James Lyle Graham v. Barbie Phylissa Graham

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedMarch 21, 2013
DocketE2012-00416-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT KNOXVILLE January 22, 2013 Session

JAMES LYLE GRAHAM V. BARBIE PHYLISSA GRAHAM

Appeal from the Circuit Court for Greene County No. 05CV719 Hon. Kindall T. Lawson, Judge

No. E2012-00416-COA-R3-CV-FILED-MARCH 21, 2013

This post-divorce appeal concerns an agreed-upon parenting plan, which designated Father as the primary residential parent and denied Mother any form of visitation with the Child. Years after the plan was entered, Mother filed a petition to modify the plan, alleging that a material change in circumstances had occurred. The trial court agreed and provided Mother with liberal visitation. Father appeals. We affirm the decision of the trial court.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed; Case Remanded

J OHN W. M CC LARTY, J., delivered the opinion of the Court, in which C HARLES D. S USANO, J R., P.J., and D. M ICHAEL S WINEY, J., joined.

Robert L. Jackson and Elizabeth A. Garrett, Nashville, Tennessee, for the appellant, James Lyle Graham.

Barbie Phylissa Graham, Greeneville, Tennessee, pro se.

OPINION

I. BACKGROUND

Barbie Phylissa Graham (“Mother”) and James Lyle Graham (“Father”) were married on July 30, 2004. This was Father’s first marriage and Mother’s second. Mother had one child (“Son”) from her previous marriage to Jerry Burger. Shortly after Mother and Father (collectively “Parents”) learned that Mother was pregnant with the Child, Father learned that Mother had stolen money from Beatrice Broyles. Father reimbursed Ms. Broyles and filed for divorce. Parents finalized the divorce after the Child was born on April 15, 2006. It was later discovered that in addition to stealing from Ms. Broyles, Mother had embezzled money from her employer, Asbury Child Enrichment Center (“Asbury”) and had forged documents in an effort to secure a higher-paying position with Asbury. After Mother was fired, she attempted to attain a position with the Greene County School System (“Greene County”) by submitting more forged documents. Mother was not hired by Greene County.

Parents entered into a marital dissolution agreement and were divorced on July 19, 2006. The parenting plan designated Father as the primary residential parent but did not allow for the Child’s visitation with Mother. Despite the agreement, Mother lived in the home with Father, the Child, and Son1 until November 9, 2009. Approximately one month later, Mother filed a petition to modify the parenting plan and to set visitation. Parents reached an agreement for limited visitation during the pendency of the hearing.

Lengthy hearings were held on Mother’s petition over the course of several months. Mother testified that she had never been charged with any type of criminal offense prior to her relationship with Father, who was physically abusive throughout their relationship. She said that her first pregnancy with Father resulted in a miscarriage and that she had two additional miscarriages before becoming pregnant with the Child. She related that the miscarriages “strained” their relationship and “drastically” increased their medical debt.

Mother acknowledged that she committed a multitude of crimes, namely forging Ms. Broyles’s checks in 2005, embezzling money from Asbury in 2006,2 and forging checks that belonged to family members in 2010. Father reimbursed Ms. Broyles.3 Mother received diversion for the embezzlement charges but was placed on probation after she served 70 days in jail for the 2010 forgeries. She explained that she forged checks in 2010 because she needed to pay attorney fees for the custody dispute. She recognized that her misdeeds hurt the Child but complained that Father should not have told the Child that she was in jail.

Mother also acknowledged that she deceived her employers, co-workers, family members, the court system, and potential employers. She admitted that in order to attain an advanced position with Asbury, she embellished her resume and submitted a forged diploma. She explained that Father “wanted [her] to have that position” and that she wanted to appease him. She admitted that she lied to Father and others by telling them that she was pregnant with twins. She acknowledged that she had several baby showers in which family members

1 Son spent approximately half of his time with Mother and the remaining half with Mr. Burger. 2 Ivy Leonard testified that she discovered the Asbury embezzlement. 3 Kenneth Miller, a bank manager at First Tennessee Bank, confirmed that Father reimbursed Ms. Broyles. -2- and co-workers gave her gifts for twins. She explained that Father wanted her to have twins and claimed that Father would have learned the truth if he had attended any of her prenatal appointments. She admitted that she told Father that she had health insurance through Asbury even though she did not have health insurance. She admitted that she lied on her application for diversion by stating that her medical doctors believed that she had a “mental nervous breakdown,” was in need of “extensive therapy,” and was raised by an abusive father. Lastly, she identified employment applications that she submitted to Greene County in 2006. She admitted that in her applications, she forged her sister’s signature on a reference form and certified that she had a college degree.

Mother alleged that after her unlawful actions were uncovered, Father’s violent behavior increased. He initially asked her to have an abortion but then filed for divorce. He told her that if she allowed him to retain custody of the Child, they would never tell anyone about the divorce. She stated that after the divorce, they lived together as husband and wife. She continued to feed, bathe, and care for the Child. She also cleaned the house and prepared meals. She claimed that she was under Father’s complete control and that he dictated the Child’s schedule. Father often forced her to leave the house, but she always returned.

Mother testified that in December 2006, she ingested 25 Tylenol PM pills. She related that the night before, she and Father had an “ugly dispute.” The next morning, she took Son to school and the Child to her paternal grandmother’s house before taking the medication in a motel room. When she returned home, Father took her to a hospital. She recalled that her face and nose were “swollen” and that her lip was “busted.” She initially denied that she had been abused but when pressed, she told the crisis worker, William Nagy, Ph.D., the truth. She refused help because she did not want to leave the Child.

Mother lived with Father until November 9, 2009, when he forced her and Son to leave the house. She claimed that she left because she believed Father might hurt her or Son if they refused. She explained that Father was intimidating and often carried weapons. After she filed the petition to modify the parenting plan, she and Father reached an agreement, providing for supervised visitation through the Child’s school and limited telephone contact. She testified that when she was allowed to visit the Child, the “visits always went well.” She asserted that after several months of visitation through the school, Father transferred the Child to a different school. She resumed visitation when the Child was enrolled in a new school several months later. She complained that in addition to impeding her visitation, Father interrupted her telephone conversations with the Child. She alleged that Father had not been cooperative since her last visit with the Child in September 2011. She insisted that she was not a flight risk and alleged that she signed a lease for a house that had room to accommodate the Child and had also obtained employment.

-3- Teri Myers testified that Father dated her friend, Cynthia Cobble, in the early 1990s.

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