In the Matter of the Marriage of: Laura Jo Thorleifson & Erik Hatton Thorleifson

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided July 9, 2024·No. 38752-6·Unpublished

Opinion

FILED

JULY 9, 2024

In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In the Matter of the Marriage of ) No. 38752-6-III )

LAURA JO THORLEIFSON, )

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Appellant, )

) UNPUBLISHED OPINION v. )

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ERIK HATTON THORLEIFSON, )

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Respondent. )

FEARING, J. — Laura Thorleifson Fisher appeals, in part, from a parenting plan that grants joint decision-making authority between her and her ex-husband, Erik Thorleifson, and equal residential time with regard to their middle child, Jane. Fisher contends Thorleifson engaged in domestic violence, as defined in RCW 26.09.191, and the statute precludes such provisions in a parenting plan. Thorleifson fails to respond to this discrete argument of Fisher. We agree with Fisher and remand for modifications to the parenting plan.

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FACTS

This appeal concerns the parenting plan entered by the superior court when dissolving the marital bonds between Erik and Laura Thorleifson. Because appellant Laura Thorleifson refers to herself with the last name of “Fisher” in her brief, we refer to her as “Fisher” and her former husband as “Thorleifson.” We use pseudonyms for their three children.

Laura Fisher and Erik Thorleifson married on April 10, 2002, and separated October 25, 2018. Throughout their marriage, they begat three children: Rex, Jane, and Bill. At the time of trial in 2021, Rex was 15, Jane was 14, and Bill was 12. Fisher earned a doctorate in pharmacy from Washington State University and commenced work in this profession before Rex was born. She continued to work as a pharmacist at the time of trial.

Erik Thorleifson served in the U.S. Marines beginning after graduation from college. He experienced intense combat in Iraq. As a First Lieutenant, he commanded a unit in Fallujah that suffered significant casualties during heavy fighting. Thorleifson attended law school from 2006 to 2009.

Laura Fisher testified that, at the time of Rex’s birth, she took a 12-week maternity leave. On her return to work, she adopted a four ten-hour workdays per week schedule.

Erik Thorleifson testified that the couple evenly shared parenting responsibilities while he attended law school and this equal arrangement continued after Jane was born.

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Laura Fisher disagreed. She averred that Thorleifson contributed little to Rex’s care because Thorleifson spent most of his time on campus or secluded in his study at home. According to Fisher, when she worked, Thorleifson received significant assistance from her parents in caring for Rex. Rex also attended daycare. During her three days off work per week, Rex stayed home and she assumed nearly all of Rex’s care. She attended to all of Rex’s medical and dental needs.

During Erik Thorleifson’s first year of law school, Jane was born. Fisher again took three months maternity leave. According to Fisher, thereafter, on those days that she worked, both children attended daycare. Fisher cared for the children on her days off work. She also exclusively assumed Jane’s medical care.

Erik Thorleifson graduated from law school contemporaneous to the birth of the third child, Bill. After graduation, Thorleifson toiled as an associate attorney at a law firm while Laura Fisher continued to work as a pharmacist. Both parents’ schedules ran chaotic, and they shared parenting equally. In 2013, Thorleifson quit his job with the law firm and gained employment with Knight Construction, where he worked until 2017. At the construction company, he worked five days per week. In 2014, the couple hired a nanny to assist in the care of the children on days when both parents worked. According to Fisher, she remained primarily responsible for medical, dental and educational care of the three children.

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In 2017, Erik Thorleifson, on the agreement of the parties, left employment and stayed at home to care for the children because of the unavailability of the nanny. Laura Fisher commanded a higher salary as a pharmacist. Thorleifson started a consulting business from home. At trial, Thorleifson testified that he provided primary care for all aspects of daily care of all three children beginning in 2017. Fisher averred that at all times she remained primarily involved in the care of the children.

Laura Fisher testified to angry explosions of Erik Thorleifson. When Fisher was pregnant with Rex, Thorleifson kicked their puppy. The kick broke the dog’s tail. In 2009, after the birth of all three children, she interrupted her husband while he was in bed. Thorleifson angrily grabbed Fisher’s phone and threw it against the wall. The phone shattered. When the two stood in a closet, Thorleifson punched a hole in the wall by Fisher’s head because of irritation towards her. He occasionally prevented her from leaving a room and sometimes forced his presence into a room where she sought solace.

Laura Fisher testified to a troublesome relationship between Erik Thorleifson and the couple’s youngest child, Bill. In 2014, five-year-old Bill excitedly entered the kitchen to show his father a LEGO® set construction. Thorleifson, disturbed from being disrupted as he worked at a computer, shoved Bill to the ground and yelled in his face. When Fisher confronted Thorleifson about the anger and violence, Thorleifson denied any wrongful behavior. During trial, Fisher avowed that Thorleifson physically abused all three children.

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In December 2015, according to Laura Fisher, Erik Thorleifson threatened to beat Bill with a metal shovel that Bill had leaned against the side of the shop. In March 2016, Thorleifson appeared at Laura’s workplace with the children. As Jane and Rex stood behind him, Thorleifson told Fisher that he had become so angry with Bill that he thought he could not stop hitting him. Thorleifson expressed fear that he could have killed Bill. Bill had run away from his father. Thorleifson pursued him, grabbed him by the arm, and dragged him back to his vehicle. Thorleifson repeatedly hit Bill. During the workplace conversation, Thorleifson insisted that Bill was no longer part of the family and the couple needed to find a replacement to attend to Bill. During the next morning, Bill flinched when his mother hugged him goodbye. She lifted up Bill’s shirt and saw multiple marks from the beating by his father.

Also, the day following the December 2015 violence, a distraught Erik Thorleifson sent Laura Fisher an email directing her to return home. Thorleifson commented about wanting to kill himself. He mentioned that he had researched information regarding the policy insuring his life. After that incident, with the additional assistance of the nanny, Fisher limited Thorleifson’s time alone with the children. She also assisted Thorleifson in commencing counseling.

According to Laura Fisher, before Christmas 2016, Bill sat at the kitchen counter and would not eat vegetables. An enraged Erik Thorleifson grabbed Bill’s plate and hurled it against the wall. Thorleifson grabbed Bill by the arm and drug him to his room.

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On another occasion, Thorleifson locked Bill, who lacked socks and a coat, outside during a frigid winter.

Laura Fisher testified that, in June 2018, during a sailing trip with the family in the Bahamas, an angry Erik Thorleifson threw Bill, fully clothed, into the ocean. Thorleifson then instructed Fisher not to assist Bill. He then added that Fisher caused Bill’s poor behavior.

On cross-examination during trial, Laura Fisher conceded that she never reported her husband’s ill behavior to law enforcement or an attorney. She excused her omission because of her love for Thorleifson and because of Thorleifson having been in the military and being an attorney. She also hoped that counseling would tame Thorleifson’s violence.

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