In Re the Marriage of Fingert

221 Cal. App. 3d 1575, 271 Cal. Rptr. 389, 1990 Cal. App. LEXIS 735
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJuly 13, 1990
DocketB042848
StatusPublished
Cited by38 cases

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Bluebook
In Re the Marriage of Fingert, 221 Cal. App. 3d 1575, 271 Cal. Rptr. 389, 1990 Cal. App. LEXIS 735 (Cal. Ct. App. 1990).

Opinion

*1577 Opinion

ABBE, J.

Must the the mother of a six-year-old child, who is the primary custodial parent, be required to relocate to the area where the father resides to facilitate his visitation or lose custody? No.

Pamela Fingert (Pamela) and Michael Fingert (Michael) 1 were married on November 13, 1980, and lived in Ventura County. They separated approximately nine months later when Pamela was pregnant. Michael filed a petition for dissolution of the marriage on December 28, 1981. Their son Joshua was born on February 1, 1982. In January 1983 Pamela and Michael executed a marital settlement agreement in which they agreed to joint legal custody, with actual physical custody to Pamela, and reasonable visitation rights to Michael. The interlocutory decree was entered making orders in accordance with the agreement.

During Joshua’s first year of life, he and Pamela lived in Ventura. She decided to relocate to Chicago, Illinois where her family resided. Michael sought and obtained an ex parte restraining order temporarily enjoining Pamela from moving. Pamela changed her plans and relocated to San Diego. The custody order was modified to provide that Pamela was to have physical custody of Joshua except for alternate weekends and certain summer and holiday periods, when the child was to be with Michael. Pamela obtained employment in San Diego in the computer industry and lived there for approximately 18 months. During that period, both Pamela and Michael would drive approximately 100 miles to a half-way point between Ventura and San Diego to exchange Joshua to implement the custody agreement.

Pamela accepted a better job which required her to move to San Mateo County. Pamela and Michael, through their attorneys, agreed to an informal modification of the visitation schedule. Michael had Joshua approximately one week per month. Joshua was met by one of his parents at both ends of his flights between the San Francisco and Los Angeles areas.

Pamela’s father was ailing and wanted to retire from his small publishing business located in Chicago. He asked Pamela to take over the business. Pamela petitioned the court for permission to move to Chicago to take over this business. This request was denied but the court confirmed the informal arrangement agreed upon by the parents by ordering that Michael would have visitation from the second Friday to the third Saturday of each month *1578 and during certain summer and holiday periods. Joshua was now in kindergarten, and the arrangement meant he would attend one school for three weeks and another for one week each month.

Pamela became concerned about how this arrangement was affecting Joshua and how it would affect him when he started first grade. In April 1988 she filed a motion to modify the custody order to provide for visitation to Michael consistent with Joshua’s school schedule. Pamela’s suggestion was that Michael have Joshua on weekends, holidays and during the summer. The parties were ordered to and did meet with a court mediator and a hearing was eventually set for September 12, 1988, by which time Joshua had already begun first grade in San Mateo County.

Michael filed a responsive declaration to Pamela’s motion in which he suggested that “the optimum living arrangement for my six year old boy is for he and his mother to move back into the County of Ventura, allowing Joshua 50 percent time in each home while being a student at only one school.” In the alternative, Michael suggested that Joshua live with him for one year and with Pamela the next.

In response Pamela argued that requiring Joshua to move to Ventura would not be in his best interests, that he attended the same school in San Mateo County for three years, he was enrolled in his second year in a Sunday school and had participated on the same soccer team for years and has had the same set of playmates ever since he was three years old. She contended that Joshua’s “roots” were in San Mateo County.

On September 12, 1988, the court heard testimony from Pamela, Michael and Robert L. Beilin, Ph.D., the director and senior mediator of the family relations department on the Ventura County Superior Court.

The court mediator testified that he had met with Pamela and Michael, alone and together, and had spent some time with Joshua. He recommended that because of “the significance of father and son relationship,” Michael should be allowed to continue to see Joshua on a regular basis and that “neither a weekend father arrangement, nor paternal visitation during holidays and vacations was the best situation.” He felt that “it would be best if Joshua and [Pamela] moved to Ventura in order to make it easier for [Michael] and Joshua to continue to spend time together regularly.” He recommended that the court order Pamela to move back to west Ventura County.

Michael testified that he and his son needed to be together because they are father and son and that he and Joshua are very close and their time *1579 together is extremely important to them both. Pamela’s testimony centered on the ties they had in San Mateo County. She objected to the dislocation in her own life if she and Joshua were ordered to move to Ventura County as recommended by the mediator.

The mediator testified that in considering whether Pamela should move instead of Michael, he was “swayed by the fact [Michael] owned a home and 10 year old business in Ventura and offered to help [Pamela] move to Ventura County whereas [Pamela] had only launched [her business] in the San Francisco bay area in the last year, did not have substantial financial ties there, and was not financially in a position where she could meet [Michael’s] offer and assist him in relocating.”

The trial judge stated that he felt there were “ . . . strong equities both ways” and that he considered granting summer custody to Michael and ordering Joshua to continue to spend the school year with Pamela in Northern California. However, the judge explained that he had faith in the court mediator and would follow his recommendations. He ordered that “[t]he minor’s residence shall be in Ventura County and shall not be changed from said county without order of this court or written agreement signed by both parties . . .” and that Michael “financially assist [Pamela] in moving back to West Ventura County at a cost not to exceed $1,000.00 in connection with moving expenses.”

The court acknowledged that its order would “force [Pamela] to Ventura County or else give up custody of her child.” He stated it would not make sense to have Michael move because of Michael’s “long-standing roots in business in Ventura and his greater ability financially to help [Pamela] relocate.”

I.

We follow the usual rule on appeal enunciated by the Supreme Court in Burchard v. Garay (1986) 42 Cal.3d 531 [229 Cal.Rptr. 800, 724 P.2d 486, 62 A.L.R.4th 237], that a trial court decision shall not be overturned unless an abuse of discretion is manifest. We find such an abuse of discretion here.

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