James Nelson s. Victoria Nelson

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedAugust 30, 2001
DocketE2000-02873-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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James Nelson s. Victoria Nelson, (Tenn. Ct. App. 2001).

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT KNOXVILLE August 30, 2001 Session

JAMES ROGER NELSON v. VICTORIA KAY GOAD NELSON

Appeal from the Chancery Court for Morgan County No. 00-129 Michael A. Davis, Judge, by Designation and by Interchange

FILED OCTOBER 23, 2001

No. E2000-02873-COA-R3-CV

James Roger Nelson (“Husband”) filed a Complaint for Absolute Divorce (“Complaint”) against Victoria Kay Goad Nelson (“Wife”). Wife filed an Answer and a Counter-Complaint for divorce. Wife admitted to Husband she had been and still was involved in an extramarital affair with a co- worker. Before trial, Husband obtained a temporary restraining order against Wife, and Wife obtained an Order of Protection against Husband. Wife testified Husband had subjected her to verbal and physical abuse in front of their minor children. Wife also testified Husband had threatened her with a gun while their children were at home with them. The Trial Court granted both parties a divorce, divided the parties’ property, and awarded custody of the children to Husband. The Trial Court based its custody decision upon Wife’s extramarital affair and the fact that Husband, at the time of trial, had the more stable home environment. The Trial Court failed, however, to address Wife’s allegations that she was abused by Husband. Wife appeals the custody award and portions of the Trial Court’s property division. We vacate, in part, and affirm, in part, and remand.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3; Judgment of the Chancery Court Vacated, in part, and Affirmed, in part; Case Remanded.

D. MICHAEL SWINEY, J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which HOUSTON M. GODDARD , P.J., and HERSCHEL P. FRANKS , J., joined.

Joe R. Judkins, Wartburg, Tennessee, for the Appellant, Victoria Kay Goad Nelson.

James W. Brooks, Jr., Wartburg, Tennessee, for the Appellee, James Roger Nelson. OPINION

Background

Husband and Wife, both age twenty-seven, were married nearly six years and have two young children (“Children”), whose ages were approximately six and four at the time of trial. In July 2000, Husband filed a Complaint for Absolute Divorce in which he alleged the divorce grounds of adultery, inappropriate marital conduct, and irreconcilable differences. In his Complaint, Husband sought a temporary restraining order to limit Wife’s contact with him and their Children. The Trial Court granted Husband’s request for a temporary restraining order. Wife filed an Answer and a Counter-Complaint for divorce on the grounds of inappropriate marital conduct and irreconcilable differences. Wife obtained an ex parte Order of Protection after being served with Husband’s Complaint.

Husband and Wife lived during their marriage in a mobile home located less than one mile from the homes of Husband’s parents and grandparents. The Children have lived at this address their entire lives. The proof in the record shows that prior to the parties’ separation in July 2000, Wife primarily cared for the Children, while Husband had minimal childcare responsibilities. Husband testified Wife was a good mother before she became employed outside the home in 1999. In Husband’s opinion, when Wife took an outside job, she was not at home to care for the Children “like she should have been.” Once Wife began her job in 1999, Husband’s parents and grandparents participated in the care and babysitting of the Children.

After the parties separated in July 2000, Wife moved out of the parties’ home, moved twice, and by the time of trial, was living in a duplex in a nearby town. Wife testified her duplex had a yard for the Children to use for playing but that none of their toys were at her house. Wife asked Husband for some of the Children’s toys. Husband refused this request. By contrast, the parties’ mobile home is located on a large lot where the Children have a trampoline and swing set. Wife also testified that, after the parties’ separation, she experienced difficulty in obtaining Husband’s cooperation with her visitation. Moreover, Wife testified Husband attempted to use the Children as a bargaining tool with Wife. Wife testified Husband offered to return the Children to her if Wife agreed to have sex with him. Wife also testified Husband agreed that Wife could have custody of the Children if she changed her work schedule from second to first shift. Wife agreed to this last offer and, a week before trial, changed her work schedule.

Husband is self-employed as a trucker and a logger. The parties jointly ran the operation as Wife took care of the business’ bookkeeping and record keeping. The proof in the record shows the parties purchased a Peterbilt tractor for Husband and rented the trailer from Husband’s father to use in this business. Husband sometimes worked more than seventy hours per week, but by trial, Husband had reduced his work hours to between forty and fifty hours per week so he could care for the Children. Husband testified his work schedule varied since sometimes he has to leave for work at 5 a.m., while at other times, he does not leave until 9 a.m. Wife testified,

-2- however, that Husband had not actually reduced his hours. Wife recently had contacted Husband on his mobile phone late at night, and Husband was still working. Wife testified that since the parties’ separation, Husband’s parents were the ones really keeping the Children due to Husband’s work schedule.

Wife is employed in a manufacturing facility in nearby Oak Ridge, Tennessee. Wife began to work outside the home in 1999 because, according to Wife, the parties were having difficulty paying their bills. Initially, Wife worked the second shift. Wife testified she worked evenings because Husband and his family wanted her to be with the Children during the day. A few days before trial, Wife changed her schedule to work the first shift, 7:30 a.m. until 4:30 p.m. Wife testified she had made arrangements for a baby-sitter for the times the Children are not in preschool and school.

The record shows that Husband reported to the Trial Court that his average net monthly income was $840 per month.1 At trial, Husband admitted he did not earn enough money to meet his minimum monthly bills. In contrast, Wife testified her average net monthly income was $1,400 per month. Wife carries health and dental insurance for the Children through her employment.

Wife did not deny at trial that she was involved in an extramarital affair with one of her co-workers, Daniel Ledbetter. Ledbetter also was married with children. Prior to filing his Complaint, Husband discovered a check Wife had written for a hotel room charge and confronted her with it. Wife telephoned Ledbetter while the parties were on vacation with the Children in July 2000. Husband testified he sought a temporary restraining order in his Complaint because of his concerns about the Children being around Wife’s paramour. The proof in the record shows that Ledbetter had been around the Children on one occasion at a movie theater, a meeting which Wife testified was unplanned. Wife testified Ledbetter stayed with her at least two nights a week. Wife testified she knew her affair with Ledbetter affected the Children and that the Children would not be around Ledbetter, at least for awhile.

In addition, the parties frequently disagreed about their finances. Wife testified Husband was extremely stingy and unreasonable about spending money for the Children’s health care, for their and the Children’s clothing, and for their home. Wife testified that because of the cost involved, Husband questioned the reasons for sending their then-three-year old Child to the dentist for two cavities. Husband, however, testified Wife had no concept of money and that her spending was out of control. The proof in the record shows Wife admitted she had not been honest with Husband regarding her spending and their finances.

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