In Re The Marriage Of: Suzanne Kay Paulsen & Timothy Alvin Paulsen

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided March 19, 2014·No. 42953-5·Unpublished

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SUZANNE PAULSEN,

Respondent,

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TIMOTHY PAULSEN, UNPUBLISHED OPINION

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JOHANSON, J. — Timothy Paulsen appeals several provisions of the trial court' s

parenting plan, order of child support, spousal maintenance and attorney -fees awards, and its finding of contempt in his dissolution proceeding against Suzanne Paulsen. Timothy' argues that the trial court abused its discretion when it (1) imposed restrictions on Timothy' s residential time

with his children, ( 2) granted Suzanne sole decision making for the children' s religious

litem' s ( GAL) 4) considered fault in upbringing, ( 3) relied on the guardian ad recommendations, (

debts 5) calculated the parties' income for child support dividing the couple' s and assets, (

purposes, ( 6) ordered Timothy to pay maintenance to Suzanne, ( 7) ordered Timothy to pay

their first for clarity, intending no disrespect.

We refer to the parties by name

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Suzanne' s attorney fees, and ( 8) found Timothy in contempt for failure to pay court- ordered child support.

We hold that the trial court did not abuse its discretion when it imposed restrictions on

Timothy' s residential time with his children and gave Suzanne sole decision -

making authority

for the children' s religious upbringing. There is substantial evidence that Timothy' s use of religion to manipulate children and his past sexual abuse of minors posed a serious risk of actual

or potential harm to the children. Additionally, because there is no evidence that the trial court considered anything improper and because there is substantial evidence to support the trial

court' s ruling, we conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion when it divided the parties' debts and assets, calculated their income for child support, ordered Timothy to pay

spousal maintenance, and ordered him to pay Suzanne' s attorney fees. Finally, the trial court did not abuse its discretion when it found Timothy in contempt for failing to pay previously ordered child support because inability to pay is not, in itself, a sufficient argument against disobeying a lawful court order. Accordingly, we affirm.

FACTS _

Suzanne in 1992 and separated in 2009. In 2010, Suzanne Timothy and were married

filed a petition for dissolution. Their marriage produced three children, ages 11, 9, and 6 at the

time of filing. Before trial, the court appointed a GAL to investigate allegations of

physical /sexual abuse of the children by Timothy and the parenting abilities of both parents.

Among other things, the GAL investigated allegations that Timothy had several inappropriate relationships with teenagers during the marriage. In her report, the GAL explained her belief

that Timothy had a history of severely abusing his position of trust as a teacher to manipulate impressionable teenagers, failed to respect boundaries, and engaged in sexually deviant behavior.

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Ultimately, the GAL recommended that Suzanne have primary custody of the children and that

time supervised visits. At the time of trial, Timothy' s residential consist solely of professionally

a parenting plan, child support, the couple' s division of debts and assets, and spousal

maintenance were all at issue.

The trial court heard testimony from several witnesses about Timothy' s prior relationships with several of his students. One witness, R.B., testified that he met Timothy when

his grade physical education teacher. Timothy invited R.B. to Timothy was seventh

overnighters" at his home, wanted to become his mentor, and wanted to make his home a second home for R.B. because R.B.' s parents were going through a divorce. Timothy and R.B. spent significant time together, regularly wrestled, and had "[ a] lot of physical touch" between

them. 2 Report of Proceedings ( RP) at 154. Starting when R.B. was in ninth grade, R.B.

believed there was a " crossing of boundaries" with respect to nudity, and Timothy engaged in several more " overt sexual contact[ s]" including touching R.B.' s genitals. 2 RP at 168, 171.

Timothy' s sexual touching of R.B. continued until R.B. was 16 or 17 years old.

Another witness, A.D., testified that she met Timothy when she was 13 on a junior high - -

field trip; Timothy was one of the teacher supervisors on the trip. Timothy started his

relationship with A.D. talking to her about the trouble she was having with her parents, and she began spending a lot of time alone with him. A.D. spent the night at the Paulsen home on a

basis junior high high She and Timothy often wrestled. She also regular during and school.

testified about " encouragement letters" that Timothy wrote to her, similar to the letters that he had written to R.B. After she graduated from high school, her relationship with Timothy changed, progressing to sexual intercourse. A.D. testified that beginning when she was 13, she

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felt that Timothy sexually groomed and manipulated her. She also testified that she had seen

Timothy wrestle with his children in the same way he wrestled with her.

Jennifer Knight, a therapist who met with Suzanne, Timothy, and their children, testified that she believed that Timothy engaged in classic sexual abuse grooming behaviors of children and used religion as a grooming technique— citing scripture, telling children how much he thanked the Lord that the children were in his life, and praying to God on their behalf. Knight

explained that was the practice of suffocating a child with overbearing grooming

communication, such as saying, " I love you" over and over, making the child become dependent

on the person. 1 RP at 130. Knight believed Timothy posed a threat to the safety and well -

being

of his own children, and his use of religion was a major concern because Timothy used religion to weaken the defenses of children, and his own children expressed that they were uncomfortable praying with him.

Dr. Allen Traywick, a psychologist who evaluated Timothy to determine whether Timothy was sexually deviant and a risk to his children, testified that Timothy admitted to sexually abusing R.B. Dr. Traywick also testified that Timothy told him he resigned from his teaching job because a student' s parents accused him of " grooming" children. Timothy told Dr. Traywick that he used religion as a grooming technique, that someone reported him to the police, and that the school district investigated him after a third boy' s parents found letters Timothy had

written to him. Ultimately, Dr. Traywick did not believe that Timothy was sexually dangerous to his own children because he had shown remorse for his actions and had undergone counseling.

The GAL testified about her investigation and her concern with Timothy' s parenting.

One of her major concerns was Timothy' s use of religion and that his religious grooming

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practices had been the subject of several disciplinary actions by the school district. She also

believed that Timothy' s use of religion was emotionally damaging to his own children.

Suzanne testified that she had been a full -ime school teacher, but stopped working after

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their second child was born to raise their children and home school them. When she did so, her

public school teacher certification lapsed.

Suzanne and Timothy separated in 2009 after he admitted to having a past sexual

relationship with A.D. After the separation, Suzanne could no longer home school their children. She enrolled them at Heritage Christian School so she could begin working again. At the time of

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