In re the Custody of T.F. Shawn Kostrzewski v. Amy L. Frisinger, n/k/a Amy L. Budeau

CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedFebruary 2, 2015
DocketA14-776
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

This opinion will be unpublished and may not be cited except as provided by Minn. Stat. § 480A.08, subd. 3 (2014).

STATE OF MINNESOTA IN COURT OF APPEALS A14-0776 A14-1160 A14-1336

In re the Custody of T.F. Shawn Kostrzewski, petitioner, Respondent,

vs.

Amy L. Frisinger, n/k/a Amy L. Budeau, Appellant.

Filed February 2, 2015 Affirmed in part and reversed in part Ross, Judge

Clay County District Court File No. 14-FX-01-000471

Marshall County District Court File No. 45-FA-14-349

Michael M. Mattocks, Charlson & Jorgenson, P.A., Thief River Falls, Minnesota (for respondent)

Amy L. Budeau, Grand Junction, Colorado (pro se appellant)

Considered and decided by Ross, Presiding Judge; Smith, Judge; and Harten,

Judge.

 Retired judge of the Minnesota Court of Appeals, serving by appointment pursuant to Minn. Const. art. VI, § 10. UNPUBLISHED OPINION

ROSS, Judge

The district court in this child-custody dispute between parents Amy Budeau and

Shawn Kostrzewski denied Budeau’s motion seeking sole custody of the parties’

daughter, ordered Budeau to pay Kostrzewski’s attorney fees for Budeau’s cost-

enhancing litigation tactics, and restricted future filing by Budeau after finding that she is

a frivolous litigant. Budeau appeals each decision. We affirm the district court’s decision

denying Budeau’s motion to modify custody because the challenge rests on credibility

determinations and fact findings, and we defer to the district court’s assessment on these

things. We affirm the district court’s decision to award conduct-based attorney fees

because the record supports the district court’s exercise of discretion. But we reverse the

district court’s frivolous-litigant sanction because the underlying finding is substantially

contradicted by the undisputed fact that Budeau brought her motion in part responding to

the child’s serious custody-related threat to harm herself.

FACTS

Amy Budeau and Shawn Kostrzewski are parents of daughter T.F., born in 1999.

Kostrzewski and Budeau were never married. They entered a custody agreement in 2001

giving them joint legal custody and giving physical custody to Budeau subject to

Kostrzewski’s parenting time. That arrangement continued until 2008, when the district

court granted Kostrzewski’s modification motion and awarded him sole physical custody

subject to Budeau’s parenting time. Budeau moved to modify custody and parenting time

in April 2011, seeking sole physical custody in her home in Colorado. The district court

2 denied Budeau’s motion in August 2011. Two months later, Budeau moved the district

court to hold Kostrzewski in contempt and to grant her an evidentiary hearing on her

request to modify custody. The district court denied Budeau’s motion in February 2012,

but it did modify the parenting-time schedule.

Three months later, Budeau filed her third motion to modify custody, and that

motion is the subject of this appeal. Budeau supported the motion with numerous

allegations. She alleged that T.F. had considered harming herself and did not want to live

with her father. She also alleged that Kostrzewski drank excessively, drove drunk with

T.F. in the car, smoked cigarettes in the home, and constantly rescheduled Budeau’s

phone calls with T.F. Kostrzewski opposed the motion and sought attorney fees.

The district court held an evidentiary hearing. Budeau testified that Kostrzewski

had rescheduled her phone calls with T.F. 60 times since January 2013. She opined that

Kostrzewski is an alcoholic who has driven drunk with T.F. in the car. She expressed

concerns about T.F.’s grades. Budeau’s husband, Robert Budeau, also testified,

complaining that Kostrzewski has not allowed him to talk to T.F. on the telephone unless

Amy Budeau is present.

Kostrzewski testified that many calls were indeed rescheduled, but he explained

that the rescheduling was necessary to accommodate T.F.’s participation in volleyball,

basketball, and track and that he has left the rescheduling to T.F. to manage. Kostrzewski

opined that T.F. should be allowed to talk with Budeau and Budeau’s family at any time,

and he said he encouraged T.F. to call Budeau every other day. He testified that although

he had been convicted of drunk driving in 1999, he has never been diagnosed as an

3 alcoholic and would willingly undergo a chemical dependency evaluation. Kostrzewski

said he drinks two or three times a week, which is less than he drank before the February

2012 custody order.

Budeau’s attorney presented a letter addressed to the district court judge ostensibly

penned by T.F. in August 2012. The letter indicated that T.F. had been hurt when she

had to leave her mother and that she had considered cutting herself. It said that she

wanted to live with her mother and that she believed her father has a drinking problem.

She describes that although he tries to quit, he “won’t drink for a couple of days but then

he would.” The letter also expressed that she loves her father and stepmother. It ends with

an assurance that her mother did not force her to write the letter and declares, “I really

want to be able to live with my mom.” Kostrzewski testified that he knew about the letter

but that T.F. told him that Budeau made her write it. He also opined that some of the

letter did not appear to be written in T.F.’s handwriting.

T.F. testified in chambers with neither parent present. She told the judge that she

preferred to live with her mother. She expressed concern about her father’s drinking,

described it as occurring “mostly every day,” and said that he had driven drunk once with

her in the car but that she could not recall when it was. She explained that she has thought

about cutting herself when her parents fight, but she has never acted on the thought. She

told the judge that she wrote the letter herself without anyone’s help.

The district court left the record open after the hearing. It ordered Kostrzewski to

complete a chemical dependency assessment within 30 days. Kostrzewski complied,

participating in an alcohol and drug evaluation in July 2013 with addiction counselor

4 Pamela Quinn. Quinn filed an evaluation report with the district court in September 2013.

The report concluded that Kostrzewski was not chemically dependent. Budeau objected

to the report and sought to cross-examine Quinn. The district court reopened the record

for additional evidence solely on the question of Kostrzewski’s alleged alcohol abuse.

The follow-up evidentiary hearing occurred in February 2014. Quinn testified that

she has conducted chemical dependency evaluations since 1984. She met and evaluated

Kostrzewski in person, administering the American Society of Addiction Medicine’s

questionnaire designed to evaluate chemical dependency. She also interviewed

Kostrzewski’s wife and spoke with Marshall County Social Services to determine

whether any relevant report had been filed regarding Kostrzewski. Budeau’s lengthy

cross-examination emphasized that the evaluation depended on Kostrzewski’s self-

reporting and that anyone subjected to the questionnaire could respond falsely.

Budeau also cross-examined Kostrzewski’s wife, Tara. She testified that she had

never fought with her husband about his drinking and had never seen him drink in the

car. She also said that she had seen him drink at most two to three times a week.

T.F.

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