Dabill v. Dabill

514 N.W.2d 590, 1994 Minn. App. LEXIS 281, 1994 WL 109681
CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedApril 5, 1994
DocketC9-93-1728
StatusPublished
Cited by8 cases

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Dabill v. Dabill, 514 N.W.2d 590, 1994 Minn. App. LEXIS 281, 1994 WL 109681 (Mich. Ct. App. 1994).

Opinion

OPINION

CRIPPEN, Judge.

Brenda Dabill appeals an order of the district court modifying a custody order, placing physical custody of two minor children with respondent William Dabill and retroactively reducing respondent’s child support obligation. We reverse.

FACTS

Appellant Brenda Dabill and respondent William Dabill were divorced in August 1990. The parties stipulated to the custody of their five-year-old son, M.A., and their two-year-old daughter, M.J. Although legal custody rights were to be joint, primary physical custody was placed with appellant and visitation was provided for respondent.

At the time of the divorce, appellant lived in Glyndon, Minnesota and respondent lived in Pine River, Minnesota, approximately two hours away. Initially, respondent’s visitation occurred in Glyndon, but later M.A. and M.J. visited their father at the home in Pine River that he shared with his girlfriend (later his wife) and her two children, a girl now 12 years old, and a boy now age 5.

After returning from a visit in November of 1990, M.J. told appellant that the daughter of respondent’s girlfriend had inappropriately touched her. Appellant related this to respondent, and requested that he make an extra effort to supervise the children. Respondent refused to acknowledge the possibility that the incident may have occurred.

*593 In January 1991, the Cass County Department of Social Services conducted an investigation but was unable to conclude that any sexual abuse had occurred. However, appellant did seek counseling for M.J. at the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center in Fargo, North Dakota. Connie Magnuson, a licensed psychologist at the center, met with M.J. and counseled her with regard to touching, personal boundaries, assertiveness, and self-esteem. Magnuson stated that she does not investigate incidents of alleged abuse, but rather tries to provide education and therapy appropriate for the child’s age as a method of prevention. This counseling lasted until April 1991.

In February 1991, M.J. was examined by Dr. Caroline Levitt. While Dr. Levitt could find no physical evidence that M.J. had been abused, she noted that M.J. made very clear statements that an 11-year-old girl had sexually touched her. Dr. Levitt felt M.J. was very verbal for her age, and that her statements convincingly indicated that M.J. was relating a first-hand experience.

Respondent brought his first motion for change of custody, for an evidentiary hearing on the matter, and for appointment of a guardian ad litem in April 1991. In its May 1991 order, the court appointed Roger Marth, a self-employed businessman from Pine River, as the guardian ad litem, but did not address the custody issue.

M.A. began attending the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center in August 1991. Appellant sent M.A. to meet with Ms. Magnuson because he had attempted to get M.J. and a younger cousin to touch him inappropriately. M.A.’s initial sessions with Magnuson mostly dealt with his anger about his parents’ divorce. Over the course of several sessions, he disclosed to Magnuson that he enjoyed visiting his father, but did not like to see his father’s stepchildren because his father’s stepson had inappropriately touched him.

In December 1991, Marth, the guardian ad litem, advised the court that he felt professional assistance would help the parties deal with the emotional issues and stress caused by the touching incidents and the divorce in general, and recommended a counselor from Lutheran Social Services in Bemidji. While Marth did propose some changes to the visitation details, he also recommended that legal and physical custody remain as originally decreed because that was in the best interests of the children.

M.J. resumed her counseling sessions with Magnuson at the Rape and Abuse Crisis Center in January 1992. Appellant was concerned because M.J., now slightly less than four years old, was masturbating excessively, to the point where she was giving herself sores.

In February 1992, respondent again moved for an evidentiary hearing and a change of custody. Marth, the guardian, recommended joint physical and legal custody because he felt there were too many problems with visitation. The court scheduled a hearing to address visitation, but denied respondent’s request for a custody hearing.

There were significant problems with visitation. In the initial period after the divorce, visitation was sporadic and occurred at appellant’s home in Glyndon, later at respondent’s home in Pine River. After M.J.’s disclosure to appellant in November 1990, appellant requested that respondent exercise his visitation in Glyndon, or alternatively that he exercise it when his stepchildren would be away from home. Respondent refused.

Appellant wanted respondent to follow a regular schedule for visitation, but respondent sometimes failed to exercise visitation due to hunting trips, illness, or work obligations. And, respondent sometimes attempted to reschedule visitation on less than the 48 hours notice required by the custody order. This posed some difficulty because appellant had moved into a trailer on her parents’ farm. As she was working only part-time, she could not afford a telephone. Respondent complained that frequently he was unable to contact appellant even though he had been told he could call appellant on her parents’ phone or at work.

In addition to scheduling problems, confrontations sometimes occurred. In January 1992, the guardian ad litem accompanied respondent’s spouse to pick up M.A. and M.J. because respondent was unable to pick them up himself. However, when they arrived the *594 children refused to accompany them, and appellant did not force them to go. The children also refused to accompany respondent’s spouse when she attempted to pick them up in May 1992. Also in May 1992, there was a confrontation between respondent and appellant’s father when he attempted to pick up the children at the grandparents’ house; there was no evidence the children witnessed this. After the court ordered respondent to remain in his car at the end of the driveway when picking up the children, respondent complained that he often had to wait 15 minutes or more before the children came outside. He felt this was unreasonable, but appellant testified that it was sometimes difficult for her to get two small children ready for a long car drive, especially in the winter.

Respondent brought his third motion for change of custody in March 1992. Marth again recommended joint physical and legal custody. The trial court file contains no record of the court’s action. It appears that this motion was continued to June 1992, when the parties mutually agreed that M.A. and M.J. would spend the summer of 1992 with respondent and have regular visitation with appellant.

In July 1992, respondent’s wife, Terri Da-bill, contacted Cathy Liane at the Counseling Center in Brainerd. Liane met once with respondent and Terri, and then once with Terri and the four children (M.J., M.A., and Terri’s daughter and son). This second session lasted approximately one hour, and dealt with “blended family” issues and good touch/ bad touch concerns.

Respondent renewed his motion for change of custody in August 1992. The court denied immediate relief, but ordered a hearing to address the issues raised in respondent’s motion.

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