IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 18-0703 Filed February 20, 2019
IN RE MARRIAGE OF RICHARD ALBERT CORNISH III AND SHPRESA THAQI-CORNISH
Upon the Petition of RICHARD ALBERT CORNISH III, Petitioner-Appellee,
And Concerning SHPRESA THAQI-CORNISH, Respondent-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Johnson County, Kevin McKeever,
Judge.
Shpresa Thaqi-Cornish appeals the child-custody provisions of the decree
dissolving her marriage to Richard Cornish and the award of trial attorney fees.
AFFIRMED.
William N. Toomey of Phelan Tucker Mullen Walker Tucker Gelman, LLP,
Iowa City, for appellant.
Alan R. Bohanan, Iowa City, for appellee.
Considered by Potterfield, P.J., Doyle, J., and Blane, S.J.*
*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2019). 2
DOYLE, Judge.
Shpresa Thaqi-Cornish appeals the child-custody provisions of the decree
dissolving her marriage to Richard Cornish. She contends joint physical care is
not in the child’s best interests, arguing it is in the child’s best interests to grant her
physical care. She also contends the district court abused its discretion in
awarding her only $1000 in trial attorney fees. Both parties request an award of
appellate attorney fees.
I. Background Facts and Proceedings.
Richard was stationed in Europe while serving in the Air Force when he met
Shpresa in the Republic of Slovenia in 2004. They married in 2011. Shpresa was
granted legal permanent residency in the United States in 2014 with a term
expiring in 2024, and she has a green card.
Richard and Shpresa have one child together,1 born in 2012, who is a dual
citizen of the United States and the Republic of Slovenia. Richard and Shpresa
both resided in North Liberty at the time of trial.
Richard petitioned to dissolve the marriage in 2016.2 The matter was tried
in November 2017. The primary issue at trial was physical care of the child. Both
parties sought physical care, though Richard requested joint physical care as an
alternative. The district court ultimately determined that joint physical care was in
the child’s best interests. Shpresa appeals.
1 Richard has a daughter from a previous relationship, who now lives with her mother in Maryland. 2 The matter was initially filed as a custody action and later amended to petition for dissolution. 3
II. Child Custody.
Shpresa first challenges the physical care provisions of the decree, arguing
that joint physical care is contrary to the child’s best interests and she should be
granted physical care of the child instead. We review her claim de novo, examining
the entire record and adjudicating the issue anew. See In re Marriage of
McDermott, 827 N.W.2d 671, 676 (Iowa 2013). Although we are not bound by the
district court’s factual findings, we give them weight, especially if they concern
witness credibility. See id.
The overriding consideration in determining physical care of a child is the
child’s best interest. See In re Marriage of Fennelly, 737 N.W.2d 97, 101 (Iowa
2007). In making this determination, the court is guided by the factors set forth in
Iowa Code section 598.41(3) (2016) as well as those identified in In re Marriage of
Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa 1974). See id. Our fundamental concern
is placing the child with the parent who will best minister to the child’s long-range
best interests. See Winter, 223 N.W.2d at 166.
The court may award joint physical care to joint custodial parents upon the
request of either parent. See Iowa Code § 598.41(5)(a). “If the court denies the
request for joint physical care, the determination shall be accompanied by specific
findings of fact and conclusions of law that the awarding of joint physical care is
not in the best interest of the child.” Id. The nonexclusive list of factors to be
considered in determining whether a joint physical care arrangement is in the best
interests of the child include:
(1) “approximation”—what has been the historical care giving arrangement for the child between the two parties; (2) the ability of the spouses to communicate and show mutual respect; (3) the 4
degree of conflict between the parents; and (4) “the degree to which the parents are in general agreement about their approach to daily matters.”
In re Marriage of Berning, 745 N.W.2d 90, 92 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007) (citation
omitted).
