In Re the Marriage of Bevers

326 N.W.2d 896, 1982 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 1604
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedNovember 24, 1982
Docket67611
StatusPublished
Cited by43 cases

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In Re the Marriage of Bevers, 326 N.W.2d 896, 1982 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 1604 (iowa 1982).

Opinion

McGIVERIN, Justice.

This is an appeal from the child custody and economic provisions of a dissolution decree in which petitioner Jon Ronald Bevers (Ron) was awarded custody of the parties’ minor daughter, Brenda Anne. Respondent Betty Anne Bevers appeals.

*897 We reverse in part and affirm in part.

The following issues have been raised for our consideration:

(1) whether the trial court erred in awarding child custody to Ron;
(2) whether alimony and child support should be awarded;
(3) whether the trial court erred in dividing the marital property.

In addition, we must determine the sanction for Ron’s contempt of our order that neither party attempt to alienate Brenda from the other party during the pendency of this appeal.

Ron and Betty were married in Salt Lake City, Utah, on October 17, 1970. Ron had been married before and the three children from his previous marriage were in his custody. The little girl whose custody is at issue here, Brenda Anne Bevers, was born on July 27, 1972.

On August 26, 1980, Ron filed a petition for the dissolution of their marriage. The dissolution proceedings have followed the same stormy course as did the parties’ marriage. On five occasions Ron sought court orders to allow visitation with his daughter. Betty also sought a court order to allow her visitation. After a long and bitter trial, the trial court, adopting the recommendations of the child’s attorney, awarded custody to the father.

Thereafter, both parties also were found in contempt of court. After Betty appealed the dissolution decree, we found Ron in contempt for attempting to alienate Brenda from her mother in violation of our stay order as to custody. The sanction for this contempt will be decided with this appeal. Betty and her attorney, Tom Riley, were found in contempt by the district court for failing to turn the child over to her father after he was awarded custody of her and before we granted the stay order. We granted certiorari to review that contempt matter and also decide that case today. See Bevers v. Kilburg, 326 N.W.2d 902 (Iowa 1982).

Marital harmony eluded Ron and Betty from the beginning. It would serve no useful purpose to air fully the family’s difficulties in this opinion, particularly since it is in the child’s best interest that her parents cooperate in the future. Suffice it to say that the parties’ conduct toward each other was not commendable. While Ron vented his anger and frustration by striking Betty and punching holes in walls, Betty withdrew into silence and frequently fled to her parents’ home in Denver, Colorado. The parties, however, did manage to confine their arguments to times when the children were not present. The couple’s marital problems were exacerbated by frequent moves due to Ron’s climb up the corporate ladder of his employer, J.C. Penney Co. In May 1971 Ron was transferred to Omaha, Nebraska; in April 1974 Ron was promoted to store manager in Columbus, Indiana; and in April 1978 Ron was transferred to Cedar Rapids, Iowa, where he resided at the time this dissolution action was commenced. In February 1980 Betty and Brenda left Cedar Rapids for Denver, Colorado, where both continue to live.

Our review of this equity action is de novo. Iowa R.App.P. 4. We give weight to the fact findings of the trial court, but are not bound by them. Iowa R.App.P. 14(f)(7).

I. Custody and visitation. Character assassination was the game plan at the three week trial; yet the trial court recognized that “either parent is quite capable of providing parenting skills for [Brenda].” Custody was awarded to Ron for the following reasons: (1) Ron would be more willing to provide access of the child to the mother; (2) Brenda would be closer to her half-siblings if she were with her father; 1 (3) Ron is best able to discipline Brenda and his personality most closely matches hers; (4) Ron has a home in Cedar Rapids, while at present Betty and Brenda are living in Denver with Betty’s parents; and (5) during an in camera meeting with the court Brenda, then age nine years and one month, expressed a desire to remain in Cedar Rapids.

*898 After a de novo review of the record of trial testimony and accompanying exhibits, in light of the factors discussed in In Re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166-67 (Iowa 1974), we disagree with trial court’s award of custody of Brenda to Ron.

In child custody cases the first and governing consideration is the best interests of the child. Iowa R.App.P. 14(f)(15); In Re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d at 166. We do not believe that Brenda’s long-range, best interests will be served by granting Ron custody of her. Ron testified that he resented the amount of time Betty spent with Brenda; he expressed a desire that as Brenda got older proper care could be found for her so that he and Betty “could get away.” When Brenda was a baby and young child, Ron insisted that she be fed and put down for a nap before he came home from work. When Brenda was older, if she would come into the room where Ron and Betty were sitting after he came home from work, Ron testified that he “would get pretty upset and say: ‘Brenda, just get out of here and leave us alone, I want to talk to your mother, go to your room, or something.’ ”

Betty became pregnant in the fall of 1979 and Ron was extremely upset. Not only did he feel that a new baby “would simply be [a] further burden and a further burr under the saddle,” but he felt he was too old to have another child — he would have been sixty-four by the time the child left home. 2 Furthermore, Ron insisted that if Betty chose to keep the baby, instead of having an abortion, she and Brenda would have to leave the house. When it became clear that Betty was ready to leave, Ron told Brenda that if she and her mother left, she would rarely, if ever, see her father or half-siblings again. Brenda’s agitated state persuaded Betty to stay. While Betty agonized over the decision of whether to have an abortion, Ron flew off to the Bahamas for a vacation and refused to give Betty a phone number at which he could be contacted. Betty relented and had an abortion, but before Ron returned from the Bahamas she and Brenda had left for Denver. Ron contacted Betty shortly after they arrived in Denver and threatened to sue for custody if Betty did not agree to his terms. She did not agree, but in May 1980 she and Brenda returned to Cedar Rapids only to flee back to Denver in August.

Although we agree with the trial court that Ron possesses the necessary parenting skills to care for Brenda, there is not a preponderance of evidence in his favor to allow him custody. We cannot ignore the fact that despite his love for Brenda, he has expressed ulterior motives in seeking custody of her. 3 The factors set forth in In Re Marriage of Winter are only considerations for a court to weigh.

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