In re the Marriage of Merrill

281 P.3d 559, 47 Kan. App. 2d 943, 2012 WL 2620530, 2012 Kan. App. LEXIS 69
CourtCourt of Appeals of Kansas
DecidedJuly 6, 2012
DocketNo. 106,707
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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In re the Marriage of Merrill, 281 P.3d 559, 47 Kan. App. 2d 943, 2012 WL 2620530, 2012 Kan. App. LEXIS 69 (kanctapp 2012).

Opinion

Marquardt, J.:

Matthew M. Merrill appeals the district court’s refusal to remove Patrick Nichols as the case manager and its assessment of Nichols’ fees and costs against Merrill. We affirm in part, reverse in part, vacate in part, and remand with directions.

Matthew and Nancy Merrill filed cross-petitions for divorce in mid-2004. The district court granted the divorce on October 12, 2004, but retained jurisdiction over child custody, child support, and division of marital property. Throughout these proceedings, Nancy Merrill is referred to as Nancy Jadlow because she had remarried.

On April 21, 2005, the district court ordered the parties to participate in mediation with Larry Rute of Associates in Dispute Resolution (ADR) for unresolved issues. Following a hearing on August 3, 2005, the district court entered two separate journal entries, one concerning a parenting plan, child custody, and child support and the other resolving shared child expenses, division of property, and debt allocation.

On July 15, 2010, the district court ordered the parties to participate in case management with Patrick Nichols, as provided for in K.S.A. 23-1001 et seq. Nichols is a business partner of Larry Rute’s at ADR.

[947]*947K.S.A. 23-1002(a) states: “The court may order case management, when appropriate, of any contested issue of child custody or parenting time at any time, upon the motion of a party or on the court’s own motion.” The statute enumerates when case management is appropriate. Even though the parties had only sought child custody modification on one occasion since the divorce 6 years earlier, the court ordered case management because of the parties’ “lack of constructive communication.” Lack of constructive communication is not one of the statutorily enumerated reasons for ordering case management.

When case management is ordered, a neutral case manager is appointed “to assist the parties in negotiating a plan for child custody, residency, or visitation or parenting time.” The court’s order required the parties to participate and cooperate with Nichols in resolving any parenting, custody, or financial issues related to the children.

On July 27, 2010, Nichols sent a letter to Merrill and Jadlow outlining, among other things, his expectation on the payment of fees. When Jadlow failed to pay Nichols’ $5,000 retainer, on September 1, 2010, Nichols wrote a letter to the court stating:

“Unfortunately, it appears tire case management will not be an effective conflict resolution technique in this matter for tire reasons outlined below.
“Nancy Jadlow, and more recently her husband Todd Jadlow, have communicated in no uncertain terms to tire Case Manager that they simply cannot afford this process. . . .
“Nancy Jadlow has stated repeatedly that she simply cannot afford case management. She protests that she had incurred huge legal bills and other expenses which simply make it not feasible for her to pay. High conflict is extremely expensive. Since she cannot pay the retainer, it is unlikely she will pay ongoing case management expenses. As such, case management is likely to simply become another flashpoint in the conflict between parties.
“Case management is intended to serve a rehabilitative function, guiding the parties into a better process by which they can raise their children. Since Nancy Jadlow cannot afford this process, and certainly if she cannot pay her retainer, it is unlikely that she will pay ongoing expenses. Therefore, case management is not appropriate.
“I recommend tire Court confirm the status quo as set forth in your Order, eliminate the contingencies that will occur if, as and when Mrs. Jadlow and her [948]*948husband reestablish a permanent residence in Lawrence, Kansas. I recommend this for several reasons.
“1. It is important that there be a decision-maker. The parties have virtually no capacity to communicate in any way without escalating the conflict. As such, there is no cooperation between them. Absent case management, there is no likelihood that they will learn to cooperate. As such, one or the other must have the ability to make decisions about parenting time and parenting access.
“2. The problems in communication and decision-making are detailed in the report and your opinion. For the reasons set forth in your opinion, as between the two, Mr. Merrill is the more appropriate individual to receive decision-making authority in this case.
“3. If further difficulties arise between the parties, I would recommend that the Court grant sole custody to one of the parents. Based on the statements above, as between these two parents, it would appear that Mr. Merrill is the more appropriate parent to receive full custody. Full custody will allow one parent to make the essential decisions regarding the children. While this is a disfavored custody arrangement, it does provide an opportunity to protect the children from further conflict around day-to-day decisions.
“I appreciate the appointment. However, in this matter it does not appear that case management services are appropriate.”

Jadlow responded with a letter to tire court on September 3, 2010, stating that Nichols had told her and her husband that he initially

“was not interested in being the Case Manager in this case but that he had agreed to the appointment as a favor to Judge Shepherd. As such, it is concerning that Mr. Nichols initially had a lack of interest in providing services in this case and then provided a harsh recommendation to the Court based on a financial issue rather than on legitimate grounds in determining child custody.” (Emphasis added.)

Jadlow testified that Judge Shepherd’s administrative assistant contacted her, informing her that she would be permitted additional time to pay the retainer.

Nichols continued as the case manager and, in November 2010, he filed his first case manager’s report, recommending a shared parenting plan. In that report, Nichols noted that “both parties are strong-willed, intelligent and capable of litigious conduct.”

On February 3, 2011, Merrill wrote a letter to Jadlow stating that he intended to move to Kansas City and offering options for primary residential custody of the children. In pertinent part, the letter read:

[949]*949“As for future school-years, it is my opinion that it would be in the children’s best interest for me to have primary residential custody during their remaining school years. If you agree, then I will agree to enroll them at The Pembroke Hill School, oversee their education there throughout high school and pay for their tuition. As you may be aware, .Pembroke Hill is a nationally-renowned college preparatory school. Here’s the website: http://www.pembrokehill.org. Please take a look at the school’s website, imagine the life that the girls could lead with me devoting 100% of my attention to them in a stable environment while they attend this premier school, and seriously consider this option.

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