In Re the Marriage of Benjamin Rigdon and Alicia Rigdon Upon the Petition of Benjamin Rigdon, petitioner-appellee/cross-appellant, and Concerning Alicia Rigdon, respondent-appellant/cross-appellee.

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided January 25, 2017·No. 16-0768·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 16-0768

Filed January 25, 2017

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF BENJAMIN RIGDON AND ALICIA RIGDON

Upon the Petition of BENJAMIN RIGDON, Petitioner-Appellee/Cross-Appellant,

And Concerning ALICIA RIGDON, Respondent-Appellant/Cross-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Des Moines County, Mary Ann Brown, Judge.

The wife appeals from the physical-care provisions of the decree awarding the husband physical care of their minor child. The husband cross-appeals from the economic provisions of the decree excluding from the marital assets a financial settlement the wife received during the marriage. AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS

Mark R. Hinshaw of The Law Offices of Mark R. Hinshaw, West Des Moines, for appellant.

Mitchell L. Taylor and Joshua P. Schier of Cray Law Firm, P.L.C., Burlington, for appellee.

Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Potterfield and Bower, JJ.

POTTERFIELD, Judge.

Alicia Rigdon appeals from the physical-care provisions of the decree awarding Benjamin Rigdon physical care of their minor child. Benjamin Rigdon cross-appeals from the economic provisions of the decree and contends the district court's division of assets was inequitable because the court refused to divide the settlement funds Alicia received during the marriage.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings On March 23, 2000, the parties were married in Missouri. Alicia was attending law school at the time of their marriage and graduated in 2001. Ben also pursued his education during the marriage and obtained his B.A. in 2004. Due to Alicia’s acceptance of a job, the parties moved to New London, Iowa in 2005. Their minor child, L.J.R., was born in 2009. Alicia resides in Loganville, Georgia, and is employed as corporate counsel. Ben and L.J.R. reside in New London, Iowa, on a farm where Ben raises cattle. Ben is employed as a quality control engineer. Throughout the marriage, the parties struggled with their relationship. Alicia also accused Ben of verbal and physical abuse.

In August 2014, Alicia accepted a job opportunity and moved to New Jersey on her own. It is unclear from the record whether the parties agreed to move to New Jersey together. Alicia testified that the ultimate goal was to have Ben and L.J.R. join her in New Jersey. Although Ben visited Alicia in New Jersey to help her find an apartment, he denied any agreement to move the family to New Jersey permanently. Both parties acknowledge marital troubles during and before Alicia’s move to New Jersey. Alicia visited Ben and L.J.R. frequently during her time away.

A dispute between Alicia and her New Jersey employer resulted in Alicia’s separation from her employment and a monetary settlement of $195,000. 1 In September 2015, Alicia moved to Loganville, Georgia, where she began working for her current employer.

Both parents have shown a strong ability to care for L.J.R. For example, Alicia was L.J.R.’s primary caregiver before her move, and Ben overtook the primary caregiving duties after Alicia’s move. Ben coaches the child’s soccer team, volunteers at his school, and teaches L.J.R. about the day-to-day agricultural activities at home. Alicia also stays active in L.J.R.’s life, even from afar. She has flown back to Iowa to attend L.J.R.’s school events, participates in conferences telephonically, and communicates with L.J.R. frequently.

Despite the parties’ tenuous relationship, L.J.R. is thriving in his current environment. He is energetic, inquisitive, and eager to learn at school. He also enjoys working with the cattle at home. L.J.R. has a permanent daytime caregiver who has cared for him since birth. The parties describe L.J.R.’s connection with his caregiver as a grandparent-grandchild relationship.

On June 22, 2015, Ben filed a petition to dissolve the marriage. Both parties asked for physical care of L.J.R. and agreed on a visitation schedule for the non-custodial parent. The geographical distance between the parties means joint physical care is not an option. The parties also principally agreed on the property distribution, except for the settlement funds Alicia received from her New Jersey employer. On April 15, 2016, the district court issued a decree

1 There is some disagreement in the record as to the gross amount of the settlement. Responses ranged from $280,000–$298,500. However, the parties agree that the net amount is $195,000 after all applicable withholdings.

awarding Ben physical care of L.J.R. The district court did not include the settlement payment as marital property, awarded $12,322 net assets to Alicia, $119,059 net assets to Ben, and a $53,368 equalization payment from Ben to Alicia.

Alicia appeals the court’s decision to award Ben physical care of the child.

Ben cross-appeals the court’s decision to set aside the settlement payment as Alicia’s individual asset.

II. Scope and Standard of Review We review cases tried in equity, such as dissolution cases, de novo.

Iowa R. App. P. 6.907; In re Marriage of Schenkelberg, 824 N.W.2d 481, 483–84 (Iowa 2012). We give weight to the factual findings of the district court, especially when considering the credibility of witnesses, but we are not bound by them. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). “Prior cases are of little precedential value, except to provide a framework for analysis, and we must ultimately tailor our decision to the unique facts and circumstances before us.” In re Marriage of Kleist, 538 N.W.2d 273, 276 (Iowa 1995).

III. Discussion A. Physical-Care Determination Alicia appeals the district court’s decision placing L.J.R. under Ben’s physical care. “Physical care” involves “the right and responsibility to maintain a home for the minor child and provide for the routine care of the child.” Iowa Code § 598.1(7) (2015). “The parent awarded physical care maintains the primary residence and has the right to determine the myriad of details associated with routine living, including such things as what clothes the children wear, when they

go to bed, with whom they associate or date, etc.” In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 691 (Iowa 2007). The fundamental goal in determining physical care of a child in an action for dissolution of marriage is to place the child in the care of the parent who will likely accommodate the long-range best interests of the child. In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 167 (Iowa 1974). “[T]he basic framework for determining the best interest of the child” is well established. See Iowa Code § 598.41; Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 696. Generally, stability and continuity of caregiving are important considerations. Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 696. Finally, “[t]he objective of a physical care determination is to place the children in the environment most likely to bring them to health, both physically and mentally, and to social maturity.” Id. at 695.

Alicia maintains the district court should have awarded her physical care of the child. She argues that Ben’s abusive behavior and lack of caregiving experience precludes him from caring for L.J.R. We disagree.

Alicia testified that Ben was abusive on several occasions. However, the district court concluded:

There was limited testimony about incidents where Ben was aggressive towards Alicia. On at least one occasion, Ben reports that Alicia slapped him. There is no evidence that there was a pattern of physical abuse in this family. Any incidents were isolated, if they did occur. The court cannot find compelling evidence that there was a pattern of domestic abuse in this relationship. This, of course, would be other than the emotional abuse that Ben and Alicia perpetrated upon each other during the entire course of their marriage.

To the extent that any abuse occurred, it was not enough to dissuade Alicia from leaving the child with Ben for an extended period after she moved from Iowa to New Jersey. See In re Marriage of Forbes, 570 N.W.2d 757, 760 (Iowa 1997)

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