family Court (trial court) entered on August 7, 2019, granting

J.H. (Father) primary physical custody of J.H. (Child) and permitting Father to

relocate with Child to Lawrence County. We affirm.

I.

The relevant facts and procedural history of this case are gleaned from

the summary in the trial court’s 1925(a) opinion:

Father and Mother are the parents of . . . [Child], who is 11 years old, having been born in February of 2008. Father and Mother were never married to each other. As the docket reflects, a little over a year after [Child] was born, the parties separated, and support and custody became the subject of litigation. On November 2, 2009, an Order of Court gave Mother and Father shared legal and physical custody, with Father having [Child] ____________________________________________

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every weekend from Friday to Sunday. This arrangement essentially remained in effect until June 20, 2019, when by consent, Father's custody was expanded to every weekend from Thursday to Sunday.

[Child] has resided primarily with Mother, who is now married to B.J.W. (“Mother’s Husband”). As of the hearing, Mother’s three- bedroom household consisted of the following eight people: Mother, Mother’s Husband, [Child] and four other children of ages four, five, eight, nine and ten (one by Mother from another paramour and four by her current husband).

Father subsequently married D.H. (“Father’s Wife”), and, at the time of the hearing, the two lived together in the Brookline area of Pittsburgh. However, also at the time of the hearing, Father and Father’s Wife had purchased a home on a large and more rural tract of land in Ellwood City in Lawrence County, which is served by the Laurel School District. The distance between the Mother’s home and Father’s new house is one hour and fourteen minutes by car. The previous driving time was anywhere from a half-hour to an hour, depending on traffic, and Father offered to provide all transportation from the Ellwood City home to Mother’s home although he testified that he hopes Mother will share some of the effort.

In conjunction with this move and on the heels of conflict with Mother, Father filed for primary custody on January 4, 2019, and gave notice of his intent to relocate on January 14, 2019. Mother and Father have a history of conflict, with intermittent cooperation, but in the months preceding the filing, there was some escalation in their difficulties.

Father and Father’s Wife called to Mother’s house for Christmas to talk to [Child]. Testimony this Court found credible indicated that Mother got on the phone and said, “We are not having an f’n Christmas here because you don't want to pay for f’n classes or f’n child support.” [Child] was privy to some or all of this because, at one point, Mother put [Child] on the phone and said, “Here is your f’n father,” at which point [Child] was crying.

Afterward, Father’s own mother made some negative comments on Facebook about the Christmas incident although Father and Father’s Wife did not participate. Mother was disturbed by the use of Facebook to discuss family matters and then made the

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unfortunate decision to read the negative posts to [Child], which predictably upset him.

The difficulties continued into the New Year. During a New Year’s dinner with Father and Father’s Wife, [Child] appeared with bruises down his left arm. He explained that Mother had instructed him to pour water onto the head of one of his stepsiblings while the girl was asleep, and that she had hit him with a plastic toy in response. [Child] also told the couple about an incident with another child who visited Mother’s home. That boy had come over and repeatedly called [Child] “gay.” Mother successfully egged [Child] on to engage in a physical altercation with the boy.

Mother herself has engaged in similar verbal behavior and aims it at [Child]. [Child] enjoys activities like singing and dancing. On one occasion, [Child] asked to have his hair cut in a particular fashion, and Mother told him no because he would look like a “faggot.” Mother also talked in front of [Child] about how [Child] would not be a good candidate for enrollment in football because he is “too much of a pussy.”

Father’s Wife is a nurse practitioner. When Father described some of this conduct in a Court filing, Mother told Father that she intended to call the Board of Nursing to seek suspension of his wife’s nursing license. It seems that Mother’s reasoning was that Father’s Wife, as a nurse practitioner, is a mandatory child abuse reporter, and therefore Father’s Wife should have her license suspended for not reporting Mother’s abusive conduct. Thus, it seems that Mother either regards her own conduct as abusive and faults Father’s Wife for failing to report it, or Mother simply intended to harangue Father and Father’s Wife for disapproving of her calling [Child] a “faggot” and a “pussy.”

On one weekend in January, Father and Father’s Wife drove to Mother’s house to pick up [Child]. They waited for about 20 minutes, knocking on the door and honking but to no avail. Ultimately, Mother answered them electronically, and [Child] came out crying and said he did not want to go although initially he would not say why. Eventually, it came out that [Child] was upset about the Facebook incident from Father’s side of the family and that Mother had gratuitously shared the content with the boy; Father clarified that he and his wife had stayed out of the Facebook postings, and [Child] then said he would come along.

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Mother remained focused on the Facebook incident. The next day, Mother called to say there was a snowstorm although Father’s Wife testified that the roads were clear by Father’s home. Mother got on the phone with [Child] and began pressing [Child] on the question of whom he wanted to live with and brought up the Facebook episode.

The following weekend went no better. When Father and Father’s Wife went to get [Child], Mother was angry about the Court proceedings that Father had initiated. She came to the car, with [Child] present at various times, and shouted that she “will f’n die before” letting Father’s Wife raise her child because Father’s Wife is “an f’n B word.” Father’s Wife testified that these types of incidents during phone calls with Mother also were not uncommon and that Father and Father’s Wife spend considerable time calming [Child] during Father’s custody periods.

Father described the atmosphere at Mother’s home as chaotic and loud, testifying that, when he calls, there is always background noise that includes screaming and cursing and fighting. Father’s observation is that [Child] appears anxious and overstimulated in his neighborhood and household with Mother.

Father and his Wife testified that Father wants [Child] to have an opportunity to live in Father’s new home and area where [Child] will experience a more relaxed and peaceful environment. Father and his Wife hope to have space on their lands for family events, and they were in the process of furnishing a room for [Child]. They planned on building him a tree house that [Child] had requested and had begun purchasing play equipment like a soccer net.

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