In re the Marriage of: Jonathan Conneely v. Hannah Stancek, f/k/a Hannah Conneely

Court of Appeals of Minnesota·Decided July 14, 2014·No. A13-1375·Unpublished

Opinion

This opinion will be unpublished and may not be cited except as provided by Minn. Stat. § 480A.08, subd. 3 (2012).

STATE OF MINNESOTA

IN COURT OF APPEALS

A13-1375

In re the Marriage of:

Jonathan Conneely, petitioner, Respondent,

vs.

Hannah Stancek, f/k/a Hannah Conneely, Appellant.

Filed July 14, 2014

Affirmed

Smith, Judge

McLeod County District Court File No. 43-F4-04-001010

Lymari J. Santana, Mack & Santana Law Offices, P.C., LLC, Minneapolis, Minnesota (for respondent)

Kathleen M. Newman, Zachary P. Marsh, Kathleen M. Newman & Associates, P.A., Minneapolis, Minnesota; and

Brooke A. Asiatico (pro hac vice), Asiatico & Associates, Richardson, Texas (for appellant)

Considered and decided by Halbrooks, Presiding Judge; Smith, Judge; and Klaphake, Judge.*

*

Retired judge of the Minnesota Court of Appeals, serving by appointment under Minn. Const. art. VI, § 10.

UNPUBLISHED OPINION

SMITH, Judge We affirm the district court’s order granting respondent’s motion to modify legal and physical custody because the district court’s factual findings support its determination that circumstances had changed since the original custody decree and were not clearly erroneous. We also conclude that the district court did not abuse its discretion by considering evidence from a parallel custody proceeding, by holding appellant in constructive civil contempt for failure to pay custody evaluation fees, or by denying appellant’s motion for need-based attorney fees.

FACTS

Appellant Hannah Stancek and respondent Jonathan Conneely were married in Oklahoma in 2000. A.C. was born in 2001. In 2002, Stancek took A.C. on a visit to Minnesota to visit Stancek’s family. She soon notified Conneely that she intended to remain in Minnesota, alleging that Conneely had been physically and emotionally abusive toward her. She sought orders of protection in Oklahoma and Minnesota, but only the Oklahoma district court granted her request.

Conneely filed an emergency motion in the Oklahoma district court, alleging that Stancek had permanently taken A.C. to Minnesota without his consent. The Oklahoma district court ordered Stancek to return to Oklahoma with A.C. and that A.C. be placed in Conneely’s care. After Conneely told the district court that his mother would assist him in caring for A.C., Stancek reiterated claims that Conneely had abused her, adding an accusation that Conneely and his mother had an improper relationship that threatened to

harm A.C. An assessor determined that Conneely’s mother posed no threat to A.C. In spite of that determination, Stancek continued to express fears about Conneely’s relationship with his mother and potential for harm to A.C.

In late 2002, Conneely consented to A.C.’s relocation to Minnesota. Stancek had demanded this consent as a precondition to reconciliation, but she cut off all communication with Conneely after he fulfilled the precondition. As authorized by a court order, Conneely drove to Minnesota every other weekend to visit A.C.

In December 2003, Stancek sought the assistance of Dr. Sandra Hewitt to advise her regarding a parenting schedule for Conneely and to address behavioral problems that she perceived in A.C. and that she believed resulted from visits with Conneely. She told Dr. Hewitt that she was concerned about the relationship between Conneely and his mother. Dr. Hewitt did not meet or communicate with Conneely.

Stancek and Conneely divorced in March 2004, and Stancek married Nathan Stancek later that same month. By June 2004, while meeting with Dr. Hewitt, A.C. was referring to Conneely as “Oklahoma daddy” and to Nathan Stancek as “daddy.”

When the Oklahoma district court dissolved Stancek and Conneely’s marriage, it awarded Stancek “exclusive care, custody and control of [A.C.] subject to [Conneely’s] right of reasonable visitation.” It ordered a visitation schedule primarily featuring alternating weekends in Minnesota and Oklahoma.

Two months later, after a regularly scheduled visit with Conneely in Minnesota, A.C. told Stancek that she had taken a bath with her father after they had been swimming in a hotel pool together. Stancek reported the incident to Dr. Hewitt as potential sexual

abuse. Without consulting Conneely, Dr. Hewitt developed “guidelines” regarding “personal boundaries” that she believed Conneely should adhere to during future visitation periods. Stancek informed Conneely that she would withhold his parenting time unless he agreed to comply with Dr. Hewitt’s guidelines. Conneely refused Stancek’s demand, and Stancek stopped allowing him to visit A.C.

Stancek also filed a motion in Minnesota district court, alleging that Conneely had sexually abused A.C., and asking the Minnesota court to assume jurisdiction and modify the parenting-time provisions to protect A.C. from Conneely. Stancek also alleged other behaviors by A.C. that she alleged supported her concerns about sexual abuse. The Minnesota district court assumed emergency jurisdiction, appointed a guardian ad litem for A.C., and ordered that A.C. be assessed for potential sexual abuse. The assessor determined that Conneely there was “absolutely no evidence of nudity exposure or sexual abuse by [Conneely],” and opined that A.C.’s other behaviors were “within the normal range of early childhood exploration.”

The Minnesota district court returned jurisdiction to Oklahoma under the terms of the Oklahoma dissolution order. Stancek, however, repeatedly refused to travel to Oklahoma to allow visitation as required by the dissolution order. At the end of May 2005, the Oklahoma district court declined further jurisdiction, ruling that Minnesota was a more convenient forum.

From 2005 to 2008, Conneely continued to request that Stancek bring A.C. to Oklahoma for visitation as required by the dissolution order, but Stancek rarely complied. During one visit in 2007, Conneely discovered that A.C. was writing her last name as

“Stancek,” and he complained to Stancek about it. Stancek did not reply. By mid- to late-2008, Conneely was no longer able to obtain any parenting time with A.C., and he was unable to afford an attorney to enforce his parenting-time rights.

In February 2009, Conneely again requested parenting time, and Stancek did not respond. When Conneely offered to come to Minnesota to get A.C. so that A.C. could be present at his wedding, Stancek waited two months to respond. Conneely finally ceased his efforts to obtain parenting time because he lacked the financial resources to continue and because he felt that the contentiousness of the situation might harm A.C.

In summer 2010, Conneely received a telephone call from Nathan Stancek.

Nathan Stancek was in the process of divorcing Stancek, and he wanted to apologize to Conneely for his role in helping Stancek cut Conneely out of A.C.’s life. Nathan Stancek gave Conneely a copy of a custody evaluation from the Stanceks’ dissolution proceeding that reported that A.C. was being negatively affected.

The custody evaluation from the Stanceks’ dissolution matter revealed that Stancek had engaged in a pattern of behavior towards Nathan Stancek that mirrored her behavior toward Conneely: Stancek had falsely accused Nathan Stancek of sexually inappropriate behavior toward their children, attempted to impose a set of “boundaries,” and encouraged the children to report violations of her rules. Because of the effect of her behavior on their children, the district court in the Stancek dissolution matter awarded sole legal and physical custody to Nathan Stancek.

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