In determining whether to grant Richard’s request for joint physical care of
the child, the court found each party had difficulty communicating and had done a
poor job of supporting the child’s relationship with the other parent. The court
noted, however, that they had shown an ability to communicate for the sake of the
child’s wellbeing and have cooperated sufficiently to meet the child’s needs. The
court also found that the child was strongly bonded with both parents such that the
child would be “severely harmed” if forced to spend significantly less time with
either. On this basis, the court determined that the “overwhelming evidence”
supported joint physical care, stating:
It is clear to the Court that in the instant case more harm would be done by depriving this young child with substantial time with either parent by awarding one parent with primary care. The Court recognizes that the parties engage in pointless and childish bickering about anything and everything. The pivotal question for the Court is whether or not such bickering would interfere with the child being brought to maturity in a healthy way both physically and mentally. The Court is convinced that the parties’ propensity for bickering incessantly has not and will not prevent the parties from doing what is in the best interest of their child. The best evidence of this is the fact that the child has fared well under the joint-care arrangement. She clearly has enjoyed her time with both parents and the child is by both parents’ account intelligent and friendly. She has friendships at school and her last teacher conferences apparently went well. Therefore, the Court is convinced that the best interests of the child would be served by awarding the parents with shared care.
We reach the same conclusion as the district court. “Although cooperation
and communication are essential in a shared-care arrangement, tension between 5
the parents is not alone sufficient to demonstrate a shared-care arrangement will
not work. Instead, the communication difficulties and tension must rise above the
not atypical acrimony that accompanies litigation in family-law matters.” Hensch
v. Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822, 826 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017) (internal citation omitted).
Generally, joint custody arrangements are appropriate when the parents
“demonstrate they are able to put aside their differences for the sake of their child.”
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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 18-0703 Filed February 20, 2019
IN RE MARRIAGE OF RICHARD ALBERT CORNISH III AND SHPRESA THAQI-CORNISH
Upon the Petition of RICHARD ALBERT CORNISH III, Petitioner-Appellee,
And Concerning SHPRESA THAQI-CORNISH, Respondent-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Johnson County, Kevin McKeever,
Judge.
Shpresa Thaqi-Cornish appeals the child-custody provisions of the decree
dissolving her marriage to Richard Cornish and the award of trial attorney fees.
AFFIRMED.
William N. Toomey of Phelan Tucker Mullen Walker Tucker Gelman, LLP,
Iowa City, for appellant.
Alan R. Bohanan, Iowa City, for appellee.
Considered by Potterfield, P.J., Doyle, J., and Blane, S.J.*
*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2019). 2
DOYLE, Judge.
Shpresa Thaqi-Cornish appeals the child-custody provisions of the decree
dissolving her marriage to Richard Cornish. She contends joint physical care is
not in the child’s best interests, arguing it is in the child’s best interests to grant her
physical care. She also contends the district court abused its discretion in
awarding her only $1000 in trial attorney fees. Both parties request an award of
appellate attorney fees.
I. Background Facts and Proceedings.
Richard was stationed in Europe while serving in the Air Force when he met
Shpresa in the Republic of Slovenia in 2004. They married in 2011. Shpresa was
granted legal permanent residency in the United States in 2014 with a term
expiring in 2024, and she has a green card.
Richard and Shpresa have one child together,1 born in 2012, who is a dual
citizen of the United States and the Republic of Slovenia. Richard and Shpresa
both resided in North Liberty at the time of trial.
Richard petitioned to dissolve the marriage in 2016.2 The matter was tried
in November 2017. The primary issue at trial was physical care of the child. Both
parties sought physical care, though Richard requested joint physical care as an
alternative. The district court ultimately determined that joint physical care was in
the child’s best interests. Shpresa appeals.
1 Richard has a daughter from a previous relationship, who now lives with her mother in Maryland. 2 The matter was initially filed as a custody action and later amended to petition for dissolution. 3
II. Child Custody.
Shpresa first challenges the physical care provisions of the decree, arguing
that joint physical care is contrary to the child’s best interests and she should be
granted physical care of the child instead. We review her claim de novo, examining
the entire record and adjudicating the issue anew. See In re Marriage of
McDermott, 827 N.W.2d 671, 676 (Iowa 2013). Although we are not bound by the
district court’s factual findings, we give them weight, especially if they concern
witness credibility. See id.
The overriding consideration in determining physical care of a child is the
child’s best interest. See In re Marriage of Fennelly, 737 N.W.2d 97, 101 (Iowa
2007). In making this determination, the court is guided by the factors set forth in
Iowa Code section 598.41(3) (2016) as well as those identified in In re Marriage of
Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa 1974). See id. Our fundamental concern
is placing the child with the parent who will best minister to the child’s long-range
best interests. See Winter, 223 N.W.2d at 166.
