Jay v. Jay

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedMarch 5, 2025
Docket24-145
StatusPublished

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Jay v. Jay, (N.C. Ct. App. 2025).

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA 24-145

Filed 5 March 2025

Durham County, No. 23 CVD 500256

YANLI JAY, Plaintiff-Appellee,

v.

GARY WAYNE JAY, Defendant-Appellant.

Appeal by defendant from order entered 17 August 2023 by Judge James T.

Hill in Durham County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals

29 August 2024.

Law Offices of Matthew Charles Suczynski, by Matthew C. Suczynski, for defendant-appellant.

No brief filed for plaintiff-appellee.

ARROWOOD, Judge.

On 17 August 2023, the trial court entered a Domestic Violence Protective

Order (“DVPO”) in favor of Yanli Jay (“plaintiff”) against her husband Gary Jay

(“defendant”). Defendant filed notice of appeal on 15 September 2023.

I. Background

The parties were originally married on 15 April 2016 and separated in

August 2022. Plaintiff filed a complaint and motion for DVPO on 7 June 2023,

complaining of sexual abuse on several occasions, including 2 May and 9 May 2023, JAY V. JAY

Opinion of the Court

April 2023, 28 March 2023, 2 March 2023, and August 2022. A hearing on the motion

took place on 17 August 2023, at which both parties testified.

Plaintiff stated that on 28 March 2023, defendant came to her house and

without her approval, took his pants off in the living room and said “he was going to

have sex with [her].” Plaintiff said “No, you can’t do that[,]” but defendant “stuck his

hand into [her] vagina[,]” which made plaintiff bleed. Plaintiff further stated that

defendant “squeeze[d] [her] nipples[,]” which continued to hurt for two weeks.

Plaintiff stated that defendant was violent “[e]very time we had the sex, it wasn’t like

we were husband and wife. It was like he was venting something, and it makes – it

really hurt me.” Plaintiff also testified that defendant rarely called her by her name,

instead referring to her as “idiot, moron, bullshit, stupid, full of baloney.” Plaintiff’s

Exhibit 1 was admitted as evidence and included the following text message

exchange:

Plaintiff: Celebrate Chinese New Year Defendant: You are looking better Now if you only really liked learning and were really interested in a real sex life See my sentence above- that is what I need aside from the beauty of the woman I married

Defendant testified that he had never sexually assaulted plaintiff in any way.

Defendant confirmed that he had been with plaintiff on a number of the

aforementioned dates, and that he had sex with her “[t]hree or four” times in the

spring of 2023, but he described different circumstances than plaintiff’s testimony.

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Defendant stated that the “[l]ast two years of the marriage were essentially nil. We

had had sexual relations . . . six times in a year for two years. That’s what, when I

talk to patients, we call a dead bedroom.” Despite this, defendant testified that he

wanted to get back together with plaintiff and took her out to dinner in early

April 2023. Defendant stated that after dinner, plaintiff suggested having sex and

said “I did not treat you well. I want to treat you better now.”

Defendant described subsequent dates in the following weeks: he averred that

plaintiff sent him a text after one date “stating that she loved [him] and cherished

[him] and all those things[,]” and gave him a pair of slippers after another. On a

fourth date, however, defendant stated they did not have sex because he “was very

depressed because [he] had been scammed on the computer and . . . lost a good bit of

money from it[.]” Defendant stated that on 2 May he “just made love to her; she did

not make love to me at all[,]” and on 9 May, plaintiff told him that she did not want

to talk to or see him again. Defendant testified that he brought her a bouquet of roses

and left.

After closing statements, the trial court found by the greater weight of the

evidence that plaintiff had proven her case and subsequently entered the DVPO,

effective for one year until 17 August 2024. The order included as attachments a

typewritten statement by plaintiff signed on 7 May 2023 and plaintiff’s Exhibit 1.

On 28 August 2023, defendant filed a motion to set aside the order and to show

cause, arguing that plaintiff had presented altered evidence at trial. Defendant

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attached a screenshot of the text message exchange between the parties from Exhibit

1 with two messages that had been omitted from the exhibit:

Plaintiff: Celebrate Chinese New Year [Smile Emoji] Defendant: You are looking better Now if you only really liked learning and were really interested in a real sex life Plaintiff: Gary, I still love you. Defendant: See my sentence above- that is what I need aside from the beauty of the woman I married

Following a hearing on 15 September 2023, the trial court denied defendant’s

motion. In the order denying the motion to set aside, the trial court found that “[i]t

does appear that plaintiff’s evidence regarding text was not completely accurate.

Court is not convinced that it was done by plaintiff to willfully mislead the court.

Even if this evidence is stricken, there is still ample evidence for the entry of the

DVPO.” Regarding defendant’s motion to show cause, the trial court found that

“[e]ven though the text given by plaintiff and testified to by plaintiff was not a

complete and accurate text, the court does not feel the conduct was willful.”

Defendant filed notice of appeal on 15 September 2023.

II. Discussion

Defendant argues there was insufficient evidence to support the findings made

by the trial court in the DVPO. We disagree.

In reviewing a DVPO, we must determine “whether there was competent

evidence to support the trial court’s findings of fact and whether its conclusions of

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law were proper in light of such facts. Where there is competent evidence to support

the trial court’s findings of fact, those findings are binding on appeal.” Burress v.

Burress, 195 N.C. App. 447, 449–50 (2009) (citation omitted).

“To support entry of a DVPO, the trial court must make a conclusion of law

‘that an act of domestic violence has occurred.’ ” Kennedy v. Morgan, 221 N.C. App.

219, 223 (2012) (quoting N.C.G.S. § 50B-3(a)). N.C.G.S. § 50B-1(a) defines domestic

violence as any of the following acts between parties who have shared a “personal

relationship”:

(1) Attempting to cause bodily injury, or intentionally causing bodily injury; or (2) Placing the aggrieved party or a member of the aggrieved party’s family or household in fear of imminent serious bodily injury or continued harassment, as defined in G.S. 14-277.3A, that rises to such a level as to inflict substantial emotional distress; or (3) Committing any act defined in G.S. 14-27.21 through G.S. 14-27.33.

N.C.G.S. § 50B-1(a) (2022). Under N.C.G.S. § 50B-3, a trial court judge is required

to issue a DVPO whenever it determines an act of domestic violence has occurred.

See D.C. v. D.C., 279 N.C. App. 371, 373–74 n.2 (2021) (“[I]f a trial court determines

that an act qualifying as domestic violence occurred the trial court is required to issue

a DVPO.”).

Here, in its DVPO the trial court found that on 2 May 2022, defendant

committed acts towards plaintiff satisfying all three categories under G.S. 50B-1(a).

The trial court found that on 2 May 2022, defendant caused or attempted to cause

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