In re the Marriage of Serrano

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided June 17, 2020·No. 19-0785·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 19-0785

Filed June 17, 2020

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF TRISHA PECKOSH SERRANO AND EMILIO BERNARDO SERRANO

Upon the Petition of TRISHA PECKOSH SERRANO, Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning EMILIO BERNARDO SERRANO, Respondent-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Celine Gogerty, Judge.

A former husband appeals the custody, child support, spousal support, property division, and other issues in a dissolution decree. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Emilio B. Serrano, Des Moines, self-represented appellant.

Tammy Westhoff Gentry and Adam C. Witosky of Parrish Kruidenier Dunn Boles Gribble Gentry Brown & Bergmann, LLP, Des Moines, for appellee.

Considered by Tabor, P.J., and Mullins and Schumacher, JJ.

TABOR, Presiding Judge.

Representing himself on appeal, Emilio Serrano challenges several aspects of the decree dissolving his marriage to Trisha Peckosh.1 He starts by contesting the grant of sole legal custody and physical care of their four children to Trisha. Emilio also claims the district court should not have ordered him to pay child or spousal support. And he contends the court failed to do equity in dividing the marital assets and in awarding attorney fees to Trisha. After our de novo review, we affirm on all but two grounds. We modify a visitation provision and the mandate that Emilio purchase annuities to guarantee his support payments. We also find Emilio should contribute to Trisha’s appellate attorney fees but remand for the district court to determine a reasonable amount.

I. Facts and Prior Proceedings Emilio was born in 1975. Trisha was born in 1977. Trisha met Emilio in 1999 while she was studying abroad in Spain. Emilio is originally from Spain but moved to Iowa a year after meeting Trisha. The couple married in Jackson County. Trisha then completed her undergraduate degree in Spanish and sociology at Iowa State University (ISU). Soon after, Emilio also enrolled at ISU and completed a degree in marketing and economics.

After graduation, they both found employment in central Iowa. Trisha worked for hawk-i Outreach in Dallas County, translating for public health nurses at vaccination clinics. Emilio worked for Wells Fargo Financial doing marketing analysis. After a year, Trisha took a job as an in-home counselor for Families First

1 The decree restored Trisha Serrano to her maiden name.

Counseling Services in Des Moines. This change afforded her a more flexible schedule as the couple started a family. Trisha and Emilio now have four children: G.J.S., born 2003; M.C.S., born 2005; M.F.S., born 2008, and M.J.S., born 2012.

In 2005, the then family of four moved to Lincoln, Nebraska, so Emilio could enroll in a master’s degree program. Trisha stayed home with G.J.S. and M.C.S. Two years later, the family moved back to Des Moines where Emilio started working for John Deere making about $80,000 a year. The family settled in a house on Germania Drive. Trisha stayed home to be the primary caregiver for their three children.

After the fourth child, M.J.S, was born, the family moved to a larger house on 40th Street in Des Moines. Trisha testified that during her pregnancy with M.J.S., Emilio’s behavior changed. He was depressed and drank heavily. Trisha also recounted an incident in 2012 when Emilio called her dad at 11:00 p.m. and asked him to help Trisha with the first commandment. Emilio claimed Trisha was “putting the kids before God.” Trisha continued to have concerns about Emilio’s drinking. He was arrested for public intoxication after a work function at Prairie Meadows. He spent the night in jail without contacting Trisha. Trisha testified Emilio was angry when she picked him up the next morning, claiming she lacked empathy.

Another episode that highlighted Emilio’s change in behavior followed a visit to Trisha’s parents in South Dakota. On the way home, Emilio was “screaming” at one of the children for spilling on the grandparents’ carpet. When Trisha asked him to calm down, he “hauled off and punched her” in front of all four children. The strike bruised Trisha’s arm. Trisha’s sister corroborated her description of the

bruise. Around this time, Emilio emailed Trisha’s family members saying they were separating and he would move back to Spain.

Another incident occurred before Emilio moved out of the marital home.

During the 2015 school year G.J.S. had trouble completing his homework. Emilio lost his temper. He was about to hit the child when Trisha intervened. Emilio interpreted Trisha’s resistance as disrespect and became upset. He left and did not have contact with the family for several days. Emilio never returned to the family home and eventually bought himself a house on 45th Street in Des Moines.

After the couple separated, Trisha enrolled in a master’s degree program in education to obtain a teaching job. In 2018, Trisha earned that degree and landed a position with the Des Moines Public Schools. Trisha continued her role as the primary caretaker for the four children while working full time. Meanwhile, the relationship between Emilio and Trisha continued to deteriorate. Text messages produced by the parties reflect contentious communication. The parents had trouble arranging for Emilio to visit the children.

The record also shows Emilio has a tough time keeping up with his parenting role. Emilio found it challenging to have all four children with him at once. Emilio would often return one or two children to Trisha’s care before the visitation was scheduled to end. Sometimes, he would tell the children he was returning them to Trisha’s home as punishment if they misbehaved. He has also shown favoritism toward one of the children over the others. The court ended overnight visitations in March 2019 because Emilio was not using those opportunities to spend time with the children.

Beyond the visitation issues, Emilio failed to recognize serious health issues impacting the children. Emilio faulted Trisha’s decision to seek medical attention when one child had a potential concussion. And another child has engaged in self- harm that Trisha has worked to address on her own. Additionally, Emilio has not effectively communicated with Trisha about the children. Nor has he avoided putting them in the middle of the strife. For instance, Emilio discovered their fifteen- year-old child had been vaping yet did not tell Trisha. He also shared adult disputes with the children, to the extreme of having them read out loud from the dissolution court filings. He testified his “philosophy” was “not to hide things” but would stop sharing the details of the divorce proceedings if directed by the court. He also testified “if I don’t have my family, and I don’t have a way to support myself, yes, I will go back to Spain.”

Turning to economic issues, Emilio has out earned Trisha since they have been married. His annual income increased from $81,759.00 in 2015 to $116,882.00 in 2018. In 2019, Emilio expected to earn $128,164.74, including a $15,000 bonus. At the end of February 2019, Emilio’s IRA account had a value of $118,819.48. He received a distribution of $25,650.00 in 2016 and $19,550.00 in 2017. Through his employer, Emilio had a 401k plan, valued at $43,107 as of the end of 2018. Emilio took loans against his 401k since the separation; those loans had a balance of $18,170.65. Emilio owns $2931.65 in Wells Fargo stock. He also has $1126.60 in a John Deere credit union account and $732.11 in a Wells Fargo checking account in his name. As for debts, Emilio owes more than $42,000 on credit cards. He also owes $16,434.68 on a Subaru Forester valued at $14,000. Plus, Emilio has student loans in the amount of $15,080.25.

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