The court may award joint physical care to joint custodial parents upon the
request of either parent. See Iowa Code § 598.41(5)(a). “If the court denies the
request for joint physical care, the determination shall be accompanied by specific
findings of fact and conclusions of law that the awarding of joint physical care is
not in the best interest of the child.” Id. The nonexclusive list of factors to be
considered in determining whether a joint physical care arrangement is in the best
interests of the child include:
(1) “approximation”—what has been the historical care giving arrangement for the child between the two parties; (2) the ability of the spouses to communicate and show mutual respect; (3) the 4
degree of conflict between the parents; and (4) “the degree to which the parents are in general agreement about their approach to daily matters.”
In re Marriage of Berning, 745 N.W.2d 90, 92 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007) (citation
omitted).
In determining whether to grant Richard’s request for joint physical care of
the child, the court found each party had difficulty communicating and had done a
poor job of supporting the child’s relationship with the other parent. The court
noted, however, that they had shown an ability to communicate for the sake of the
child’s wellbeing and have cooperated sufficiently to meet the child’s needs. The
court also found that the child was strongly bonded with both parents such that the
child would be “severely harmed” if forced to spend significantly less time with
either. On this basis, the court determined that the “overwhelming evidence”
supported joint physical care, stating:
It is clear to the Court that in the instant case more harm would be done by depriving this young child with substantial time with either parent by awarding one parent with primary care. The Court recognizes that the parties engage in pointless and childish bickering about anything and everything. The pivotal question for the Court is whether or not such bickering would interfere with the child being brought to maturity in a healthy way both physically and mentally. The Court is convinced that the parties’ propensity for bickering incessantly has not and will not prevent the parties from doing what is in the best interest of their child. The best evidence of this is the fact that the child has fared well under the joint-care arrangement. She clearly has enjoyed her time with both parents and the child is by both parents’ account intelligent and friendly. She has friendships at school and her last teacher conferences apparently went well. Therefore, the Court is convinced that the best interests of the child would be served by awarding the parents with shared care.
We reach the same conclusion as the district court. “Although cooperation
and communication are essential in a shared-care arrangement, tension between 5
the parents is not alone sufficient to demonstrate a shared-care arrangement will
not work. Instead, the communication difficulties and tension must rise above the
not atypical acrimony that accompanies litigation in family-law matters.” Hensch
v. Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822, 826 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017) (internal citation omitted).
Generally, joint custody arrangements are appropriate when the parents
“demonstrate they are able to put aside their differences for the sake of their child.”
In re Marriage of Harris, 877 N.W.2d 434, 440 (Iowa 2016). Richard testified that
he believes he and Shpresa can continue to work together for the child’s benefit.
The evidence shows that in spite of the parties’ difficulties in cooperating and
communicating, the child is doing well under a joint-physical-care arrangement and
granting one parent physical care would be contrary to the child’s best interests.
Although we anticipate that the child will continue to do well under a joint-physical-
care arrangement, any change in the future may serve as the basis for a
modification action. See id. (“If the modification ordered here does not achieve
more mature parental communication and cooperation by both parents in
furtherance of the best interests of the children, the remedy of sole legal custody
remains an option in any future modification proceedings.”).
III. Trial Attorney Fees.
Shpresa next contends the district court erred in ordering Richard to pay
her $1000 of her trial attorney fees. She asks that the award be increased to $5213
based on the parties’ relative incomes.
We review the trial court’s decision regarding the award of trial attorney fees
for an abuse of discretion. See In re Marriage of Sullins, 715 N.W.2d 242, 255 6
(Iowa 2006). The decision to award attorney fees depends on the parties’
respective abilities of to pay. See id.
We find no abuse of discretion.
IV. Appellate Attorney Fees.
Finally, both parties request an award of their appellate attorney fees. Such
an award is a matter of discretion with our court. See In re Marriage of Witherly,
867 N.W.2d 856, 861 (Iowa Ct. App. 2015). “Factors to be considered in
determining whether to award attorney fees include: ‘the needs of the party
seeking the award, the ability of the other party to pay, and the relative merits of
the appeal.’” In re Marriage of Stenzel, 908 N.W.2d 524, 538 (Iowa Ct. App. 2018)
(citation omitted). Although Richard was successful in the appeal, his need and
Shpresa’s ability to pay weigh against an award of appellate attorney fees. We
decline to award either party appellate attorney fees.